Akukho nto ifana nobudlelwane phakathi kukatata kunye nentombi yakhe. Xa eqala ukumbamba ezingalweni zakhe ejonge emehlweni akhe, kubonakala ngathi akukho nto iya kuze ingene phakathi kwabo.
Ukudibana nentombi yakho kule minyaka mncinci
Ooyise neentombi, isenzo sokudibanisa siqala kumhlaba onguziro. Bachaza uthando ekuboneni kokuqala. Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye engena kwiminyaka yobuntwana kunye nobuntwana, uya kufuna ukuzibandakanya kwimisebenzi yokubopha eyenzelwe ixesha lakhe lokujonga kunye nenqanaba lokukhula.
Yiba neKlabhu yakho yeNcwadi
Ukufunda kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwengqondo yabantwana, kwayenifunda njengentsaphoyindlela entle yokubopha. Cinga ukudibana nentombi yakho ngokuba neklabhu yencwadi katata-ntombi. Ukuba umntwana wakho akafundi ngokuzimeleyo okwangoku, khetha incwadi kwaye nifunde isahluko kunye ubusuku ngabunye. Xoxa ngabalinganiswa kunye nemeko, yenza uqikelelo, kwaye ucinge ngemisebenzi eyandisiweyo enxulumene nencwadi. Ukuba intombi yakho indala kwaye inomdla wedwa, ungafunda ngokuzimeleyo ngokuhlwa kwaye nixoxe ngezinto enizifundileyo ngosuku olulandelayo.
Lo ngumsebenzi obophelelayo wokudibanisa ootata abahlala kude neentombi zabo kwaye kufunekaumzali ngokuhamba umgama omde. Ootata neentombi banokukhetha iincwadi zokufunda kunye okanye zokufunda ngokuzimeleyo emva koko baxoxe ngeFaceTime okanye kwiZoom.
Yakha into
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wakhe iTaj Mahal kunye nentombi yakho, kodwa ukwakha into kunye naye kuya kuba ngumsebenzi wokudibanisa oya kuthi awuthwale ngentliziyo nakwinkumbulo kudala edlulileyo. Ukuba uyakwazi ukwenza i-fort yomthi okanye indlu yokudlala, onke amandla kuwe. Uya kuthanda ukubukela into ethile nje ukuba ifike ebomini. Ukuba iiprojekthi ezinkulu zokwakha ziwela ngaphandle kwindlu yakho yamavili, jonga into kwinqanaba elincinci, njengokwakha ibhentshi, aindlu yeentaka,okanye iibhokisi zefestile. Vumela intombi yakho incede kwizicwangciso, izixhobo, kunye nokuhombisa imveliso egqityiweyo.
Bamba imihla yeSidlo sangokuhlwa
Abantwana abancinci bayakuthanda ukujonga phambili ngorhatya olunye enyangeni apho iyintombi nje, utata, kunye nepitsa eninzi. Yenza ixesha lokuthatha inenekazi lakho elikhethekileyo uye kwiivenkile zokutyela zalapha, uzama enye inyanga nganye. Sebenzisa eli xesha ukuthetha, ukuhleka, kunye nokuzama ukutya okutsha kunye nokonwabela ukuhlala kunye.
Mfundise into yakhe ekhethekileyo
Uya kuchitha uninzi lobomi bakho udlulisa ubulumko kwintombi yakho, kodwa ngelixa esemncinci, thatha ixesha lokuyifundisa into ekhethekileyo. Khetha into ibe nye ofuna ukuyigqithisela kuye kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uyasiqonda ukuba kutheni kubalulekile kwaye ungayenza kanjani. Ukuba uyihlo wakwakha ikayiti ebutsheni bakho, mfundise nayo ukuba ayakhe. Mxelele amabali ngendlela utat'omkhulu awayenza ngayo nawe le nto kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo. Mhlawumbi kukho iresiphi yosapho eye yadluliselwa kwizizukulwana. Ukuba kunjalo, chitha iiCawe ezininzi upheka kunye nentombazana yakho kwaye uyifundisa ngeresiphi, inkcubeko yayo kunye nayoilifa losapho.
Ubenosuku 'Ewe'
Olu lusuku olunye olukhethekileyo apho usithi ewe kuye kuyo yonke imiyalelo. Bazali, anizukufuna ukuyenza le nto kanye kanye ngonyaka ukuze ihlale inoveli kwaye ikhethekile, kodwa nangenxa yokuba iintombi zineemfuno ezingaphezulu kwesibhakabhaka esineenkwenkwezi. Ukuba ufuna iayisi khrimu kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, uthi ewe. Ukuba ufuna ukunxiba i-gown ye-princess okanye Idabi leenkwenkwezi Isinxibo esikolweni, umnqweno wakhe uyanikwa. 'Ewe' usuku alubandakanyi izinto ezinjengokuthenga iponi okanye ukumnika umntakwabo. Nokuba uSuku lukaEwe unemigca enzima esantini. Ngosuku olunye ngonyaka, uyawenza onke amaphupha akhe kunye neminqweno yakhe, (sony pony!)
Thatha intombi yakho uyise emSebenzini
Oku akuyi kusebenza kuye wonke umntu, kodwa kwabanye ootata kunye neentombi, usuku eofisini luyonwabisa kwaye luyafundisa. Mbonise iintambo kwaye wabelane nabanye ngeemfihlo zomsebenzi kwigumbi lokuphumla labasebenzi. Mazise kubantu ochitha nabo iiyure ezisibhozo ngemini kwaye umphathe njengomntu omdala kude kube ngaphambi kokuba abekho. Qiniseka ukuba ujonge isidlo sasemini katata-ntombazana kwaye ujonge ukumtyibilikisa amatyala ambalwa kuyo nayiphi na imisebenzi eluncedo ayenzayo ngelixa ekwiwotshi.
Ukunxibelelana nentombi yakho yokufikisa
Apha kulapho iye incangathi kuninzi lootata kunye neentombi. Iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo inokuba lixesha elinzima ukunxibelelana nentombi yakho, ngoku ehleli ngokuqinileyo phakathi kwenkampu yomntwana kunye nabantu abadala abasenkampini. Le misebenzi yokuziqhelanisa yoyilo imnandi kangangokuba uya kulibala ukuba yonke into malunga notata iyamenza ancwine kwaye aqabule amehlo akhe nayo yonke into malunga naye ibonakala iyilengokukodwa ukukucaphukisa.
Thatha ukuThengwa kwakhe
Yinto elula ukuyenza, elula ... ayibizi. Thatha umntwana wakho ofikisayo uyokumthengela zonke ezo mpahla zimasikizi azithandayo ezibiza indleko encinci. Ukuze ulwe nomsindo wokufikisa kunye nokuwa kweemall, qiniseka ukuba ubeka uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye nezikhokelo ezithile ngaphambi komhla wakho wokuthenga. Mnike umda wemali kwaye umkhumbuze ngemithetho emalunga nezinto ezithile zokunxiba anokuzifuna, kodwa awumvumeli. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuthatha into yokuba uye wazama ukungena ebukumkanini bakhe, kungenjalo ubizwa ngokuba yivenkile yasekuhlaleni, kodwa ngokufihlakeleyo uya konwaba ukuba wena (kunye nesipaji sakho) ukhona naye.
Yandisa iNdalo yeFashoni
Umthathile wayokuthenga, wasinda nobabini. Wenze kakuhle! Ngenxa yosuku lwakho lokuthenga kutata-ntombi, ngoku uyazi okungakumbi malunga nesimbo sentombi yakho. Ukuba ufuna ukudaya iinwele zakhe okanye ukugqobhoza iindlebe zakhe, yiba nguye omthathayo ukwenza oko. Awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzonwabise ngefashoni, kodwa khetha enye onokuhlala nayo kwaye wenze ukuba iphupha lenzeke. Lonwabele usuku lwakho lokuba 'ngutata opholileyo.'
Cwangcisa uhambo lwe-One-on-One ngeveki
Nje ukuba intombi yakho ihlasele loo minyaka yeshumi elivisayo, iba nokuzimela ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingahamba ehlabathini. Uyakwazi ukunxiba nokuzilungisa, asebenzise igumbi lokuhlambela ngokuzimeleyo, kwaye azonwabise ngexesha lokuphumla. Ngenxa yezakhono zakhe ezintsha, nobabini ninokuphuma kuhambo oluntsonkothileyo nolonwabisayo. Cwangcisa iihambo ezimbalwa zeempelaveki unyaka wonke wena kunye nentombi yakho ekwishumi elivisayo. Khetha iindawo emhlabeni anokufumana umdla kuzo. Ukuba ukwimidlalo, thatha umdlalo weqela lakhe alithandayo. Ukuba uyabuthanda ubugcisa, ndwendwela imyuziyam okanye ubonise ngaphandle kwedolophu. Nokuba ubonakala ekhathazwa sesi sithintelo kwimpelaveki yakhe yokufihla kwigumbi lakhe lokulala elimnyama, uya kujonga ngasemva kwezi mpelaveki kamnandi.
Xhasa umdla wakhe
Lo ayingomsebenzi wokudibanisa okhawulezayo wokucinezela kwimpelaveki, le ithatha ixesha kunye nengqwalaselo ecingisisiweyo. Xa intombi yakho yayisencinci, yayingenakulinda ukuba yabelane ngothando lwayo nantoni na nawe. Ngapha koko, usenokuba wawuthandazela usuku awayeka ngalo ukuthetha nge-ballet okanye i-gymnastics okanye nantoni na eyamtya nengqondo kunye nexesha lakhe. Ewe, loo mithandazo yokuthula iyaphendulwa kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo kwaye ngequbuliso, ungafumanisa ukuba intombi yakho ithe cwaka kwisebe lokwabelana.
Yimba kwinto emenza aphawule, kwaye xa sele ufumene oko, zifake kwilizwe lakhe. Ukuba uyayithanda ibhola ekhatywayo kwaye udlala kwiqela, mthathe kunye noogxa bakhe ukuba niziqhelanise nabo, nithintele ikhalenda yomsebenzi ukuze nikwazi ukuyibona imidlalo yakhe, kwaye nithathe inxaxheba kwiitumente. Ukuba uyawuthanda umculo, mthathe uye naye kwiikonsathi kwaye uhlale ngento ocinga ukuba izandi ezenza ingqondo ingasebenzi. Umdla wakho unokwahluka njengobusuku nemini, kodwa ukuchitha ixesha usenza into ayithandayo kuya kumkhumbuza ukuba uhlala kwikona yakhe ngonaphakade.
Yiba nobusuku beMovie
Uyakhumbula xa wayemncinci kwaye engenakulinda ukuphuma esidlweni kunye nawe? Ewe, ulutsha alunamdla kwimihla notata wabo njengoko babekade benjalo. Guqula eli siko kwaye ube nokutya okungafuneki bhanyabhanya kunye nentombi yakho ekwishumi elivisayo. Thenga konke okutyiwayo okungafunwayo ngomnye umzali kunye nokuzinkcinkca ngotywala-ubukele ukubetha okuncinci. Hlala kude kube sebusuku kwaye wophule imigaqo ethile. Ulutsha luthanda ukophula imithetho!
Ukuhlala Somelele kwaye Umanyene Nentombi Ezikhulileyo
Uye wajamelana neenkqwithela ezidlakazelayo zeminyaka yeshumi elivisayo kwaye ngoku wonwabile ngokubukela intombi yakho ikhula. Eli nqanaba lomdlalo wobuzali ligcwele ukungcangcazela (inkomo engcwele umnike zonke izixhobo azidingayo ukuze aphumelele?) Kunye nekratshi, (uzenzile, uzimele yedwa, kunye nebhonasi! Nisindile nonke!) Ukuzibophelela kwintombi yakho endala kujongeka kwahlukile kunakwiminyaka esemncinci, kodwa kusabalulekile.
Ijelo Ezinye zeAdrenaline
Ngoku nobabini nibadala, ngenani kwilizwe lokonwaba. Thatha intombi yakho endala kwi-zip-lining excursion, uye kuskiya, okanye uzame i-wakeboarding. Ukhulile ngoku, kwaye ukuba ucebisa ngento engeyiyo i-alley yakhe, unokutsho ngokuzithemba. Umdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba abe 'ngokwazi' ngokubhekisele kwizihlandlo ezintsha ezikhawulezayo nezinomsindo. Usenokukwazi ukucebisa ngomsebenzi ongakhange ucinge ngawo.
Thatha iklasi
Khetha into enomdla kuni nobabini niyenze! Hlangana kwiklasi yobumba, isitudiyo sobugcisa, okanye indlu yakhe yezifundo zeekatala. Kokubini nina ekubeni ngabantu abadala abanoxanduva ngoku, kwaye niyayazi indlela yokusebenzisa ikhalenda, ninokukhetha ngokulula kwaye nilungelelanise ukufunda isakhono esitsha omnye komnye.
Thatha uhambo oluya ezantsi kwimemori
Ubomi buhamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye awuyi kubakho ngonaphakade. Yenza ixesha kunye nentombi yakho endala ukukhumbula malunga neentsuku zakudala ezintle. Jonga iialbham zeefoto ezindala okanye uzisonge esofeni kwaye uhleke ngezinye zezinto ozithandayo. Qhuba uye kumngxunya omdala wokuloba okanye uhambe ngepaki eyayiyindawo ekhethekileyo ebuntwaneni. Amathuba okubophelela akufuneki ukuba abe ngaphezulu, kufuneka acinge.
Yenza ukuba utatomkhulu wakho aqhubeke
Ukuba nguUtat'omkhulu ulunge ngakumbi nokuba ungumzali! Nje ukuba intombi yakho ikhule kwaye ibe ngumzali uqobo, ziphose ebomini bayo nakubantwana bayo. Ukubakho kwizigaba eziphambili zabazukulwana bakho kuya kuthetha ukuba umhlaba uyintombi yakho. Ukubukela udlala nabantwana bakhe abancinci kwaye ubafundise konke okwaziyo kuya kukukhumbuza indlela awayenethamsanqa ngayo ekukhuleni enotata ofana nawe.
IRollercoaster entle ekhulisa iintombi
Olu sana lusandul 'ukuzalwa lushiya uphawu olukhulu kwintliziyo katata. Amava okuba ngumzali agcwele ezona ndawo ziphakamileyo kunye nezona ziphantsi kakhulu. Iminyaka emincinci izisa ulungelelwaniso lovuyo olukhulu, ixhala kunye nokungalali. Akukho kuhamba ngenqanawa kwiilwandle zeminyaka yeshumi elivisayo, kwaye iqhina lotata-ntombi liza kuvavanywa ngeendlela ezingathethekiyo. Ukucima iingcango, isandi sokukhala, kunye nokukhala kuya kwenza utata ukuba azibuze ukuba iphi emhlabeni umntwana wakhe oyintombazana waya phi kwaye ngubani lo ungenangqondo, wamaza ombane womntu endaweni yakhe? Ngesiquphe sele ekhulile, elungele ukolula amaphiko akhe kwaye abhabhe ahambe kwaye ootata bazifumana becinga ukuba liphi ixesha?
Ubuzali ngenene bubuhle kwaye bubumdaka.
Yonwabela Intombi yakho Kuyo yonke iminyaka
Kungangumceli mngeni kootata nakwiintombi ukubambelela ngokuqinileyo kwisivumelwano abasichithe iminyaka emininzi besenza, kwaye onke amanqanaba ophuhliso aya kuzisa utshintsho kwindlela ootata neentombi abalichitha ngayo ixesha labo bekunye. Kwanaxa ixesha likatata-ntombazana lisemgangathweni libonakala lingenathemba, sukuyeka ootata! Ukugcina ubudlelwane bukayise-ntombi kulilize ngokupheleleyo ukusebenza nzima nokunyamezela ekugqibeleni.
