Kunganzima ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo okuthuthuzela umntu osandul 'ukuswelekelwa ngumntu amthandayo. Yonke imeko yahlukile, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, 'Ndicela uxolo ngokulahleka kwakho,' kubonakala kuyinto nje engenamsebenzi. Zininzi iindlela zokubonisa uvelwano, kubandakanya imibongo, ukucaphula, okanye amagama ambalwa alula kodwa asuka entliziyweni.
Intuthuzelo yokulahlekelwa ngumzali
Nantsi ivesi enokusetyenziselwa ukunika uvelwano kunye nethemba lokuphulukana nomzali.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Imifanekiso yeSuku lweSikhumbuzo
- Igalari yeZipho zabaLilayo
- Iincwadi ngeNtlungu yomntwana oswelekileyo
Usoloko Ungumntwana Womzali Wakho
Nokuba umdala kangakanani, uhlala ungumntwana kanyoko / utata wakho.
Ilahleko akukho lula ukuyithwala, akukho nto kulula ukuyizalisa, kwaye umnqweno wokuthetha, ukuchukumisa, nokwabelana nawo womelele.
Zama nje ukukhumbula ukuba usuku ngalunye lokwahlukana lukuzisa ngolunye usuku kufutshane nokudibana kwakhona ezulwini.
Uvelwano ngokuPhulukana noTatomkhulu
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyanceda ukukhumbuza abafelweyo ukuba yonke into ayilahlekanga, kwaye ukuthetha ngomakhulu notatomkhulu oswelekileyo yenye yeendlela zokugcina iinkumbulo ziphila. Nantsi ivesi evakalisa loo ngcinga.
Ibhondi engenakuqhekeka
Ubophelelo owabelana ngalo nomakhulu / notatomkhulu wakho alupheli ngokufa.
Izifundo enizifundileyo, iinkumbulo enabelana ngazo, kunye nothando enaninalo nobabini omnye nomnye luyaqhubeka.
Kuyo yonke iminyaka ezayo, utatomkhulu wakho uya kuba lapho ecaleni kwakho nanini na xa usabelana ngebali malunga namaxesha enihleli kunye.
Ngamana loo ngcamango ingakuthuthuzela.
Amagama ovelwano ngokulahleka komzalwana okanye udade
Ukuphulukana nomntakwenu kubetha ikakhulu kufutshane nekhaya. Amagama afanelekileyo okuthuthuzela ukuswelekelwa ngumzalwana okanye udade anokunceda ukuthuthuzela kunye nokuhlaziya loo lahleko kancinci.
- Ukuphulukana nodade / ubhuti kufana nokuphulukana nesiqwenga sakho, kodwa kuyakufika ixesha apho usizi lwakho luya kuncipha kwaye uya kuba nakho ukugxila kwimemori eyonwabisayo. Kude kube lelo xesha, yazi ukuba ndilapha ngenxa yakho.
- Akukho mntu unokuqonda ukuba kunjani ukuswelekelwa ngumntakwenu ngaphandle kokuba ugqithile. Nanini na xa uziva ulilolo, mandibe khona, ndikuncede uhambe ebumnyameni kwaye uphinde ufumane ukukhanya.
- Akukho nto inokuthatha indawo yomntakwenu / udade, kodwa iinkumbulo ezimnandi zinokunqumla ebumnyameni njengemitha yelanga. Ngamana ukufudumala kwaloo misebe kufudumeza umphefumlo wakho.
Ukuvakalisa Usizi ngokulahlekelwa lusana
Yabelana ngovelwano lwakho nomzali osentlungwini ngale ntoifom yefom yasimahla.
Ubuncwane ezulwini
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa nabani na anokuzithetha ukuthuthuzela ukusweleka kosana, kodwa kunokunceda ukucinga ngosana lwakho ngale ndlela ...
Useyigugu lakho elinqabileyo, ubutyebi obugcinelwe ezulwini, kwaye ngenye imini uyakudibana kwaye nabelane ngothando olugqithisileyo kunolo nanabelana ngalo apha emhlabeni.
Amagama ovelwano ngokulahleka komntwana omncinci
Ezi ngcinga zovelwano zinokuncedaabazali abafelweyophinda ufumane ithemba ngekamva.
imibuzo ephula umkhenkce kubafundi abasesikolweni
- Wanga uThixo angakubamba ngothantamiso ekumbambeni kwakhe njengokuba wawuke wabamba umntwana wakho oxabisekileyo. Wanga angabuthwala ubunzima bakho bentlungu, kwaye akuncede ufumane uvuyo kwakhona.
- Ungakholelwa ukuba awusoze uphinde uncume, kodwa ndiyathembisa kuya kuza umzuzu xa ukhumbula umntwana wakho ngovuyo endaweni yeenyembezi.
- Ukusinda ekufeni komntwana yeyona nto inzima kuye nawuphi na umzali. Xa uziva ngathi awunawo amandla okuqhubeka, khumbula ukuba silapha ukukuxhasa.
Ukuvakalisa amazwi ovelwano ngokuswelekelwa ngumntwana omdala
Nanku umbongo owahlukileyo wabazali abalahlekelwe ngumntwana osele ekhulile.
Umyezo Wothando Lwakho
Ukhule ngokupheleleyo, kodwa usengumntwana wakho,
Intyatyambo idubula ngokupheleleyo, yahluzwa ebuntombini.
Cinezela intyatyambo ebalulekileyo kwincwadi yeenkumbulo zakho,
Kwaye apho uya kuhlala egadini yothando lwakho.
luhlobo luni lwenja endinalo kwimibuzo
Ukuthuthuzela Umntu Emva Kokulahlekelwa Liqabane
Ukuphulukana neqabane lobomiilahleko yokusika ngokukodwa. Enye yezi ndlela zovelwano inokuchukumisa intliziyo yomntu omthandayo.
- Uthando luhlala luhlala ixesha kunye nendawo. Yiba nokholo lokuba (igama lomlingane) ngokuqinisekileyo likujongile livela ezulwini, kwaye uthandazela ulonwabo lwakho apha emhlabeni.
- Wanga uThixo angangumlingane wakho osenyongweni ohamba ecaleni kwakho ngexesha losizi, kwaye athwale umthwalo wakho xa kunzima kakhulu ukuwuthwala.
- Yiba nokholo lokuba nangona wena neqabane lakho nisahlukana, uThixo omanyanisileyo apha emhlabeni uyakumanyaniswa kwakhona ezulwini.
Ukuvakalisa Usizi ngokulahlekelwa ngumhlobo
Nanku umbongo onokuzisa intuthuzelo encinci kumntu osandula ukuphulukana nomhlobo othandekayo.
Xa Undifuna
Xa undifuna, ndiza kuba lapha
Xa unditsalela umnxeba, ndiza kuphendula.
Xa ubuhlungu, ndiza kwenza konke okusemandleni am ukukuthuthuzela,
Kuba ndiyayiqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphulukana nomhlobo.
Ezi ndinyana zinokunceda ekubuyiseleni ithemba labo bafelweyo.
- Ukufa kunokwahlula abahlobo, kodwa ubuhlobo buhlala buhlala buhleli okoko umhlobo omnye ehlala ekhumbula.
- Nokuba ukufa akunamandla ngokwaneleyo okwahlula abahlobo bokwenene ngonaphakade.
- Umhlobo wakho uhlala entliziyweni yakho, engqondweni nasemphefumlweni wakho. Zithuthuzele ngeenkumbulo ezimnandi zamaxesha ekwabelwana ngawo kunye.
Ukwabelana ngeNtuthuzelo ngokuPhulukana nesilwanyana sasekhaya
Lo mbongo unika uvelwano nenkxaso ekhethekileyo kuye nakubani na ophethwe sisifoukulahlekelwa ngumlingane wezilwanyana.
Akunciphanga Mhlobo, Akunciphanga Ukuphulukana
Umhlobo onoboya / onentsiba akangomhlobo,
Kunabantu obaziyo.
Kwaye yaphula intliziyo kanye,
Xa kufuneka uyeke umntu ahambe.
Kodwa ungalahli ithemba kuba ngenye imini,
Ukwahlukana kwehlabathi kuya kuphela,
Uya kudibana kwakhona ezulwini,
Apho uya kuba ngamadlelane kwakhona.
Amazwi enduduzo afanele umzamo
Fakela enye yezi mvakalelo kwikhadi lomntu okanye inqaku kumntu omthandayo, kodwa uqonde ukuba umntu ophosa iintlungu ngokupheleleyo unokufuna ixesha lokujongana nelahleko yakhe. Nokuba uziva ukuba ikhadi lakho alifumani ngqwalaselo ubuyilindele, lowo umthandayo uya kuligcina kwaye abuyele kulo ngoxabiso olutsha emva kokuba inkungu yentlungu yokuqala iqala ukuphakama.
