Ukwazi ukuba uza kuthini xa umntu ephulukene nesilwanyana sasekhaya kunokuba luncedo ekuboneleleni ngenkathalo kunye nentuthuzelo. Ukuphulukana neekowuti zezilwanyana zasekhaya kuyanceda ukuba nezalathiso xa umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho liphulukene nekati, inja okanye esinye isilwanyana.
Into Emayithethwe Xa Isilwanyana Esifayo
Unokukhetha enye yezi zinto zilandelayo ukuba uthi kumhlobo wakho ngexesha losizi:
- 'Ndiyaxolisa ukuba sasifile isilwanyana sakho.'
- Ndiyazi ukuba uya kusikhumbula isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. '
- Ndiyazi ukuba indlu yakho izakubonakala ingenanto ngaphandle kwesilwanyana sakho esimnandi. '
- 'Ndilapha ndize kuwe xa ufuna nantoni na.'
- Igalari yeZipho zabaLilayo
- Amanyathelo e-9 okudala imeko yokuqonda
- Imizekelo Emihle Yezikhumbuzo Zamangcwaba
Into Oyithethayo Xa Kusweleke Inja Yomntu
Izinja bezikho kubonisiwe kwizifundo ukuba novakalelo kwiimvakalelo zabantu, yiyo loo nto abantu bengazenzi ubuhlobo obusondeleyo nabahlobo babo abanemilenze emine. Ungaze uyilahle into yokufa kwenja ngegama elibi, 'Kufuneka ufumane enye!' Inja nganye inobuntu bayo kwaye ayinakutshintshwa ngokulula. Nazi izinto ezifanelekileyo onokuzithetha kumntu osanda kulahlekelwa yinja:
- Ndiyazi ukuba akukho lula ukulahlekelwa ngumhlobo osenyongweni. '
- 'Inja yakho iyonwabele yonke into ongayitya xa uphatha i-buffet kuyoemva kobomingoku.'
- Ndivile ukuba xa ubona ibhabhathane, eneneni ngumntu omthandayo odlulileyo. Ngexesha elizayo xa usiya kubethwa ngumoya, ungothusi ukuba ibhabhathane libhabha ecaleni kwakho. '
- 'Ndicinga ukuba izinja zibuyiselwa kubuncinci bazo, zisempilweni ezulwini; yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakhe ebaleka engenazintlungu kwaye elinde nje ukufika kwakho ngenye imini. '
Yintoni Oyithethayo Ukuphulukana Nekati
Abantu bathanda iikati ngenxa yokunyanzelwa kweekati Ndifumene uthando ; Kuya kufuneka wakhe ukuthembana ngekati okanye baya kukwazisa ngeenzipho kunye namazinyo ukuze uhlale kude. Emva kokuthatha ixesha lokufumana ikati ngokuthembakeleyo, ukuphulukana nekati leyo kungaziva kuphazamiseka.
- 'Umonwabisile kakhulu ngeminyaka ekuwe.'
- Ndiyazi ukuba uyakukhumbula ukuthanda kwakhe okuhle. Wayeyikati enothando. '
- 'Akusoze kubekho kati ilunge ngaphezu kwakhe.'
- 'Ndiza kubheja ukuba banonikezelo olungenamda lwe-catnip kwi-Cat Heaven.'
Into Oyithethayo Xa Kusweleka Ezinye Izilwanyana
Abantu ababopheleli kuphela kwiikati nakwizinja njengezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ukufa kwentlanzi, izilwanyana zasekhaya ezincinci ezifana neeguinea kunye neehamsters, kunye namahashe okanye iintaka kungashiya umntu edakumbile kwaye efuna uvelwano.
- 'Uyafuna ukuthetha? Ndiyazi ukuba kumele ukuba wenzakele. '
- 'Ndingenza ntoni ukukunceda ngeli xesha linzima?'
- 'Ndingakuphathela ukutya okanye ikofu?'
- Uxolo- ndiyayazi indlela obumthanda ngayo.
Indlela Yokuthetha Nomntwana Usizi Lokulahlekelwa Sisilwanyana
Abantwanabasenokungayiqondi ngokupheleleyo imeko yokufa, kodwa bayazi ukuba baziva iintlungu xa isilwanyana sisifa. Ikhonsoli ausizi lomntwanangaphandle kokwenza izithembiso ezilambathayo okanye ukugxotha iimvakalelo zabo.
- 'Uziva njani ngale nto?'
- Ngaba uyafuna ukuthetha ngale nto? Ndizile apha kuwe ukuba uyayenza. '
- 'Ngokuqinisekileyo ubungumhlobo olungileyo kuye.'
- 'Kulungile ukuba lusizi xa isilwanyana sisifa. Nabantu abakhulileyo baziva belusizi ngoku. '
Ukuthumela ikhadi
Ukuthumela ikhadi kumhlobo wakho ukuba umxelele ngaloiimvakalelo zakhoukufa kwesilwanyana sasekhaya kufanelekile. Khetha ikhadi elingenanto uze ubhale imigca embalwa. Ukuba ubusazi isilwanyana sasekhaya, faka igama lakhe ngaphakathi kwezicatshulwa. Ungabandakanya enye yezi 'ukulahleka kwesilwanyana sasekhaya':
- Ndiyazi ukuba uyamkhumbula umhlobo wakho othembekileyo kwaye mhle. '
- Kunzima ukuvalelisa kwiqabane elikhethekileyo.
- 'Iingcinga zam zikuwe ngeli xesha lokulahleka.'
- 'Ngamana iinkumbulo ezimnandi zesilwanyana sakho osithandayo siyifudumeza intliziyo yakho rhoqo.'
- '(igama lesilwanyana) ibingumhlobo omkhulu kuwe kwaye siza kumkhumbula.'
- 'Uvelwano olunzulu ngokusweleka kwesithandwa sakho (igama lesilwanyana sasekhaya).'
- 'Ndiya kulikhumbula (igama lesilwanyana) amandla nothando lwabantu.'
- 'Ndilapha ngenxa yakho - nceda uthathe ixesha olifunayo ukuba ube sentlungwini.'
- Ndiyazi ukuba ukhathazekile, kwaye kulungile ukuba buhlungu. Kunzima ukuthi ndlela-ntle kulowo umthandayo (inja, ikati, njl.). '
- 'Ndivale enye yeefoto zam endizithandayo (zegama lesilwanyana) kuba yindlela esiza kumkhumbula ngayo: wonwabile kwaye uyadlamka.'
Ungamthuthuzela njani umntu olahlekelwe yikati okanye inja
Qiniseka ukuba unovelwano xa umhlobo wakho esiva ukusweleka kwesilwanyana sakhe sasekhaya. Ukuba ungumnini wezilwanyana zasekhaya, unokukufumanisa kulula ukuba buhlungu ngokushiywa ngumhlobo wakho. Ukuba akunjalo, unokungaziqondi iimvakalelo, okanye uzibuze ukuba kutheni umhlobo wakho exinekile ngenxa yokufa kwesilwanyana. Eli lixesha lokuba nobubele nolwazelelelo. Abanye abantu bahlala bodwa, ngaphandle kobukho besilwanyana sasekhaya, ke xa isilwanyana simkile, abanalo kwaphela ulwalamano. Uhlolisiso lubonisa ukuba eUnited States, abantu abaninzi banezilwanyana zasekhaya kunabantwana. Ayonto ibubudenge okanye engaqhelekanga ngabantu ukuba buhlungu ngenxa yokuphulukana nesilwanyana. Abantwana abancinci banokuba nobunzima ngakumbi xa isilwanyana sisifa. Bazakufuna uthando olongezelelekileyo kunye nengqwalaselo ngeli xesha.
Izicatshulwa malunga nezilwanyana zasekhaya
Unokongeza isicatshulwa esaziwa ngumntu odumileyo, njengale ilandelayo:
isipho semali sokugqitywa kwesikolo esiphakamileyo
- 'Isilo-qabane asisoze silibaleke de singasakhunjulwa.' ~ Lacie Petitto
- 'Ukufa kuphelisa ubomi, hayi ubudlelwane.' ~ UJack Lemmon
- 'Izinja azikho ubomi bethu bonke, kodwa zisenza siphile ubomi bonke.' ~ URoger Caras
- 'Ukuba azikho izinja ezulwini, xa ndisifa ndifuna ukuya apho zaya khona.' ~ Ngaba uRogers
- '... into esiyonwabileyo, asinakuze siyilahle ... yonke into esiyithandayo ngokunzulu iba yinxalenye yethu.' ~ UHelen Keller
- 'Ububi bokugcina inja kukusweleka kwakhe kungekudala. Kodwa, ukuba ndiqinisekile, ukuba ebephila iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu emva koko wasweleka, bekuya kwenzeka ntoni ngam? ' ~ UMhlekazi Walter Scott
- 'Abaninzi abachithe ubomi babo kuyo bangasixelela uthando olungaphantsi kolomntwana olahlekelwe yinja izolo.' ~ UThornton Wilder
Nditsho Ndlelantle
Izilwanyana zixabisekile kwaye zihlala zithathwa njengenxalenye yosapho. Abantu bayayithanda i-canine yabo okanye ilungu losapho elonwabileyo kwaye babakhathalele. Iintsapho zithatha izilwanyana zazo eholideyini, zibhiyozele imihla yazo yokuzalwa, zicwangcise ukuvavanywa kwazo kugqirha wezilwanyana, kwaye zithenge nezinto zazo zokudlala. Ke xa isilwanyana sisifa, ilahleko inkulu kwaye usizi luyabonakala.
Thuthuzela Umntu Olahlekelwe Sisilwanyana Sakho
Cinga ukuthenga isipho sovelwano kumhlobo ophulukene nenja okanye ikati. Ilitye lesikhumbuzo elidweliswe ngegama lesilwanyana sasekhaya sisipho esithandekayo. Isakhelo somfanekiso apho umnini anokubeka khona ifoto yezilwanyana zasekhaya ikwangumboniso omnandi oya kuvuyelwa. Ivenkile eku-intanethi efana Fumana isipho izokunceda ukhangele into oza kuyinika umhlobo wakho kwimemori yesilwanyana sasekhaya esifileyo.
