Unako umdlalo wakho kwaye ufumane impendulo engcono ukuba usebenzisa umgca wokuvula wokuqala wokuthandana kwi-Intanethi. Sukuzilungiselela into esele iviwe kwaye isetyenzisiwe ngumntu wonke. Endaweni yoko bonisa ubuntu bakho kunye nokuqala kweyona migca ilungileyo yokuvula.
Ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi kwiMigca yokuVula eKhangela uMdla
Ujonge iprofayile yomntu, kwaye uyafunazazisekwaye uqhagamshelane. Into kukuba, uyazi ukuba lo mntu unokufumana imiyalezo emininzi. Uphume njani kwisihlwele? Isitshixo apha kukuvusa umdla. Zama imigca yokuvula.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Imizekelo yendlela yokuZazisa kwiiNdawo zokuDibana kwi-Intanethi
- Iijwabu zokuLungisa iziQhushumbisi zokuDibana kwi-Intanethi
- Ungayiphendula njani iMiyalezo yokuDibana kwi-Intanethi ngendlela eyiyo
Buza malunga nento kwiProfayili yabo
Ngokwendalo abantu bayathanda ukuthetha malunga neziqu zabo, ke buza umbuzo obenza bathethe. Unokufumana ukukhuthazwa kwiprofayili yabo. Ukuba ubonisa ukuba ufunde iprofayili yomntu, uya kufumana amanqaku ebhonasi.
- Ndiyabona ukuba ukwi-acoustic guitar. Ngubani eyona mvumi uyithandayo? '
- 'Ukwiincwadi zamanoveli zesayensi, akunjalo? Yeyiphi incwadi enkulu yokugqibela oyifundileyo? '
- 'Ndiyakuthanda ukuba unomdla wokuzithandela kwindawo yokuhlala izilwanyana. Ndihlala ndifuna ukwenza loo nto. Yeyiphi indlela ebalaseleyo yokuba nam ndibandakanyeke? '
Dwelisa izinto zakho eziNtathu eziPhambili
Zinto zini ezintathu ongenakuphila ngaphandle kwazo? Chaza ezo kanye ngoko nangoko, kwaye uzenze zibe ezithile kwaye zahluke. Emva koko buza malunga nabanye abathathu abaphezulu.
indlela yokwenza amakhethini aphezulu eethebhu
- Andikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesonka samasi, iiDodgers, kunye neeNiksi ezintle. Uthini ngawe? Yintoni ongenakuphila ngaphandle kwayo? '
- 'Ukuze ndonwabe, kufuneka ndinayo i-t-shirt yam endiyithandayo, ikhamera yam, kunye nekofu entle. Zinto zini ezintathu ozifunayo?
- Ndingumlutha wokubukela utywala Izinto ezingaqhelekanga , Ukufunda iintsomi zembali, kunye nokufa kweenwele zam imibala ehlekisayo. Zintathu izinto ozikhobokisayo? '
Umyalezo wokuQala oMzekelo wokuDibana kwi-Intanethi
Ukuba unokwenza umntu ahleke, sele wenze unxibelelwano. Isitshixo apha kukwenza umntu ongamazi ncam ukuba uhleke; inzima ngakumbi loo nto. Ungazama iihlaya lomgca omnyeokanye ainqanawa yomkhenkce ekrelekrelenjengesiqalo okanye usebenzise omnye wale mizekelo yomyalezo wokuqala ehlekisayo:
- Ukuba umntu unefoto enesilwanyana sasekhaya, usenokuthi, 'Unabo uboya buhle nentshebe endakha ndazibona, nomntu wakho mhle naye.'
- Ungabuza umbuzo osileyo 'ungathanda' umbuzo, onje, 'Ngaba ungathanda ukuba uqalekiswe ngemvula ebengezelayo kuwe ngalo lonke ixesha okanye unyanzelwe ukuba ungatyi nto ngaphandle kweetapile zetapile kangangeveki?'
- Yenza isiqhulo malunga nomsebenzi wakho okanye ikholeji enkulu ukubonisa ukuba awuzithathi nzulu izinto ezibonisa ukungakhathali, ezinje, 'ndiyintloko yesiNgesi, kodwa ndiyathembisa ukuba andizukuyilungisa igrama yakho. Ibiyintoni eyona njongo yakho? '
Imizekelo yokuFunda ngokuVula kwi-Intanethi eFumana uMhlaba oFanayo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufumana indawo efanayo xa uqala incoko nomntu okwi-intanethi. Ukuba unokufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi into onomdla kuyo, uya kuba nezinto ezininzi zokwakha unxibelelwano lwakho kwaye uqhubeke nencoko.
Yabelana ngento kwiBio yabo
Khetha into kwi-bio yomntu owabelana ngayo kunye nokwakha kuyo ngombuzo:
- Ndiyakubona sithandwa Idabi leenkwenkwezi . Ndiyenza nam! Ngaba uzithanda ngcono iziqendu zokuqala okanye ezitsha? '
- Uye kwiYunivesithi yaseMichigan kwiminyaka emine emva kokuba ndenzile! Ubuhleli kweyiphi indawo yokulala? '
- 'Ndiyakuthanda nokunyuka intaba. Loluphi olona hambo luhle ubukulo mva nje? '
Nika ingxelo ngomdlalo
Ngaba ubufaniswe yindawo yokubonana online? Ukuba kunjalo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba yabona into enifana ngayo. Ungayichaza loo nto ukuqala incoko iqhubeke:
- Ndiyabona ukuba sinokulingana! Ndiyabheja kungenxa yokuba sobabini sithanda ukuphuma kwindalo kakhulu. Yeyiphi indawo oyithandayo yokuya? '
- Kubonakala ngathi le ndawo iyangqinelana nathi, ke kufuneka sinezinto ezifanayo. Ndiyakuthanda ukutya kwaseNtaliyane. Ukhe waya kwindawo yokutyela entsha edolophini? '
- Ndiyicinga ukuba le ndawo ihambelana nathi kuba sobabini sithanda ukupheka, kodwa ndibetha ukuba sinokunye ngaphezu koko. Yintoni enye oyithandayo? '
Imigca emikhulu yokuVula yokuDibana kwi-Intanethi
Zininzi ezinye iindlela ezintle zokuqalisa incoko ngaphandle kokukruqula okanye ukubangcangcazela. Imalunga nokuyila into evulekileyo eyenzelwe wena kunye nobukrelekrele.
Buza umbuzo omkhulu
Imigca yokuvula efanelekileyo yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi ibandakanya umbuzo. Ibonisa ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisana ngakumbi, kwaye ikhuthaza ukubuyela umva kunye nokubuya. Umbuzo unokuba mbi okanye ubudenge.
- 'Uziva njani ngee-anchvies zepitsa?'
- 'Yintoni le uyenzileyo eyakwenza wonwaba nyhani?
- Ndisela ikofu kakhulu. Yintoni oyena nobubi bakho? '
Zonwabise ngokwakho
Ukuqala ngokuthandana kwi-IntanethiUngaziva ungonwabanga, kwaye kulungile ukuyamkela loo nto. Ukuba ungazihlekisa ngokwakho, kubonisa ukuzithemba.
uyifumana njani ioyile kwisamente
- Umhle kakhulu, kwaye ndigxininisa ngokupheleleyo malunga nendlela yokuqalisa incoko nawe. Ndizakuyigcina ilula. Ungathanda ukuthatha ikofu ngelinye ixesha? '
- 'Nokuba ujonga nje ifoto yakho undinika amabhabhathane, kodwa kufuneka ndibuze, awungekhe uyibukele imovie?'
- 'Ngokuqinisekileyo uyindlela engcono yembaleki kunam, kodwa ungavuma ukunciphisa isantya sakho kancinane kwaye ubaleke ngoMgqibelo?'
Yenze incoko emnandi yokuqala
Nokuba ngowuphi umgca wokuvula owusebenzisayo ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi, kuya kufuneka uqhubeke nencoko ukuba iyasebenza. Kuyanceda ukuba ne-Uluhlu lwemibuzo oza kuyibuza ukuze wazi umntu othile. Ngokulungiselela okuncinci kunye nokuphefumlelwa, loo ncoko yokuqala iya kuba yinto enkulu.