Funda imibongo yothando malunga nokwahlukana.
Xa uthando lulahlekile, ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto ithuthuzelayo yokwenza kukufunda iikowuti zoqhawulo-mtshato. Ukuzichaza kakuhle iimvakalelo onazo kunokukunceda ukuba ubambe iimvakalelo zakho. Ngamanye amaxesha, kulungile ukuba uyazi ukuba ayinguwe wedwa umntu oye waziva ekhathazekile emva kokuba ulwalamano luphelile. Oku kunokuba yinto ekhuthazayo, njengoko ufunda iingcinga zabantu abaye bahlukana, basinda kuwo, baqhubeka.
Uqhawulo-mtshato
Zininzi iingcaphulo zoqhawulo-mtshato phaya, ukuze ukunciphisa ukufumana into oyifunayo, iikowuti ezibekwe apha zidweliswe ngokwamacandelo. Nanini na xa kunokwenzeka, ikhredithi inikwa umntu obhale okanye othethileyo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo
- Iifoto ezili-10 zeZibini eziMnandi zaseLuthando
- Iindlela ezili-10 zokuYila zokuba Ndiyakuthanda
- Iifoto ezi-8 ezishushu zeendlela ezithandekayo zoKwanga
Kubuhlungu Kangakanani
Masiqale ngezinye zezicatshulwa ezibonisa ukuba kubuhlungu kangakanani ukwahlukana.
- Xa wohlukana, ubuni bakho bonke buyatshabalala. Kufana nokufa. -UDennis Quaid
- Awufi ngentliziyo eyaphukileyo- unqwenela ukuba wenjenjalo.
- Akukho nto ibuhlungu njengokuqonda ukuba wayethetha yonke into kuwe, kodwa wawungathethi nto kuye.
- Intlungu yokuba nentliziyo eyaphukileyo ayikuko nokuba ikubulale, kodwa ayiyonto encinci njengokukuvumela uphile.
- Awuzange uve iintlungu de uve uthando.
Ukuhlukana kwembono
Ukuqonda uhlobo lothando kunye nokwahlukana akuyi kuyisusa intlungu, ngakumbi ukuba ulahliwe ngokukhohlakeleyo, kodwa banokukunceda ukuba uqaphele ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zabelwana ngazo ngabanye. Nazi ezinye iikowuti ezilungileyo zokwahlukana ezibonelela ngombono obanzi.
- Abo bangakwaziyo ukulila ngentliziyo yabo iphela abazi ukuba bahleke njani.
- Kuthatha imizuzwana embalwa ukuthi Molo, kodwa ngonaphakade ukuvalelisa.
- Uthando luqala ngoncumo, lukhula ngokwanga, kwaye luphela ngeenyembezi.
- Kukho le ndawo kum apho iminwe yakho isaphumla khona ... ukwanga kwakho kusalibele kwaye ukusebeza kwakho kuthambile ... Yindawo apho indawo yakho iya kuba yinxalenye yam ngonaphakade.
- Olona thando lushushu lunesiphelo esibandayo. - USocrates
- Ukuzama ukulibala umntu omthandayo kufana nokuzama ukukhumbula umntu ongazange umazi.
- Iintliziyo azisoze zisebenze de zenziwe ukuba zingophuli. -Wizard yeOz
- Ukwahlukana yinto yendalo xa uzama ukufumana into oyifunayo ebomini. Ukuba uhamba nomntu ongahambi kwicala elinye kwaye kwinqanaba elifanayo, awuzukusebenza. -Usher
- Ungaze ube buhlungu ngento egqithileyo, yonwabile ukuba ibikhe yeyakho.
- Awuqondi ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani umntu ade angakukhathaleli.
- Into ehlekisayo malunga nokwahlukana kwabo babonisa into esingazange sazi nokuba sinayo, kodwa musa ukusinika ithuba lokuba sibuyele emfazweni sixhobile olo lwazi.
- Oko kuye kwenzeka ukuba uthando alubazi ubunzulu balo kude kube lixesha lokwahlukana. -Kahlil Gibran
Ukuqhubeka
Xa iintlungu zokuqala ziqala ukudamba, eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukuqala ukujonga kwikamva kwaye uqhubeke. Nazi ezinye iikowuti zoqhawulo-mtshato zokukunceda wenze kanye loo nto.
- Ndiza kuncuma ndikwenze ucinge ukuba ndonwabile, ndiza kuhleka, ukuze ungandiboni ndilila, ndiza kukuyeka uhambe ngesitayile, nokuba kungandibulala… mna Ndizoncuma.
- Andivumi ukuba into eyenzeke kum indenze ndikrakra. Ndisakholelwa ngokupheleleyo eluthandweni kwaye ndivulekile nakweyiphi na into eza kwenzeka kum. -Nicole Kidman
- Ukuba umntu omthandayo ukukhathaza- khala umlambo, wakhe ibhulorho, kwaye uwele kuwo.
- Andiqinisekanga ukuba ikamva lisiphathele ntoni kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuba nethemba kwaye andizukuvuka ndiziva ndiphelelwe lithemba. Njengotata wam wathi 'Nic, yile nto iyiyo, ayisiyiyo le nto bekufanele ukuba iyiyo, ayisiyiyo le nto ibiyiyo, yile nto iyiyo'. -Nicole Kidman
- Nokuba ngubani owaphule intliziyo yakho, okanye kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuphilisa, awusoze uphumelele ngaphandle kwabahlobo bakho.
- Ubudlelwane bufana neglasi. Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukubashiya bephukile kunokuba uzame ukuzilimaza ngokukubeka kunye.
- Awunakuze uziyeke zonke iimvakalelo, kodwa kufuneka umyeke.
Uya Kufumana Uthando
Unokuziva ngathi awusoze ufumane uthando emva kokwahlukana, okanye ukuba uthando alusoze lulunge njengaleyo ubunayo. Ayisiyonyani leyo. Uthando lokwenene lwenzelwe ukuhlala, ukunyamezela, ukuxolela nokulibala. Xa ukufumene oko, ekugqibeleni uya kuba ufumene uthando lokwenene. Okokugqibela, nokuba uyakholelwa eBhayibhileni okanye awukholwa, wonke umntu angonwabela ukuthembakala kwala magama akwiNdumiso 126: 5:
- Abahlwayelayo beneenyembezi Baya kuvuna benovuyo.
