Hayi,uthando olutsha. Kuyonwabisa kwaye akucingeleki, kodwa kunokuba nakho ukoyikisa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, olona lonwabo lweemvakalelo zabantu lunokuba namandla ngakumbi kumanqanaba okuqala. Ngamanye amaxesha, xa ulahlekelwe ngamazwi okuchaza ubunzulu beemvakalelo zakho, isicatshulwa malungaukuthandana nomntu omtshaunokuthetha ngokubanzi kuwe.
Izicatshulwa zoqobo malunga noBudlelwane obutsha
Ezi ngcaphuno zintsha zokuthandana ziyindlela egqibeleleyo yokubonisa indlela oziva ngayo ekuqaleni kohambo lwakho kunye.
- Elona candelo lilungileyo lokwazi ulindele ukuba usuku ngalunye luzisa isimanga esitsha esimalunga nawe!
- Bendisazi ukuba ubalulekile ukusukela ngalaaxesha sidibana ngalo. Ndijonge phambili kanjani kulo lonke ingomso lethu.
- Uthando ekuboneni kokuqala alunanto kwindlela uthando olukhethekileyo kwintetho yokuqala oluyiyo. Ndiye ndalixabisa lonke ixesha lethu lokwazi esabelana ngalo. Ngamana bangaqhubeka nokuqhubeka!
- Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula ii-R ezintathu zobudlelwane obutsha: hloniphanani, bonani ukumangaliswa, kwaye nilulekelele ngobubele lonke ithuba olifumanayo.
- Ngaba ukhe wayiva intliziyo yakho ukubaleka ngelixa ujikeleza, uphuphuma umbono wento yakho oyithandayo ngo-Eva weKrisimesi, okanye uthuthuzeleke xa uhlala phantsi emva kokubaleka? Ndaziva konke oko kudityanisiwe mzuzu esadibana ngawo. Usandivuyisa ngandlela zonke ezintle!
- Ukuba kunye ningenzi nto kunokuba yeyona ndlela ingcono yokuchitha ixesha elithetha yonke into.
- Uthando olutsha lunokubhabha luze lubhabhe njengoko lusibaleka kwaye luhamba, kodwa okushiyekileyo zizinto esizifumeneyo omnye komnye. Ndingayenza yonke into kwakhona kuba isikhokelele kolu thando sabelana ngalo namhlanje.
- Umhlaba wovuyo unokufumaneka kumzuzu olula okwabelwana ngawo phakathi kwemimoya yentsapho ekhathalelanayo ngendlela esenza ngayo.
- Uluvo nje lokulahlekelwa nguwe lwanele ukundenza ndiqonde ukuba ixesha alikho semdleni xa kufikwa kwindlela endikubambe ngayo entliziyweni yam. Ndonwabile ukuba safumana omnye nomnye.
- Oko kwaqala njengomtsalane kuye kwatyatyamba kwaba luthando. Ngamana singakhula kunye ngoku njengoko sifumanana.
- Ndiyayithanda indlela esihamba ngayo. Singabahloli kunye nabadali bobudlelwane bethu. Makhe siye kwindawo entle apha. Konke kuxhomekeke kuthi, kwaye ndiyavuya kuba ndikhethe wena.
- Ukwazi into oyifunayo kwisithandwa kunye neqabane kungathatha umzuzwana xa uzazi ngokwakho. Bendisazi ukuba nguwe lowo ukusukela ngala mhla amehlo ethu adibana.
- Ukuze uyazi, ndenza iinkumbulo ezilungileyo zobomi bam ngalo lonke ixesha ndiphuma nawe.
- Oko ndadibana nawe, ndaqala ukuqonda ukuba kutheni ubudlelwane bam bangaphambili buphela: ukuze siqale.
- Ayikokuhlala ixesha elide nomntu obalulekileyo, kodwa endaweni yoko luthando owabelana nalo entliziyweni yakho.
- Ama-30 amaNqaku oThando ngoTabane
- Iindlela ezingama-25 ezingalindelekanga zokubonisa umntu omthandayo
- Ama-40 amaNqaku eTrasti yobuDlelwane ukuze akhe uNxibelelwano
Amanqaku amatsha oLwalamano aKhe
Ekuqaleni, iikowuteshini zobudlelwane zibonisa umntu omthandayo ukuba uyathandana kwaye uyakhathala. Ukuba unengxaki yokubonisa indlela oziva ngayo, zama le migca:
- Amandla akho amakhulu nobubele bakho buyandimangalisa yonke imihla.
- Nangona andingomntu wakusasa, ukuvuka ecaleni kwakho kuhlala kuzisa uncumo ebusweni bam.
- Ukuba kunye nawe bekungumsinga ohleliyo wokuhleka, uvuyo, kunye namava amangalisayo.
- Andizange ndibuze iqabane elingcono, umntu onokuzithemba, kunye nomhlobo osenyongweni.
- Ndinombulelo ngemizabalazo esijongene nayo ngenxa yokuba sikhule kunye njengesibini.
Iimpawu ezintsha zobudlelwane kuye
Unokuziva ubotshelelwe lulwimi xa kufikwa ekwabelaneni ngeemvakalelo zakho zokwenyani malunga neqabane lakho.Yabelana ezi zimvo ekhadiniokanye emntwini ukubonisa iqabane lakho indlela oziva ngayo ngayo:
- Ndiyabulela ukuba kunye nomntu onentliziyo enothando.
- Akukho mntu wakha wandenza ndakuhleka kabuhlungu njengawe, kwaye kum, akukho nto isondeleyo kunaleyo.
- Isimo sakho esisemgangathweni, esikhathalayo sesinye sezizathu zokuba ndikuthande kangaka.
- Uyandikhuthaza yonke imihla ukuba ndiphile ubomi ngokuzeleyo, kwaye ndijonge phambili kwizinto ezininzi ezintsha kunye.
- Andikaze ndimthande umntu onje ngaphambili, kwaye ndiziva ndinethamsanqa lokuba nawe ebomini bam.
Abantu abadumileyo kuthando olutsha
Ukuba ufuna iikowuti ezithile ezaziwayo kubudlelwane bothando obutsha, qaphela ukuba la manani ezembali kunye nosaziwayo banamhlanje bacinga ngovuyo, uloyiko, ukuxhonywa kunye nokumangaliswa kolwalamano olutsha.
UKirsten Dunst
UKirsten Dunst ngobabalo wasuka kwinkwenkwezi yomntwana oqaqambileyo waya kwintokazi ekhokelayo engakhange abetheke njengoko wayekhula phambi kwamehlo ethu eneendima ezinjengeLux Lisbon kwifilimu eqaqambileyo Ukuzibulala kweVirgin . Yena ibonakalisiwe ngekhe ulawule ukuba ngubani othandana naye okanye xa uwa. Nokuba ulwalamano lutsha, kwaye isenokungabi lixesha elihle ebomini bakho, ukuwa eluthandweni kwenzeka ngokwendalo.
UEleanor Roosevelt
U-Eleanor Roosevelt waziwa ngokuba ngumfazi othembekileyo kaMongameli uFranklin D. Roosevelt kunye nezinto ezininzi azenzileyo kunye nokusebenza kwakhe. Xa kuziwa kubudlelwane obutsha, u-Eleanor Roosevelt wayenjalo inyani . Waziva ukuba abantu bazibamba iintliziyo zabo ngenxa yokoyika ukwaliwa kwabo bafuna.
Kukho iNtshona
Akuzange kubekho mntu uoyikayo kwingxelo enempikiswano, umntu owonwabisayo we-eclectic Mae West waziva ukuba abantu kufuneka banikwe ithuba lesibini emva kokuqhekeka ... kodwa ukuba ithuba lesibini kufuneka libe kunye namaqabane amatsha! Kwakungekho xhala malunga nokubuyela kwimfundiso yakhe.
INkosi Byron
Njengenkokheli yentshukumo yamaRoma kunye nembongi edumileyo, u-Lord Byron wayenento eninzi ayithethayo ngothando. Xa kufikwa kubudlelwane obuhlumayo, Lord Byron ibonakalisiwe uluvo lwakhe lokuba ubuhlobo, ngamanye amaxesha, bunokujika bube luthando, kodwa akazange acinge ukuba uthando lungaze lubuyele kubuhlobo nje xa sele ziqalile iintlantsi.
UShelley Long
Umlingisi ophumelele i-Emmy uShelley Long ukonwabele umsebenzi oncomekayo, kwaye mhlawumbi waziwa kakhulu njengoDiane Chambers Masinwabe . UDiane noSam bahlala bengumqondiso wezithandani ezithandwayo ze-1980 zikamabonwakude. UShelley Long wayene ukucaphula oko kwakuhambelana ikakhulu nolwalamano olutsha. Uye wacinga ukuba, ukuba awunikezeli okanye uyeke okanye ubaleke xa kuhamba kunzima, unokuma kuphela kuphumelele ubudlelwane.
UAnna Sexton
U-Anna Sexton wayeyimbongi ephumelele amabhaso ePulitzer owaphumelela ukuthandwa kunye nokudunyiswa. Xa kuziwa kubudlelwane obutsha, wayeziva ukuba abanakukhanyelwa okanye bafihlwe. Nokuba incinci kwaye intsha, wayecinga ukuba kunjalo njengokukhohlela , into etyhilwe ngokulula ngaphandle kokukhetha.
Usebenzisa iikowuti ukunceda ubudlelwane bakho obuqhakazileyo
Ngala macaphulo unokufumana amagama ezinye zezinto ezibhidisayo zothando olutsha oluthembisa ukuba yinto enzulu ebomini bakho. Unokukhetha ukusebenzisa ezi ngcaphuno ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:
- Izipho -Ukuba izinto ziba nzulu ngesantya esikhawulezayo, unokufuna ukusebenzisa isicatshulwa esitsha sobudlelwane kwihempe, ikomityi, okanye kwityathanga lesitshixo ukuze uthando lwakho lukwaziYonwabela isikhumbuzi seemvakalelo zakhoamaxesha ngamaxesha.
- Amakhadi eSentimental - Xa ulaphoUkubhala amakhadi emibulisokwisithandwa sakho, unokukhetha ukufaka isicatshulwa okanye ezimbini ngamagama akho okuqala.
- Amaphepha eendaba ezentlalo -Ungaphonsa isicatshulwa esinye okanye ezibini malunga nobudlelwane obutsha kumaphepha akho eendaba ezentlalo. Inokuba yingcebiso echuliweyo kulowo umthandayo, kodwa ikwabonelela ngomqolo wokuba isithuba esingaqondakaliyo.
- Izimbo zomntu zothando -Ukuba ufuna ukuthakazela intombi yakho entsha okanye isoka, unokukhethaThetha ngothandoxa uphumile kumhla. Ukufunda isicatshulwa sendalo ezimbalwa kunokukunceda ugcine upholile xa uxinzelelo lushushu ukuya kwi-wax poetic malunga nolwalamano lwakho.
Ukhetho alunamda ngokwenene xa kuziwa kwindlela onokwenza ngayoSebenzisa isicatshulwa malunga nobudlelwane obutsha. Ungafumanisa ukuba ezi zicatshulwa ziyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze ezakho. Zama ukubathetha ngokuvakalayo okanye ubhale phantsi, emva koko ufumanise ukuba zeziphi ezifanelekileyo kwilizwi kunye neemvakalelo zakho.
Uthando lusemoyeni
Jika kwezi ngcaphuno xa ufuna inkuthazo okanye inkuthazo kubudlelwane bakho obutsha. Xa ufuna isiqwenga seprozi sokuhambisa oko kusentliziyweni yakho, buyela apha kwaye ufunde ngokuntsokotha kobudlelwane obutsha kubo bonke ubuqaqawuli babo.
