Amehlo adla ngokubizwa ngokuba ziifestile zomphefumlo, ezibonisa ezona ngcinga neemvakalelo zomntu. Banamandla okunxibelelana ngaphandle kwamagama, ukudlulisela iimvakalelo zothando, usizi, uvuyo, nokunye.
indlela yokufumana iblitshi kwimpahla
Ukutyhubela imbali, iimbongi, ababhali namagcisa baye bathabatheka bubuhle nemfihlelo yamehlo, bewasebenzisa njengomthombo wokhuthazo kumsebenzi wabo. Ukusuka kuShakespeare ukuya kuFrida Kahlo, amehlo abe yimpembelelo ebalaseleyo kubugcisa kunye noncwadi, ebonisa yonke into ukusuka kwinkanuko ukuya kubulumko.
Sijoyine kuhambo ngokusebenzisa ezinye zezona catshulwa zikhangayo malunga namandla kunye nobuhle bamehlo, kwaye ufumanise impembelelo enzulu abanayo kubomi bethu kunye nombono wethu wehlabathi.
Bona kwakho: Ukubhiyozela iMihla yokuzalwa yaseZulwini ngokuThanda kunye neNkhumbuzo
Ukujonga nzulu: Iingcaphuno ezibonisa ubunzulu bamehlo
'Umphefumlo, ngethamsanqa, unetoliki - amaxesha amaninzi engazi nto kodwa eseyitoliki ethembekileyo - emehlweni.' - UCharlotte Brontë
Bona kwakho: Ukudala imiyalezo yokuzalwa esuka entliziyweni kunye neyenzelwe abantu basetyhini abangaqhelekanga ebomini bakho.
'Amehlo aziifestile zomphefumlo.' - Iqhalo lemveli
Bona kwakho: INyaniso eyolisayo okanye imibuzo eyoyikisayo yokongeza ulonwabo kubusuku bomdlalo wakho kuye wonke umntu!
'Ubuhle obuzibhekisayo emehlweni buya kupela nje okomzuzwana; iliso lomzimba alisoloko lilelomphefumlo.' -George Sand
'Amehlo ayakhwaza oko imilebe yoyika ukuyithetha.' - UWilliam Henry
Yintoni isicatshulwa esinamandla malunga namehlo?
'Amehlo ziifestile zomphefumlo.'
Esi sicatshulwa sinzulu sigxininisa ingcamango yokuba umntu unokubona nzulu kwiingcamango ezinzulu zomntu, iimvakalelo kunye nomlingiswa ngokujonga nje emehlweni abo. Amehlo anamandla okutyhila iimvakalelo, iinjongo neenyaniso ezingenakuchazwa ngamazwi. Luphawu olunamandla nolunomtsalane olunokudlulisela intaphane yeemvakalelo ngaphandle kokukhupha negama elinye.
Yintoni isicatshulwa esiqhelekileyo malunga namehlo?
'Amehlo ayifestile emphefumlweni.'
Enye yezona ngcaphulo zidumileyo nezingaphelelwa lixesha malunga namehlo, le ntetho igxininisa ingcamango yokuba amehlo omntu anokutyhila iingcinga, iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zokwenene. Amehlo anamandla okunxibelelana ngaphandle kwamagama yaye anokudlulisela inkcazelo eninzi ngomntu wangaphakathi.
Yintoni isicatshulwa malunga nokujonga kwimbonakalo?
Sithini isicatshulwa malunga nokubona ngamehlo amatsha?
Enye yeengcaphuno ezidumileyo malunga nokubona ngamehlo amatsha nguMarcel Proust: 'Uhambo lwangempela lokufumanisa alubandakanyi ukufuna imihlaba emitsha, kodwa ekubeni namehlo amatsha.' Esi sicatshulwa sinamandla sigxininisa ingcamango yokuba ukuqonda okuyinyaniso kunye nokukhula kuvela ekutshintsheni imbono yethu kunye nokubona ihlabathi ngokukhanya okutsha. Ngokusondela kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ngamehlo amatsha, sinokutyhila ubuhle obufihliweyo kunye nentsingiselo ebingabonwa ngaphambili.
Quotes Romantic Ukubhiyozela Ubuhle bamehlo kuThando
2. 'Amehlo akho ziifestile kwihlabathi apho ndilahlekelwa khona kwaye ndifumana uthando olungenasiphelo.' -Akwaziwa
3. 'Ndingatshona kulwandle lwamehlo akho ndingaze ndifune ukuhlangulwa.' -Akwaziwa
4. 'Xa ndijonga emehlweni akho, ndibona indalo yonke yothando kunye nomdla ovutha umphefumlo wam.' -Akwaziwa
5 Amehlo akho asibambe isitshixo sentliziyo yam; -Akwaziwa
Yintoni isicatshulwa sothando malunga namehlo?
'Ndingatshona emehlweni akho ndingaze ndiphinde ndize emoyeni.'
Yintoni isicatshulwa esikhethekileyo samehlo?
'Amehlo sisipili somphefumlo.' - Isaci Yiddish
'Ubuhle bomfazi kufuneka bubonakale emehlweni akhe kuba lowo ngumnyango wentliziyo yakhe, indawo apho uthando luhlala khona.' -Audrey Hepburn
“Kumehlo amahle, khangela okulungileyo kwabanye; ngenxa yomlomo omhle, thetha kuphela amazwi obubele; ukuze uzole, hamba usazi ukuba akuwedwa.” -Audrey Hepburn
Xa amehlo ethu adibana neengcaphuno zothando?
Kukho uhlobo olukhethekileyo lomlingo xa amehlo ethu edibana, uxhulumaniso oluhamba ngaphaya kwamagama. Nazi ezinye iikowuti ezithandekayo ezithatha amandla kunye nobuhle bothando ekuqaleni kokubona:
'Xa amehlo ethu adibana, ndaziva uxhulumaniso olukhawulezayo, njengokungathi imiphefumlo yethu iyazana ukusuka kubomi obudlulileyo.'
'Emehlweni akho, ndifumene imbonakalo yokwenene yam, kwaye ngaloo mzuzu, ndazi ukuba ndilifumene ikhaya lam.'
'Indlela amehlo akho awayekhanyise ngayo xa edibana nawam, ndandisazi ukuba ekugqibeleni ndiyifumene inxalenye yentliziyo yam.'
'Xa amehlo ethu etshixiwe, ixesha lema ngxi, yaye ngelo xesha, ndaqonda ukuba nguwe lo bendimfuna.'
'Kukho ulwimi emehlweni akho oluthetha ngqo nentliziyo yam, incoko ethe cwaka ethetha yonke into ngaphandle kwelizwi.'
Uthini ngamehlo amahle?
Amehlo amahle afana namatye anqabileyo akhazimlayo kwaye akhazimlayo, athimba ukukhanya kwaye abonakalisa ubunzulu bomphefumlo. Banamandla okudlulisa iimvakalelo, ukubalisa amabali, kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye kwinqanaba elinzulu.
Xa ujonge emehlweni amahle, ubona umhlaba ngokukhanya okwahlukileyo, ngokungathi ujonge kwindalo yonke yamathuba angenasiphelo kunye neemfihlakalo ezifihliweyo. Ziifestile zomphefumlo, ezityhila iingcamango neemvakalelo zomntu.
Kukho into ehlekisayo malunga namehlo amahle akutsalelayo kwaye akushiye uthabathekile. Bayakwazi ukuthetha kakhulu ngaphandle kokukhupha nelizwi elinye, ukudlulisela uthando, usizi, uvuyo nolangazelelo ngokujonga nje krwada.
Amehlo amahle yimbonakaliso yobuhle bangaphakathi bomntu, imfudumalo, ububele novelwano. Banamandla okuchukumisa iintliziyo, ukuvuselela iingqondo zabo, baze bashiye imbono ehlala ihleli emva kokuba ixesha lidlulile.
Iingcaphuno kuMandla oQhagamshelwano lwamehlo kuBudlelwane
2. 'Ukudibana kwamehlo yindlela enamandla yokunxibelelana. Idlulisela iimvakalelo kwaye idala unxibelelwano olunzulu phakathi kwabantu ababini.' -Akwaziwa
3. 'Kwihlabathi apho amazwi adla ngokungasiphumeleliyo, ukujonga abantu emehlweni kunokuthetha kakhulu. Lulwimi oluthe cwaka oludlula imiqobo.' -Akwaziwa
4. 'Xa ujongana ngamehlo kunye nomntu omthandayo, kufana nehlabathi liyeka umzuzwana kwaye yonke into ebalulekileyo kukudibanisa kwamehlo akho.' -Akwaziwa
5. 'Ubunzulu bokudibana kwamehlo bunokwenza intlantsi phakathi kwabantu ababini engenakuze idluliselwe ngamazwi ewodwa. Ngumdaniso wemiphefumlo ngamehlo.' -Akwaziwa
Kubaluleke kangakanani ukudibana kwamehlo kubudlelwane?
Ukudibana kwamehlo kubalulekile kulo naluphi na ubudlelwane, nokuba luthando, ubuchwephesha, okanye iplatonic. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa amehlo ziifestile emphefumlweni, kwaye le mvakalelo ibambe inyaniso kwindawo yokunxibelelana kwabantu. Ukumjonga emehlweni kunokudlulisela ukuthembana, ukusondelelana nokuqondana ngaphandle kwemfuneko yamagama. Luhlobo olunamandla lonxibelelwano olungazenzisiyo olunokuthi lwenze nzulu amaqhina eemvakalelo kwaye lukhuthaze ukusondelelana phakathi kwabantu.
Kubudlelwane bothando, ukudibana kwamehlo kunokuba nentsingiselo ngakumbi. Kunokudala unxibelelwano kunye nothando phakathi kwamaqabane, ukuvumela ukuba babone ngokwenene kwaye baqonde omnye komnye kwinqanaba elinzulu. Ukudibana kwamehlo ngexesha lobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunokuqinisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini kunye nokwandisa unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo ababelana ngalo. Xa amaqabane egcina ukudibana kwamehlo, abonisa ingqalelo, intlonipho kunye nothando omnye komnye.
Ngaphaya koko, ukudibana kwamehlo kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kunxibelelwano kunye nokusombulula impixano phakathi kobudlelwane. Xa abantu bejongana emehlweni ebudeni bencoko okanye bengavisisani, oko kunokwenza kube lula uvelwano, ukuqonda nonxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Ukudibana kwamehlo kunokunceda amaqabane ukuba azive eviwe kwaye eqinisekisiwe, ekhokelela kubudlelwane obuphilileyo nobunye.
Ngokwenyani, ukudibana kwamehlo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokwakha nokugcina ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo. Idlulisela iimvakalelo, ikhuthaza ukusondelelana, kwaye yomeleza unxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu. Ngokuqaphela ukubaluleka kokudibana kwamehlo kunye nokubandakanya ekusebenzisaneni kwethu, sinokuphucula ubudlelwane bethu kwaye senze ubudlelwane obunzulu kunye nabo sibakhathalelayo.
Yintoni amandla okudibana kwamehlo eluthandweni?
Ukudibana kwamehlo sisixhobo esinamandla kunxibelelwano, ngakumbi kwimeko yothando. Xa abantu ababini abathandanayo bevala amehlo, kusekwa unxibelelwano olunzulu oluhamba ngaphaya kwamagama. Ukujongana phakathi kwezithandani kunokudlulisa uluhlu lweemvakalelo, ukusuka kwinkanuko kunye nomnqweno wokuthembana kunye nokusondelelana.
Ukudibana kwamehlo eluthandweni nako kukwazi ukwenza imvakalelo yokuba sesichengeni kunye nokuvuleleka phakathi kwamaqabane. Ngokujonga emehlweni omnye nomnye, abantu banokuziva bebonwa kwaye baqondwe kwinqanaba elinzulu, elikhokelela kubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye novakalelo olukhulu lonxibelelwano.
wazi njani ukuba inja ikhulelwe
| Amandla okudibana kwamehlo eluthandweni: |
| 1. Yandisa unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo |
| 2. Kwakha ukuthembana nobudlelwane obusondeleyo |
| 3. Uthetha ngeemvakalelo ngaphandle kwamagama |
| 4. Womeleza amaqhina phakathi kwamaqabane |
Yintoni isicatshulwa esinamandla malunga namehlo?
Esinye isicatshulwa esinamandla malunga namehlo sivela kuRalph Waldo Emerson: 'Amehlo abonisa ubudala bomphefumlo.'
Ukungena kuNxibelelwano phakathi kwamehlo nomphefumlo
Ukutyhubela imbali, amehlo agqalwa njengeefestile zomphefumlo, enika umbono weyona ngcinga neemvakalelo zomntu ezingaphakathi. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwamehlo nomphefumlo lunamandla kwaye luyimfihlakalo, kunye neenkcubeko ezininzi kunye neenkolelo ezibonisa ukubaluleka okukhethekileyo emehlweni.
Kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo zokomoya, kukholelwa ukuba amehlo ayisibuko somphefumlo, ebonisa undoqo wokwenene kunye neenjongo zomntu. Amehlo anokudlulisa uluhlu olubanzi lweemvakalelo, ukusuka kuvuyo kunye nothando ukuya kwintlungu kunye nentlungu, ukuvumela abanye ukuba badibanise nathi kwinqanaba elinzulu.
Ngokwembono yenzululwazi, amehlo ikwangamalungu anomdla adlala indima ebalulekileyo kwindlela esilibona ngayo ihlabathi elisingqongileyo. Indlela elintsonkothe ngayo iliso isenza sikwazi ukubona imibala, iimilo neenkcukacha, nto leyo esenza sikwazi ukujongisisa indawo esingqongileyo size sinxulumane nabanye.
Nokuba kungenxa yendalo yabo ecacileyo okanye umsebenzi wabo webhayoloji, amehlo abambe indawo ekhethekileyo kumava omntu, esebenza njengesango lokuziqonda kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye kwinqanaba elinzulu.
Luluphi unxibelelwano phakathi kwamehlo nomphefumlo?
Amehlo kudala zijongwa njenge iifestile emphefumlweni , njengoko ngokufuthi zigqalwa njengembonakaliso yeengcamango, iimvakalelo neenjongo zomntu. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwamehlo nomphefumlo lusekelwe ngokunzulu kwinkcubeko yoluntu kunye nembali, kunye neempucuko ezininzi zamandulo zikholelwa ukuba amehlo anentsingiselo engaqondakaliyo kunye neyomoya.
Kulo lonke uncwadi nobugcisa, amehlo adla ngokuboniswa njengemiqondiso yenyaniso, yobulumko, neyona nto ayiyo umntu. Kuthiwa zityhila ubume bokwenene bomntu yaye zinokudlulisela ubutyebi beemvakalelo ngaphandle kokuba kuthethwe negama elinye. Amehlo adla ngokubhekiselwa kuwo njengelona phawu lubonakalayo ebusweni bomntu, elikwaziyo ukunxibelelana ngothando, usizi, uvuyo, nayo yonke into ephakathi.
Xa umntu ejonga emehlweni omnye umntu, unokuziva enxibelelana kunye nokusondelana, njengokungathi ujonge ezinzulwini zomphefumlo wakhe. Amehlo anokubonisa ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, nokuba sesichengeni, kuwenza abe sisixhobo esinamandla sokunxibelelana nokuqondana phakathi kwabantu.
Ekugqibeleni, unxibelelwano phakathi kwamehlo nomphefumlo luyinkimbinkimbi kwaye lunamacala amaninzi, kunye namehlo asebenza njengendlela yokungena kwiingcamango ezingaphakathi kunye neemvakalelo zomntu. Ziyimpawu enamandla yeemvakalelo zomntu, ingqiqo, kunye nokudibanisa, kwaye ziqhubeka zithatha kwaye zikhuthaze abaculi, ababhali kunye nabacinga kwihlabathi jikelele.
Ngaba amehlo ayindlela yokungena emphefumlweni?
Ukutyhubela imbali, amehlo ebegqalwa njengeefestile zomphefumlo, enika umbono wezona ngcinga neemvakalelo zomntu. Intetho ethi ‘amehlo sisipili somphefumlo’ ibonisa ukuba ubani unokuyibona into ayiyo ngokwenene umntu ngokujonga emehlweni akhe. Amehlo anamandla okudlulisela iimvakalelo ezahlukahlukeneyo, ukususela kuvuyo nothando ukusa kunxunguphalo neentlungu, ngokufuthi ethetha kakhulu kungekho nelinye igama elithethayo.
Kwiinkcubeko ezininzi, amehlo akholelwa ukuba abambe ukubaluleka okungaqondakaliyo kunye nokomoya, esebenza njengesango lomphefumlo. Ingcamango yokuba umntu unokunxulumana nomnye kwinqanaba elinzulu ngokumjonga nje emehlweni ibonisa inkolelo yokuba amehlo atyhila umongo wobuntu bakhe. Amehlo anokubonakalisa ukunyaniseka, uvelwano nokunyaniseka, enze unxibelelwano olungaphaya kwamazwi nezenzo.
Ngaphezu koko, amehlo adla ngokucingelwa ukuba yimbonakaliso yomntu wangaphakathi, ebonisa ubuntu, ubuntu neenjongo zakhe. Anokutyhila iimvakalelo zomntu, iminqweno, noloyiko lwakhe, enikela ukuqonda ngeemvakalelo neengcinga zakhe zokwenene. Enoba kukujonga ngothando, ukugqobhoza, okanye ukuntywizisa, amehlo anamandla okunxibelelana oko kungasoloko kuthethwa ngamazwi.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuba amehlo okanye hayi ngokwenene ukungena emphefumlweni ngumcimbi wenkolelo kunye nokutolika komntu. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto iphikisana nendalo yamehlo ekhangayo kunye namandla, aqhubeka ebangela umdla kwaye asikhuthaze ngobuhle kunye nobunzulu.
Amehlo akho athini ngomphefumlo wakho?
Amehlo akho kuthiwa ziifestile zomphefumlo wakho, atyhila ubunzulu beemvakalelo zakho kunye neengcinga ezingaphakathi. Banokudlulisela inkcazelo eninzi ngaphandle kokuthetha negama elinye, bethetha kakhulu ngobuntu bakho, imvakalelo neenjongo zakho.
Ukuqhwanyaza kweliso lakho kusenokubonisa umoya okhohlakeleyo, ngoxa ukujonga okugqobhozayo kunokuthetha uzimiselo namandla. Ukuthamba kobuso bakho kusenokubonisa uvelwano novelwano, ngoxa amehlo athintelweyo anokubonisa ukuba neentloni okanye ukungazithembi.
Nokuba ziqaqambile kwaye ziyamenyezela okanye ziyaqaqamba kwaye ziyabonakalisa, amehlo akho abambe amandla okutsala kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye kwinqanaba elinzulu. Zisisipili emphefumlweni wakho, zityhila ubuhle kunye nobunzima ngaphakathi.
Kutheni amehlo esisitshixo somphefumlo?
Amehlo adla ngokubizwa ngokuba ziifestile zomphefumlo , njengoko zinokutyhila iimvakalelo zokwenene zomntu, iingcamango neenjongo zakhe. Zibhekwa njengesixhobo esinamandla sonxibelelwano kunye noqhagamshelwano , okusivumela ukuba siqhagamshelane nabanye kwinqanaba elinzulu kunamagama kuphela. Ngokujonga amehlo, sinokubonakalisa uvelwano, ukuqonda nothando , okwenza amehlo abe yinxalenye ebalulekileyo ekusebenzisaneni kwabantu.
Ngaphezu koko, kuthiwa amehlo yimbonakaliso yomntu wangaphakathi , ebonisa ubuntu nobuntu bethu. Banokudlulisela ukunyaniseka, inkanuko, uloyiko, okanye uvuyo ngaphandle kokukhupha negama elinye , okubenza babe sisixhobo esinamandla kunxibelelwano olungasebenzisi magama. Amehlo ethu anokungcatsha iimvakalelo zethu zokwenyani, nokuba sizama ukuzifihla , ezenza isango lokungena kwiingcamango neemvakalelo zethu ezingaphakathi.
Ngokubanzi, amehlo adlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuvezeni ubuntu bethu bokwenyani kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye kwinqanaba elinzulu . Babambe amandla awodwa okudlulisa iimvakalelo, ukwakha ubudlelwane, kunye nokutyhila eyona nto siyiyo , ebenza ngokwenene isitshixo somphefumlo.
