Ukuthumela umyalezo wovelwano ngeentyatyambo kunye nelungiselelo leentyatyambo kwikhaya lokungcwaba emva kokuba umntu eswelekile kulisiko kwinkcubeko yaseMelika. La malungiselelo ajikeleze ibhokisi ngexesha lomngcwabo njengendlela yokubonisa inkxaso nothando kulowo ungasekhoyo. Ukufunda imizekelo yemiyalezo yeentyatyambo zomngcwabo kunokukunceda ufumane amagama afanelekileyo kulungiselelo lwakho.
Iindinyana ezifutshane zamakhadi eentyatyambo zomngcwabo
Akukho magama okwenza ukufa kungaziva kubuhlungu, kodwa le miyalezo emifutshane yomngcwabo ibonisa uvelwano lwakho ngexesha elinzima. Khetha ukhetho olulungele ulwalamano lwakho nomfi kwaye luya kwamkelwa kakuhle.
- Umhlobo wethu uya kukhunjulwa namhlanje, ngomso, ngonaphakade.
- Uvelwano lwam olunzulu kubo bonke abahlobo kunye nosapho njengoko sihlangana ukuzukisa (igama lomntu ongasekhoyo).
- Njengentyatyambo entle, (igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) iinkumbulo ziya kutyatyamba ezintliziyweni zethu unyaka nonyaka.
- Ndicela uxolo ngokulahleka kwakho, kwanga isenzo sentuthuzelo singafikelela entliziyweni yakho.
- Siya kuhlala sikhumbula amaxesha amnandi, sifunde kokubi, kwaye siphilele umhlobo wethu.
- Ndiza kuhamba ecaleni kwakho ukuze ndibelane ngentlungu yakho kwaye ndikuncede ekunyangeni kwakho.
- Silapha ngenxa yakho, thatha into oyifunayo-uncedo, intuthuzelo, ixesha lokuba wedwa-kwaye siza kukupha ngovuyo.
- Xa ukufa kusinika usizi, sinikela ngezi ntyatyambo njengesiqholo sokuba ubuhle kunye nobomi buqhubeke.
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Imiyalezo elula yokuNgcwaba uMngcwabo kwabaSwelekileyo
Ukuba ukhetha ukuthumela iintyatyambo zomngcwabo njengomnikelo kulowo ungasekhoyo, thumela kuye loo nothi. Eli lithuba lakho lokuvalelisa okokugqibela okanye unikezele ngomyalezo wokugqibela malunga neemvakalelo zakho kumntu ophumeleleyo.
ingaba umyinge weminyaka eli-15 ubudala unesisindo esingakanani
- Ukuthumela uthando ngendlela yakho.
- Ukuthanda kwakulula, ukukuphosa kunzima.
- Kuba kufanelekile ukuba uhonjiswe kwaye uhombise.
- Ubomi bakho kunye nenkumbulo yakho iya kuhlala intle kum.
- Asinakuba nawe ngesiqu, kodwa sikunye nawe ngamaxesha onke.
- Namhlanje, sikubhiyozela njengoko sinjalo ezintliziyweni zethu ngonaphakade.
- Njengentyatyambo, awusoze ufe ngokwenyani ukuba siyasasaza iinkumbulo zakho ngonaphakade.
- Esi sisithembiso kuwe, ukuba siyakuxhasa usapho lwakho kwintlungu yabo kwimbeko yakho.
Iinkonzo zokuNgcwaba oMngcwabo iMizekelo
Ukuba wena okanye ongasekhoyo unobuhlobo obuqinileyo benkolo, ungazifaka ezo nkolelo kumyalezo wakho. Kulolu hlobo lomyalezo, unokubandakanya into oyithandayouvelwano vesi yeBhayibhile.
ukulala nomntu omdala
- Ukuphulukana kwethu kuyinzuzo kaThixo, ngamana ungafumana uxolo ebomini obungaphaya.
- Ndiza kujonga imiqondiso yonke imihla osenam, ndiyathandaza.
- Sala kakuhle ngoku othandekayo (dade, utata, umhlobo, njl. Ndiyazi ukuba siyakufumana kwakhona ngenye imini.
- Uyintsikelelo ebomini bethu kwaye uya kuqhubeka ukusisikelela ukusuka phezulu.
- Ngamana izandla zikaThixo zingakufumana ngobumnene bokukukhokelela ekhaya.
- Imithandazo yosapho ngexesha lale lahleko inzima. Wanga uThixo angakhokela iintliziyo zenu zibe noxolo.
- Ukufa akoyiki, kodwa kubhiyozelwa njengokubuyela ekhaya.
Imiyalezo yovelwano yeentyatyambo zomngcwabo ezivela kubantu osebenza nabo
Imiyalezo yeentyatyambo zomngcwabo womntu osebenza naye olahlekelwe ngumzali, umntwana, okanye elinye ilungu losapho kunokuba nzima ukubhala. Khangela imiyalezo ebhaliweyo evela kwiqela ukuba uthumela iintyatyambo zovelwano ezivela kwinkampani okanye kwisebe.
- Ukusuka kusapho lwakho olusebenzayo ukuya kusapho lwakho, sibuhlungu kakhulu ngelahleko yakho.
- Uvelwano lwethu olunzulu kuwe nakusapho lwakho ngeli xesha linzima.
- Ukulila ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa siyazi ukuba uyakwazi ukufumana unyango.
- Sicinga ngawe kunye nosapho lwakho namhlanje, ngethemba lokuba ezinye iimpiliso zivela ekubeni kunye.
- Ngamana namhlanje kungabhiyozelwa uthando kubo bonke abakhoyo.
- Esi senzo sincinci siza nenkathalo enkulu kuwe nakwintsapho yakho.
- Sikunye nawe ngomoya namhlanje, kwaye siza kuba lapha xa ubuya.
Imiyalezo ende yoSuku ngoNgcwaba Iintyatyambo
Abo banobudlelwane obusondeleyo nomfi okanye usapho banokunqwenela ukunika inqaku elide ngobunzulu. Ukuba ukhetha enye indlela, yigcine kwizivakalisi ezibini okanye ezithathu. Kuya kufuneka ukuba ulahle ikhadi eliqhelekileyo lokucwangciswa kweentyatyambo ukuze likhulu ukulungiselela umyalezo.
- Ndiyabulela ngokuthinta ubomi bam. Awusoze wazi ukuba ufikelele phi emphefumlweni. Uthando lwakho nobubele bakho bushiye uphawu oluya kuqhubeka ukuchukumisa abanye, ke umoya wakho uya kuhlala uphila.
- Kulusizi nakumbhiyozo sima kunye silusapho ukusebenza ngeli xesha linzima. Kanye njengokuba sihamba ebomini kunye, siyakufumana indlela yokuhamba kwintlungu yokufa.
- (Utata, umama, umalumekazi, njl njl.) Wayesisipho sam nangoku ebomini bam. Xa ndandingayilindelanga kwaphela, wavela kwaye wandinika uvuyo olukhulu andinakuze ndilubuyise.
- Akukho ndlela yokubonisa usizi lwam ngenxa yakho, ke ndiza kuyithetha kuphela kwendlela endazi ngayo: Ndicela uxolo ngokulahleka kwakho kunye nentlungu yakho.
- Abanye abantu basiphawula ngobubele babo, uthando kunye nomdla. (Igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) ngumntu oshiye uphawu lungabonakali kubo bonke kodwa kwiliso eliqeqeshiweyo elinokubona iqhekeza lakhe kuthi sonke.
- Namhlanje sisiqalo sohambo olunzima lokuvalelisa. Siza kuhamba ecaleni kwakho njengoko usentlungwini, sikuxhase kabuhlungu kunye nakovuyo lweenkumbulo.
- Isipho sobomi sisipho esiqhubeka sinika. (Igama likaMfi) ubomi basinike sonke into ekhethekileyo, kwaye ngamnye wethu uya kunika esinye isipho.
- Siyaxolisa ukuba asinakuba nawe namhlanje njengoko usivalelisa (kwigama lomfi). Nceda uyazi ukuba sicinga ngaye kunye nawe njengoko nihlangana kunye embekweni wakhe.
- Ukuthumela uvelwano lwethu olunzulu nothando kubo bonke abasentlungwini yokuswelekelwa ngumntu abamthandayo namhlanje. Thatha uvuyo ngokwazi ukuba sonke siqhagamshelwe luthando kunye (negama lomfi).
Ukuvala amabinzana eentyatyambo zomngcwabo
Amabinzana amafutshane, akhawulezayo anokusetyenziswa yedwa okanye emva komnye wemiyalezo yangaphambili. Ngalunye loku kuvalwa kufuneka kulandelwe ngamagama abo bonke abantu abenza amalungiselelo.
- Ngeminqweno yokuphilisa
- Ukusuka ezintliziyweni zethu ukuya kwezakho
- Ngovelwano sabelana
- Ukuthanda nokukhumbula
- Ukubhiyozela ubomi
Ukuphefumlelwa kweMiyalezo yovelwano
Umyalezo onovelwano yindlela yokuthuthuzela abahlobo kunye nosapho okanye uthumele umyalezo wokugqibela kulowo ungasekhoyo. Kuxhomekeke kubudlelwane bakho, ungasebenzisa iivesi zeBhayibhile, iikowuti ezidumileyo, imibongo kunye neengoma zomculo njengomyalezo wakho. Ukufumana amanye amazwi, thatha inkuthazo evela:
ukucoca amabala amanzi anzima kwiglasi
- Imiyalezo emifutshane yamakhadi okufelwa inikezela ngamazwi entuthuzelo nosizi.
- Imiyalezo emide enje ngovelwano ngokuswelekelwa ngumntwana okanye umzali yenza ingqiqo kumakhadi ezipho kunye namalungiselelo kuba afunda njengemibongo kwaye anika intuthuzelo.
- Sebenzisa nantoni na onokuyithetha buqu emntwini osentlungwini. Thatha ithuba lokuphinda iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokunikezela.
Umhlalaphantsi wokugqibela
Inqaku eliqhotyoshelwe kwiintyatyambo zomngcwabo lithuba lakho lokuvalelisa umhlobo okanye ilungu losapho elingasekho nawe. Ikwalithuba lokwazisa ezinye izalamane okanye abahlobo abasondeleyo ukuba uziva njani. Nokuba ungakhetha oluphi uhlobo lomyalezo, qiniseka ukuba uvela entliziyweni yakho.
