Ukufumanisa ukuba uza kuthini kunye nendlela yokukhumbula umhlobo oswelekileyo kunzima kwabo baphakathi kwentlungu. Nokuba ujonge into oza kuyithetha kwisikhumbuzo okanye emngcwabeni, into oza kuyithetha kumalungu osapho lomhlobo wakho, okanye ungathanda amagama akhuthazayo nahlaziyayo okukunceda ukuba ube buhlungu, iikowuti zinokukunceda ufumane indlela elungileyo yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho.
Ukukhumbula uMhlobo oDlule kwiZicaphuno
Iingcaphuno malunga nokusweleka komhlobo zinokukunceda wena kunye namalungu osapho lomhlobo wakho ongasekhoyo kunyeInkqubo ebuhlungu. Ezi ngcaphuno zibonisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwabahlobo:
- 'Umhlobo wenene akasokuze ahambe. Umoya wabo uhlala kwiinkumbulo zabo babebathanda. '
- Umanyano phakathi kwabahlobo ungaphaya kwehlabathi elinokufa. Ndisenokuziva [igama lomhlobo] kunye nam yonke imihla, indinceda ndigqibe. Unam, kunye nawe, ngonaphakade. '
- Bathi abahlobo lusapho esilukhethayo. Ukukhethwa lelona xesha lakha lalikhulu ebomini bam kwaye xa igama lika [Mhlobo] lidlulile, lelona xesha lokugqibela ebomini bam. '
- Ubuhlobo bungaphaya kokufa. Iinkumbulo ezenziwe azinakuze zilibaleke kwaye zidale umbono ongapheliyo kwabo babashiye ngasemva. Wonke umntu waba ngumntu olunge ngakumbi ngokuba nomhlobo omnandi kangaka. '
- Ukuthi ndlela-ntle ayisiyethu. Endaweni yoko, ndiza kuthi ndijonge phambili ekuboneni umhlobo wam kwakhona, ngalo lonke ixesha ndikhunjuzwa ngaye ngebinzana, isiqhulo, kwanenqaku lempahla. Ezi zizinto ezizakusigcina sisondele nangona siswelekile. '
- 'Abahlobo abasenyongweni bayazi ukuba babethandwa ngenxa yobomi babo kwaye baya kukhunjulwa ngentliziyo yabo ekufeni kwabo.'
- 'Umhlobo omkhulu yinto ekufuneka igcinwe, nokuba bahlala ecaleni kwam kobu bomi okanye bandilinde kobuzayo.'
- 'Abahlobo abathandekayo ngabo bazaziyo iintliziyo zethu, iingqondo zethu kwaye bakhethe thina njengabahlobo babo. Naxa sele begqithile kubomi obulandelayo, ndiziva ndibakhuthaza ukuba ndibengoyena mntu ubalaseleyo kum. '
- Ukuhlonipha ukusweleka komhlobo ngokwenyani kukuhlonipha ubomi babo. Ukuphelelwa lithemba malunga nokuba ibiyintoni na, kodwa vuya kwaye ucinge ukuba bekukho ntoni. '
- Ukuphulukana kobuhlobo ngokufa liqabane elikhohlakeleyo nelingabandiyo. Ubushushu bufumaneka ngeenkumbulo ezimyoli, ngoko ke zigobe xa usenza loo nto. '
- 'Kungcono ukuba ndikwazi, kungcono ukukuthanda, kungcono ukudibana nawe. Wanga ungasikelelwa kubomi obuzayo, mhlobo wam, njengoko ndandinjalo kule ndiyazi.
- Iingcaphuno ezingama-40 zokutshata kwabantu abatshatileyo zokukhuthaza kunye nokuthuthuzela
- Ukuhambisa ukufa kwamaQabane amaQabane
- Indlela yokufumana intuthuzelo embindini wentlungu
Amagqabantshintshi amafutshane malunga nokufa komhlobo
Isicatshulwa esifutshane sidlulisa iimvakalelo zakho kwaye lulongezo oluhle kwikhadi lovelwano. Yongeza isicatshulwa esifutshane kwifoto yomhlobo wakho, nayo, ukukunceda ubakhumbule kwaye uphefumlelwe ngobomi babo. Izicatshulwa ezimfutshane zokuqwalaselwa zibandakanya:
- 'Umhlobo wam wayonwabile ngokuhlekisayo ebomini, ke masibubhiyozele obo bomi kunokuba sikhalele ukufa.'
- Ukusweleka komhlobo lusizi olukhulu kubo bonke ababemthanda. Ndiyalila ubuhlobo bakhe. '
- 'Ukuhamba yonke le ndlela yobuhlobo wedwa kuyaphula intliziyo.'
- 'Akukho nkumbulo inkulu kunesandi sokuhleka komhlobo. Ngamana ungasiphelisa isandi sokukhala kwam. '
- 'Umhlobo emoyeni, ngokwenene. Masikukhumbule njengokuba wawunjalo ebomini. '
- 'Ubuhlobo lunxibelelwano olunganciphisi ekufeni kodwa endaweni yoko luyomelela kwabo bakhumbulayo.'
- 'Abahlobo abakuthandileyo ebomini baya kukuxabisa ekufeni.'
- Ukuphulukana nomhlobo wakho kufana nokuphulukana nomntakwenu ongazange waba naye. Umzuzu obhubhisayo oya kukutshintsha ngonaphakade. '
- 'Ubomi bam babusikelelwe ngobuhlobo bakho. Ungazifumana iintsikelelo kubomi obulandelayo, mhlobo othandekayo. '
Iingcaphuno Ngokufa Komhlobo Ohambe Kungekudala
Intlungu ihlala ihlukile xa umhlobo esweleka ngenxa yokugula okanye ingozi. Eziiikowuti ezilusiziinokukunceda ukuba ubonise into ongenakukwazi ukuyenza ngokwakho:
- 'Umhlobo osenyongweni umkile ngokukhawuleza yintlekele. Kodwa into ebinokuba mandundu kukuze angaze adibane naye. Ndinombulelo ngokuba ndibengumhlobo [wegama likaMhlobo] ebomini kwaye ndizakuqhubekeka ukuba ngumhlobo wakhe ekufeni, ndimnika imbeko kuko konke endikwenzayo. '
- 'Masibe buhlungu ngenxa yebhondi esabelana ngayo kunye neebond esingakhange sifumane thuba lokwenza zona, kuba uphumelele kwakamsinya mhlobo wam.'
- '' Ixabiso lobuhlobo bethu alinakulinganiswa. Ndingabhatala nantoni na ukuze ndikubuyisele umzuzu omnye, ngememori enye. Ndiyakukhumbula.'
- Ukuthi ndlela-ntle le nto kungekudala iziva ingalunganga. Ke endaweni yoko, ndiza kuthi 'ndiyakuthanda' kwaye ndiyazi ukuba uhlala unam rhoqo. '
- Xa ubuhlobo busishiya ngokufa, siziva sikhohlisiwe ebomini. Ubomi abudlalani ngokulingeneyo, ke ndithembisa ukusiphumelela sobabini.
- 'Iinyembezi ziwa ngokukhululekileyo kukusweleka komhlobo wam. Ukulila ngonaphakade akunakubonakalisa ubunzulu beemvakalelo zam zokulahleka. '
- 'Ubuhlobo obenziwe ebomini buqhekeka ekufeni. Uthando esabelana ngalo luhlala lungaqhawuki. '
- '[Igama lomhlobo] wakhe wandibiza ngokuba' ngumhlobo omkhulu. ' Ndimkhumbula kakhulu kwaye ndizukisekile ngokumbiza ngokuba ngumhlobo wam osenyongweni. '
- 'Umhlobo othathwe ebomini kwakamsinya akayonto ngaphandle kwentlekele. Ukufa kwakhe kuchaphazela wonke umntu owayemazi kwaye emthanda. Siza kulihlonipha ilifa lakhe kwaye simkhumbule rhoqo. '
- 'Abahlobo abadlulela kubomi obulandelayo basilindile ngalo lonke ixesha sivale amehlo ethu. Iphupha ngalinye kunye nenkumbulo apho sidibana khona kwakhona ziyimilingo kum. '
Iingcaphuno zebhayibhile malunga nokufa komhlobo
Iingcaphuno zenkolo zihlala zithuthuzela abantu abathembekileyo phakathi kwentlungu. Njonga iiivesi zeBhayibhileukukukhokela kwintlungu yakho phezu komhlobo wakho. Ezi ngcaphuno zinokufaneleka, kuxhomekeke kwimvakalelo ofuna ukuyidlulisa:
- Ngokuba akumnandi kum ukufa kofayo; itsho iNkosi uYehova. Guquka, uphile. UHEZEKILE 18:32 INguqulelo Yehlabathi Elitsha , VIN)
- Banoyolo abakhedamileyo; ngokuba baya konwatyiswa bona. UMateyu 5: 4 VIN )
- 'Ndiyambulela uThixo wam ngalo lonke ixesha ndikukhumbula.' - KwabaseFilipi 1: 3 ( VIN )
- “Ingaphela inyama yam nentliziyo yam: Iliwa lentliziyo yam, nesabelo sam, nguThixo ngonaphakade. IINDUMISO 73:26 Inguqulelo kaKing James , KJV)
- 'Kuxabisekile emehlweni eNkosi ukufa kwabangcwele bayo.' - INdumiso 116: 15 ( KJV )
- Makabongwe uThixo, uYise weNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, uYise onenceba noThixo wentuthuzelo yonke; Osithuthuzelayo kuyo yonke imbandezelo yethu, ukuze sibe nako ukubathuthuzela abakwinto yonke eyimbandezelo, ngayo intuthuzelo nathi ngokwethu esithuthuzelwa ngayo nguThixo. - 2 kwabaseKorinte 1: 3-4 ( KJV )
- UYesu wathi kuye, Inene, ndithi kuwe, Namhlanje uya kuba nam eParadisi. ULuka 23:43 KJV )
- Ulophilisa abaphuke intliziyo, Abophe amanxeba abo. IINDUMISO 147: 3 Inguqulelo yesiNgesi , I-ESV)
- 'Zithobeni, ke ngoko, phantsi kwesandla esinamandla sikaThixo ukuze ngexesha elifanelekileyo aniphakamise, niliphose kuye lonke ixhala lenu, kuba unikhathalele .'-- 1 Petros 5: 6-7 ( I-ESV )
- Azisule uThixo zonke iinyembezi emehlweni abo, Kungabi sabakho kufa, Kungabi sabakho nasijwili, nakukhala, nantlungu; Ngokuba izinto zokuqala zigqithile. - IsiTyhilelo 21: 4 ( I-ESV )
Ukuthuthuzela nokuphefumlelwa ngexesha losizi
Xa umntu osondeleyo kuwe esweleka, nguixesha lokuzila. Sebenzisa iikowuti kukukunceda ufumane intuthuzelo, kunye nokuphefumlelwa, ngeli xesha yenye yeendlela zokuqhubekeka kwentlungu yakho.
