Uyamthanda, kwayeucinga uyakuthanda. Kodwa, udityaniswa lulwimi kwaye unovalo kwifowuni. Ingxoxo yakho mayingapholi ngokungabi nayoizihloko zokuxoxa. Ukuba noluhlu lwezinto onokuthetha ngazo emnxebeni kunokuqinisekisa ukuba awuyongqina kuloo ntoukuthula okungathethekiyokunye novalo olungaqhelekanga. Kwaye khumbula, ezi zihloko ayisosikripthi, sisikhokelo sezinto ekunokuthethwa ngazo kwifowuni ukugcina incoko ihamba ngokwendalo.
Uluhlu lweSampula yezihloko ezinomdla zokuThetha malunga
Ukuba ufuna ukunqanda ukuthula okungathandekiyo, yenza uluhlu lwezihloko. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukubhala incoko yakho; Uluhlu lwakho lwezihloko kufuneka lube njengemixholo yento oza kuyithetha ukuze uphephe u-'um 'owoyikekayo okanye okubi ngakumbi, ikhefu elide, elingenanto. Olu luhlu lulandelayo luluhlu lwezihloko ezilungileyo onokuthi uzisebenzise ukuzalisa naziphi na iindawo ezingenanto kwiincoko yakho:
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Izinto ezili-10 ekufuneka zenziwe ngoMhla wokuqala
- I-8 Iimbono zezipho zothando kuye
- Imifanekiso emi-10 emihle yeziBini ezithandanayo
Imibuzo ngokubanzi
- Thetha ngezinto anomdla kuzo umntu
- Xoxa ngeefilimu ezithandwayo
- Xoxa ngeenkqubo ozithandayo zikamabonwakude
- Buza imibuzo 'ukuba uza kuthini'
- Indawo yeholide emnandi
- Umhla omnandi
- Umsebenzi omnandi
- Iinjongo zobuqu nezobungcali
- Thetha umculo, owadlulayo, wangoku kunye nexesha elizayo
- Thetha ukutya okuthandayo, iimuvi kunye neendawo zokundwendwela
- Fumanisa ukuba uthanda ukwenza ntoni ngexesha lakhe lasimahla kunye nokuba wenza kangaphi ( USean Cooper, uShyness kunye noMntu oXhalabisayo kwiNtlalo , ucebisa ukubuza imibuzo ethe kratya enje, 'Uyasidlala isixhobo?' okanye 'Uyakuthanda ukudanisa?' njengokuba)
- Thetha malunga neeklasi zakho ozithandayo, nokuba usesikolweni kunye okanye ukhumbula malunga nexesha elidlulileyo
- Xoxa ngeencwadi zakho ozithandayo
- Leliphi elona phupha lakha lamangalisa?
- Mbuze ukuba ukhulele phi
- Buza ukuba uneqela elikhulu labahlobo okanye nje ezimbalwa ezilungileyo, ezisondeleyo zabahlobo
- Fumanisa into ayenzileyo kwimpelaveki edlulileyo (oku kungakunika umbono wokuba uyathanda na ukuya ethekweni okanye ukhetha ukuhlwa okuzolileyo)
Imibuzo yobudlelwane
- Yabelana crazy ukuthandana amabali (okanye ubuze nje ngomhla wakhe wokuqala, ezifana Ubuhle icebisa)
- Buza ukuba yintoni abantu abothusayo ngokufumanisa ngaye, okanye ngabaphi abantu abamncomayo (ngaphandle kwembonakalo yakhe)
- Mbuze ukuba uziva njani malunga nendima yesini.
Imibuzo yosapho
- Mbuze malunga nezalamane zakhe ezindala kakhulu ezihlala kunye nobudlelwane bakhe nabo.
- Zithini ezinye izithethe zosapho ezithile kusapho lwakhe?
- Ukuba awukadibani nabazali bakhe, buza ukuba ungalindela ntoni xa udibana nabo.
- Lubaluleke kangakanani usapho kuye?
- Zithini ezinye izithethe zosapho ezithile kusapho lwakhe?
- Ngaba ufana nomama wakhe okanye utata wakhe - okanye akakho?
Ukuhlala kulo mzuzu
- Mcele ukuba achaze ngokweenkcukacha yonke into anokuyibona ngoku.
- Thetha malunga nokuba ngubani onokumazi ngokufanayo ukufumana unxibelelwano esele lukhona.
- Yiba nencoko apho omnye nomnye anike igama elinye de ibe sisivakalisi esihambelanayo.
- Mcele ukuba achaze inkangeleko yakho, njengombala wamehlo akho kunye nokumila kobuso bakho.
- Mxelele ukuba achaze usuku lwakho kuwe, kodwa kufuneka enze zonke iinkcukacha.
- Ukuba kwafuneka aqale ngaphezulu kobomi bakhe kwisixeko esitsha ngokupheleleyo, ibiya kuba phi kwaye yahluke njani kubomi ngoku?
Ukuba sesichengeni
- Mcele ukuba akuxelele ngolona suku lunzima awakhe waphila kulo.
- Thetha naye malunga nokomoya, nokuba kubalulekile okanye akunjalo.
- Wagqibela nini ukuvavanya ukuba uxelelwa lizwi lakhe elingaphakathi?
- Wagqibela nini ukusebenza ngenene kwinto ethile?
- Wenza ntoni xa efuna ukucoca ingqondo yakhe?
- Yintoni emenza ahluke kwabanye abantu?
- Ngaba ucinga ukuba uswele okanye uzimele?
- Xa kuvela ithuba, ngaba uyalitsibela okanye ulumkile?
Ukucutha nzulu
- Mbuze ukuba angabhala incwadi, ingaba ingantoni.
- Yeyiphi ingoma ethetha naye, kwaye ngoba?
- Ukuba angangena nakweyiphi na ivenkile kwaye afumane yonke into abayifunayo simahla, ingaba yeyiphi ivenkile kwaye baya kuqala ntoni?
- Ngaba wakhe wathatha inxaxheba kuqhankqalazo?
- Yintoni evakalelwa kukuba yeyona nto ingacingelwanga abantu abaphuma kuyo?
- Mcele ukuba achaze eyona nto imangalisayo awakha wayibona.
- Wenza ntoni xa ejamelene nokungabikho kokusesikweni?
- Sithini isitya okanye isiselo sakhe sokutyikitya?
- Uziva njani ukuba imithombo yeendaba zentlalo itshintshe ubudlelwane?
- Ngubani umntu ongaqhelekanga awakhe wadibana naye?
- Ngaba wakhe wabonwa kumabonwakude?
- Ngubani umntu wakhe osaziwayo?
- Wenza ntoni xa efuna ukucoca ingqondo yakhe?
- Yintoni emenza azive engahlonitshwa?
- Ngaba wakhe walwa emzimbeni?
- Mcele ukuba akuxelele malunga nexesha afuna ukuba enze ngalo ukutshintsha indlela elihambe ngayo.
- Nguwuphi umkhwa anqwenela ukuba wahlukane nawo?
- Ukuba ebenyulwe njengoMongameli, loluphi utshintsho anokulwenza?
Imibuzo onokukhetha kuyo
- Ngexesha lokutya, ngaba ukhetha ukuba nencasa okanye ityuwa?
- Ngexesha lokungqubana, ngaba ukhetha ukwangana okanye ukwanga?
- Ngaba ukhetha ukuhamba kancinci okanye ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ebomini?
- Yintoni ebhetele ekupheleni kosuku: yedwa okanye ixesha kunye nabanye abantu?
- Eyona nto imbi kakhulu: yintlungu yomzimba okanye yintlungu?
- Ukhetha ntoni: i-cardio okanye amandla?
Gwema imibuzo engapheliyo
Ukuba uyaphelaizinto onokuthetha ngazo nesoka lakhookanye intombi, kusoloko kulungile ukubuza umbuzo ovulekileyo.Imibuzo yolwalamano olonwabisayoncede wenaMazi kakuhlebhetele ngelixa ugcina izinto zikhanya.
Izinto eziphambili ekufuneka uzikhumbule
Xa ubeka uluhlu lwakho lwezihloko zomnxeba, khumbula izinto ezintathu eziphambili:
- Gcina uluhlu lwesihloko sakho luhlobo oluqhelekileyo, musa ukubhala 'iscript' kuba eyona nto yokugqibela ufuna ukuyivisa kukufundwa kwetelemarketer kwiskripthi.
- Vumelaincoko ihamba, khumbula uluhlu lwakho lwesihloko sisikhokelo hayi umthetho.
- Sukucinga ukuba ungatsalela umnxeba ngaphezulu. Ukuba umntu ukunika inombolo yakhe, eso yayisisimemo sokumtsalela umnxeba.
- Yiza nesihloko okanye injongo yomnxeba ke akukho ndawo incinci yokuthula kunye novalo. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukummema kwenye indawo okanye ufumanise ukuba ucinga ntoni malunga nento oyibone ezindabeni.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuphulaphula kuyona nto ibalulekileyo
Ukuba ubiza intombazana okanye umfana omthandayo, kwaye awunaso isizathu esingcono kunokuba ufuna ukuva ilizwi lakhe, cinga ukunyaniseka. Inokuvula indlela entsha yokuncokola nobabini. Ekugqibeleni, xa ubambekile ngento oza kuyithetha emnxebeni, cinga ngokumamela. Enye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo onokuzenzela umntu othanda ukumamela.
