Izithandi zobulumko zamaGrike zeza nezisibhozo iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zothando . Ezi ntlobo zigubungela iindlela ezahlukeneyo zothando kunye nawe naphakathi kwabanye.
Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zothando kunye nemizekelo yazo
Izithandi zobulumko zamandulo zamaGrike zaphonononga imeko yothando ngokunzulu. Ngelixa kwasekuqaleni kugxilwe kwi-eros, i-philia, kunye ne-agape, uluhlu lwandiswa ukuze lubandakanye ukuqondwa ngokubanzi kwegama lothando.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Isini sefashoni kunye nesinxibo
- UMadeleine Vionnet
- Imvelaphi yoMdaniso wangoku
Shiya
Shiya , okanyeuthando lwenkanuko, luthando olubonakaliswa phakathi kwabo baneemvakalelo zesondo omnye komnye. Olu hlobo lweuthando luzaliswe luthandokwaye ngokwesiqhelo ibonwa kubudlelwane obutsha. Olu hlobo lothando ekuqaleni lunokutsala abantu ababini kunye. Olu thando lugxininisa indlela iimvakalelo zothando ezikwenza uzive uthelekiswa nonxibelelwano lwangempela kwiqabane lakho. Olu hlobo lothando lunokubhabha ukuba ubudlelwane abukhuliswanga ngokufanelekileyo. Imizekelo yothando lwe-eros ibandakanya:
- Isibini esisandula ukuthandana
- Isibini esithandanayo esiva iimvakalelo ezinamandla zothando omnye komnye
- Iimuvi zothando zihlala ziqaqambisa olu hlobo lothando ( Incwadi yokubhalela , Unemeyile , kunye Ukudanisa mdaka ukubiza ngambalwa)
Agape
Agape Uthando luchaza uthando lwezenkolo phakathi komntu noThixo, kwakunye nothando nentlonipho ngabanye abantu. Olu hlobo luthando alunamida kwaye lubalaselisa imbeko nokuqonda ngokubanzi kubo bonke abantu ngaphandle kweempazamo, iimpazamo, okanye iintsilelo zangaphambili. Olu hlobo lothando lunokubonakaliswa ngezenzo ngaphandle kokulindela okanye ukufumana nantoni na ebuyayo. Imizekelo yothando lwe-agape ibandakanya:
- Ukuzithandela
- Ukufundisa
- Iingcebiso
- Ukuba nothando lomntu ongamthandiyo
Storge
Storge uthando luthando olungenamiqathango iintsapho ezinokwabelana ngazo. Abazali baya kuziva olu hlobo lothando olungenamiqathango, olungapheliyo kubantwana babo. Ngokungafaniyo nezinye iintlobo zothando, oku akunakulinganiswa kwaye kunokusebenza kwicala elinye, endaweni yokubuyisela. Olu hlobo lothando lukhuthaza ukufudumala, ukuzibophelela, kunye neemvakalelo zokusondela. Imizekelo yothando oluhle ibandakanya:
- Umzali ngothando lomntwana
- Uthando phakathi kwamalungu osapho
UPhilia
UPhilia Uthando luthando ekwabelwana ngalo phakathi kwabahlobo okanye abo basebenzela iinjongo ezizodwa kunye. Olu hlobo lothando aluthandani, kodwa lunokuchaphazela ubudlelwane bezothando. Ukuba nothando lwe-philia kunokudala isiseko esiqinileyo sothando lwe-eros kubudlelwane. Olu hlobo lothando lunokufezekisa kwaye lunokukuzisela ulonwabo lokwenene njengobuhlobo obuqinileyo bunokukwenza uzive uxhaswa, ukhathalelwe kwaye uqondwa. Imizekelo yothando lwe-philia ibandakanya:
- Abantu osebenza nabo abanobuhlobo obuqinileyo
- Abahlobo abasenyongweni ukususela ebuntwaneni
- Izibini ezithandanayo ezinobuhlobo obunempilo
IPhilatuia
IPhilatuia luthando onalo kuwe. Ukuba nolu hlobo lothando kuthetha ukuba uzihlonele kwaye uzihloniphe ngokwenyani. Ukuba nolwalamano olomeleleyo kunye nawe kunye nokunyaniseka kwiimfuno zakho kunye neminqweno kunokukunceda ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye nawe, obunokuchaphazela zonke iindawo zobomi bakho ngokuqinisekileyo. Yandisa eyakhoubuwenaUnokwandisa ukuqiniseka kwakho nokuzithemba ekulandeleni eyona nto uyifunayo ebomini.
ULudus
Uthando lweLudus lubonakaliswa ngokudlala ngothando kunye nokuba phambili nomntu. Ngokwenza njalo, uyakwazi ukubona ukuba ungathanda ukuba nolwalamano olwahlukileyo nalo mntu. Ukubonisa olu hlobo lothando kungadlala, kububudenge, kwaye kuyenze inkanuko. Imizekelo yoku ibandakanya:
- Ukudlala ngothandonomntu odlulayo
- Ukudlalanomhlobo onqwenela ukuba kubudlelwane obunothando naye
- Ukudlala ngothando kunye nokwazi umntu othile ebharini okanye kwiklabhu
UFileo
Uthando lukaPhileo luthando okhetha ukuba nalo nabanye. Ikhuliswa ngobuhlobo bobuqabane obuzaliswe yintlonelo nobubele. Ngothando lwephileo, umntu unokufumana intsingiselo yobuhlobo bokwenene. Olu thando aludluleli kwabo ungabathandiyo. Igcinelwe abo ubakhethileyo ebomini bakho kwaye ugcina ubudlelwane beplato kunye nabo.
IPragma
I-Pragma ihlala ithatha ixesha elide, iyahambelana kwaye inothando oluthembekileyo. Olu thando luthatha ixesha ukulukhulisa kwaye lunokulufikelela kumahla ndinyuka obomi. Olu luthando ekwabelwana ngalo ngabantu abazinikeleyo ngokwenene. Imizekelo yoku ibandakanya:
- Uthando ekwabelwana ngalo phakathi kwabahlobo bakudala
- Uthando kwintsebenziswano ezinikeleyo
- Uthando ekwabelwana ngalo phakathi kwesibini esitshatileyo
Ukuqonda ifilosofi yamaGrike emva kweentlobo ezahlukeneyo zothando
Nangona izithandi zobulumko zamaGrike zahlulahlula iintlobo zothando kwakudala, iinkcazo zazo zisasebenza kwaye ziluncedo nanamhlanje. Ukuqonda okungcono iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zothando kunokukunceda uchonge ukuba zeziphi iintlobo ezikhoyo ebomini bakho.
