Imizekeliso yeBhayibhile malunga nokuba ngumzali

Iqhalo yintetho emfutshane evakalisa ubunyani okanye umgaqo osebenzayo. Kubomi bemihla ngemihla, abazali beva amazwi asekwe kwimizekeliso yeBhayibhile, kodwa basenokungayazi imvelaphi yabo. Izafobe zebhayibhile zinokwahlulwa kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo kwaye ungazisebenzisa ukunceda ukuphucula eyakhoizakhono zobuzali.

Uxanduva lokuba ngumzali

Kwimizekeliso yeBhayibhile enxulumene nokuba ngumzali, enye yezona zaziwa kakhulu yiMizekeliso 22: 6, 'Mfundise umntwana ngendlela efanele umntwana; naxa athe wamkhulu, akasayi kumka kuyo.' Oku kuthetha ngoxanduva lwakho njengomzali lokukhokelela umntwana wakho kwindlela elungileyo. Inkqubo ye- indlela ebefanele ahambe ngayo ibhekisa kwicala lomntwana ebomini. Into abantu abaninzi abayiphosayo kukuba igama elithi uloliwe, ngesiHebhere, linjalo chanak , oko kuthetha ukunikezela. Kule meko, indima yabazali kukuqeqesha okanye ukunikezela umntwana kwiindlela zobulumko obuvela kuThixo. Injongo kukukhulisa umntwana abe ngumntu oqolileyo nothembekileyo nothanda uThixo nabanye.

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Amanqaku afanelekileyo

Iindlela eziqinisekileyo zoMzali
Iingcebiso ezili-10 ezilula zokuba ngumzali
Ukubandakanya abantwana ekuDlalayo iMidlalo

Imizekeliso eBhayibhileni ilayishwe ngumyalelo wobulumko bukaThixo. Ukuba ujonga sonke isahluko 22, uyifumana izele ngamazwi obulumko. Le yindawo elungileyo ukuqala ukuqeqesha umntwana wakho ngeendlela zeNkosi. Le mizekeliso icacisa iindlela zikaThixo. Nangona kunjalo, xa ufundisa umntwana wakho ngezi ndlela, kungaphezulu kokufunda ivesi okanye nokukhumbula ivesi. Into ebalulekileyo imalunga nokufunda indlela yokuyisebenzisa kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ukwazi kunye nokusebenzisa inyani yindlela imigaqo kaThixo ebethelelwa ngayo.

Eminye imizekelo yokuba ngumzali onoxanduva

Nantsi eminye imizekeliso evela kwisahluko 22. La ngamathuba okufundisa owafakayo kwincwadi yakho ye-Uxanduva lwabazali abangamaKristu.

Yiba ngumbolekisi, ungabi ngumboleki. (IMizekeliso 22: 7)
Yiba nesisa kwaye wabele amahlwempu nabasweleyo. (IMizekeliso 22: 9)
Sukuhlekisa (umntu ongafuni ukutshintsha). (IMizekeliso 22:10)
Yithobele ingqeqesho, ukuze ube nokuzithemba eNkosini. (IMizekeliso 22:19)
Musa ukuba liqabane lendoda enomsindo okanye ungafana nayo. (IMizekeliso 22:24)

Ukukhulisa Umntwana

IMizekeliso 1: 8-9 khuthaza unyana ukuba aqwalasele konke akufundiswe nguyise kwaye angalibali uqeqesho lukanina. Ezi mfundiso zithelekiswa nesithsaba segolide entloko kunye nomxokelelwane entanyeni; Izinto ezinjalo zinomtsalane kwaye ziyabonakala kubo bonke abakufutshane nomntu ozinxibileyo. Esi sisikweko kwimbono yokuba iimfundiso zobuthixo zabazali ziya kubonakala kwaye zinomtsalane ebantwaneni ababakhulisayo.

Abazali nabantwana

IMizekeliso 6: 20-24 sesinye isikhumbuzo sokubaluleka komntwana ekuthobeleni oko uyise amyalela ukuba akwenze kunye nokuthobela imfundiso kanina. Abantwana kufuneka bazibophe ezi mfundiso ezintliziyweni zabo (intliziyo imele umntu wangaphakathi), kwaye uzikhawuleze zibaqinise emqaleni, nto leyo emele inyani yokuba ezi mfundiso ziya kubonakala kubo bonke abajikeleze umntwana. Oko ukufundisa umntwana wakho kukusebenza njengesikhokelo ebomini. Kwivesi yama-24, kukwabaluleka ukubaluleka kokulungiswa kunye noqeqesho.

Ukuba ngumzali olungileyo

Kubalulekile ukuba ngumzali olungileyo emntwaneni wakho kwaye ubanikeze uqeqesho olufanelekileyo ebomini. Oku kuya kubanceda ukuba bakhule babe ngabantu abadala abalungileyo. Umzekelo, le mizekeliso isibonisa indlela yokuba ngumzali olungileyo.

indlela yokufumanisa ukuba umntu uqhawule umtshato simahla kwi-Intanethi

Kwi IMizekeliso 10: 1 , ebhalwe nguSolomon, abazali bayakhunjuzwa ukuba 'Unyana olumkileyo uyamvuyisa uyise, kodwa unyana osisiyatha usisingqala kunina.' Oku kugqamisa isiphumo sokumilisela imigaqo yobulumko kunye nobulumko, kunye neziphumo ezibi ezibakho ukuba olu qeqesho alukhathalelwa.
IMizekeliso 23: 24-25 Uthembisa ngovuyo omkhulu kuyise welungisa kwaye uphinda athi uyonwabela unyana olumkileyo. Ivesi lama-26 lisikhumbuza ukuba unyana olilungisa ngulowo unika uThixo intliziyo yakhe kwaye ugcina ingqalelo yakhe iqeqeshiwe kwiindlela zakhe.

Abazali Abalunganga

Kubalulekile ukuba umzali akhulise umntwana wakhe ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba bayayenzagwenxa, kukho imizekeliso emininzi esazisa ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni.

KwiMizekeliso 19: 18-20, isibonisa ukuba 'Mqeqeshe unyana wakho, ngokuba likho ithemba; sukubeka intliziyo yakho ekufeni. Indoda enomsindo ihlawula isohlwayo sayo, kuba xa uthe wamhlangula, kuya kufuneka uyenze kwakhona. Mamela iingcebiso uze wamkele uqeqesho, ukuze ufumane ubulumko kwixesha elizayo. ' Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuba uvume ukuba ungalunganga kwaye usebenze ukuba ngumzali olungileyo onothando.
Imizekeliso 13:22 isixelela ukuba, 'Umntu olungileyo ushiya ilifa kubantwana boonyana bakhe, kodwa ubutyebi bomoni buqwetyelwe ilungisa.' Kubalulekile ukuba umzali kakuhle abantwana bakho ngobulumko kunye nokhokelo.
Imizekeliso 20: 7 ikwabonisa, 'olilungisa ohamba ngengqibelelo yakhe, banoyolo abantwana bakhe emva kwakhe!' Kubalulekile ukuba lilungisa kwaye ube yinyani xa ukhulisa umntwana. Oku kuya kunceda nomntwana wakho ukuba akhule elilungisa ngokunjalo.

Ukuthanda Abazali Bakho

Ukuthanda nokuhlonipha abazali bakho kubalulekile njengokuthanda umntwana wakho. Kukho imizekeliso emininzi esifundisa ngokubaluleka kokuthanda abazali bethu kunye neziphumo ukuba asithandi.

IMizekeliso 20: 20 isibonisa ukuba, 'Ukuba umntu uthuka uyise nokuba ngunina, isibane sakhe siza kucinywa ebumnyameni.' Oku kunokubonwa njengokuba ulahlekelwa kukukhanya kukaThixo.
IMizekeliso 23: 22 ithi, 'Mphulaphule uyihlo, lowo wakuzalayo, ungamdeli unyoko akuba mkhulu.' Lo mzekeliso uphinde uphindaphinde indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukukhathalela nokumamela abazali bakho abalupheleyo.
Okokugqibela, iMizekeliso 30:17 isibonisa 'Iliso elihlekisa ngotata nelikugculela ukuthobela umama liya kuthathwa ngamahlungulu asentlanjeni atyiwe ngamaxhalanga.' Oku kubonisa ukuba ukuba awubakhathaleli kakuhle abazali bakho uyakushiyeka wedwa kwaye usokolise ebomini.

Abazali noLuleko

Mininzi imizekeliso ejongene nokuqeqesha abantwana bakho. Umzekelo, 'gcina intonga yonakalisa umntwana,' is from IMizekeliso 29:15 . Eminye imizekeliso ibandakanya:

Ukumatha kubotshiwe entliziyweni yomntwana; Intonga yengqeqesho iya kuyisusa kuye. (IMizekeliso 22:15)
Ubulumko bufunyanwa kwimilebe yomntu oqondayo, kodwa intonga yeyomhlana woswele intliziyo. (IMizekeliso 10:13)
Mqeqeshe unyana wakho, wokunika uxolo; baya kukuzisela uyolo olunqwenelekayo. (IMizekeliso 29:17)
Intonga nesohlwayo sinika ubulumko; Ke yena umntwana oyekelelweyo udanisa unina. (IMizekeliso 29:15)

Imizekeliso Yokuba Ngumzali Namhlanje

Inkcubeko yale mihla itshintshile ukusukela kwimihla uSolomon abhala ngayo iMizekeliso, kodwa imigaqo yobuthixo ebekwe kuyo ingunaphakade kwaye ayinasiphelo. Le ncwadi yebhayibhile ibandakanya izifundo zeBhayibhile ezininzi ezithandekayo zabantwana, kunye nabagcini babo. Njengabazali, ukufundisa le migaqo-nkqubo ebantwaneni bethu kunokubeka iIsiseko sikaThixoiminqweno. Isiphumo ngumntwana okhula abe ngumntu omdala owaziyo indlela ekufanele ahambe ngayo kwaye angashiyi loo ndlela.