Ngamanye amaxesha, kunokuba nzima ukubethelela phantsi iimpawu ezintle zeumngani ogqibelele. Ubuhlobo abuhlali bulula kwaye ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto umhlobo angayenza komnye sisigqibo esingathandekiyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, umhlobo olungileyo ubonakala enguye nabani na ozonwabisayo. Ngelixa ubuhlobo busenokungabi lula, zimbalwa iimpawu zomhlobo olungileyo ekufuneka ulutsha lonke lukhumbule.
Iimpawu zoMhlobo olungileyo
Makhe sihlolisise ukuba kufuneka ntoni ukuze ube ngumhlobo olungileyo kulutsha. Nazi iimpawu ezimbalwa:
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Unokuthenjwa
Nokuba yeyakhoukutyumza okufihlakeleyookanye aingxaki onayo esikolweniokanye ikhaya, wonke umntu uneemfihlo. Kufuneka ube nethemba lokuba iimfihlo zakho ziya kuhlala zinjalo: iimfihlo. Umhlobo olungileyo ngumntu oxelela iimfihlo zakho zangaphakathi. Baya kuyigcina imilebe yabo imilebe ngaphandle kokuba iyimfihlo enokuba yingozi kuwe.
Ukunyaniseka
Ukunyaniseka kubalulekile kubuhlobo. Udinga umntu oza kukuxelela xa impahla yakho ikhangeleka imbi okanye isimilo esiyingozi. Umhlobo olungileyo uya kuba njengale ngelosi ikhathazayo egxalabeni lakho. Baza kukuxelela inyani nokuba inokwenzakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kancinci. Baya kunyaniseka ngeemvakalelo zabo kwaye baya kukufumana ukunyaniseka kwakho ngokuqonda. Baza kwabelana ngobomi babo kunye neemfihlo kunye nawe.
Ngqalelo
Abahlobo abalungileyo bayakuthanda ukuba phakathi kwakho. Bafuna ukumamela into oza kuyithetha kwaye baqonde indlela oziva ngayo. Ukuba uthi ulusizi, umhlobo olungileyo uya kuba ngowokuqala ukukuwola kwaye abe novelwano ngayo nantoni na ekukhathazayo. Ukuba wohlukene nesithandwa sakho, baya kukunceda ujongane nentlungu kwaye uqhubeke. Bakwasebenza ukulalanisa ukuba uyalwa.
Masonwabe
Kunzima ukuba ngumhlobo nomntu ongathandani naye. Abo banomdla oqhelekileyo njengemidlalo okanye ubugcisa banokwenza abahlobo abalungileyo. Uyakubafumana bonwabile kwaye nibe nezinto eninokuzenza kunye. Ezi zinto zixhaphakileyo kufuneka zibe zezintle, njengezinto zokuzonwabisa okanye amaqela, kwaye zingonakalisi, njengokuphula umthetho okanyeukusebenzisa iziyobisi.
Ukunyaniseka
Wonke umntu woyika ukwenza iimpazamo, ngakumbi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kodwa abahlobo abalungileyo bakunceda ukuba woyise iimpazamo zakho. Bancamathela kuwe ebunzimeni nasebubini. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni ebomini (uqhawulo-mtshato, ukuvalelwa, amabakala amabi, njl.njl.), Umhlobo olungileyo uya kuba ecaleni kwakho ekuncedeni kule mingeni.
Ukukhathalela
Nokuba bayangana, bakuhleka ukuba wenze uncumo okanye uthenga iichips zakho ozithandayo, umhlobo onenkathalo ukhathazekile ngemeko yakho yengqondo kwaye ufuna ukukunceda woyise kwaye uncume. Aba bantu bayikhathalele into ekukhathazayo kwaye basebenzela ukukonwabisa. Impilo yakho kunye nokuba sempilweni kwazo kubaluleke kakhulu kubo.
Mphulaphuli olungileyo
Ufuna umntu ozokumamela xa unosuku olubi okanye wakhalinyelwa. Abahlobo abalungileyo bahlala bekulungele ukuboleka indlebe. Bavumelana nokungabikho kokusesikweni kwehlabathi kwaye babhiyozela uloyiso lwakho.
Ukungagwebi
Unako ukwenzayamkela iiyantlukwano zakhokwaye indlela ongahluka ngayo emntwini ibalulekile kubuhlobo. Abahlobo abalungileyo abakugwebi, kodwa baya kukunceda woyise iimpazamo. Ukuba uthatha isigqibo esibi okanye ufumana ibakala elibi, abakuvumeli ukuba ujonge kwiintsilelo zakho kodwa bakunyanzele ukuba ubengcono.
Inkxaso
Inkxaso ibalulekile kulwalamano oluhle. Ufuna abahlobo abaya kukuxhasa kwimizamo yakho elungileyo kwaye bakuncede ufikelele kwimingxunya. Umzekelo, ukuba eyakhoabazali baqhawula umtshato, umhlobo olungileyo uya kukunceda usebenze kwiimvakalelo zakho kunye nokwenzakala.
Ehlekisayo
Kumnandi ukuba nomhlobo onokukunceda ubone uburharha kuzo zonke iimeko. Umntu okulungeleyo ukuhlekisa kunye nokulwa okungalungelelananga kokutya kunokuba yile nto uyifunayo ngexesha lobunzima. Oku kunokukunceda ekuthatheni ubomi ngokungathandekiyo.
Ukuxolela
Ukuxolela kubalulekile. Awudingi ukuxolela kuphela, kodwa ufuna nabahlobo abanokuxolela. Wonke umntu wenza iimpazamo kodwa ukwazi ukuzidlula kwaye ungabambeli ingqumbo luphawu lomhlobo omkhulu.
Iluncedo
Abahlobo bayancedana. Nokuba uncedisa ekuhlambeni izitya okanye usebenza kunye kwiprojekthi yesikolo, abahlobo abalungileyo bazimisele ukutsala ubusuku bonke. Baza kunikela ngexesha labo kunye nomzamo kuba kubalulekile kuwe.Banokukunceda ngomsebenzi wesikoloukuphucula ibakala lakho okanye mhlawumbi ungade udade.
Ubuhlobo bunokuba nzima njani
Kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, abahlobo banomdla kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi abahlobo abasenyongweni ngabo bahlala benomdla wokuba nexesha elimnandi. Nangona kunjalo, ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto yobuhlobo. Ngamanye amaxesha umhlobo kufuneka enze ukhetho olunzima, njengokuthatha izitshixo zemoto kumhlobo onazobendiselakunye nezicwangciso zokuqhuba. Kunganzima nokuba ngumhlobo womntu xa ehlangabezana nobunzima (njengokufa kusapho) kwaye umhlobo olungileyo akayazi ncam ukuba makenze ntoni.
Ubuhlobo bunokuhamba nakwiindawo ezinobunzima. Ukulwa, ukuwa kunye nomona konke kunokwenza ubuhlobo obubonakala bukhulu ukuba bubonakale ngathi buphelile. Amakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana anokuwenza nzima nangakumbi umfanekiso ngamanye amaxesha. Umzekelo, ubuhlobo bunokuphazamiseka xa omnye umhlobo efumana umntu athandana naye kwaye eqala ukuchitha lonke ixesha lakhe kunye naye, kunokuba kunye nabahlobo.
Icala eliqaqambileyo
Ubuhlobo bunokuba yeyona nxalenye igqamileyo yobomi bomntu. Ukuba nomntu odibana naye kwaye onomdla ofanayo naye unokugcwalisa usuku. Umhlobo oza kuhamba nawe ukuya kumabhayisikobho okanye eze ukuthetha naye unokuba mnandi. Kumantombazana akwishumi elivisayo, kunokuba kuhle ukuba nomhlobo onokuthetha naye malunga namakhwenkwe okanye ukwenziwa komzimba komnye nomnye. Kubaamakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo, kunokuba yinto enomdla ukuba umhlobo eze kubukela umdlalo omkhulu okanye asebenze emotweni kunye. Abahlobo banokunika inzaliseko kwinqanaba elinzulu. Ukunxibelelana nomnye umntu kwinqanaba lomntu kunokwenza umntu onwabe ngakumbi.
Ukufumana uMhlobo ogqibeleleyo
Ngelixa kukho iimpawu ezithile ezinokuthi zenze obona budlelwane bulungileyo, umhlobo olungileyo kuwe unokwahluka kunomhlobo olungileyo komnye umntu. Ungadinga ukuwola ngelixa omnye umntu efuna ukukhatazwa kunye nokwenza ukuba bahleke. Kwaye oko kulungile. Ezi mpawu sisiqalo ekufumaneni umhlobo ogqibeleleyo okulingeneyo.
