Ukubaluleka kwenkqubo yomtshato kunye nokujonga ulungelelwaniso oluchanekileyo lwababekho abahamba ezantsi akufuneki kutyeshelwe. Umbutho ungundoqo xa uqinisekisa ukubaIqela lomtshatoInkqubo iyaqhubeka ngokulandelelana. Iingcebiso ezimbalwa zinokunceda wonke umntu akhumbule apho kufuneka abe khona.
Umtshato woNqulo woLungiso
Umsitho wesintu ulandela ulandelelwano lomtshato kunye nomyalelo wokuphinda ubuye umva kukubuyiselwa umva kwenkqubo. Bonakalisa umntu ohamba ezantsi kwendlela kwaye yeyiphi i-odolo abakuyo kwaye wazise wonke umntu ngaphambi komsitho.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iibhokisi zeekhekhe zomtshato eziLwandle
- Iingubo zoMama woMtshakazi okanye uMyeni
- Imisebenzi yokwamkelwa koMtshato
Phambi koMsitho
- Umyeni ulinda ngasemva kwecawa kunye nelungu labefundisiumsithoukuqalisa.
- Umtshakazi ulinda angabonakali ngasemva kwecawa.
- Abagadi okanye abahlali bahlala iindwendwe xa zifika.
- Abayeni bahlala kwigumbi lokugqibela lamalungu omtshato kamyeni nomyeni. Rhoqo, umyeni uya kuhamba nootatomkhulu kunye nabazali ezantsi kwalapha endaweni yomyeni okanye umngenisi.
- Bakuba behleli oomama bomyeni nomyeni, abatshakazi nabakhwenyana bahlangana ngasemva kwecawa.
Nje ukuba kuqale umsitho
- Inkqubo yomculo ibonisa ukuqala komtshato.
- Njengeumculo wenkquboiqala, igosa lecawe kunye nomyeni bathatha indawo zabo esibingelelweni.
- Uluhlu lomtshato lomtshato emva koko luqala ezantsi.
- Abatshati kunyeiintombihamba uye ezantsi, esinye isibini ngexesha.
- Ukufika kwabo esibingelelweni, abatshati kunye neempelesi zabo bayathatha indawo yabo kwicala elifanelekileyo lesibingelelo.
- Oyena mntu ulungileyo kunye nesicakakazi okanye umntu ohloniphekileyo ohamba ezantsi.
- Ukuba itheko lomtshato libandakanya umtshakazi nomyeni omncinci, balandela intombi yokugqibela kunye nomyeni oza ezantsi kwalapha.
- Inkqubo ye-umphathi wendandathokunye nentombazana yeentyatyambo (ukuba ibandakanyiwe) yiya ezantsi ngasezantsi.
- Umatshi womtshato uqala ukudlala.
- Iindwendwe ziyama zijike ziye ngasemva kwecawa.
- Umtshakazi ungena emnyango kwaye ubuliswa nguyise okanye umkhaphi omkhethileyo, ohamba naye ezantsi ukuze 'amnike.'
- Emva kokuba umtshakazi kunye nomkhaphi wakhe befika esibingelelweni, umyeni uya kubabini aze athathe isandla somtshakazi.
- Utata womtshakazi (okanye umkhaphi) uhleli ecaleni konina (okanye olunye undwendwe olubekekileyo), kwaye umsitho uqala.
Umyalelo wokuPhumla
- Nje ukuba umsitho womtshato ugqitywe, umtshakazi nomyeni baziswa kwiindwendwe njengendoda nomfazi.
- Abafazi abatshatayo kunye nabayeni babo badibana embindini wesibingelelo, emva koko bajike bahambe ngengalo nengalo baphume ecaweni.
- Nje ukuba amalungu epati yomtshato aphume, amalungu osapho ayalandela.
- Emva kokuba usapho luphumile, iindwendwe ziyayishiya icawe.
- Wonke umntu uya kwindawo yolwamkelo lomtshato.
Cwangcisa kwaye uziqhelanise noMyalelo ochanekileyo woMtshato wakho
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukhetho lomntu okanyeisithethe senkoloNyanzelisa umyalelo ochanekileyo womtshato. Nangona kunjalo, akukho ndlela ilungileyo yokuququzelela inkqubo yomtshato kwaye into echanekileyo kwinkqubo yakho yomtshato ayinakuba yindlela yesiko. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba uchithe ixesha ucinga malunga nendlela ofuna ukuyilungisa ngayo inkqubo ngaphambi kokuba ifike imini enkulu.
Ukwahluka kweNkqubo yokuHamba
Nangona kunokubakho inkqubo yendabuko, akusoloko kukhethwa ngokufanelekileyo kwimitshato yonke. Khawucinge ngokuezinye iindlela zokwenza umtshato wendabukoinokusebenza ngcono kwimeko yakho.
- Ulwakhiwo lomtshato wecawe yesiko lunokutshintshwa ngokulula kwimitshato yangaphandle kunye nezo zenzeka kwezinye iintlobo zamancedo.
- Yinto eyamkelekileyo ukuba bonke abatshati bafike ngaphambili ecaweni (okanye kwenye indawo) kunye nomyeni ekuqaleni komsitho. Kula maqela alandelayo, abakhaphi bomyeni bahamba bodwa.
- Kweminye imitshato, abatshati kunye nabagadi bomtshato badwelisa inkwenkwe, intombazana, inkwenkwe, ipatheni yamantombazana endaweni yokwahlula ngokwamaqela athile ezesini macala omtshakazi nomyeni.
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, umtshakazi uhamba ezantsi yedwa okanye nomntu ongenguye utata wakhe.
Ziqhelanise noQeqesho
Ukuziqhelanisa nomtshato yindawo yoku-ayina zonke iinkcukacha zenkqubo yomtshato wakho. Phambi kokuziqhelanisa, licebo elilungileyo ukukrola umbono wakho ngendlela ozohamba ngayo ubungcali nokuba ukhetha iodolo yesiqhelo okanye enye yomahluko. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba uqiniseke ukuba ukungena kwetheko lomtshato kuhamba ngendlela ofuna ngayo ngelixa usenalo ixesha lokwenza uhlengahlengiso.
Cwangcisela kwangaphambili ukuHamba ngokugqibeleleyo
Ngalo lonke ucwangciso kunye nolonwabo olwenzekayo xa ucwangcisa umtshato wakho, kunokuba lula ukungaziboni ezinye iinkcukacha ezincinci ezifuna ukukhathalelwa ngaphambi komsitho. Khumbula ukucwangcisa ulandelelwano oluchanekileyo lomtshato ngaphambi kwexesha ukuze umsitho uhambe ngokugudileyo nangocwangco.
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