Imibongo ngokusweleka komntwana ayinakho ukuyilungisa le lahleko imbi, kodwa inokunikaabazali abasentlungwiniNdiyathemba okanye ndinike inkxaso. Umzali ngamnye kunye nelungu losaphouziva ngokwahlukileyo ngokuswelekelwa ngumntwanakwaye kukho umbongo phaya ngamava onke.
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Ukuphulukana nemibongo yomntwana
Ukwenza buhlungu le lahleko yinkqubo eyodwa enokubanjwa kwimibongo malunga nokulahlekelwa ngumntwana. Le mibongo yabazali abasentlungwini kunye namanye amalungu osapho asondeleyo kunye nabahlobo bathetha ngeemvakalelo zomsindo, usizi, usizi, ukuphelelwa lithemba, kunye nokwamkelwa.
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Ukuphulukana noMntwana
NguMichele Meleen
Ukuphulukana nomntwana
ayinakuchazeka kubo bonke
ibali elingenazo iindawo zokuyila.
Intlungu injengomngqungqo
NguMichele Meleen
Intlungu injengomngcelele
ukuntywila ng
kumaza engxolo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ndihleka,
kwabanye ndiyakhala,
ngamanye amaxesha andiboni kwanto.
Ndilinde umntwana wam ukuba apase
siwangawangisa ngokudada phezulu.
Loo mzuzu awuze ufike
kwaye isiphelo somkhosi sidlula.
Ndishiyeke ndime ndedwa
ndingazi apho ndiya khona.
Ukufa koNyana wam
NguMichele Meleen
Uya kuhlala enxibe ikapa,
soloko unxiba isithsaba.
Iqhawe lam elincinci,
ukumkani wentliziyo yam.
Ukufa konyana wam
uziva ebuhlungu
njengebali elingenasiphelo.
Usana lwam oluyinkwenkwe,
mntu wam omncinci,
Andazi ukuba kanjani okanye nini,
kodwa ngenye imini ndizokubona
kwaye uzive uphilile kwakhona.
Ukufa Kwentombi Yam
NguMichele Meleen
Ukufa kwentombazana yam,
ukufa kwamaphupha ethu
akusekho tutus yokujikeleza
akusekho ntombazana inezihobe ezinamandla okukhwaza.
Bathi amantombazana aneswekile kunye neziqholo
nayo yonke into entle
kwaye intombi yam ibimnandi ngendlela ebonakala ngayo.
Ngaphandle kwakhe, andiqinisekanga ukuba ndinganjani.
Imibongo ekhuthazayo malunga nokulahlekelwa ngumntwana
Abazali kunye namalungu osapho afumana ukusweleka komntwana bahlala befuna inkuthazo yokubanceda baqhubeke nosuku ngalunye. EziImibongo inika ithemba nentuthuzelo.
Njengebhabhathane
NguMichele Meleen
into yokondla inja kurhudo
Umbungu
ozelwe emva koko ufihliwe njengoko usentlungwini
emva koko ukuphelelwa lithemba kubhabha simahla.
Umthandazo womntwana wam olahlekileyo
NguMichele Meleen
Umntwana wam ngumalusi wam ndiya kuhlala ndithanda.
Umntwana wam ulala nam kuwo onke amaphupha am,
kukhokelela ekubeni ndizole kwaye ndibuyise umphefumlo wam
undikhokele kwindlela yam yosizi.
Nangona ndihamba kwintlambo yeenyembezi
Andiyi kubulahla ubomi bam kuba unam.
Imemori kunye nelizwi elithambileyo liyandithuthuzela.
Indawo Yakho
NguMichele Meleen
Mntanam ndikugcinele indawo
apho kungekho mntu unokubona.
Ndinaso esi sipho akukho mntu unaso
ubudlelwane phakathi kwam nawe.
Ngamanye amaxesha andikuva apha
kwaye loo ntlungu ayiyi kuphela.
Kodwa xa ndikukhangela kwindawo yam
ukunye nam yonke imihla.
umbala weenwele wabasetyhini ngaphezulu kwama-50
Mntwana wam, awulahlekanga,
awudingi ukufunyanwa.
Ndikufumene apha, entliziyweni yam
apho sibotshelelwe ngonaphakade.
Imibongo yomhlobo olahlekelwe ngumntwana
Ukuba umhlobo wakho ulahlekelwe ngumntwana, akunakwenzekaKhangela amagama oza kuwathetha kubo. Le mibongo ibonisa inkxaso yakho kubo kwaye iyavuma ukuba imeko iyophula intliziyo.
Ndiza Kubamba Isandla Sakho
NguMichele Meleen
Ndiyazi ukuba kubuhlungu
ngaphaya kokuqonda
ukungabinamntwana wakho
isandla sokubamba.
Andinakubutshintsha obu bomi
yeyakho, sihlobo sam,
kodwa ndingaba
sibambe isandla sakho.
Andikwazi Ukutshintsha Usana lwakho
NguMichele Meleen
Umhlobo wam othandekayo
ulahlekelwe yinto
Andinakutshintsha.
iinkampu zabasetyhini zithengiswa kwi-wv
Ndingathanda ukubaleka
ezulwini
ukubuyisela umntwana wakho ezantsi.
Ukuba bendinokumbamba apha
ukuze ubambe ubuso bakhe,
Yiva ukuwola kwakhe ngokufudumeleyo.
Njengomhlobo wakho
Ndifuna ukukusindisa
Kumaza eenyembezi uyarhaxwa,
kodwa into endinokuyenza kukuthetha
kwakho Ndiza kuhlala ndikufutshane.
Mhlobo Wam, Uyakufumana
NguMichele Meleen
Umhlobo wam, uya kufumana
ngeli xesha lobumnyama
izibane ezidanyazayo
kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kukhanye.
Umhlobo wam, uya kufumana
uncumo lomntwana wakho
ukukhanyisa indlela yakho
ngalo lonke ixesha.
Umhlobo wam, uya kufumana
ngamehlo aneenyembezi
ukukhanya kokukhanya
oko kukhanya kwelam.
Umhlobo wam, uya kufumana
obu bomi ngaphandle komntwana wakho
Kunzima kunokuba ndingazi.
Kodwa ebumnyameni,
umhlobo wam, uya kufumana
izibane ezikungqongile.
Kwaye ukuba ufuna
Ukukhanya ekukhanyeni
wolula isandla sakho
kwaye ndiya kukukhanyisa
nokuba yeyomzuzwana nje
ukukhanya kwam kuya kukunceda uqhelanise.
Imibongo edumileyo yokujikela kuyo xa kusweleke umntwana
Imibongo yababhali abaziwayookanye oko kuyinyani kubazali abaninzi abasentlungwini kuhlala kusetyenziswa iinkqubo zomngcwabo, kumatye amangcwaba, okanyekwizinto zokugcina izintoyamalungu osapho alusizi.
- Xa Imiphefumlo Yabantwana Ihamba Ngomkhumbi Ngu-Ella Wheeler uWilcox uchaza indlela engeyiyo eyendalo ukuba umntwana ahlukaniswe nonina esithi 'Zeziphi iziganeko zoxolo kunye nokuphumla / ezinokuzisa umxholo kulowo uhambileyo / Ukuya kwibele kamama?'
- U-Edgar Guest wenza isibongozo kuThixo Ndizokuboleka okwethutyana Mntwana Wam ngamabinzana anje 'Kodwa ukuba iingelosi mazimbize ngokukhawuleza kunokuba besicwangcisile./ Siza kuyinyamezela le ntlungu izayo size sizame ukuqonda.'
- Ngamaxesha athile NguColleen Ranney uthetha zonke iimvakalelo umzali azivayo emva kokusweleka komntwana onemifanekiso efana 'Nomntwana wam, intliziyo yam ... xa ndibona uncumo / andikwazi ukuzibamba ndicinga ngawe.'
- URon Tramer ubhala i-ode kumntwana olahlekileyo kwi Iinyembezi besithi 'Iinyembezi ziyawa./Siyalwamkela olu suku lusizi./ Usana oluncinci olusandul' ukusweleka lusandula ukusweleka. '
- Kwi Okwalamhla nje-kuBazali abafelweyo Umbhali uVicki Tushingham wabelana 'Okwangoku ndizakwamkela ukuba khange ndife xa kusweleke umntwana wam.'
Imibongo enethemba kunye novelwano
Ukuphulukana nomntwana yeyona nto inzima kakhulu ukuhlala kuyo. Ngelixa ungenako ukuyisusa intlungu yokulahleka okulusizi, imibongo ngokusweleka komntwana inokukunceda ukuba uphonononge kwaye wamkele iimvakalelo zakho njengoko usentlungwini.