Imizekelo yoxinzelelo isukela kwizinto ezibonakala 'zilungile' ukuya kwizinto ezimbi 'ezenzekayo ebomini. Uxinzelelo ligama nje elinomdla elisetyenziselwa ukuchaza nasiphi na isiganeko esibangela ukuba inkqubo ye-parasympathetic luvo (indlela yomzimba yokujongana neemeko zoxinzelelo). Ngamanye amagama, umsitho obangela uxinzelelo.
Eminye imizekelo yoxinzelelo
Imizekelo yoxinzelelo inokuhluka kakhulu ukusuka ekutshateni ukuya ekuphangweni. Nanku ukujongwa ngokusondeleyo kwabaxinzelelo:
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Uxinzelelo lweVidiyo
- Oonobangela abakhulu baXinzelelo
- Uxinzelelo lwabantu Imifanekiso
Imizekelo yoXinzelelo oluLungileyo
Uxinzelelo olululo lukwenza uzive 'uxinezelekile' kodwa sisiganeko esihle; eyona ilungileyo kuwe, okanye inokuba ilungile kuwe. Eminye yale mizekelo ibandakanya:
- Ukutshata : Ukutshata akukho lula kuba kuhlala kukho iinkcukacha ezilikhulu elinanye ezahlukeneyo ezifuna ukukhathalelwa, ungasathethi ke ngento yokuba uguqukile ebomini. Unokulithanda iqabane lakho kwaye wazi phantsi emphefumlweni wakho ukuba esi sisigqibo esifanelekileyo kuwe, kwaye nangoku Ndiziva ndicinezelekile lolu tshintsho lukhulu ebomini.
- Uvavanyo lomsebenzi : Uninzi lwabantu bahlala beziva bonwabile xa ekugqibeleni befumana udliwanondlebe lomsebenzi, kodwa olo lonwabo lunokujika ngokukhawuleza lube nexhala njengoko ucinga ngokwenene ukuya kudliwanondlebe.
- Ukuqala kwikholeji : Ulutsha oluninzi luchitha iintsuku zalo zesikolo esiphakamileyo lulindele loo mzuzu wokungena kwabo kwikholeji, kwaye babonwe njengomntu osemthethweni osele ekhulile; leyo 'isimahla'. Nangona kunjalo, nje ukuba inyani yokwahlukana nabahlobo kunye neentsapho zabo, kwaye bahlala beshiya idolophu abakhulele kuyo beqala ukungena ezingqondweni zabo, ulutsha oluninzi lunokuziva luxhalabile kwaye lunexhala malunga nolindelo olutsha olubekiweyo kubo.
Ngokwesiqhelo le meko yokuziva uxhalabile ishiya nje xa umntwana eqhele indawo yakhe entsha kunye neshedyuli, kodwa inokuziva ngathi inesibindi xa eqhubeka nayo.
- Ukuba nomntwana : Abantu abaninzi bachithe iminyaka eliqela belindile kwaye belindele ukuzalwa komntwana wabo wokuqala, kodwa banokuziva bexinezelekile kwaye benoloyiko njengoko ukuzalwa kusondela. Uloyiko olunxulunyaniswa nokungakulungeli 'ukutshintsha umcimbi wobomi, okanye ukuziva ungenamandla ngandlela thile, kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
- Ukuthenga into enkulu yetikiti Ukusuka ekuthengeni imoto ukuya kuthenga indlu yakho yokuqala, ukuthenga izinto ezinkulu zetikiti ngumzekelo ophambili wendlela uxinzelelo 'olulungileyo' olunokunyusa ngayo uxinzelelo lwegazi. Ngamafutshane, unemincili kwaye wonwabile, kodwa usenokuba noloyiko olubi emva kwengqondo yakho.
Imizekelo yoxinzelelo olubi
Eminye yemizekelo eqhelekileyo yoxinzelelo lomsitho 'ombi' ibandakanya:
- Ukuphulukana nomsebenzi Akukho mntu ufuna inkcazo eneenkcukacha zokuba kutheni ulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi, kwaye ithemba lokungakwazi ukuzixhasa, okanye usapho lwanele ukugcina nabani na evukile ebusuku.
- Ukufa komntu omthandayo Ukusweleka komntu omthandayo, ngakumbi umntu osondeleyo, njengeqabane, inokuba sisibetho esikhulu kunye nesiganeko esibuhlungu esithatha ixesha elide ukuza kuthi. Kulula ukubona ukuba kutheni le nto ithathwa njengoxinzelelo olukhulu njengoko inokuba nefuthe ngqo kuyo yonke indawo yobomi bakho.
- Imozulu : Xa ucinga ngoxinzelelo, imozulu ayihlali ithi qatha engqondweni, kodwa inyani kukuba intlekele enkulu inokuba nefuthe elikhulu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ibe noxinzelelo kubomi bakho. Izehlo zemozulu ezivela kwiinkanyamba ezitshabalalisa okanye ezonakalisa umonakalo kwizikhukula ezishiya amagumbi akho angaphantsi ekhubazekile emanzini zinokuba yinkxalabo engalindelekanga yemali kwaye ikwenze buhlungu ukuba kunokwenzeka uphulukane neememos sentimental or heirlooms yosapho.
- Ukujongana nengozi yomzimba : Ukuba sengozini yomzimba kukwaxinzelelo. Nangona ingafundwanga njengeyingozi emzimbeni njenge ixesha elide Ubunzima, ukujongana nomphangi okanye ukutshayelwa ngumlambo ohamba ngokukhawuleza ngokuqinisekileyo ithathelwe ingqalelo yoxinzelelo.
- Isigulo Ukugula, nokuba kukufutshane ngexesha, umzekelo ukuba nomkhuhlane, okanye enye into yexesha elide, njengokuphinda wenze utyando ngokudlula, kunokuba nefuthe kubomi bakho.
Ukutshintsha imbono zakho ukunciphisa amaNqanaba oxinzelelo
Zininzi iingxaki zoxinzelelo ebomini. Isitshixo sokuthatha isigqibo sokuba kukho into 'elungileyo' yoxinzelelo kuxhomekeke kwimbono yakho. Umzekelo, ukutshata 'kuyacinezela' kodwa kufanelekile xa ucinga ngezibonelelo ezinokubakho. Kwangokunjalo, ukuphulukana nomsebenzi kunokubonakala ngathi yeyona ntlekele iphambili, kodwa ukuba uyitshintsha kancinci indlela ocinga ngayo, inokuba yinto entle njengoko ikushukumisela kwizinto ezinkulu nezincono.
Sifunda ntoni apha? Khumbula ukuba uxinzelelo, amaxesha ngamaxesha, yimveliso yengqondo, kwaye ukuba uzimisele ukutshintsha umbono wakho, nokuba kukancinci nje, unokuzibona ujongene noxinzelelo oluncinci kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
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