Ngubani onokusola isibini xa sifuna ukubeka umtshato womzuzu wokugqibela? Ngamanye amaxesha xa imeko ethi 'ndiyayenza' ihlasela, isibini asinakukwazi ukulinda ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba sitshate. Oko akuthethi ukuba bafuna ukuyeka umtshato, nangona kunjalo!
Ukuqala ngaphi na ukucwangcisa umtshato wakho wokugqibela
Ukubeka umtshato womzuzu wokugqibela kunokuba nzima, kodwa USteve Kemble , 'I-America's Sassiest Lifestyle Guru' kunye neenkwenkwezi zemiboniso enje Yekabani Umtshato Ngaba kunjalo, Utshatile, Imitshato yePlatinamu, Batshatile ngooMamazala , kunye Ushicilelo olugqithisileyo lomtshato , uneengcebiso ezininzi zokunceda ukwenza umtshato okhawulezayo ubushelelezi kangangoko.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Imisebenzi yokwamkelwa koMtshato
- Ikhekhe lomtshato elikhethekileyo
- Imibono yoMtshato woNyaka oMtsha
USteve Kemble
Ilanga nenyanga zisayine ikhalityhuleyitha yokuhambelana komqondiso
Cwangcisa uSuku loMtshato
UKemble ucebisa ukuba bacwangcise umtshato ngomzuzu wokugqibela ngoMvulo, uLwesibini, uLwesithathu, okanye iCawa ukuze bafumane amathuba okuba babenendawo. 'Kuyanceda nangakumbi ukuba banokuba bhetyebhetye ngexesha losuku abanokutshata ngalo,' utsho uKemble. 'Ukuba banokutshata ngolunye lwezi ntsuku, ndihlala ndicebisa indawo yokutyela.'
Isaziso esifutshane Iindawo zemicimbi yomtshato
U-Kemble uphawula ukuba indawo yokutyela inayo yonke into efunekayo ukwenza usuku lube lodwa, njengelinen, i-china kunye nokunye. Indawo yokutyela enegceke elingaphandle inokulungiselela umsitho kwaye ukuba ine 'igumbi lepati' apho ukwamkela okanye ukuhlala isidlo sangokuhlwa kunokulandela khona, kuya kusebenza. Okanye, ukuba kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, bhabhela ngaphandleUmtshato waseLas Vegas. Okokugqibela, yibani nomtshato ekhayeni lomntu, ucebisa uKemble. Uthi oku kuyakususa imiba emininzi yamalungiselelo kucwangciso lomzuzu wokugqibela.
Lixabiso Lokugqibela Imitshato
Oomolokazana kunye noogxa abanohlahlo-lwabiwo mali oluxineneyo kunye nexesha elincinci lokucwangcisa banokuthi bangene kwimicimbi eyongezelelweyo. 'Yenza izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka kwaye ujonge kwizinto zomtshato wakho ezizezona zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, utshilo uKemble. Ukuba umsitho ngowona mbandela ubaluleke kakhulu, uya kufuna ukugxila kwindawo. Okanye ukuba umculo yeyona nto iphambili, uya kufuna ukuchitha imali yakho kwelona bhanti liphambili kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali.
Ukukhetha izinto ezibalulekileyo
Oomolokazana abatshatileyo kunye nabafazi bahlala benengxaki yokwenza ukhetho lwezinto ezifana neentyatyambo kunye nokuhombisa. UKemble uthi eyona nto iphambili kukuba uzilungiselele niniintlanganiso nabathengisi. Yazi into oyithandayo, yiba nemizekelo yeefoto ezivela kwiimagazini, kwaye ukulungele ukuxoxa ngohlahlo-lwabiwo mali.
Ukongeza, yiza kubathengisi ngeiseti yohlahlo-lwabiwo maliokanye engqondweni. 'Ngefestile emfutshane yexesha, ayisiyonto ilungileyo yokusebenzisa abathengisi ukuyila i-bouquet ye-150 yeedola, xa eyona nto wawuyifuna ukuyichitha kwi-bouquet yayiyi- $ 50, utshilo uKemble. 'Thembeka kwaye uvuleleke malunga nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali kubathengisi bakho ukuze bachithe eyakho kunye nexesha labo elibalulekileyo ukuyila uyilo oluhle ngaphakathi kwemali oyifunayo!'
Uluhlu lokugqibela loMtshato
Uluhlu lokutshekisha okanye lokucwangcisa incwadi lunokukunceda ukuba uhlale kwaye uhleleke xa usebenza ngexesha elifutshane. Ukumakisha izinto kuya kugcina uxinzelelo lwakho lokucwangcisa kwaye kukunike umfanekiso wento ekusafuneka igqityiwe. Lungisa imihla njengoko kufuneka ukulungiselela izicwangciso zakho ezimfutshane zezaziso.
Cofa ukuze uprinte uluhlu lokutshekisha.
Imiba engahoywanga yemitshato ekhawulezileyo
Oomolokazana kunye nabakhwenyana bathanda ukungahoyi izinto ezimbalwa kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela, bebashiya beqhuqha ngosuku lomtshato.
Izibhambathiso
Izibhambathiso yinto enye izibini ezishiya kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela. 'Izibini ezininzi namhlanje ziyafunabhala ezabo izifungoutshilo uKemble, 'kodwa abaqondi ukuba kuthabatha ixesha elingakanani ukubeka iingcinga zabo ephepheni ukuze baboniswe ngendlela efanelekileyo kumsitho womtshato.' Uthi kufuneka baqale ukwenza oku malunga neenyanga ezintathu ngaphambi komtshato, endaweni yobusuku obungaphambi koko, ukuze bajonge kuluhlu lwabo.
Imali kunye nezinto eziNgxamisekileyo
'Ababini badla ngokulibala ngayo yonke imali abaza kuyidinga kusuku lwabo olukhethekileyo kwabo banqwenela ukufaka imali emaphepheni, utshilo uKemble. Ucebisa ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni balungiselele ikhithi engxamisekileyo enezinto ezinjengeekhonkco ezongezelelekileyo, amaqhosha, inaliti kunye nomsonto, i-deodorant, i-Kleenex, i-band-aids, izikhonkwane ze-bobby, i-aspirin, i-tape tape (yokulungisa imiba yomzuzu wokugqibela) kunye nokunye !
Ezothutho
Amagqabantshintshi eKembleukuthuthwa komtshatokuba yinxalenye yomtshato engahlali ifumaneka ngomzuzwana. Uthi izibini kufuneka zicinge ngendlela:
ndifuna umyeni wam wangaphambili abuye
- Iindwendwe zizakufika emtshatweni (ngakumbi ukuba zinomtshato oya kuyo)
- Itheko lomtshato liza kufika kwindawo yomsitho
- Umyeni nomyeni baya kuza kumsitho, ulwamkelo, kunye nobusuku bomtshato / ukutshata
Faka into ebalulekileyo kuwe
Xa ucwangcisa umtshato ngomzuzu wokugqibela, nithathe isigqibo njengesibini sokuba yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu wena . Fumana ezo nkcukacha ndawonye kuqala, kunye nendawo. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuba nokufikelela kumhlobo okanye kwindlu yesihlobo kumtshato wakho. Seta kwakhona uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali onokuthi unamathele kulo kwaye ungalibazisi kwezi zibhambathiso kunye nokuhamba!
