Njengomntu ofikisayo, ukumanga kwakho kokuqala kunokuba yinto enomdla- okanye kuyaphoxa. Kubangcono kakhulu xa ukunye nomntu omthandayo kwaye ofumana umtsalane kunokuba kunjalo kumntu omncamisayo ukuze 'ugqibe ngaye.'
Ukwazi Xa Ukulungele
Nokuba yenzeka phantsi kwe-bleachers ezimnyama emva komdlalo webhola ekhatywayo, phantsi kwesibane severanda yendlu yomzali wakho, okanye phantsi kwezibane ezijikelezayo ezikhanyisa umgangatho wokuzivocavoca ngexeshaumdaniso wesikolo, ukwanga kwakho kokuqala kuya kuba sisiganeko esihle kakhulu ebomini bakho. Ukuba akukenzeki okwangoku, oko kulungile, njengoko kuya kwenzeka, ekugqibeleni.
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Sukungxama
Ukungangxami kwizinto yingcebiso uninzi lwabantu abadala abanokuyinika umntwana okwishumi elivisayo, kwaye kunjalo ingcebiso elungileyo . Kuya kubakho ixesha elininzi lokumanga kamva xa ugqibileukufunda izinto zamabanga aphakamileyo. Ukukhathazeka malunga nokuba kuyakwenzeka nini kwaye / okanye ukukrwitsha malunga nokufumana umntu, nabani na, ukuba akuphuze yinkcitha-xesha elichitha bhetele ukusebenzela ikamva lakho. Ngaphezu koko, ukulinda ngomonde ukumanga kwakho kokuqala kuya kwenza ulindelo phakathi umzuzu wokumanga kwakho kokuqala ulunge nangakumbi.
IKrisimesi ezulwini benza ntoni umbongo
Fumana ixesha elifanelekileyo
Nangona kunjalo i-cliche inokuvakala, uya kwazi xa sele ukulungele. Uyakufumanisa ukuba umntu okhethekileyo okunika amabhabhathane, umkhathalele kakhulu kwaye ukukhathalele. Uchithe ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nabo kwaye, ngubani owaziyo, usenokuba sele usisibini. Kungekudala, uza kuba naloo mzuzu wokucaca apho ukulungele ukubabonisa indlela oziva ngayo ngohlobo lokuncamisa. Emva koko konke okufuneka ukwenze kukulinda de kufike ithuba elifanelekileyo.
Amanani okuQala okuQala
Uphando oluncinci kakhulu lukhona malunga neminyaka yobudala yokuba abantu baphuze okokuqala. Nye ukufunda Utyhile ukuba inani labafundi beekholeji abebengekamanga omnye umntu beliphantsi- li-14%. Uqikelelo olungafundiswanga beka i-avareji yobudala bokuncamisa okokuqala ngothando kwindawo ejikeleze i-15, nangona le avareji inokwahluka ngokuxhomekekaizithethe zenkcubeko(inkolo, ulindelo ekuhlaleni, njl.njl.) Nethuba.
Unjani uKiss Wokuqala
Luhlobo oloyikisayo, olungaqhelekanga, kwaye luyakwenza ukuba intliziyo yakho ikhawuleze ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokuvakalayo uya kuthi yazi omnye umntu angayiva. Oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kokuba, ubanjwe ungalindelanga ngomnye umntu kwaye utsalelwe kumzuzu ngaphambi kokuba uqaphele into eza kwenzeka. Kukumanga kwakho kokuqala, kwaye amabali okumanga okokuqala ahlukile njengabantu abaxelela.
ungayifumana njani iglu ngokhuni
Ixesha Elingenakulibaleka
Abanye abantu banokuqabula kokuqala okumangalisayo, kwaye abanye banamava angamangalisiyo. Inqaku yile: ukuba yeyokuqala, iya kuhlala ingalibaleki kwaye, ukuba ungafumana ibali elilungileyo kuyo, ke oko kubhetele! Iya kuziva ingumnqa, (kodwa luhlobo olulungileyo olungaqhelekanga) kwaye xa kugqityiwe, uya kuba njenge-OMG! ayisiyonto enkulu kangako into yokuba wonke umntu enze. Emva koko uya konwaba kakhulu ukuyenza kwakhona kwakhona.
Wanga Njani Ngexesha Lokuqala?
Uyazi niniukutyumza kwakhobakulungele ukukuncamisa, kuba baya kufumana iindlela ezifihlakeleyo zokukuxelela ngolwimi lwabo lomzimba, njengokuchukumisa ingalo yakho, ukuthembela kuwe xa uthetha, kunye nokumjonga emehlweni.
Konke malunga nexesha
Amathuba kukuba, ukuba bayabamba ngakumbi-kwaye babe nawe kwaye banxibelelana nomzimba rhoqo, emva koko bafuna ukukuanga. Olona phawu lukhulu kuxa usivalelisa ekupheleni komhla okanye ukudibana. Ukuba bayalibala, bayakrokra kwaye bengenangqondo ingako, ke bayoyika ngokulindela ukwanga. Kule meko, soloko ungena kwi-hug kuqala nje xa ungazifundisisi iimpawu, kwaye xa usiya kude, zijonge.
Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo njengeNkcazelo
Ukuba bajonge emva kuwe kwaye benza unxibelelwano ngamehlo, ukwanga kuya kwenzeka ngokwendalo njengoko ngokuzenzekelayo nithembele phambili. Unokuhlala uziva nje ngekhemistri xa uza kumanga - lulindelo lwovalo kumacala omabini- kwaye awuzukuphoswa!
Ukuqalisa uKuqala uKiss
Ukuba ixesha liziva lilungile ngokwanga kodwa ukwanga akusebenzeli wena ngaso nasiphi na isizathu, zama nayiphi na enye yezi ndlela zokufumana ukwanga kokuqala.
- Yithi, 'Ndingakuphuza?' okanye 'Ndifuna ukukuphuza.' Oku kwenza ukuba iinjongo zakho zicace ngelixa ucela imvume ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ukwanga.
- Khathaza kancinci izidlele zabo ngelixa ujonge ngqo emehlweni. Thatha inyathelo eliya phambili kwaye woyame ngaphakathi.
- Ukuba uyazi ukuba uvumile ukubamanga kodwa awukazami, ungangena ngokulula kwaye ngenkalipho ungenise. Ukuba uziva uxhathisile kubo (babuyela umva okanye bayaqinisa umzimba) yeka into oyenzayo kwaye uzame kamva xa ixesha liziva lilungile.
Ihlala ixesha elide kangakanani
Ukumanga kwakho kokuqala kunokuhlala ixesha elide ufuna ukuba lihlale. Ngenxa yemithambo-luvo, uninzi lwabantu ukwanga kokuqala aluthandi ukuhlala ixesha elide. Konke malunga noko uziva wamkelekile kuwe kunye neqabane lakho lokumanga. Qiniseka ukuba uyithatha ngesantya sakho kuba abakhawulezi bayenze kwaye bayigqibe. Ngokufanayo, akufuneki ihlale ubusuku bonke! Ngokulula vumela ukwanga kufike esiphelweni sendalo.
umyalezo wokuvalelisa kugxa wakho oshiya inkampani
Ukufezekisa ubuchule bakho bokumanga
Iingcebiso zokwangaziyafumaneka kwi-intanethi zihlala zichaza ubuchule kunye neendlela zokumanga, kwaye konke kulungile kwaye kulungile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha wenaNdifuna ukwazingaphezulu koluhlu kunye neenkcazo. Awona maqhinga mabi uya kufunda, nangona kunjalo, aya kuvela ekuboneni isenzo sokuncamisa kwakho okokuqala emva koko uqhelise okwesibini, okwesithathu, njalo njalo. Wenza ntoni uziva Ekunene kuhlala kukukhetha okungcono kunokwenza into ecetyiswa ngumagazini.
Ukubonisa Uthando
Ngamava, wonke umntu ufumanaUhlobo lokutshixa imilebe, kwaye wonke umntu uyakuthanda kwaye akazithandi iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubonisa uthando ngokuphuza.Iilwimiintle kakhulu ukuba uyinikwe nakuphi na ukwanga kokuqala, kodwa iqhinga kukuyikhathaza ngokuyichukumisa ngobunono ngokuchasene nolwimi lokutyumza kwakho, endaweni yokuwela ngaphezulu kwaye unyanzele ngayo. Yiba nobumnene, phumla, hamba nokuhamba kwaye, ukuba uyathandabuza, vumela ukutyumka kwakho kukhokele.
Hlala emva, ukhululeke kwaye wonwabele ukukhwela
Akukho vavanyo lokumanga kwaye awungekhe usilele kumxholo wokumanga kwakho okokuqala. Nokuba amava akho okuqala okubeka imilebe kwimilebe yomnye kubonakala ngathi ayahamba ngendlela eyothusayo, kuhlala kukho isifundo ekufundwa kuwo. Ngethemba, unokuyicinga kamva ebomini kwaye uhleke. Sukuba nexhala; akunakwenzeka ukuba uyonakalise. Khumbula, oko ukwanga kwakho kolutsha lwakwishumi elivisayo kuya kuba kukhethekileyo ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Phumla nje kwaye wonwabe ngayo!
