Ukuba ufuna ukungena kwindawo yokuthandana okanye unethemba lokwenza oko kungekudala, unokuzuza kwiingcebiso zokudlala ngothando kulutsha. Isitshixo kukuyigcina ilula kwaye imnandi. Ukudlala ngothando yindlela yokuthi, 'Hayi, wena, ndiyakuthanda' ngaphandle kokuba ngokwenene Yitsho. Funda malunga nendlela yokwenza ngayo.
Kutheni Udlala Ngothando?
Ukudlala ngothando yindlela yokutsalela ingqalelo kuwe kwaye ubonise umdla wakho ngobukrelekrele bakho kunye nomtsalane, kunye nokubenza bazi ukuba uyabathanda ngaphandle kokuyipela. Uninzi lwethu aluziva lukhululekile ngokukutsho nje, kwaye inxalenye yolonwabo lobuhlobo obutsha ngumdlalo othi 'Ngaba uyadlala ngothando okanye akunjalo?' Kukho uvuyo oluthile lokudlala ngothando.
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- Izimvo zokulala zaMantombazana aBantwana aBafikisayo
- Ubomi njengoLutsha
I-bonus perk yokudlala ngothando kukuba yenza wena yiva ngcono ngawe! Xa ukudlala ngothando kwakho kusamkelwa kakuhle, uziva ubaluleke ngakumbi kwaye uthandwa. Ngelixa eyona njongo yakho iphambili kukukroba iswidi, oyena mntu ufuna ukukuthanda wena. Ngumjikelo omkhulu kuba okukhona uzithanda, kokukhona baya kutsala abanye. Musa nje ukuba ngumnxibelelanisi! Ukuqiniseka okuzuzayo kwizihlandlo zakho zokudlala ngothando kuya kunamathela kuwe ebomini.
Iingcebiso eziPhezulu zokuDlala ngothando kulutsha
Zininzi iingcebiso zokudlala ngothando kulutsha phaya (iincwadi ezipheleleyo!), Kodwa Nazi ezinye zezona zilungileyo:
- Ncuma!
- Bonisa uburharha bakho. Bahleke iziqhulo zabo ukuba bayahlekisa kwaye uxelele izibini ezizezakho. Ungoyiki ukubazisa ukuba bayahlekisa ngamagama ukongeza kwi-giggle okanye guffaw.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo chukumisa ingalo yakho yokutyumza ngokungathi ugxininisa inqaku.
- Bonisa ukuba ulumke kangakanani. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze ngathi uyazi-konke (nceda musa!), Kodwa ungazidubi ngelinge lakho lokuphinda uthandane nento oyithandayo
- Mjonge emehlweni. Qhubeka, ungabinantloni. Sukujonga, ewe, kodwa ungazivumeli ukuba woyiswe yinto yokuba uthetha nomntu omthanda kakhulu. Yenza uqhagamshelo lwamehlo ngokubanzi onokulenza nomabhalane wentengiso, umzekelo. Yibambe nje okwesibini okanye ngaphezulu.
- Zithembe- okanye yenza nje njengawe. Kude kuwe zenzisa ukuzithemba, kokukhona uya kuba nokuzithemba. Oko kukodwa kuya kukwenza ube ngudlalani ongcono.
- Umgaqo wekhadinali kukuba nguwe. Nangona i-trite ingavakala, iyinyani. Ukuba awunakuchukumisa uthando lwakho ngokunyaniseka kwinto oyiyo, ngaba ngenene ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye? Gcina iinzame zakho zomntu oya kuzixabisa. Ungayichazanga eyokuba, ukuba umntu otyumkileyo ukholelwa ekubeni 'uyinyani' banokucinywa kwangoko.
- Mjonge emehlweni kwigumbi kwaye ujonge kude kwangoko. Nxibelelana nabo kwakhona, bamba amehlo abo imizuzwana embalwa kwaye uncume. Emva koko jonga kude. Oko kuyakwazisa ukuba unomdla phantse kuso nasiphi na isikolo okanye indawo ekuhlaleni. Musa ukumangaliswa ukuba baya kuwe kwincoko kwangoko.
ULwimi loMzimba 101
Ulwimi lomzimba enkulu ngothando. Ngelixa ukudlala ngothando kwenziwa kukuncuma, ukudibana kwamehlo, ukukhanya kunye nokuthinta okungaqhelekanga kunye nokwabelana ngoburharha, ukudlala ngothando akufani ngaphandle kolwimi lomzimba. Enye yeendlela ezilula zokudlala ngothando. Ukwazi iimpawu zolwimi lomzimba zokudlala ngothando kuya kukunceda uthathe isigqibo sokuba uza kuba ngumfana okanye intombi oyithandayo. Ulwimi ulwimi
- Ukuhlala kunye namadolo akho kubhekise kukuchoboza kwakho ngelixa uncokola
- Ukulayita icandelo elingaphakathi lesandla sakho. Esi siko ngokwesiqhelo ngabafazi. Umzekelo, ukuba ubambe isoda kwaye uyijongise ngaphandle ukuze ulusu lwakho olubuthathaka lubonakale. Kuyafana nentende yesandla sakho.
- Ukoyama phambili kunye nokugcina ukudibana emehlweni kwincoko. Ukoyama phambili kunika umbono wokuxhoma kwilizwi ngalinye, ke ngoko kubenza bazive bebalulekile.
- Ukudlala ngeenwele (ukujija, ukujija, njalo-njalo) sisiqhelo esiqhelekileyo solwimi lomzimba phakathi kwabafazi.
Ukumomotheka, ukudibana kwamehlo, kunye nolwimi lomzimba oludlulisela umyalezo olungileyo zezona zilungileyo- kwaye zihlala zilula - iingcebiso zothando zokuthobela.
