Iintetho zokuthweswa izidanga ezifakwe kuburharha zizisa ubomi kule mibhiyozo yesiko kwaye zithethe nohlobo lolutsha olukhoyo. Ukuba awunguye umhlekisi wendalo, ezi zimvo zentetho yokuthweswa isidanga ziyahlekisaindawo yokuqalaukulungelelanisa intetho yakho.
Intetho yokuthweswa isidanga kwabaFundi abaPhakamileyo # 1 - Ukufumanisa ukuba Ungubani
Singobani? Lowo ngumbuzo omkhulu. Sichithe iminyaka eli-13 edlulileyo yobomi bethu ukuzama ukuyilungiselela loo nto, kodwa ayisiyonto onokuyenza kuGoogle. Ewe ungayenza kuGoogle, kodwa qiniseka ukuba uvula ukhangelo olukhuselekileyo kuqala. Akukho kuxelwa ukuba zithini iziphumo zakho.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Igalari yeZipho zokuthweswa izidanga
- Izitayile zokunxiba zabaNcinci
- Igalari yoLutsha lweeNgubo zoLutsha
Kulungile ukuba ungazi
Nangona kunjalo, uGoogle akazukusixelela apho uthando lwethu lulele khona. Ayizukusixelela ukuba singoobani. Kwaye ngelixa abanye bethu besazi, (abazali bakho baphefumla nzulu ngoku), abanye bethu abakwazi, (uxolo Mama noTata). Asazi ukuba sifuna ukuba yintoni xa sele sikhulile okwangoku, kwaye kulungile. Ewe, abazali bakho banokungacingi njalo xa ukwinqanaba lesine kwaye bahlawula izifundo zakho, kodwa kulungile.
Isahluko esitsha kunye nokufumana ukuthanda kwakho
Isikolo samabanga aphakamileyo sasimnandi, kodwa sityhile iphepha ebomini bethu. Sihambile ukusuka ebuntwaneni saya ebuntombini kwaye ngoku lixesha lokufumana ukuthanda kwethu. Lixesha lokuba sifunde ukuba sifuna ukuba yintoni xa singakhange siyiqonde, okanye silandele iphupha lethu ukuba sikhona. Ke bazali vulani iipaji zenu kuba ukufunda ifilosofi akubizi.
Enkosi lonke
Ootitshala, ukuzimisela nokuzinikela kwenu kusincede saqonda ukuba ukuba kwindawo yokuqala emgceni ayisiyiyo imeko yokuphila okanye yokufa. Kwaye enkosi ngokuqonda ukuba izinja zingatya nantoni na ukusuka kumsebenzi wasekhaya ukuya kwiijimi ezimfutshane. Ibali lokwenyani. YeFakhalthi, siyabulela ngokusinyamezela ukusuka kwiintsuku zethu zokuchola impumlo ukuya ekuphukeni kwehomoni. Kuyo yonke le nto ubusoloko usiliwa lethu. Ke ngoku xa sithatha olu hambo lokugqibela ukuphuma kwesi sikolo, siyabulela kuni nonke ngokusinceda ekuphenduleni umbuzo wokuba singoobani.
Intetho yeSampuli ehlekisayo # 2 - Funda kwiimpazamo zakho
Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo. Ndiyazi ukuba ndinayo. Ukuba isoka likaShelly kwibanga le-3 ngokuqinisekileyo yayiyimpazamo, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ndimenzele into entle. Ukuhlala ubusuku bonkephambi kwemithethoyimpazamo, kodwa ndimi apha phezulu ukuze kungabi kubi kangako. Ndizenzile iimpazamo. Amakhulu, akukho amawaka, kulungile mhlawumbi izigidi, zeempazamo kwiminyaka yam emfutshane eyi-18.
Iimpazamo zikunceda ukhule
Ngaba ndiye ndafunda kubo bonke? Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi iimpazamo zandinceda ukuba ndikhule. Ndiyathetha ukuba ndafunda ukuba ukuvolontiya ukunika intetho yokuthweswa izidanga bekungeyiyo eyona nto ndiyikhethileyo iiyure ezili-13 kunye neentetho ezine kamva. Kodwa kwakhona, ndiyayibulala ngoku, ke ixesha lichithwe kakuhle. Ndiphinde ndafunda ukuba ngekhe ndiphinde ndizinikele kule nto. Ke njengoko ubona, iimpazamo zimalunga nokufunda.
Uhambo olutsha-Iimpazamo ezintsha
Njengokuba sihamba kolu lonwabo lutsha ebomini bethu, abanye babiza ngokuba ngabantu abadala, ndibiza ukuphela kokulayisha ngokukhululekileyo, siya kwenza iimpazamo. Siza kukhetha into engalunganga enkulu kwaye kufuneka sihlawule amawaka ongezelelweyo kwimali mboleko yabafundi, kodwa siya kufunda ukonga ngakumbi. Ngokunyaniseka, siya kufunda nje indlela yokuphila eRamen, kodwa ngubani owaziyo. Siza kuphosa ixesha elimiselweyo kwaye sifike emva kwexesha, kodwa zonke ezi zinto ziya kusenza sikhule kwaye sitshintshe. Iimpazamo zethu ziya kubaluleka njengempumelelo yethu kuba ziya kusichaza.
Enkosi lonke
Ke, sukujolisa kukugqibelela, endaweni yoko, kungcono ukuba ube nesiphene. Ke, enkosi, bazali kunye nootitshala, ngokusivumela senze iimpazamo. Enkosi ngokusibumba saba zizidalwa ezingafezekanga namhlanje. Kwaye uninzi lwayo yonke siyabulela ngokusivumela ukuba sifunde kwiimpazamo zethu njengoko sisiya phambili.
Izinketho zokwenza ngokwezifiso kwiNtetho yokuPhumelela kweNgcono
Nganyeintetho yesampulungokubanzi ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingasetyenziselwa uninzi lwezifundo zesikolo. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza intetho yoqobo, ungaziguqula zombini iisampulu ngo:
- Ukutshintsha isigama ngamagama afana nesikolo esiphakamileyo okanye iklasi ephezulu
- Ukongeza kumabali abucala okanye kwimizekelo
- Ukubandakanya iziphumo ezihlekisayo zesandi kunye nembonakalo yobuso apho zivakala khona
- Ukutshintsha ukubulisa okanye ukuvala iingxelo
Iingcebiso ngeNtetho eNkulu
Ukwenza intetho phambi kwesihlwele esikhulu, ngakumbi phambi kwabantu obazi kakuhle, kunokuba ngumceli mngeni xa uceba ukwenza isimanga esingalindelekanga njengentetho ehlekisayo. Ezi ngcebiso kunye nemibono ziya kukunceda ulungiselele ukuze intetho yakho ifumane impendulo ethembekileyo onethemba layo.
Amabhanti oBurharha
Awunyanzelekanga ukuba waziwe ngoburharha bakho ukuze uyongeze kwintetho, kodwa kukho indlela elungileyo kunye nendlela engalunganga yokunika intetho ehlekisayo. Iintetho ezimnandi zokuthweswa izidanga ziyalela ingqalelo yabaphulaphuli kwaye zibabandakanye kulo msitho. Nangona kunjalo, ukongeza uburharha obenziwe ngexesha elifanelekileyo, obufanelekileyo, kunye nokuhlekisa kunokuba nzima. Gcina la manqaku alandelayo engqondweni xa uceba intetho yakho.
- Ixesha yinto yonke. Jonga intetho yakho ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba uburharha buya kufaneleka phi.
- Amabali abantu ofunda nabo kunye namalungu e-faculty yeyona mithombo yakho mhle yamabali ahlekisayo. Cinga ngamaxesha ahlekisayo afaka nabanye esikolweni.
- Khangela iikowuti ezihlekisayo,iziqhulo, amazwi,imibongo,ingomaamazwi okanye izihloko zamaphephandaba ezinokuthi zihambelane nomsitho. Qiniseka ukuba bayancedisana ngalo mzuzu.
- Musa ukoyika ukuthetha ngawe, ngakumbi naliphi na ixesha elihlazo onokuthi ukhe ulifumane kwiminyaka yakho yokufunda.
- Balisa amabali. Nokuba ungazami ukujova uburharha, unokufumanisa ukuba amabali akho malunga neklasi yakho yokuthweswa izidanga, ubuhlakani, kunye nolawulo ziyahlekisa.
- Jonga izifundo ezaziwa ngumntu wonke, ezinje ngezopolitiko okanye inkcubeko ye pop. Cinga ngeenkqubo ezithandwayo zeTV, iibhendi, iinkwenkwezi zeemovie, njl njl. Khumbuza abaphulaphuli malunga nefashoni edumileyo ngelixa iklasi yakho yokuthweswa izidanga ibisesikolweni. Ukuba uyazi ibali elihlekisayo elinxulumene nalo mxholo, lixele.
Izalathiso zokuziqhelanisa
Ngaphambi komsitho wangempela, uya kufuna ukuziqhelanisa nokuthetha kwakho amatyeli aliqela. Uya kufuna kwakhona:
- Nika ikopi yentetho yakho kwinqununu kunye nawaphi na amanye amalungu e-faculty abandakanyeka kumsitho. Qiniseka ukuba ufumana imvume yabo ngaphambi kokuba uthethe.
- Ziqhelanise nentetho yakho phambi kwabahlobo abaninzi kwaye ubuze ingxelo yabo ethembekileyo.
- Xa usongeza uburharha kwintetho, kubalulekile ukuba ugxininise amagama athile ukongeza ugxininiso kumalungu ahlekisayo entetho.
- Sukujonga nje kumabali ahambelana nawe nabahlobo bakho. Kubalulekile ukuba ubandakanye amaqela amaninzi esikolweni sakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ufuna ukufikelela kubo bonke abaphulaphuli bakho, hayi abanye babo.
- Iintetho ezihlekisayo zokuthweswa izidanga akufuneki zibe krwada okanye ukhohlakele. Sukusebenzisa eli xesha ukuhlekisa ngotitshala okanye inqununu engathandwayo nguwe okanye ngabahlobo bakho. Qiniseka ukuba umbandela wakho wokuthetha ufanelekile.
- Ngamanye amaxesha, kukho umgca ococekileyo phakathi kokuhlekisa ngento ethile okanye umntu kunye nokucaphukisa. Sebenzisa ubuchule nolwazelelelo kwintetho yakho.
Indlela emnandi yokuthetha kakuhle
Eyakhoukuphumelelaintetho lelona xesha lilungileyo lokushwankathela amava akho kule minyaka idlulileyo kwaye uvale esi sahluko sobomi. Fakela intetho ngomoya wobutsha, ubuhlakani, kunye noburharha ukuze ube namava abanye abangasoze bawulibale.
