Umzekelo oMkhulu weeNtetho zokuTyiwa kwabantwana

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

isonka sokuhlamba umntwana

Ishawa yentsana ngumsitho obalulekileyo kubomi bomama oza kubakho, ngenxa yoko kuhlala kusetwa intetho ekhethekileyo. Nokuba ungunina oza kubakho,umamkeli zindwendwe, okanye undwendwe olunento ekhethekileyo ongayithetha, ukusebenzisa isampulu kunokukunceda ekubhaleni intetho kunye nokwazisa amagama akho. Ngale ndlela, ungathetha ngokuzithemba ngokusuka entliziyweni kwayeNika i-toast enomdla.





Intetho evela kumamkeli zindwendwe

Rhoqo, ausana olundwendwela ekhayaInika intetho emfutshane yokwamkela iindwendwe, kunye nembeko kumama oza kubakho. Akukho mithetho isetiweyo ngale ntetho, kodwa iyanceda ukulungiselela amagama ambalwa ngaphambi kwexesha. Intetho elungileyo inokwenza wonke umntu akhululeke kwaye yenze ukuba umama-mama azive ekhethekileyo.

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Oko kubandakanya

Njengomamkeli zindwendwe, kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokufuna ukuzibandakanya kwintetho yakho:





  • Chaza umama oza kuba ngamagama.
  • Xoxani ngokufutshane ukuba umazi njani undwendwe olubekekileyo.
  • Nika umbulelo kuye nakuphi na ukwamkela iindwendwe zeshawa.
  • Thatha umzuzwana ukwamkela wonke umntu kumsitho.

Umzekelo wentetho

Wamkelekile [kwigama lomama oza kuba] lishawari yosana! Ndonwabile ukuba nonke ningeza ukusinceda ukubhiyozela ukufika kwale ntombazana incinci [inkwenkwe okanye intombazana]. Ndazi [umama oza kuba] lixa [lexesha], ukusukela ngoko [nika iimeko zentlanganiso yakho].

[Umama oza kuba] uza kwenza umama omnandi. Unesisa sokukhathalela usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, uburharha obufunekayo ukuze anyamezele abo babini boyikekayo, kunye namandla okwenza oko kwiminyaka yokufikisa. Ngaphezu koko, unethuku elihle, eliya kumkhokela ekwenzeni ukhetho lomntwana wakhe, nokuba angalala kangakanani ebusuku.



Enkosi kwakhona ngokuba lapha ngolu suku lukhethekileyo. Zincede kwiziphungo kunye nesiselo, kwaye siza kuqala ezimbalwaimidlalo yokuhlamba emnandi.

Intetho evela kuMama-oza kubakho

Nokuba umamkeli zindwendwe wenza intetho okanye hayi, kufanelekile ukuba umama oza kuba nakho ukuthetha amazwi ambalwa okubulela kwiindwendwe. Ukuba ufuna ukuthetha xa uhlamba umntwana wakho, yazisa nje umamkeli zindwendwe ngaphambi kwexesha. Emva koko unokuqokelela wonke umntu ukuba amamele xa sele ukulungele ukuphakama.

Oko kubandakanya

Nangona kungekho mfuneko malunga nentetho kamama oza kubakho, unokufuna ukubandakanya ezi zinto zilandelayo:



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  • Bulela umamkeli zindwendwe okanye iindwendwe ngalo msitho.
  • Enkosi kwiindwendwe ngokuza kwenu kwaye nabelana ngovuyo lwenu.
  • Chaza umntwana wakho omncinci kunye nazo naziphi na iinkcukacha ozimisele ukuziveza, njengomhla wokugqibela, isini, okanye igama.

Umzekelo wentetho

Ndifuna nje ukuthatha umzuzwana ukubulela [umamkeli zindwendwe] ngokubamba isitya esincomekayo somntwana ukwamkela umntwana wethu omncinci. Ithetha lukhulu kum ukuba nonke nibe nakho ukuza namhlanje nizokubhiyoza kunye nam. Ukufumana umntwana omtsha kunokuba nzima kakhulu, kodwa lo msitho undenza ndizive ndixhaswa kwaye ndithandwa.

ngaba iindlulamthi zihlala ehlathini

Baninzi kakhulu oomama apha namhlanje. Ndithanda ngokukhethekileyo izakhono zokuba ngumzali [khankanya abantu abambalwa ngamagama]. Ndiyavuya ukuba nomzekelo wenu njengoko ndilungiselela ukuba ngumzali [inkwenkwe, intombazana, okanye usana] lwethu kwi [iiveki, neenyanga] ezimbalwa. Unokuqiniseka ukuba ndiza kunibiza nonke ngemibuzo!

Enkosi kwakhona ngokuza namhlanje!

Intetho yokwamkela usana olutsha

Nabani na kwishower onqwenela ukubandakanywa angenza intetho yokwamkela usana olutsha. Ukuba umama oza kubakho okanye umamkeli zindwendwe akaziva ekhululekile ukunika intetho kwisihlwele, unokwabela omnye umntu ukuba enze intetho ngokubanzi ejolise emntwaneni.

Oko kubandakanya

Kuba awunguye ilungu losapho kwaye unokuba uthetha ngeqela, zizinto ezilungileyo zokubandakanya:

  • Xoxani ngokufutshane ukuba ubazi njani abazali abaza kuba ngabakho.
  • Chaza igama lomntwana, uphawu lokuvumisa ngeenkwenkwezi, okanye iimpawu zobuntu ezingqinwa yimisebenzi yesibeleko ukuyenza ibonakale.
  • Sebenzisa 'thina' endaweni ka 'mna' kwaye wenze umyalezo owamkelekileyo egameni leqela liphela.

Umzekelo wentetho

Ukuba ungandiva ndilapho, [igama lomntwana, omncinci], asinakulinda ukuba samkelwe ehlabathini! Ndingu [igama lakho], kwaye [chaza ubudlelwane bakho nosana]. Usenokungakwazi ukuxelela, kodwa sele uyathandwa kwaye uyathandwa. Sinokuxela ukuba uza kuba yintombazana encinci enamandla [inkwenkwe okanye intombazana] enkosi kubo bonke abakhaba abomeleleyo umama wakho asivumele ukuba sizive!

Wonke umntu kweli gumbi unezipho ezizodwa anokuzabelana nawe ebomini bakho bonke. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nezipho ezininzi ezizodwa onokusinika zona. Asinakulinda ukubona ubuso bakho obuhle kwaye ubambe izandla zakho ezincinci. Wamkelekile kweli hlabathi, usapho lwethu, kunye nekhaya lakho elitsha elinamagama [omzali]

Intetho yoMama noTata abaLindeleyo

Ukuba ubamba ishawa edityanisiweyo okanye isibini, qiniseka ukubandakanya umama omtsha notata omtsha kwintetho enye ngexesha lokuhlamba. Le yindlela entle yokuba enye yamadoda kwishower ithathe inxaxheba kumnyhadala.

Oko kubandakanya

Olu hlobo lwentetho lunokuba sisidenge okanye luvakalelo, kodwa kufanele ukuba lube nedilesi:

  • Xoxani ngokufutshane ukuba ubazi njani abazali abaza kuba ngabakho.
  • Chaza bobabini umama notata omtsha ngegama.
  • Nika umbulelo kwimikhosi yokuhlamba.

Umzekelo wentetho

Molweni nonke, ndi [igama nobudlelwane kubazali abaza kuba]. [Amagama omzali omtsha], ukuba nenye yento, enje nge tshokholethi, kungcono kunokuba ungenayo. Izinto ezimbini ezingenakusebenza ngaphandle komnye, ezifana nebhotolo yamandongomane kunye nejeli, zenza ubomi bube ngcono. Kodwa, amaqela ezinto, njengentsapho, awunakuhlala ngaphandle.

Ngamnye wenu uqale kakuhle, kodwa ubomi baba ngcono xa nifumanana. Ngoku iqela lakho losapho liyakhula kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba ngekhe ubucinge ubomi ngaphandle kwengqokelela yakho entsha yovuyo. Nalu ulonwabo lobomi bonke kunye nani! Enkosi [kwimikhosi yamagama] ngokundinika ithuba lokwenza ubomi bam bube bhetele ngokwabelana ngalo mzuzu nani nonke.

Iintetho ezivela kwamanye amalungu osapho

Umfazi okhulelweyo ohambisa iiglasi kunye nabahlobo

Xa abazali befanele ukuba babe neentsapho ezimanyeneyo, amanye amalungu osapho anokufuna ukunika iintetho kwishower nayo. Esi sisiganeko esivuyisayo kubazali abatsha kunye nabantwana babo bangoku, kodwa lixesha elinomdla kubahlobo abasondeleyo kunye namalungu osapho. Qinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uziva ebandakanyiwe ngokuvula umgangatho wezimvo ezivela kwisihlwele kwaye ubuze umntu ngamnye ukuba agcine intetho yakhe kwimizuzu emibini okanye emithathu.

Oko kubandakanya

Qala ngenkcazo yokuba ungubani ngokunxulumene nosana olutsha emva koko unike ukuvuyisana okufutshane okanye uluvo kubandakanya:

  • Xoxani ngokufutshane ukuba ubazi njani abazali abaza kuba ngabakho.
  • Enkosi kumamkeli ndwendwe kunye nomama omtsha ngokukuvumela ukuba ubandakanywe.
  • Veza iminqweno yakho ngomntwana omtsha kunye nosapho.

Umzekelo wentetho evela kuDade

Njengodade wabo [ongumama oza kubakho], ndiyazi ngokwam ukuba ngumama onjani. Nanini na xa ndibuhlungu okanye ndifuna igxalaba lokukhala kuye, wayekhona. Nanini na xa ndibetha amanqanaba okuphuhla awayendoyikisa, wandixelela ukuba ndenze njani. Umnqweno wam ngawe, igama elincinane [lomntwana] kukuba ndiza kuba ngumakazi kamama wakho njengokuba udade wakho wayengudade. Enkosi ngokwabelana nam ngalo mzuzu ungummangaliso wobomi bakho.

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Intetho yomzekelo ovela kuDade-in-umthetho

Andibanga nethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndingazalelwa kubomi [bukamama oza kuba ligama lakhe] njengolu sana luxabisekileyo luya kuba njalo. Kodwa, ndingakuxelela njengodadewabo womfazi ukuba ayinamsebenzi ukuba wazi njani [igama likamama oza kubakho]. Uya kukuphatha njengosapho nangayiphi na indlela. Intliziyo yakho enesisa kunye nomoya wothando konke oku kufunwa lusana ukuze luphumelele ebomini. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba andizalwanga ndingudade wakho, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba ndiyavuya ukuba lo mfo mncinci uza kuzalwa [mtshana wam, mtshana wam]! Ndiyathembisa ukumthanda [yena, naye] njengoko undithandile, ngaphandle kwemiqathango. Ndiyalixabisa ngokwenene ithuba lokuba nesabelo kweli xesha lizukileyo kunye nawe.

Umzekelo weNtetho evela kuMakhulu-ku-Be

Ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakho, [igama likamama oza kuba lilo], ndanyuselwa kwinqanaba likaMama. Ayinguye wonke umntu obhinqileyo olufumanayo olu mbeko, kwaye ndiyavuya ukuba ndilufumene. Ngaphandle kokuzama undibonisile ukuba lunjani uthando ngokwenyani. Ngoku, xa umntwana wakho ezelwe, ndiza kuphakanyiswa kwakhona kwelona wonga liphezulu elinokuthenjwa ngumfazi, Makhulu. Enkosi ngokundinika ezi mbeko, ndiya kuhlala ndinombulelo.

Iingcebiso eziluncedo kwiiNtetho zokuhlamba abantwana

Njengoko ubhala kwaye uhambisa intetho yakho, gcina ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo engqondweni:

  • Ngokukodwa, amabali obuqu ahlala ehlala e-hit. Thetha malunga nexesha lokuqala odibana nalo mama oza kuba nalo okanye ixesha lokufumana olo vavanyo lokukhulelwa. Iindwendwe ziya kuzikhumbula ezi anecdotes.
  • Sebenzisa uburharha obufanelekileyo ukubeka wonke umntu ngokukhululeka. Ukuhlekisa ngobunono okanye iziqhulo malunga nokukhathalela abantwana kunokwenza iindwendwe zincume.
  • Intetho yakho mayibe mfutshane. Zinciphise kwimizuzu embalwa ukugcina ingqalelo yomntu wonke kwaye ubavumele ukuba bonwabele amanye amalungu omsitho.
  • Khomba kwikamva. Ishawa yentsana imalunga nokufika kosana olutsha, ke xela amathemba akho kunye namaphupha omama oza kuba-khona okanye ulindelo lwakho malunga nokuba ngumzali.
  • Sebenzisa iimvakalelo kwigama lentetho yakho. Ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho kwenza ukuba intetho isondele kwaye ibe yeyakho, efanelekileyo yokuhlamba umntwana.
  • Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kuthini, cingaukufunda umbongo, inentsingiseloesithiokanyecaphula malunga neentsana, okanye mfutshane kwaye inentsingiseloIncwadi yabantwana.

Isitshixo kwiNtetho ePhumeleleyo

Kuba akukho kungqinelanaImithetho yokuziphatha ejikeleze iintetho zokuhlamba umntwana, unenkululeko epheleleyo yokubhala nokuhambisa intetho yakho nangayiphi na indlela oyithandayo. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba wenza umamkeli zindwendwe okanye undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo luzive lubalulekile kwaye ubulele iindwendwe ngokuza kwakho, intetho yakho iya kuba yimpumelelo.

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