Ngokwe- Iindaba zeNew York Daily , ukuya ukufunda eyenziwa yiYunivesithi yaseCarnegie Mellon yagqiba ukuba uxinzelelo oluxeliweyo lonyuse i-30% kule minyaka ingamashumi amathathu idlulileyo, kunye nabasetyhini, abakwishumi elivisayo, kunye nabemi baseMelika abanengeniso ephantsi abaneempawu ezininzi. Kulabo bagqibe kwelokuba basebenze ngokukuko ekufuneni uncedo, imisebenzi yonyango yeqela inikezela ngesixhobo esikhulu sokulwa.Amaqelajolisa ekufundeni nabanye kwaye uvumele abanye ukuba basebenze kunye ukuncedana ngonxibelelwano ngaphakathi kwiqela ngelixa ujolise kwiingxaki ezingaphandle kweqela.
1. Kuwe Sithembile
Ukuthembana kubalulekile ngokwamaqela kuba amalungu abelana ngokunzulu omnye nomnye. Imidlalo yokwakha iTrust, njengale ingezantsi, vumela abathathi-nxaxheba kwiqela ukuba baqale ukuthembana. Umzekelo wemveli womsebenzi wokwakha ukuthembela iya kuba kukusetyenziswa kokubopha amehlo kunye nokukhokela. Lo msebenzi ubeka ubumnyama obupheleleyo kumxube ukuze izibonda zibe phezulu kwaye zibe mnandi ngakumbi.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Imisebenzi yoNyango lokuSetyenziswa gwenxa kweziyobisi
- Ukuchaza ukuba ukusela kwakho nini na sele kwaba butywala
- Unyango ngokuXoka okunyanzelekileyo
Udlala kanjani
Ukudlala lo mdlalo ngalo naliphi na inani labantu, uya kudinga oku kulandelayo:
- Igumbi elingaphakathi elingena ukukhanya kwelanga kwendalo (iitrape ezinqabileyo kwiifestile zilungile)
- Iibini ezimbini zemibono yasebusuku
- Izinto zokuvuma (incwadi yezibhalo, amanzi asebhotileni, umfanekiso womntwana, isilwanyana esifakiwe, njl.
Udlala kanjani
Lo mdlalo ulungile kumaqela amakhulu okanye amancinci, kodwa elikhulu kwiqela, elikhulu kwigumbi kufuneka libe:
- Yahlula-hlula abathathi-nxaxheba babe ngamaqela amabini ze unike isibini segogo 'kuzwilakhe' weqela ngalinye.
- Beka wonke umntu kwindawo eyahlukileyo yegumbi ngaphandle komlawuli onguzwilakhe ngaphambi kokuba mnyama igumbi.
- Uzwilakhe ubeka izinto zokungqina kwiindawo ezingahleliyo kwigumbi lonke (kwikona, ngaphezulu kwesingqengqelo, njl ....)
- Umntu omnye kwiqela ngalinye uzama ukufumana into emiselwe nguzwilakhe ngelixa abanye bemi kwiindawo zabo (behleka isiphithiphithi).
- Ngaba oozwilakhe mabakhokele abathathi-nxaxheba abangenambono kwiqela labo kwigumbi elimnyama elijikeleze umhlaba ongalinganiyo kwicala lezinto.
- Uzwilakhe ubiza umthathi-nxaxheba ochaphazelekayo ozama ukubuyisa izinto ngamagama, esithi izinto ezinje: 'Phakamisa unyawo lwakho lwasekunene ukuze unyathele umbhoxo,' 'Dada intloko yakho ukunqanda ikhandlela,' kunye neengxelo ezifanayo.
- Ngokukhawuleza xa umntu omnye efumana into yakhe, umntu olandelayo kwiqela uyaqala.
- Umdlalo uphelile xa elinye iqela lifumana zonke izinto, ngethemba ngaphandle kokuchitheka okukhulu kwelinye.
Kutheni isebenza
Njengoko kuchaziwe ngu NewHealthAdvisor.com , Ukwakha ukuthembana kuyasebenza kunyango lweqela kuba kunceda abo baneengxaki zokwakha kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane. Kuyasebenza kuba abathathi-nxaxheba baya kufunda ukufumana intembeko kwaye kunokwenzeka baqale indlela eya kuthi ikhokelele ekusekweni kobudlelwane obutsha.
2. Ukuchongwa kweNjongo
Rhoqo, ukuseta iinjongo kuyinxalenye yonyango lweqela, ke imidlalo enceda ekuchongeni iinjongo kunye nokuseta kunenzuzo yonyango ngaphakathi kwiqela. Lo ngumdlalo onokuzonwabisa kwaye ube nethemba, kwaye ungawudlala ngamaqela amancinci okanye amakhulu kwindawo elula.
Uya kudinga
Ukudlala lo mdlalo, uya kudinga oku kulandelayo:
iindawo onokusebenza kuzo zili-16
- Iitafile
- Izitulo
- Iipeni ezinemibala
- IPhepha
Udlala kanjani
Ukudlala lo mdlalo kulo naliphi na iqela eliphakathi:
- Ilungu ngalinye malizobe ixesha elifutshane (iinyanga ezimbalwa) iinjongo, uluhlu lwexesha elifutshane (unyaka omnye), kunye nexesha elide (iminyaka embalwa). Zonke ezi zintathu kufuneka zibe ziinjongo kunye namanyathelo akhokelela kwinjongo enkulu.
- Inye ngexesha, umntu ngamnye othatha inxaxheba ebonisa iphepha kwiqela.
- Abathathi-nxaxheba beqela bazama ukuthelekelela injongo kwaye banike amagqabantshintshi ngendlela umthathi-nxaxheba anokuyiphumeza ngayo.
Kutheni isebenza
Umsebenzi okhuthaza kunye nokuphonononga iinjongo kunye neendlela ezisebenzayo kunyango lweqela. Ukuchongwa kweenjongo kubeka isikhokelo sabathathi-nxaxheba ukuze bafumane amava amahle kwiiseshoni zonyango ezizayo, nakubomi, ngokuka Iimfuno zoNyango lweQela . Amagqabantshintshi avela kwabanye abathathi-nxaxheba malunga nokufezekisa injongo ayivumela ukuba isebenze kuba inika ukuqonda ukuba umntu othabatha inxaxheba ebengakhange ayithathele ingqalelo ngaphambili kwaye ivumela iinjongo ezibonakala zingenakwenzeka ukuba azive zifikeleleka ngakumbi.
3. Nantoni na onokuyenza
Kunyango lweqela, abathathi-nxaxheba banethuba lokuncedana kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso. Ukwazi ukuba umntu akayedwa kunceda ekujonganeni nemihla ngemihla yobunzima.
Uya kudinga
Ukudlala lo mdlalo, uya kudinga izixhobo zokuphumelela ezinje ngeeplathi zangaphambili, amabhaso, amanqaku ephephandaba, iindebe, njl.
Udlala kanjani
Naliphi na iqela elilinganayo liya kusebenza. Ukudlala, umntu ngamnye othatha inxaxheba ame eqongeni kwaye enze kwakhona nantoni na ebangele ukuba aphumelele olo dumo. Umthathi-nxaxheba ufumana amaxesha apho baye bazuza into enkulu, kwaye abanye banokuphinda baqhwabele izandla impumelelo. Ukuxela umcimbi kunye nokuvumela abanye ukuba baqhwabele izandla umgudu kuya kuvumela ukuzithemba nokuzakha kunye nokuziva uzixabisile.
Kutheni isebenza
Ngokwe- Ijenali yaseBritane yeClinical Psychology , abaguli abanokuzithemba okuphezulu bafumana ukwaneliseka okuphezulu kumanyathelo eziphumo emva kokugqitywa konyango, kwaye amaqela okuzithemba aphantsi abonisa inkqubela phambili malunga neempawu zokudakumba emva konyango. Ukwakha ukuzithemba yindlela yokubonisa imfesane nobunye.
4. Ixesha lokuZenzel 'inceba
Imfesane yinto ebalulekileyo kunyango lweqela. Nangona kunjalo, abathathi-nxaxheba bahlala bekwazi ukubonelela ngemfesane kwabanye kodwa bangakwazi ukwenza okufanayo. Lo msebenzi uvumela abantu ukuba baziqhelise ukuba nemfesane kunye nengqondo ngokukhuthaza oontanga babo. Ezi zihlala ziindlela ezinikwa abanye kodwa azizenzeli ngamaxesha oxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
Uya kudinga
Ukudlala lo mdlalo, uya kudinga oku kulandelayo:
iblitshi kumlinganiselo wamanzi wokubumba
- Usiba
- IPhepha
Udlala kanjani
Naliphi na iqela eliphakathi liza kusebenza:
- Umntu ngamnye othatha inxaxheba makahlale yedwa kwaye aziphe ixesha lokucinga ngokuzola ngokuzisola ngobomi bakhe, ebhala elowo ephepheni.
- Xa behlanganiswe njengeqela, omnye ngexesha abathathi-nxaxheba bafunda ngokuvakalayo kwiqela ukuzisola kwabo, beqonda ukuba yintoni engahambanga kakuhle kwaye kutheni bephila ngokuzisola.
- Iqela liyabakhuthaza ngokudlulisa ukuba kutheni kufuneka uvelwano kunye noxolelo. Iqela alinakubeka tyala.
- Iqela kufuneka linike izimvo kunye nezisombululo malunga nendlela yokujongana nokuzisola.
Kutheni isebenza
Ukuziqhelanisa nemfesane ngokwakho kungena nzulu kwi-psyche yokujonga ukuba kutheni abantu bezinzima kangaka kubo. Inkqubo ye- Inkqubo yezePsychology efanelekileyo unikezela ngeencwadi kunye neephepha lokusebenzela elichaza umxholo ophembelela uvelwano. Ukuziqhelanisa nemfesane kuphonononga iimvakalelo zokuthandabuza, uthando, ukudideka kunye nokubandezeleka. Isibonelelo salo msebenzi kwiseshoni yeqela yinkxaso kunye nokufumana abanye abajongana neengxaki ezifanayo kunye nokuhlangabezana kunye ngonxibelelwano.
5. Danisa amaxhala akho kude
Amaqela afuna amathuba okufumana ubunye. Umculo yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo ekudibaniseni imiphefumlo. Inokukugungqisa, ikuthuthuzele, okanye ikhuphe iinyembezi. Lo msebenzi ubonelela abathathi-nxaxheba beqela ngendlela emnandi kunye nomculo yokufumana inkxaso kunye nobunye.
Uya kudinga
Kule mdlalo uya kuyidinga:
- IPhepha
- Izixhobo zokubhala
- Into yokudlala umculo
Udlala kanjani
Lo mdlalo ulungele amaqela amancinci namakhulu:
- Chonga imvumi / DJ.
- Ngaphambi kokudlala, yenza abathathi-nxaxheba uluhlu lweengoma ozithandayo zeentlobo ezahlukeneyo kwaye uzinike i-DJ.
- Okulandelayo, abathathi-nxaxheba badwelise iimpazamo, izilingo, okanye iingxaki ebomini babo ephepheni. Umthathi-nxaxheba ngamnye kufuneka adwelise inani elifanayo lemicimbi (kugqitywe kwangaphambili yingcali: 5, 10, njl.
- I-DJ ikhetha ngokungakhethiyo iingoma kuluhlu lwabathathi-nxaxheba, kwaye abathathi-nxaxheba badanise kunye nomculo de ikhankanye igama okanye ingxaki kuluhlu.
- Abathathi-nxaxheba emva koko bayigqithise ingxaki, njengebhingo, kwaye badanise nzima.
- Umntu 'odanisa' zonke iingxaki zabo kuqala ngoyiphumeleleyo kwaye uyaqhubeka nokudanisa kwiingxaki zabanye abathathi-nxaxheba njengendlela emnandi yokubonisa inkxaso.
Kutheni isebenza
Unyango ngomculo lunokungqina izibonelelo ngaphandle kwengxaki ekhoyo. Uphononongo olupapashwe kwi Ijenali yoMbutho woNyango lwezeMveli wase-Australia iziphumo ezichaziweyo ukuba unyango lomculo luyindlela efanelekileyo yokunyanga encoma iindlela zonyango lwesiqhelo kukhathalelo lwempilo lwehlabathi. Isifundo sinika ubungqina obucokisekileyo beziphumo ezilungileyo zonyango lomculo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zomzimba nezengqondo.
Ukuya phambili
Ukuziqhelanisa kweqela kubonelela ngokuqonda, ukumelana, inkxaso kunye noncedo kuninzi. Ukuba nemvakalelo yokuba ngowakho nokwazi ukuba umntu akayedwa kwindalo iphela kwenza ukuba umntu aphumelele usuku ngalunye enethemba lokuba ubomi buyaphucuka.
