AmaKristu akholelwa ukuba umtshato yisakramente ekufunekaungaphulwa. Xa umtshato usokola, iingcebiso zobuKristu ezinokunceda ukubuyisela izibini emendweni olungileyo. Ukuqonda indlela yobuKristu esekwe ngayoiingcebiso ngomtshatoImisebenzi inokukunika ithemba lokuba kufuneka uqhubeke nonyango.
Malunga nokuCetyiswa ngoMtshato
Iingcebiso zomtshato ezisekwe kubuKristu zineenqununu ezifanayo kunyango lwesintu. Ingcali iya kusebenza nawe kunye neqabane lakho ekuchongeni iingxaki zomtshato. Wena neqabane lakho niya kuthi emva koko nichaze into eningathanda ukuba niyenze emtshatweni. Le minqweno iguqulela kwiinjongo ezifumanekayo. Ngoncedo lwegqirha lakho, wena neqabane lakho niyakwenza amanyathelo okufikelela kwezi njongo.
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UbuKristu Buyanceda Njani
UbuKristu bunokunceda ukucacisa ukuba kutheni imicimbi yenzekile emtshatweni. Ubomi bunzima ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye abantu bayayilahla eyona njongo yobomi, ukulandela ukhokelo lukaThixo nokumkhonza. Ukubeka umva iimfundiso zeNkosi kunceda abantu bafumane iindlela ezintsha zokujonga iingxaki.
Ukoyisa imiceli mingeni
Ngelixa unenkcazo malunga nokuba kutheni wena neqabane lakho nihlukanisile kunokukunceda uqonde imeko, isenokungakuniki umkhombandlela. Ingcali yezonyango iya kukunceda wena kunye neqabane lakho nizenzele iindlela zokoyisa imiceli mngeni ukuze nobabini nifezekise into eniyifunayo emtshatweni, ngalo lonke eli xesha nigcina ukholo lukho. Nje ukuba ufumane isikhokelo, ugqirha unokukunika kunye neqabane lakho izabelo zokwenza kunye. Ezi zabelo zikunceda wena neqabane lakho ukuba niphinde nibe nonxibelelwano kunye noThixo.
Ukwanda koNxibelelwano
Ukufundaunxibelelwano olusebenzayokunye nokuphucula ukuthembana zizinto ezimbini ezibalulekileyo ku-ubudlelwane obuphilileyo. I-Therapist ikunceda wena neqabane lakho niphucule unxibelelwano ukuze ukungavisisani kungabi ziimpikiswano. Unokucacisa isidingo soku ngokwabelana ngombono kaThixo ngokungakhathali kwabanye. Unokucebisa ukuba kufundwe iBhayibhile xa unengxaki neqabane lakho. Ngenye indlela, unokucebisa ukuba ucinge ngezibhalo ezixoxa ngezono zabantu, ukuba baguquke njani kunye nendlela axolelwa ngayo nguThixo, ezinokukunceda uxolele iqabane lakho okanye iqabane lakho likuxolele.
Ukufumana iingcebiso malunga nokutshata emtshatweni
Unokwazi ukufumana i-Therapist kwindawo yakho kwi Ingcali yamaKristu iwebhusayithi. Unokuqhagamshelana necawa yamaKristu kwindawo ohlala kuyo okanye umntu ongenguye umKristu osebenza ngokunyanga ukuba ubuze ukuba angakudlulisela na komnye umntu. Imibutho yamaKrestu efana neZibonelelo zamaKatolika nayo inezixhobo. Psychology Namhlanje unikezela ngesiseko sedatha simahla ukufumana iingcali zezempilo yezengqondo ezinelayisensi kwezokholo kwingingqi yakho; iziko ledatha libandakanya iiprofayili ezibanzi zonyango ngalunye kubandakanya imfundo kunye nolwazi lwelayisenisi kwaye uninzi lweepraphraphra ezifakiweyo zibandakanya imiyalezo ebhalwe igama lomntu
Iicawa ezibonelela ngokucebisa ngomtshato
Nangona abefundisi kunye nabadala becawe bengasoloko benamaphepha-mvume okuba ngabaqeqeshi bezempilo yengqondo, uninzi lwabo lubonelela ngeengcebiso ekufuneka zithathelwe ingqalelo njengezicwangciswe ngakumbi, iingcebiso zomtshato ezisekelwe kwinkolo ngokuchaseneyo nonyango olusemthethweni. Ngelixa ezinye iicawa zinika iingcebiso kumalungu kuphela, ezinye zamkela nabani na ofuna ingcebiso. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nawuphina umcebisi onikezelwa ecaweni uya kuthi ngokuhamba aluleke ngokucebisa ngokusekwe kwiinkolelo zecawe leyo okanye ihlelo. Umzekelo, icawe engaluvumeliyo okanye oluvumayo uqhawulo-mtshato ayizukucebisa uqhawulo mtshato nokuba kunjani. Nxibelelana necawe oyikhethileyo ukuze ubone ukuba iyafumaneka na ingcebiso ngomtshato.
uxelele njani xa inja ikhulelwe
Beka Abacebisi kunye noMthetho
Amanye amazwe afuna ukuba abefundisi abanika iingcebiso banikwe iphepha-mvume ngaphambi kokubonelela nangaluphi na uhlobo lonyango, kodwa abanye bathi bafuna nje abafundisi abacebisayo ukuba babhalise njengabacebisi. 'Abacebisi abacwangcisiweyo' ngabantu ababonelela ngengcebiso ngaphandle kwemfundo esesikweni kunyango kwaye abanayo ilayisenisi yezempilo yengqondo. Kufanelekile ukuba ubuze malunga neempawu zonyango lomtshato ngaphambi kokuqala ukucetyiswa.
Ukugxininiswa kwenqanaba lobuKristu kuCounselling
Inqanaba lokugxininisa kubuKrestu kunikwa ingcebiso lixhomekeke kuwe, kwiqabane lakho nakwipilisi. Abanye oochwephesha baba bhetyebhetye ngelixa abanye bengqongqo ekusebenzeni kwabo. Ukufumanisa apho umcebisi wakho emi khona kubalulekile kwiseshoni yokuqala. Buza ugqirha ukuba ulubandakanya njani ukholo kwiiseshoni zakhe kwaye kulo lonke unyango. Ukongeza, buza ukuba ukhululekile kangakanani ekusebenziseni ngakumbi okanye kancinane iimfundiso ezisekwe kwinkolo kwiiseshoni.
UmKristu ngokuchasene nobuKristu
Uninzi lweengcali zemitshato ziya kwenza ibango lokuba ngabacebisi abangamaKristu, kodwa musa ukusekela unyango lwabo kwiinjongo zobuKristu. Ukuba ufuna i-Christian-based marriage therapy apho iBhayibhile ibhekiswa ngokungaguquguqukiyo, cela ukuba ngaba unyango lusekwe kubuKrestu ngokuchaseneyo nonyango olunikezwe ngumgqirha ongumKristu.
Wena, uThixo, kunye Nomtshato Wakho
Kwingcebiso yomtshato esekwe kubuKristu, kugxilwe kuThixo xa usenza intethoimiba yomtshato. Uya kulandela iimfundiso zikaThixo zokhokelo kunye nenkuthazo. Njengoko usiya uhambela ekuvuseleleni kwakho emtshatweni, uya kuphinda ufumane ukholo lwakho kuThixo.
