Ukuzama ukufumanisa ukuba ungawukhetha njani umhla wentengiso kunokubonakala kunzima. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba ucinga ngomntu ongathanda ukumbuza, kodwa kuya kufuneka ufunde ukubuza lo mntu. Kukho ukhetho oluninzi phaya lokuba ngubani onokukhetha olo luhlu kunokuba nzima. Nangona kunjalo, ukwazi ukuba ukhetha njani umhla we-prom akufuneki kube nzima.
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Kulunye ulutsha, ingxaki yomhla wokukhuthaza ilula kunokuba kunjalo kwabanye. Mhlawumbi uyazi umntu onesithandwa sakhe okanye intombi yakhe, ke ukufumana usuku kumphambili kulula kuye. Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yokuba ungathandani nomntu oko akuthethi ukuba ukhetha umhla wokukhuthaza kufuneka ube nzima. Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokuyifumana kukusebenza ngokuchanekileyo. La manyathelo alandelayo anokukunceda ukuhlela umcimbi ngendlela efanelekileyo ngexesha:
- Yenza uluhlu lwawo nabani na ongathanda ukuba nomhla kwisithembiso.
- Shenxisa nabani na omaziyo ayisiyonto inokukhethwa.
- Vavanya ezinye iindlela ezikhoyo ngokweendlela ezibalulekileyo.
- Buza umhla okhethiweyo.
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Yenza uluhlu
Thatha amagama abo bonke abantu ongathanda ukuya kwi-prom kunye nabo, kwaye ubhale phantsi endaweni enye. Cinga ngabantu ongazange ubabone ngaphambili, njengeqabane elidala lezibalo okanye umhlobo osuka kwesinye isikolo.
Ukuphelisa okungenakwenzeka
Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuhamba nomntu onokuthi angabi ngumhla wokwenyani kubo. Umzekelo, banokufuna ukuhamba nolona mfana utyebileyo esikolweni ukuze abhatale. Nangona kunjalo, kulutsha oluninzi, oku kuhlala kungenakwenzeka. Thatha ixesha lokususa nabani na ongathanda ukuhamba naye kodwa ngekhe ahambe nawe. Ukulahla ezi ndlela zingenakulindeleka kuseta indlela yokuba wenze isigqibo malunga nomhla wokukhawulezisa phakathi kokhetho lwakho olushiyekileyo.
Vavanya ukhetho lwakho
Ngoku ukuba ubasusile abo bangakhange babhengeze umhla wokukhetha, ungavavanya ukhetho oshiyekileyo kuluhlu. Cinga ngento ebalulekileyo kuwe malunga nobusuku bokuthengisa, kwaye ufumanise ukuba ngubani kuluhlu lwakho oya kulunge ngakumbi. Umzekelo, ubusuku bokukhuthaza bunokubandakanya ukudanisa okuninzi. Ngaba kubalulekile kuwe ukuba umntu ohamba naye abe ngumdanisi olungileyo? Ukuba kunjalo, jonga ukuba ngubani kuluhlu lwakho lwemihla enokubakho efanelekileyo. Nciphisa ukhetho ukuya kumhla omnye okanye ezimbini ezinokubakho.
Buza Umhla Wakho
Lixesha lokuba ubuze umhla wakho wokuthengisa. Ukuba awuziva ukhululekile ukwenza lo mbuzo, ungazama ukulahla iingcebiso kumhla wokufumana into ngokuthi, 'Andikabi nawo umhla wokukhuthaza, kodwa ndingathanda ukuhamba nomntu onjengawe' okanye 'Uyazi, siya kuba nexesha elimnandi kunye kwiprom.' Nangona ungaziva ukhululekile ukubuza ekuqaleni, kokukhona uthetha nalo mntu, unokuzibona sele uvulekile ukubuza. Umnqweno omhle!
Izigqibo ezingakumbi
Ukufumana umhla wentengiso yinxalenye elula. Kusekho ukufumana isinxibo se-prom okanye i-tuxedo, ukuhlela umcimbi wonke, ukuqonda ukuba uza kwenza ntoni emva kwesithembiso, kunye nokunye. Ukuqala kwenkqubo yokucwangcisa kunokuba luncedo, kodwa ungalibali ukuyeka ukonwaba. Yintengiso yakho emva kwayo yonke into- wonwabe!
