Ukuze umcimbi wakho okanye iqela liphumelele, kuya kufuneka ube namagama afanelekileyo kwisimemo. Amagama esimemo akufuneki adlulisele kuphela umhla, ixesha kunye nendawo yepati, kodwa kunye nomxholo, indlela esesikweni kunye nolwazi olongezelelweyo iindwendwe ekufuneka zazi.
Faka ulwazi oluchanekileyo
Phambi kokuba ukhathazeke ngamagama esimemo sakho, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba unalo lonke ulwazi oluchanekileyo ekufuneka lubandakanyiwe kwitheko lokumema. Nangona kunjalo ulicwangcisile, zonke izimemo kufuneka zinike ezi nkcukacha zilandelayo:
- Indawo yomthendeleko, umhla kunye nexesha: Olu lwazi lubalulekile ekufumaneni abahambi beqela lakho. Ukuba ungathanda ukusonga ipati ngexesha elithile, zive ukhululekile ukubhala oko kwisimemo, nawe. Amatheko amaninzi emihla yokuzalwa abantwana anesiqalo esiqinisekileyo nesiphelo, njengokuba kunjalo nakwamanye amatheko eeholide.
- Uyenza njani iMemo yeQela eshicilelweyo
- Iindawo Zokuzalwa
- Izimvo zePati yoLutsha lokuZalwa
- Uhlobo lweqela: Uyilo lwesimemo kunye namagama kufuneka zombini adlulise uhlobo lwepati, ukusukela ngomhla wokuzalwa ukuya kwishawa ukuya kwitheko lomhlala phantsi. Ukuba ucwangcisa iqela elothusayo, qiniseka ukuba icacile kwigama.
- Ubume: Ubume bungahluka ukusuka kwelinye iqela ukuya kwelinye iqela, nokuba kungomcimbi ofanayo. Yazisa iindwendwe ukuba itheko lokufudumeza indlu liqhelekile ngokubandakanya loo magama, okanye uqiniseke ukuba wonke umntu unxibe iqhina lakhe elimnyama ngokubhala isimemo ngokufanelekileyo.
- Imikhombandlela: Ukuba itheko liya kubanjelwa kwenye indawo ngaphandle kwendlela ebethiweyo, qiniseka ukuba iindwendwe ziyayazi indlela yokufika apho. Yongeza ikhadi elincinci lokuvala kunye nemephu kunye nezikhombisi.
- I-RSVP: Yazisa iindwendwe ngendlela yokwazisa ukuba bayeza. Faka inombolo yakho yefowuni kunye nedilesi ye-imeyile, kunye 'nempendulo ngomhla'.
Ukongeza kolu lwazi lusisiseko, kubalulekile ukuba ubandakanye naluphi na ulwazi olongezelelweyo iindwendwe ekufuneka zalazi. Umzekelo, iindwendwe ziya kudinga ukwazi ukuba kufuneka zizise iimpahla zokubhukuda kunye nezixhobo zepati yokuqubha. Ngokufanayo, ukuba itheko liqela elinxibe iimpahla, iindwendwe ziya kudinga ukwazi umxholo ukuze zikwazi ukunxiba ngokufanelekileyo.
Isimemo sePati yokuzalwa
Umzekelo weSimemo seQela lokuzalwa
Ithetha ntoni i-efc kwifafsa
Ngokwesiqhelo, isimemo somsitho wokuzalwa sinamagama avumela iindwendwe ukuba zazi ukuba ngumhla wokuzalwa komntu, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi, i-honoree iya kuba ninzi kangakanani ngalo mhla ukhethekileyo. Khetha amagama aqhelekileyo kummemo womcimbi wokuzalwa komntwana kunye namagama amiselweyo ngokusesikweni kwisimemo sephathi yokuzalwa sama-90. Ukuba undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo lunovakalelo malunga nobudala, yigcine kwisimemo kwaye endaweni yoko, sebenzisa isigama esifana 'nokubhiyozela le milestone' okanye 'ngaphezulu kwentaba' yesimemo.
Isimemo seqela elothusayo sifuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kumagama. Akuqhelekanga ukuba ungeze amagama amakhulu anesibindi phezulu kwesimemo esithi 'shh, yimfihlo' okanye 'zip imilomo yakho' phezulu kwesimemo seqela elothusayo.
Qinisekisa ukuba uthetha nesimemo ukuze iindwendwe zazi ukuba leliphi ixesha ekufuneka lifike ngalo kuthelekiswa neliphi ixesha olindele ukuba lindwendwe elizukileyo lifike ngalo. Undwendwe olufika emva kwexesha lunokunika isimanga.
Umxholo weQela
Umxholo wePhathi yokuVuma
Inyaniso okanye ulinge ukubuza imibuzo
Iqela lomxholo lifuna amagama akhethekileyo, kunye noyilo, ukuhambisa umxholo weqela. I-luaus yomnyhadala, izithuthuthu, kunye nee-1980s zimbalwa kumakhulu emixholo onokuthi uyongeze kwiqela lakho. Amaqela amaninzi omxholo asebenzisa amagama aqhelekileyo, amnandi ukubonisa ngokuthe ngqo ukuba bangakanani ngexesha lepati. Imvano-siphelo emfutshane kunye neendinyana ziqhele ukusetyenziswa ekubhaleni izimemo zepati yomxholo.
Ukuba unetheko lesiganeko esikhethekileyo esinomxholo wesibini, qiniseka ukuba kuyacaca nangegama. Umzekelo, itheko lokuzalwa linokuba nomxholo we-princess pirate, okanye iqela lokuphumelela linokubhiyozela ukuphuma kwe-Australia. Qiniseka ukuba uyifaka kwisimemo ngokusebenzisa imigca enje:
- Lusuku oluhle lwepati kwiiplanga! Sijoyine njengoko sithumela uSarah Smith elwandle ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe kwe-14!
- Bamba isidanga sakho ngokugqibeleleyo, kuba sisingatha i Ipati yokunxiba entle kuwongwa ikhondo lesikolo esiphakamileyo sikaBob.
- Qala ukuziqhelanisa ne-hula kuba siphosa uRon a luau kwiqela lakhe lomhlala-phantsi kwangethuba!
Isimemo sePati yesimemo sePati
Umzekelo oqhelekileyo weNdibano yeNdibano
Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngesimemo sakho sepati ukuze iindwendwe zazi ukuba itheko liqhelekile okanye lisesikweni. Umzekelo, isidlo sangokuhlwa sobhaptizo sinokuba yibarbeque yangasemva kwendlu, okanye kunokuba yinto entle ukuhlala phantsi isidlo sangokuhlwa kwivenkile yokutyela. Igama lesimemo sakho liya kwenza iindwendwe zazi ukuba zilindele ntoni kwitheko lakho ukuze zizilungiselele.
Imizekelo yokuNgoba kweqela eliqhelekileyo
Isimemo esinegama eliqhelekileyo asinayo nayiphi na imigaqo. Ungasebenzisa ulwimi lwemihla ngemihla, izifinyezo, amanani kunye nezifinyezo. Ngapha koko, usenokubhala nesimemo esilula esithi 'Nceda uze kwitheko lam!' ngeenkcukacha ezidweliswe ngokwahlukeneyo kumgca ngamnye.
injani ibermuda ingca
Ngelixa isimemo sinokuthi singaqhelekanga, kusabalulekile ukubandakanya lonke ulwazi olusisiseko lokufumana iindwendwe kwitheko ngexesha nangexesha lemibhiyozo.
Imizekelo yokuQoka ngokuSesikweni kweQela
Umzekelo oSesikweni weNdibano yeQela
Ukubhala ileta yesimemo esisesikweni yinto efanelekileyo yokwenza izihlandlo ezikhethekileyo kunye neziganeko. Umtsalane Iqela leKrisimesi , Ukunikezelwa kwamabhaso okanye iquinceanera ngawo onke amaxesha afanelekileyo ukuze ubize isimemo sakho ngokusesikweni. Amagama asesikweni alandela le mithetho:
- Sebenzisa i-calligraphy entle okanye unobumba obhaliweyo
- Pela onke amanani, kubandakanya imihla, amaxesha kunye needilesi
- Sukusebenzisa izifinyezo okanye izifinyezo
Izimemo zomtshato zinemithetho yazo ekhethekileyo yokusetyenziswa kwamagama, kuxhomekeke ekubeni umtshato uzakuba nje, ube sesikweni okanye ubhinqe omnyama, kunye nokuba ngubani ophethe umsitho. Le mithetho icacisiwe kumanqakuImigaqo yokuMema uMtshato,Isimemo SomtshatokwayeIvesi yesimemo somtshato.
Ukuziphatha kwePati yeNdibano
Xa kufikwa ekubhaleni isimemo, kukho imigaqo embalwa yokuziphatha ekufuneka ilandelwe. Ngelixa zingqongqo njenge-etiquette esemthethweni yomtshato, kufuneka zilandelwe ngokusondeleyo ukuze iindwendwe zazi kakuhle ukuba zilindele ntoni.
Ukutya neSiselo
Izimvo ezingakumbi zokuVuma
Yazisa iindwendwe ngemeko yokutya ngokongeza umgca okanye emibini ezantsi kwesimemo esithi 'Iziphatho ezilula kunye neziselo ezinikiweyo' okanye 'Imali egcweleyo ekhoyo,' kuxhomekeke kwiimeko zepati. Beka lo mgca wolwazi kwenye yeekona ezisezantsi zesimemo.
unikela ntoni kwitheko lothethathethwano
Izipho
Ngokwesiqhelo, kuthathelwa ingqalelo isimilo esingafanelekanga ukukhankanya nezipho kwisimemo sepati. Nangona kunjalo, kule minyaka idlulileyo, abantu abaninzi bakubona kufanelekile ukubhala 'ubukho bakho bukho ngokwaneleyo' ezantsi kwizimemo zepati zokuzalwa, iishawari okanye izimemo. Thatha isigqibo sokuba oku kuyamkeleka kwisangqa sakho sentlalo ngaphambi kokuba uprinte izimemo zakho ngeli gama.
Igrama
Okokugqibela, qiniseka ukuba ufunda ngaphezulu kwesimemo amaxesha amaninzi. Jonga upelo, igrama kunye nazo zonke iinkcukacha ngaphambi kokuposa. Ukuprintwa ngokulula komhla okanye kwexesha kunokubangela iintloko ezininzi kuwe nakwiindwendwe zakho.
Ukubhala kwazisa iindwendwe ngeenkcukacha zeqela
Nangona kunjalo ukhetha ukubiza isimemo sepati yakho, into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukuba isimemo esihle sinika iindwendwe zonke iinkcukacha ekufuneka bezazile ukuze ube nexesha elimnandi kwitheko lakho. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uluhlu lwamagama kumbongo omnandi okanye njengoluhlu olulula lomgca-ngomgca wolwazi, ukuba nje kulula ukuluqonda.
