Ukubhalela umntu omthandayo oswelekileyo ngumsebenzi weemvakalelo kunye nobuchule. Umngcwabo uyavuma ilahleko kwaye ubambe isishwankathelo sobomi bomfi. Amabinzana aliqela ahlukeneyo athe saa kuyo yonke indawo yokungcwaba. 'Ukuxelwa kwangaphambili ekufeni' libinzana elisetyenziselwa ukubeka ukufa kwalomntu ulithandayo kulandelelwano lobomi bosapho. Nantsi inkcazo yebinzana ukukunceda wenze amagama asetyenzisiweyo kwi-obituary.
Kuthetha Ukuthini 'Ukufa Ngaphambili'?
Injongo yeyokungcwabakukuthabatha isishwankathelo sobomi bomfi. Ukuthetha ngezalamane ezisondeleyo zalowo ungasekhoyo yindlela yokuchonga indima edlalwe ngumfi kusapho. Njengokufika kwengcwaba, kuya kufakwa amagama amalungu osapho asaphilayo. Ingcwaba liza kubonisa ukuba umfi 'walandelwa kukufa' ngabantu abathile. Oku kuthetha ukuba izalamane ezidwelisiweyo zisweleke ngaphambi komfi.
Eminye indlela kwiBinzana
Ibinzana elithi 'kwandulela ukufa' liyafana 'nelaphambili.' Abantu abaninzi bakhetha eyangaphambili kuba ivakala ngathi incinci, ngelixa begcina umoya osesikweni. Amanye amabinzana anokusetyenziswa abandakanya:
- Udlule : Ibinzana elithi 'ukusweleka' lihlala lisetyenziselwa ukuthatha kancinci umda kude nembono 'yomfi.' Kwimeko yokungcwaba, eli binzana linokuvakala ngathi, 'Umfazi kaJohn uJane nonina uJoan basweleka ngaphambi kokubhubha kukaJohn.'
- Ngaphambili imkile : Njengokuba ubudlelwane kwiintsapho zanamhlanje buba nzima ngakumbi, kuye kwaqhelekile ukusebenzisa ibinzana elithi 'bemkile ngaphambili' ukuchonga abahlobo kunye nabangengabo izihlobo, ngelixa besebenzisa ibinzana elithi 'kwandulela ukufa' ukuchaza amalungu osapho. 'Abathandekayo abahamba ngaphambili babandakanya umhlobo kaJohn obalulekileyo uSally Smith.'
- Amabinzana enkolo kunye neesimboli : Xa umntu omthandayo enemvelaphi eyomeleleyo yenkolo, kuqhelekile ukusebenzisa amabinzana abonisa iimvakalelo zenkolo kwi-obituary. UJohn uhlanganisene ezulwini nabazali bakhe, uJoe noMary Smith. Uyakudibana kwakhona nenkosikazi yakhe, uJoan, owayeye kuba neNkosi kwisithuba esingaphezulu konyaka odlulileyo.
- Wangena ekuphumleni okungunaphakade : Elinye ibinzana eliqhelekileyo lenkolo 'ungene ekuphumleni okungunaphakade.' Kwimeko yokungcwaba, kunokuvakala ngathi, 'UJohn ujoyina umfazi wakhe uMariya njengoko bengenile ekuphumleni okungunaphakade.'
Ngubani omele akhankanywe kwi-Obituary?
Kuba i-obituary sisibhengezo esisemthethweni sokufa, kukho imigaqo yokuziphatha ekufuneka ilandelwe. Nangona ikhona imithetho emayilandelwe, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ingqiqo nokuhlonipha iminqweno yomfi. Indawo enye elandela umthetho olandelwayo kukudweliswa kwabasindileyo kunye nabo bangaphambi kokusweleka. Ngokwesiqhelo uluhlu lwalubandakanya amalungu osapho asondeleyo, kodwa kwihlabathi lanamhlanje leentsapho ezixubileyo kunye nababesakuba ngamaqabane, ukuqonda kushiyelwa kumbhali we-obituary kunye neemvakalelo zalowo ungasekhoyo. Nanku umyalelo wezalamane nabahlobo ekufuneka belandelwe.
- Iqabane lihlala lidweliswa kuqala, kunye nesixeko apho iqabane lihlala khona. Sebenzisa ukuqonda, kodwa iqabane elingelilo iqabane linokuhlala kwesi sikhundla kuluhlu.
- Emva kweqabane, abantwana badwelisiwe. Ukuba abantwana bakunye neqabane langaphambili, igama le-ex linokuvela apha.
- Abazali bomfi bahlala kwindawo ekhethekileyo kuluhlu.
- Amalungu osapho awandisiweyo azakufakwa ngokulandelayo kuluhlu. Umyalelo wesiko uya kuba ngabazukulwana, ootatomkhulu, oomalume, oomalume, abatshana, abatshana. Kuxhomekeke kubungakanani bosapho, abazala bakho banokufakwa kuluhlu.
- Ukongeza abahlobo abasenyongweni kolu luhlu kuya kuthandwa kakhulu. Ezi ziya kudweliswa ngokweentsapho.
- Kwinkcubeko yanamhlanje, izilwanyana zasekhaya zihlala ziphathwa njengelungu losapho. Amagama ezilwanyana zasekhaya aya esiba ngundaba-mlonyeni.
Ukucwangcisa amagama afanelekileyo kwi-Obituary
Kumashumi eminyaka nangaphezulu, isidumbu sisebenzise indlela esemgangathweni yokubonisa ulwazi malunga nomfi kunye nosapho. Isiko lakha ukhuseleko kunye nentuthuzelo. Ivumela umbhali we-obituary ukuba alandele ifomathi emiselwe kwangaphambili. Kodwa ukuba amabinzana afana 'andulela ekufeni' abethelelwe kakhulu kubuntu bomntu oswelekileyo, amanye amabinzana anokusetyenziselwa ukwenza isigcino somntu ngakumbi kwaye sibe nentsingiselo.
