Thatha ixesha ngaphambi kokuba uqale kwakhona.
Ukuphindaphinda ubudlelwane emva koqhawulo mtshato kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Ngokuzinika ixesha lokuphola emva kokuphela komtshato wakho, nangona kunjalo, uya kuba nakho ukwenza ukhetho olungcono malunga nomntu olandelayo oza kukhetha ukubandakanyeka naye.
KwiRoundound
Xa uqala ubudlelwane obutsha nje emva kokuqhawula umtshato, kunokwenzeka ukuba uthandana kwisaphulelo. Ukuba iqabane lakho ibinguLowo ubhengeze ukuba ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato, sisibetho esikhulu eso kwi-ego yakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva ubuhlungu, nokuba ubusazi kwinqanaba elithile ukuba ubudlelwane abusebenzi.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo
- Iingcebiso zoMama abangatshatanga
- Ukwabiwa ngokulinganayo koqhawulo mtshato
- Ukulinda Indoda Eqhawula Umtshato
Ngelo xesha, ukuba wedwa yinto yokugqibela ofuna ukuyenza. Ungoyika ukuba akukho mntu uya kuphinda akufumane unomdla kwakhona. Ngenisa ubudlelwane obubuyile. Ukuba uthandana ukuze ungabinakho ukuza kwisiphelo somtshato wakho, olu lwalamano lutsha alunakuhlala.
Eminye indlela yokuBuyisa ubuhlobo kwakhona emva koqhawulo-mtshato
Ngelixa kunokuba kulinga ukufuna iqabane elitsha kwangoko, ikhondo elingcono lesenzo kukuhlehlisa ukuthandana nomntu omtsha kude kudlule ixesha. Kuya kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokuqonda ukuba kutheni umtshato uphelile kwaye ube buhlungu xa ulahlekelwe.
Unokufuna ukubeka ityala kwiqabane lakho ngokupheliswa komtshato wakho, kodwa inyani kukuba omabini la maqela abe negalelo kuqhawulo mtshato. Ukuba utsibela echibini lokuthandana kungekudala, kunokwenzeka ukuba imicimbi efanayo izakuvela kwakhona kubudlelwane bakho obutsha.
Ixesha lokuPhilisa
Endaweni yokukhangela umntu omtsha oza kuthandana naye, indlela ebhetele kukuthatha isigqibo sokuba awuzukuthandana nabani kangangexesha elithile emva koqhawulo-mtshato. (Ezinye iingcali zincomela ukuba ulinde iinyanga ezili-12 ngaphambi kokuba uzibandakanye nomntu omtsha.) Ixesha elilandela emva koqhawulo-mtshato liyakuba notshintsho olwaneleyo lokuba ukongeza uxinzelelo lobudlelwane obutsha akulunganga kuwe okanye kuloo mntu ubandakanyeka naye. Ukutshata yinxalenye enkulu yesazisi somntu, kwaye kuya kufuneka ngoku ufumanise ukuba ungubani ngaphandle kobudlelwane bomtshato. Kunokuba yinto enomdla kwaye yoyikise ukuphuma ngokwakho ukuzakhela ubomi obutsha, ngakumbi ukuba ungumzali ogcina abantwana nabantwana abancinci. Endaweni yokuzalisa ukungabikho kobomi bakho obushiyekileyo ngokwahlukana nomntu omtsha, unokufuna ukwenza oku kulandelayo:
- Joyina icawe okanye ubandakanyeke ngakumbi kuleyo ukuyo ngoku
- Thatha iiklasi kwisikolo sasebusuku
- Qala umdlalo omtsha
- Amavolontiya kwinjongo ocinga ukuba ibalulekile
Yenza isigqibo ngento oyifunayo
Njengokuba usondela kwixesha apho uzibona uphuma ngaphandle kwemihla, thatha ixesha lokufumanisa ukuba ufuna bani kwiqabane lothando. Yithini inqambi inegama elinjani? Zeziphi iintlobo zezinto ezizahlula-hlula ngokubhekisele kwezothando, kwaye yintoni ozimisele ukuba bhetyebhetye kuyo?
Nje ukuba ube nombono ocacileyo engqondweni yakho malunga nokuba ngubani omfunayo kwaye luhlobo luni lolwalamano olufunayo, ume ithuba elingcono lokulufumana. Ukuya kwimihla kuyinto encinci njengokuya kudliwanondlebe lomsebenzi; ufuna ukubona ukuba ulungile na omnye komnye.
Isenokungavakali imnandi kakhulu, kodwa ukufumana umntu onomdla kunye neenqobo ezifanayo kuthetha ukuba ulwalamano lwakho kunokwenzeka ukuba lube lolwexesha elide kunokuthembela kumtsalane womzimba ukumisela inqanaba lokuhambelana.
Ukuthandana emva komtshato kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, kunjalo. Awufuni kuza nemicimbi efanayo ebenegalelo ekuphelisweni komtshato wakho. Ngokuzinika 'ixesha lokuphuma' ngaphambi kokuzibandakanya nomntu omtsha, uya kuthintela ubudlelwane obunokubuyela emva koqhawulo-mtshato kwaye uya kuba nethuba elingcono lokuba nolwalamano oluhle ngexesha elizayo.
Izixhobo ezongezelelweyo zeLoveToKnow
Xa sele ukulungele ukuqala ukudibana nomntu omtsha emva koqhawulo-mtshato, ndwendwela uLoveToKnow Dating.
