Ubudala obufanelekileyo bokuzibandakanya

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

Ikhekhe.jpg

Ubudala bekhalenda yenye yezinto zokuzibandakanya.





Abantu abaninzi abatshatileyo abanomdla wokuzibophelela ubomi babo bonke banokuzibuza ukuba bakudala na ixesha lokutshata. Ngokuzihlola ngokwahlukeneyo kunye nolwalamano lwabo kunye, banokufumanisa ukuba bakulungele na inyathelo lokuqala ukuya kuthi ga ekufeni.

Akukho Budala bufanelekileyo bokuzibandakanya

Ukungaqondi okokuqala izibini ezininzi ezitshatayo ziyasokola kukuba kukho ubudala obumiselwe kwangaphambili obuchanekileyo kwisicelo somtshato, kwaye banokuba badala kakhulu okanye babancinci kakhulu ukuba bangathatha inyathelo elinjalo kubudlelwane babo. Ngapha koko, abantu abatshatileyo bayazibophelela kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ubudala obufanelekileyo bulungile kweso sibini. Iminyaka yabo yobudala kunye nobudala bobudlelwane babo buya kuba nefuthe elingathethekiyo nokuba bangakanani na ubudala bokutshata.





Amanqaku afanelekileyo
  • Ngaba Ndikulungele Ukuzibandakanya
  • Iingcamango zeefoto zokuzibandakanya
  • Uhambo Imisesane yeDayimani

Amaxesha aBodwa

Iminyaka yabo babini abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka badlale indima yokuba bakulungele na ukutshata. Ngohlobo lobomi namava abantu abadala, umntu okhulileyo uya kuba nolwazi olunobulumko behlabathi ngobomi obungengobabo - baya kuba namava ngokuhlawula amatyala, ukugcina umsebenzi, ukuqhubela phambili imfundo kunye nezinye iinjongo. Isibini esitshatileyo, nangona kunjalo, sinokusongelwa kwiimvakalelo zabo kwaye singabinangqondo elungileyo yokwakha ubomi kunye ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali okanye eminye imithombo.

Kwangelo xesha, iimeko zomntu ngamnye zinokwahluka kakhulu: umntu oneminyaka eyi-23 oye wahlala ekhaya ngekholeji kwaye wasuswa ehlotyeni angakulungeli ukuzibophelela kwabantu abadala ukuba bazibophezele kunomntu oneminyaka eli-19 ubudala Uhlobo LwegumbiIndlu yonke / iflethi Kubalulekile, ke, ukuba ukukhula komntu kunye neminyaka yekhalenda nganye kufanele kube yinto ebalulekileyo ekuzibopheleleni ekutshateni.



Iminyaka yobudlelwane

Ubudala bobudlelwane bobabini bukwabalulekile xa becinga ngokubandakanyeka, nokuba bangade babe badala kangakanani. Isibini esineminyaka engama-26 kodwa esazana kuphela iiveki ezimbalwa sinokungakulungeli ukutshata kunesibini esineminyaka engama-20 kodwa bekunye iminyaka eliqela. Ngokufanelekileyo, isibini kufanele ukuba sibe kunye ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo ukuba sibonane kwiimeko ezingaphaya kokuqengqeleka kokuqala kokuthandana- izehlo ezinje ngeeholide zosapho, utshintsho lomsebenzi, ukwahlukana okude, kunye nengxoxo ngamanye amaxesha inokunceda ubudlelwane besibini ukuba buqole ngaphaya kwenqanaba lokuthabatheka. Isiganeko ngasinye sinika isibini ukuqonda komnye nomnye ukubona ukuba bakulungele ukutshata. Kwezinye izibini, iinyanga nje ezimbalwa zinokude ngokwaneleyo ukuba zithathe isigqibo malunga nokuzibophelela, kwaye kwezinye izibini kungathatha iminyaka eliqela ngaphambi kokuba bazive bekhululekile ukuba bangathembisana.

Umahluko wobudala

Isibini esinokungangqinelani kweminyaka sinemiceli mngeni eyongezelelweyo xa sijonga ukubandakanyeka. Umzekelo, ngelixa umntu omnye esenokuba mdala kwaye ukulungele ukubandakanyeka, omnye umntu usenokuba mncinci kakhulu ukuba angavavanya ngokwenyani ubudlelwane kunye nokuzinikela ngokufanelekileyo. Kule meko, umntu omdala kufuneka aqonde iimfuno zeqabane lakhe kwaye abancede bakhule ngokwahlukeneyo ukuze bakwazi ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba ukuzibophelela okunzulu yeyona nto bayifunayo ngokwenene. Ukungxama ukuzibophelela ngenxa yobudala obugqithisileyo kunokukhokelela kuqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukungonwabi emtshatweni. Umahluko wobudala unokukhokelela kwiifilosofi ezahlukeneyo malunga nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu emtshatweni, ezinje ngemisebenzi yabantu, inkolo, ukuba ngumzali, imali, kunye neminye imiba ephambili. Nasiphi na isibini esineminyaka eyahlukileyo esingaphezulu konyaka okanye emibini kufuneka siqwalasele ngononophelo ezi ntlobo zemicimbi yokuqinisekisa ukuba bayakwazi ukusebenza kunye kubudlelwane obonwabisayo ngaphandle kokungaqondani okucacileyo okanye ukucinga.

Xa Ubudala Buyingxaki

Wedshadow.jpg

Nokuba abantu abatshatileyo baziva ukuba bakulungele ukutshata kwaye bayisebenzisile imicimbi phakathi kwabo banokufumana ubudala babo bube yingxaki kwabanye, ngakumbi ukuba isibini sisencinci kakhulu okanye ukuba kukho ukungangqinelani kweminyaka ngokucacileyo. Ngaphambi kokungxamela ukugweba amalungu osapho alumkileyo, nangona kunjalo, abatshatileyo kufuneka babonakalise ukukhula kwabo kunye nokukhula kobudlelwane babo ngokuvuma nokuxoxa ngezi zinto zixhalabisayo nabazali babo okanye amanye amalungu osapho nabahlobo. Ngelixa amalungu osapho kunye nabahlobo kungafanelekanga ukuba bagwebe ngokuzenzekelayo iinjongo zesibini ngokusekwe kubudala babo, ukumisela ingxoxo malunga neenkxalabo endaweni yokwenza izigqibo, ukwenza iimfuno, okanye ukusebenzisa isimo sengqondo esithi 'yamkele nje' kunokuhamba indlela ende ekuqinisekiseni wonke umntu ukuba esi sibini ulungele ngokwenene ukutshata.




Ekuphela kweminyaka efanelekileyo yokutshata yiminyaka evakalelwa ilungile kwisibini esichaphazelekayo, nokuba bazalwa nini okanye badibana nini. Ngokuqonda ukuba iminyaka yobudala kunye nobude bobudlelwane bunokuchaphazela njani ukubandakanyeka, nangona kunjalo, isibini sinokuhamba kakuhle kumaqhuma ahambelana nobudala njengoko belungiselela ukuguga kunye.

Iclaloria Calculator