Abaphathi beeRingi

Umgcini wendandatho kunye nentombazana yeentyatyambo zizongezo ezithandekayo kulo naliphi na itheko lomtshato. Kukho iinkcukacha kunye nemigaqo yokuziphatha, nangona kunjalo, elawula ukukhethwa kwalo mntwana.

Uxanduva lwangaphambi koMtshato

Abazali bomphathi wemisesane kufuneka benze oku kulandelayo phambi komsitho womtshato:

Abazali bafanele ukulindela hlawula isinxibo sabantwana babo . Ukuba bavunyelwe ukukhetha isinxibo sabaphathi bomsesane, kufuneka bafumane imvume kumtshakazi nomyeni; Ngaphandle koko, kufanele ukuba umntwana afakwe kwivenkile efanayo yokuqeshisa njengalo lonke iqela lomtshato.
Abaphethe iiringi kunye nabazali babo kufuneka balindele ukuya kuzilolongezo (kwaye bamenywe kwisidlo sokuziqhelisa). Oku unako (okanye unako) ziqhelise ukuhamba ezantsi kwendlela ngomqamelo kunye / okanye intombazana yeentyatyambo.
Ukuba iifoto zigcinwe ngaphambi komsitho, umphathi wesangqa kufuneka afike ngexesha elibekiweyo ukuze athathe inxaxheba. Oku kunokuba semva kokuba zonke iifoto zithathiwe ukugcina izinto zinokulawulwa nguye.

Amanqaku afanelekileyo

Imifanekiso yeentyatyambo zoMtshato
Iingubo zomtshakazi oMtshisiweyo weorenji
Iingcamango zomtshato zasehlotyeni

Imisebenzi yoMsitho

Ngexesha lomsitho womtshato, umntu ophethe umsesane kulindeleke ukuba:

Ngena kumgca wenkqubo kwaye uhambe ezantsi.
Phatha umsamo womkhosi okanye ezinye izinto ezincedisayo (ezinje ngomqondiso omnandi). Amakhonkco e-Faux ziqhotyoshelwe emqamelweni kunokuba zizezokwenyani.
Yima ngaphambili ukufumana amagama okuqala avela kumagunya; emva koko unokuvunyelwa ukuba ahlale kwisitulo esiphambili nabazali.
Yiya ngasemva kwendawo ekuphumleni kunye nabanye abatshatileyo.

Umgca wokufumana emva komsitho awuhlali ubandakanya ophethe umsesane.

Imisebenzi yokwamkela

Ukuba usuku lude lomntwana, usenokungafuni ukwaziswa kulwamkelo. Onke amaqela kufuneka eyiqonde kwaye ayamkele le nto.

Umntu ophethe iringi uhlala ehlala nabazali bakhe okanye oomakhulu nootatomkhulu kwiindawo ezithile ngaphambili kweholo lokwamkela iindwendwe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba mdala noko okanye ungumntwana womnye wabalindi okanye isibini esitshatileyo, unokuhlala etafileni.

Ngexesha lomdaniso, umntu ophethe iringi unokufuna ukusika irabha eyedwa okanye ayitsibe ngokupheleleyo. Abantwana abalindelwanga ukuba bathathe inxaxheba, kodwa mxelele ukuba wamkelekile ukuba azibandakanye.

Abazali abaphethe iiringi abancinci banokufuna ukushiya ulwamkelo ngaphambi kokuba kugqitywe. Esi sibini kunye nabazali kufuneka baxoxe ngoku ngaphambi komtshato ukuze wonke umntu abe kwiphepha elinye. Nangona kunjalo, abazali kufuneka benze iinzame zokubavuyela okokugqibela ngaphambi kokuba bahambe.

Uyikhetha njani iMfonomfono

Ziliqela izinto eziza kudlala xa kukhethwa umphathi wesangqa, ngokwesintu nangoko.

Uluhlu lweminyaka

Ngokubanzi, Ingcali yokuziphatha uEmily Post icebisa iminyaka emi-3 ukuya kweli-7 ngeli xesha UMartha Stewart ihamba kunye neminyaka emi-5 ukuya kweli-10. Ewe kunjalo, esi sibini sinokuthatha isigqibo sokucela umntwana okhulileyo okanye omncinci ukuba asebenze njengophethe umsesane; banokufuna nje indawo yokuhlala. Umzekelo:

Iintsana, iintsana, kunye nabantwana abancinci banokufuna ukuthwalwa okanye ukuhanjiswa phantsi komgaqo ngumntu omdala ongumlindi.
Abantwana abadala banokuthatha uxanduva ngakumbi, njengokuyimela yonke inkonzo, kunokuhlala nabazali babo.

Isini

Ngokwesiko indima yendoda ephethe umsesane yayigcwaliswa yinkwenkwe. Oku akubekwanga ematyeni, nangona kunjalo. Ukuba ukhetha ukukhetha intombi encinci eza kusebenza kule ndima, kulungile. Unokunxiba ilokhwe eneempawu ezimnyama (ukufana ne-tuxedo) okanye ilokhwe efanayo kwintombazana yeentyatyambo kodwa uphathe nje umsesane womsesane.

Ulwalamano

Cinga ubudlelwane onabo nabazali bomntwana kunye nomntwana. Abantwana besi sibini bahlala benikwa kuqala ukuba abekho kwezinye iindima. Abatshana, oothixo, kunye nabahlobo abasenyongweni nabo banokukhetha.

Ukuba umntwana wakho wayephethe umsesane kumhlobo okanye kumtshato welungu losapho, banokulindela ukuba abantwana babo badlale indima efanayo emtshatweni wakho. Ungaziva unyanzelekile ukuba ubuze, kodwa ukuba awuyi kubuyekeza, cinga ngokucela umntwana ukuba ancede ngenye indlela ebalulekileyo (njengokubeka itafile yencwadi yeendwendwe).

Iimeko ezizodwa

Ngelixa umntu ophethe iringi iyindima yesiko, usenokuhlangabezana neemeko ezimbalwa ezizodwa. Umzekelo:

Xa kukho ngaphezulu kwesinye esithwele iringi, abantwana banokuhamba ezantsi ngakwipaseji ngababini. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphezulu kwesine sisonke sinokugqitha kuxhomekeke kubungakanani bomtshato wakho.
Iintsana zinokunikwa iwonga lokuphatha iringi kule nkqubo kodwa kungalindelwa ukuba zibanjelwe ngaphambili ecaweni ngexesha lomsitho.
Isilwanyana othandekayo kunokuba yinto oyikhethayo. Qiniseka ukuba uyakucoca oku ngendawo kwaye kuphela ukuba isilwanyana sasekhaya sikhonauqeqeshwe kakuhle. Inja elandela imiyalelo kwaye isetyenziselwa isihlwele lukhetho olufanelekileyo; ikati efihla kuzo zonke iindwendwe mhlawumbi iya kuba yingxaki.
Ukutsiba umphathi weringi ayaziwa kwaye inokuphelisa ukuqaqanjelwa ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo.

Indima Ebalulekileyo

Umntu ophethe iringi kufuneka aqonde indawo yakhe ebalulekileyo kwitheko lomtshato. Abazali kunye nesibini kufuneka simncede ukuba azive ekhululekile kwaye indawo yakhe iya kuphumelela.