Xa umntu othile okanye umbutho othile unika uncedo nenkxaso ngexesha losizi, ithuba lokubonisa umbulelo liyavela. Ngelixa amagama kwincoko ebalulekile, kuhlala kubhaliwe, ukubhengezwa ngokusesikweni kombulelo kuyafuneka. Kungaphezulu kokufanelekileyo ukuthumela ileta yombulelo ecaweni emva komngcwabo. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso kunye neeleta zesampulu ukubonisa umbulelo wakho.
Iingcebiso ezintathu ekwenziweni kweleta yoxabiso kwiCawe emva koMngcwabo
Ukubonisa umbulelo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yenkqubo yokuphilisa emva komngcwabo. Usenokuzibuza ukubaIileta zokubulela ziyafuneka. Abantu abaninzi abaqinisekanga ngendlela yokubonisa umbulelo kumbutho ofana necawe. Nazi iingcebiso ezintathu ezilula zokukunceda wenze ileta yoxabiso ecaweni emva komngcwabo.
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Cacisa
Icawa yendawo yenza inani elikhulu leenkonzo ezahlukeneyo kunye nolungiselelo rhoqo. Iinkonzo zinokufezekiswa ngumsebenzi oqeqeshiweyo okanye abefundisi, okanye banokugqitywa livolontiya. Ileta yakho yokubulela iya kunceda ileta yoxabiso ifike kumntu olungileyo. Chaza nje ubulungiseleli obenziweyo kunye nabantu okanye iikomiti ezikuncedileyo.
Mfutshane
Icawa ayifuni okanye ilindele ukuba iqulunqwe ixesha elide evakalisa umbulelo wakho. Bulela umbulelo wakho kunye neenkonzo kunye neenkonzo ezenziweyo.
Khawuleza
Icawa iyaqonda ukuba usentlungwini kwaye zininzi izinto ezisengqondweni yakho, ekufuneka zenziwe. Kwiintsuku ezilandelayo emva komngcwabo, izinto ziya kuqala ukuzinza zibuyele esiqhelweni. Ukuthatha ixesha kwangethuba ukubonisa umbulelo kuya kukugcina ungalibali ukuyenza, kodwa kuya kukunceda kwinkqubo yokuphilisa.
Iindima ezininzi ezidlalwa yiCawe
Kwabaninzi, indawo icawa ebeka kuyo ebomini bomntu ibalulekile. Ukusukela ekubhaptizweni nasekukhathaleleni umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa ukuya kumsitho womtshato kunye nasemtshatweni welungu losapho, icawe yakha ubudlelwane nabantu kwaye ibabonelele ngenkonzo ngexesha elikhethekileyo lobomi. Ukusweleka kothandekayo kunika amathuba amaninzi ecaweni okulungiselela kumalungu ayo. Indawo yokungcwaba ikwavumela icawe ukuba ifikelele kwaye inike inkonzo kubantu abangengawo amalungu ngexesha losizi. Nazi izinto ezininzi eziqhelekileyo ibandla elinokubonelela ngazo umntu ngexesha lomngcwabo, kunye nomzekelo wencwadi yokubulela.
Ukutya
Inkonzo eqhelekileyo iinkonzo ezininzi ezinikezela kwabo bafelweyo kukubonelela ngokutya kosapho ngexesha apho ukupheka kungekho engqondweni yomntu. Ukutya kunokunikwa usapho ngeentsuku zokundwendwelwa okanye kwangoko emva koko. Isidlo sinokubonelelwa kusapho olwandisiweyo emva komngcwabo. Ileta yombulelo inokuvakala ngolu hlobo:
Molo [Igama lomntu],
Enkosi ngokulungiselela nokuzisa ukutya kutyelelo lotatomncinci. Icawe ibeyintsikelelo ngeli xesha linzima kusapho lwethu. Itreyi zenyama, iziqhamo, kunye nokukhethwa kwesonka kunike wonke umntu ithuba lokutya xa kufuneka.
Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngokucinga kwakho.
Ozithobileyo,
Usapho lakwaJones
Ukusingatha iNkonzo yokuNgcwaba
Xa umfi wayelilungu elikhutheleyo lebandla, usapho lwalunqwenela ukuba umngcwabo ubanjelwe kwisakhiwo secawa. Oku kunokwamkelwa xa isihlwele esikhulu kulindeleke ukuba siye kwinkonzo yomngcwabo. Umngcwabo wecawe ukwabonelela ngokulula njengamalungu ecawa ukuba aye. Ileta emnandi yombulelo inokuthi:
Molo [Igama likaMfundisi],
Xa kwakufuneka sithathe isigqibo sokuba sizoyibamba phi inkonzo yomngcwabo, umnqweno wethu yayihlala kukuhlonipha utata ecaweni yakhe. Umoya wobabalo wamalungu ecawa kunye nobubele bakho imini yonke buzise ukukhanya kwelanga kubumnyama beeyure zethu. Asinakuze siyilibale indlela icawa ebonakalisa ngayo uthando nembeko kutata.
Ozithobileyo,
UJane Jones
Ukubonelela ngoMculo okanye uMyalezo
Ngexesha lenkonzo yomngcwabo, amalungu eecawe bahlala bethatha inxaxheba kwinxalenye yomngcwabo. Banokubonelela ngomculo okhethekileyo, umculo wesixhobo somculo, bafunde iZibhalo, bahambise umbongo, okanye benze umyalezo womngcwabo. Lo ingangumzekelo weleta evakalisa umbulelo ngezi ntlobo zeenkonzo.
Molo [Igama loQhakamshelwano eCaweni, Umntu ngamnye owenze iiNkonzo, okanye uMfundisi],
Egameni losapho lukaJim Jones, ndingathanda ukuvakalisa umbulelo wethu kubo bonke abenze iinkonzo kumngcwabo katata. Umbulelo wethu uya kuJane Smith ngomculo othandekayo weqonga, kuJim Smith ngokufunda iSibhalo, kunye noMfundisi uBob Smith ngokuhambisa umbulelo. Amagama akho kunye nobubele bakho ngexesha lethu lokudinga ziya kuhlala zixatyiswa lusapho lwethu.
Ozithobileyo,
UJane Jones
Ukubamba uVuka okanye uTyelelo
Amaxesha amaninzi icawe ibizelwa ukuba ibambe umvuselelo okanye undwendwelo endaweni yokuhambisa yonke into ukusuka kwikhaya labangcwabi ukuya kwicawa. Nanku umzekelo wencwadi enjalo.
Molo [Igama likaMfundisi],
Xa sasilindele ukuba utyelelo lukatata lube ngaphezulu kwama-25 ikhaya labangcwabi elinokuhlala, usapho lwethu lwaqala ukukhathazeka. Xa ubusingethe lo msitho, icawe yakho yakhawuleza yasusa enye yezona zinto zisikhathazayo. Ukubonakalisa kwakho ububele ngexesha lokudinga akusayi kuze kulityalwe. Enkosi kwakhona ngokuzimisela kwecawe yakho ukusindwendwela olu tyelelo.
Ozithobileyo,
UJane Jones
Iingcebiso
Amaxesha amaninzi amalungu abefundisi baqeqeshwa ekucebiseni abantu ngamaxesha osizi. Ileta evakalisa umbulelo ngale ngcebiso inokuvakala ngolu hlobo:
Molo [Igama likaMfundisi],
Iimvakalelo ezinzulu zosizi ngokuswelekelwa ngumama zidibene nezigqibo ezininzi ekufuneka zenziwe zishiya uninzi lwethu luziva luxinzelelo kwaye luxhalabile. Ixesha olichithe nathi emva kotyelelo lokuqala ngorhatya belilixabiso kwiintsapho zethu. Amagama wentuthuzelo kunye nenkuthazo ekwabelwana ngayo abenempembelelo. Ndiyabulela ngobubele bakho nobulumko bakho.
Ozithobileyo,
UJane Jones
Ileta esuka kumntu ongelilo ilungu
Xa usapho luye enkonzweni okanye xa umntu omthandayo eswelekile esiya, wonke umntu onika uncedo unokuba ngumhlobo osenyongweni. Kodwa xa umntu ongaphandle kwecawe encediswa, amagama abantu angangakwazi ukufumanisa. Lo ingangumzekelo weleta ethunyelwe ngumntu ongayiyo ecaweni.
ndinomntwana narcissist
KuMfundisi kunye namaLungu eNorth West Baptist Church,
Ngaphambi kokuba umalume wam uJohn Jones asweleke, wavakalisa umnqweno onzulu wokuba nomngcwabo ecaweni. Nangona umalume wayehamba icawe amaxesha ngamaxesha, wayengelo lungu naphi kwaye lonke usapho lwakhe luhlala ngaphandle kurhulumente. Umngcwabo uyalelwe ukuba sicebise ukuba sinxibelelane nawe kwaye siyavuya kuba senze njalo. Icawe yakho yolule izandla ukusinceda ngexesha lethu lokudinga. Ungavakalisa umbulelo wethu kwintombazana encinci eyenze ingoma emnandi kunye nendoda endala efunda iSibhalo kwaye yathandaza? Intsapho yethu inombulelo kakhulu ngobubele bakho.
Ozithobileyo,
UJane Jones
Ukubonisa uxabiso
Emva kwamaxesha anzima osizi kunye nentlungu, kunokubakho umnqweno wokuthumela ileta yombulelo ecaweni emva komngcwabo. Amanqaku endalo kunokuba nzima ukubhala. La magama isampulu anokunceda ukubonelela ngeebhodi zentshukumo zokukunceda uvakalise umbulelo osentliziyweni yakho.
