Ukuqala ngaphezulu kweNgcebiso kubuDlelwane baNgoku

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

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Ngaba unika ubudlelwane elinye itrayi? Inokudideka njengoko uzama ukudibanisa imicimbi obukade unayo okokuqala, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buzokungaphumeleli okwesibini. Umqeqeshi wokuthandana uLori Gorshow uneengcebiso ezithile zokuhamba ngolunye uvavanyo.





Uqala Njani kubuLwalamano kunye noMntu omnye

Ngaba kufuneka uqale ngokutsha ngokungathi ulwalamano lwangaphambili aluzange lwenzeke, okanye ngaba kufuneka uhlalutye ngononophelo iimpazamo ezenziweyo kwaye wenze isifungo sokuziphepha? Ngelixa kungekho ndlela yokuqinisekisa impumelelo, impendulo ixhomekeke ikakhulu kwiimeko zakho.

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1. Lazi ixesha elidlulileyo ngaphandle kokuhlala

Ukuba umzamo wakho wokuqala kubudlelwane uphele kakubi, ngekhe wenze ngokungathi khange yenzeke ukuba nobabini anikayidibanisi into eyenzekileyo. UGorshow ucebisa ukuba ukwakha ngabom ubudlelwane obutsha bunokusebenza okoko niyavumelana. 'Ingcebiso yokuba nobabini, ngandlela thile,Qalela ekuqalenikwaye uzame ukulungisa ubudlelwane bakho kwaye wakhe isiseko esifana nesinye esenziwa zizibini ezininzi ngumbono olungileyo, utshilo uGorshow. Ayisiyi kukunika nje kuphela ithuba lokubonisa ukuzibophelela kwakho kubudlelwane, kodwa ikwaninika nobabini ithuba lokufunda ukuba nibe sisibini. Cinga ngeli thuba ulifumanayo ngokunikwa elinye ithuba lesibini njengesibini. '





2. Yakha ulwalamano olutsha

Ngamanye amaxesha ithuku ku 'ixesha lesibini ngeenxa zonkeubudlelwane kukutsiba ngaphezulu kwe-Ezothandooko kuxhaphake kakhulu kubudlelwane obutsha. Kulula ukuwela ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ungaseti inqanaba lobudlelwane obuqinileyo. Chitha ixesha kunye njengesibini, nibaleka ukwenza izinto, nipheke kunye, njl, kodwa ungalibali ukwabelana ngeengcinga zakho, amathemba kunye namaphupha akho, utshilo uGorshow. Ugxininisa ukubaluleka kwexesha kunye nokunxibelelana ngokukhululekileyo.

3. Sebenzisa elidlulileyo kwinzuzo yakho

Cinga ngomzamo wakho wangaphambili kubudlelwane ukuze ube yinzuzo yakho. Sele uyayazi imikhwa emincinci ekhokelela ekukhathazekeni (Ngaba uyakucaphukela xa ubeka iingqiniba zakho etafileni okanye uyabambelela ekuhlambeni iimpahla ungashiywa phantsi?), Ke sele ungaphambi komdlalo xa ufika ukuqaphela enye yakho ebalulekileyo. Ungatsiba udlule kwiintlungu ezikhulayo zabantu ababini zokwazana, kwaye oku kungabeka inqanaba lokufikelela ngqo kwisiseko sokwakha esikhokelela kubudlelwane obuqinileyo.



4. Yamkela ukukhula kunye notshintsho

Ukuba umzamo wakho wokuqala kubudlelwane wawusemncinci, kubalulekile ukuba nobabini niqonde ukuba aninakuba ngabantu abafanayo ngaphambili. Ukuphela kobudlelwane bakho bokuqala kunokuba ngaphezulu malunga nokukhula kunye nokukhula ngokuchasene nokungahambelani. 'Unokuba nakho okuhle okwexeshana, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, iimvakalelo zitshintshile, utshilo uGorshow. 'Kwakungekho ngenxa yokuba wenze into engalunganga; Kungenxa yokuba omnye wenu wafumanisa ukuba iimvakalelo zitshintshile. ' Thatha ixesha lokwazana kwakhona ukuze ube kulwalamano kunye neqabane lakho langoku endaweni yokuba wayengubani na.

Ukudibana kwakhona kude

IGorshow icebisa ukubeka umzamo ongezelelweyo ekudibaneni kwakhona xa kusenzeka kwiikhilomitha zonke. Ingcebiso yam kukubuyela 'kwisikolo esidala' sothando kwayebhala iileta, 'kucetyiswa uGorshow. Isitshixo yindlela ozibhala ngayo iileta. Zama ukubhala amanqaku abhaliweyo ngesandla uze uzidibanise ngee-imeyile. Enye yezona zinto zithandwayo umntu anokuzenza kukubhala ngesandla inqaku. Andazi ukuba kutheni, kodwa uninzi ukuba ayingabo bonke abantu basetyhini abafumana iileta ezibhalwe ngesandla ingumzekelo wothando. Isitshixo sokubhala ileta ayikuko ukuthandana nomntu ongathandani naye okanye ukuba neentlobano zesini. Isitshixo kukubhala ngendlela evakalisa ukuzibophelela kwakho, uthando, kunye nokuzinikezela komnye umntu. Yikholwe okanye ungakholelwa, ungakwenza oku ngokubhala malunga 'nayo yonke imihla, iyadika kwaye inyani.' '

Ukudibana kwakhona kwezomkhosi

Indoda yomkhosi kunye nenkosikazi yayo kwijingi

Amaqabane avuselela uthando ngelixa elinye lawo likhonza ukuthunyelwa okanye limiswe kude linokuqwalaselwa okhethekileyo kuba umngcipheko unokuba yinto. 'Ezinye zeemovie ezibalaseleyo zothando zinemixholo ebekwe ngexesha lemfazwe, ubuntlola, okanye olunye ulwa, utshilo uGorshow. 'Ukubukela ezi ziqendu, umntu akanakuphuncuka abukele iminqweno kunye neminqweno eboniswa sisibini. Umntu ngamnye ubonakala ngathi ulahla isilumkiso kunye nokuthintela umoya ngokuthanda ukuhlala apha nakwangoku. Uloyiko lokulahlekelwa liqabane ngonaphakade yi-aphrodisiac efana nenye. Ngelishwa, abaphulaphuli abaze babone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kule ntoisibini esithandanayoemveni kokuphela kwemfazwe neqhawe ligoduka. Kungenxa yokuba izinto 'zemihla ngemihla' ukuba lonke ulwalamano olunamava aluphantse lube yimincili okanye luthando. ' Kananjalo, xa isibini sinokuba kunye ngokwasemzimbeni kufuneka benze umzamo wokuhlala bethandana kwaye bonwabele ukuba kubudlelwane.



Qaphela iipateni

Sele ufumene isiphelo kulwalamano lwakho lwangaphambili, ke unokuqonda ukuba ulwalamano lwesibini luyancipha. Nje ukuba uqaphele iipateni ezindala ezikhumbula kwakhona, ungathatha amanyathelo okulungisa okungalunganga okanye uhambe kwakhona. 'Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buqhubeka bonakala kwaye akukho namnye kuni owonwabileyo, icebo lam kuni liyekwe. Qhubeka, 'wacebisa uGorshow. Ukuba ukhetha endaweni yokolungisa imibakwaye nihlale kunye, ninokuba nobudlelwane obomelele ngakumbi kunye nolwalamano olomeleleyo kunakuqala.

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