Ukukhula akukho lula kubantu abancinci, amakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo kunye namantombazana. Iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo lixesha lotshintsho olukhulu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo njengoko amakhwenkwe ekhula esiba ngamadoda amadala. Funda utshintsho olwahlukileyo lomzimba kunye neemvakalelo ulutsha olufumana kuzo kunye nexesha lokukhathazeka.
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Utshintsho ngokwasemzimbeni kumava abafana abakwishumi elivisayo
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Ukukhula kweenwele
Abafana bakhulisa iinwele ebusweni, ezingalweni, nasemilenzeni. Olona tshintsho lukhulu oza kuluqaphela luphuhliso lweenwele zasesidlangalaleni kunye neenwele zekhwapha. Izinwele ezikummandla we-pubic ziya kwenzeka ngaphambi kokukhula kweenwele phantsi kweengalo. Ngeli xesha, amakhwenkwe anokuqalisa ukuqaphela umkhondo wokuqala wokuqina kweenwele zomlomo ophezulu. Ukukhula kweenwele okutsha kuya kuqala njengeenwele ezinde ezithambileyo kodwa uqhubeke nokufumana amandla ngakumbi ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ukukhula kweenwele kuyaqhubeka nokusasazeka kwamanye amalungu omzimba (isisu, iimpundu) kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo.
Utshintsho kwilizwi
Ukonyuka kwe testosterone kukhokelela kutshintsho lweentambo zamazwi omfana okwishumi elivisayo. Iintambo zezwi ziya ziba nde kwaye zijiye, nto leyo ekhokelela kutshintsho kwilizwi lomfana. 'Ukuqhekeka' akuqhelekanga kule nkqubo, nangona kulihlazo.
Ulusu olunamafutha
Ngexesha lokufikisa, amadlala eoyile esikhumbeni asebenza ngakumbi. Kungenxa yokuba i-testosterone ibangela ukukhululwa sebum eluswini Kunye nokwanda kwemveliso yamadlala okubila. Oku kukhokelela kuphuhliso amabala. Ingxaki yokuphuka kolusu inokuqhubeka nokuba mdala.
Ukubila kunye neVumba lomzimba
Amakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo aya kuqala ukuqaphela ukubila kunye nevumba lomzimba, ngakumbi phantsi kweengalo zabo. Oku kungenxa ye testosterone eyonyusa imveliso yamadlala okubila phantsi kweengalo. Uninzi lwamakhwenkwe luya kuqaphela ukuba kuya kufuneka ukuba banxibe i-deodorant kwaye bahlambe rhoqo.
Ukukhula kokukhula
Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana bafumana ukukhula ngexesha lokufikisa. I-testosterone inoxanduva lomzimba wenkwenkwe ekwishumi elivisayo ethatha imo engaphezulu kunye nemisipha. Iziphumo ezongezelelekileyo ze testosterone kukwandiswa kwamathambo eengalo nemilenze. Ngokwe- Isiseko sePalo Alto Medical , Amakhwenkwe aya kukhula malunga nee-intshi ezi-4.1 ngonyaka.
Utshintsho kumalungu angasese
Zombini ezi Ukunyuka kwepenisi kunye ne-scrotum ngobukhulu ngexesha lokufikisa. Uya kuqaphela utshintsho kubungakanani besikram kuqala. Ayizukuba nkulu kuphela, kodwa unokuqaphela ukuthungwa okanye utshintsho lolusu ngokunjalo. Ilungu lobudoda liza kuqala ukwanda kwaye libe likhulu. Ngeli xesha amakhwenkwe anokuqalisa kwakhona ukufumana ulwaziso ngaphandle kwesizathu konke konke.
Utshintsho kulutsha kwiMvakalelo
Ukongeza kwiinguqulelo zomzimba, amakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo ahamba notshintsho lweemvakalelo ngexesha lokufikisa. Benza inkqubo yokwahlukana nabazali babo kwaye bazimele ngakumbi. Ngeli xesha, izimvo zabahlobo zibaluleke ngakumbi. Jonga okwahlukileyoutshintsho lweemvakalelo kumntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayokunye nexesha ekufuneka ukhathazeke ngalo.
Ukuziqonda
Amakhwenkwe namantombazana afuna ukwamkelwa nokuthandwa ngoontanga babo. Banokuziva bezolile ngamanye amaxesha ngenxa yazo zonke iinguqu ezenzekayo emzimbeni wabo. Akukho mntu 'ulungile'; Endaweni yoko, zinde kakhulu, zimfutshane kakhulu, zityebile kakhulu, zibhityile kakhulu, njl njl. Khumbula ukuba wonke umntu uyavuthwa ngezinga lakhe kwaye ekugqibeleni wonke umntu uyalifumana.
Utshintsho kwezengqondo
Amakhwenkwe aqala ukufumana ukutshintsha kwemood, ukuba nochuku, ixhala kunye nomsindo ngexesha lokufikisa.Utshintsho lwehomoniNgokwesiqhelo babekek 'ityala ngezi mvakalelo zigqithisileyo ezikhokelela kukukhala, ukukhala kunye nokugqabhuka kobundlongondlongo.
Utshintsho kubudlelwane
Amakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo aye aziqonda ngakumbi kwaye azimele. Ngeli xesha, ukuchitha ixesha nabahlobo kuza ngaphambili. Ukongeza, ukubonwa kunye nabazali okanye abantakwenu kunokuba yinto ehlazo.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuzimela
Njengokuba amakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo ekhula, aqala ukuzenzela izigqibo. Banokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuyingozi, njengokuselwa, ukutshaya, isenzo sesondo okanye ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza. Inxalenye yokukhula kukucela umngeni kwinkolelo zabazali njengendlela yokubonisa inkululeko.
Uphuhliso lwezesondo
Eli lixesha apho umtsalane uqala ukuhluma ngokwenene kumakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo. Banokuqala ukubonisa isini sabo kwaye banomdla kubudlelwane bezothando. I-Arousal iba yinto eqhelekileyo ngenxa yokutshintsha kweemvakalelo kunye nokukhula komzimba.
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Utshintsho lweemvakalelo kulutsha luhlala nje ixesha elifutshane. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uqala ukuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uxinezeleke kakhulu, wenza ukwenzakala emzimbeni okanye ukuthatha umngcipheko ngobomi bakhe (ukusela nokuqhuba okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi), oku kudlula nje kwindlela yokuziphatha kolutsha. Ukongeza ekuthetheni nomntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo, ungenelelo ngoncedo olunokuba yimfuneko.
Ingcebiso kubazali baMakhwenkwe aBafikisayo ahamba nokufikisa
Ukuba ngumzali ngexesha lokufikisa kunokuba ngumzabalazo. Ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo kunye notshintsho ngokwasemzimbeni kunokuba lukhulu. Jonga iindlela zokunceda umntwana wakho amelane nazo:
- Nika umntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo ithuba lokuthetha ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa.
- Buza imibuzo evulekileyo ukumkhuthaza ukuba abelane ngolwazi.
- Zama ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zakhe kwaye uqonde umbono wakhe.
- Nceda inkwenkwe yakho ekwishumi elivisayo ukuba ibone ezinye iindlela xa izama ukwenza ukhetho.
- Mvumele ukuba azenzele izigqibo kwaye aqonde iziphumo zezenzo zakhe.
Ingcebiso yaMakhwenkwe aBafikisayo ahamba nokufikisa
Ukufikisa lixesha eligcwele ukukhula okutsha kunye okunomdla emzimbeni nakwiimvakalelo zakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukufikisa kunokuza nemiceli mngeni emininzi. Funda ezinye iingcebiso zokuhlangabezana nokufikisa:
- Wonke umntu ufumana ukufikisa ngokwahlukileyo. Khumbula ukuba umzimba wakho uya kutshintsha ngesantya sawo.
- Iimvakalelo zakho ziqhelekile. Amava amatsha anokudideka kodwa ukuwathetha nomzali okanye umhlobo kunokuba luncedo.
- Umzimba wakho uya kutshintsha ngokwamaxabiso ahlukeneyo. Izandla neenyawo zingakhula ngokukhawuleza kunemilenze yakho okanye umzimba. Yonke into iya kudibana nexesha.
- Nabazali bakho bafikisa. Ukubuza imibuzo kunokunceda ekuhleleni iimvakalelo okanye ukudideka.
- Ukuhlamba rhoqo nokugcina ubuso bucocekile kunokunceda kwivumba kunye nemiba yolusu.
Abafana abakwishumi elivisayo kunye nokufikisa
Amakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayohamba ngenani lotshintsho ngexesha lokufikisa, njengamantombazana akwishumi elivisayo. Abazali kufuneka bagcine imizila yonxibelelwano ivulekile ukubonelela ngoncedo kunye nenkxaso koonyana babo njengoko besenza utshintsho ukusuka ebukhwenkweni ukuya ebudaleni.
