Funda ukufunda iimpawu zothando ezivela kumntu wakho
Amadoda alubonisa njani uthando lwawo kumaqabane awo? Kuhlobo lwehlabathi lweMars-vs-Venus, kunokuba nzima ukuqonda ukuba zithini na iimvakalelo zendoda. Funda imiqondiso ngokuchanekileyo, nangona kunjalo, kwaye unokufumana ubunzulu beemvakalelo ngaphakathi kwalowo umthandayo.
Ngubani na virgos ehambelana kakhulu
Inkcubeko yokuVala
Ngelixa kuyinto encinci yokwenza ngokubanzi, uninzi lwamadoda kwinkcubeko yaseNtshona kunzima ukuveza iimvakalelo zabo zothando. Oku kubangela unxunguphalo oluninzi, uhambo oluya kubacebisi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uqhawulo-mtshato kunye nokwahlukana. Ingxaki yeyokuba amadoda arhangqwe zii-archetypes zobudoda zamagorha awomeleleyo, azimeleyo kunye namagorha. Uhlobo lukaJohn Wayne / uClint Eastwood / uBruce Willis weqhawe alaziwa ngokuvula intliziyo yakhe kwaye avumele abantu babone ngaphakathi.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo
- Igalari yeeNgcinga eziGqibeleleyo zothando lweMvelaphi
- Iindlela ezili-10 zokuYila zokuba Ndiyakuthanda
- Iifoto ezi-8 ezishushu zeendlela ezithandekayo zoKwanga
Ke amadoda alubonisa njani uthando lwawo endaweni yawo? Ngokwesiqhelo nokuba kungokusemgangathweni osemgangathweni, izimbo zomzimba ezibonisa ngokungafaniyo okanye kungenxa yeempawu ezincinci, ezifihlakeleyo ezingabonakaliyo. Rhoqo ezona ndlela zintle zokuthetha zidibana nokuzingca, okwenza ukuba kube nzima ngakumbi ukuziqonda. Khumbula ukuba nayiphi na indlela abazama ngayo, amadoda azama ukufikelela; banike ikhredithi ngokwelula imida yabo
Babonisa njani abantu ukuba bayabathanda: Iindidi ezintathu
Nazi iindlela ezintathu ezahlukeneyo abathi abantu bavumele abantu abasondeleyo kubo bazi ukuba bayakhathala. Funda ukufunda nokuxabisa imikhondo kwaye intliziyo yendoda yakho inokuba yincwadi evulekileyo kuwe.
'Awusoze wandiphathela iintyatyambo!'
Enkosi kwiivenkile zeHallmark kunye nezobucwebe, amadoda afumana imiyalezo emininzi malunga nendlela efanelekileyo 'yokuxelela umfazi omthandayo ukuba ukhetheke kangakanani!' Iiroses ezilishumi elinambini, ibhokisi yetshokholethi, idayimani solitaire, ezi, amadoda nabafazi baxelelwa, ziimpawu zokhathalelo lokwenyani.
ungayifumana njani intombazana ukuba ithande nawe
Ingxaki kukuba xa ezi tokeni zikhona kwindalo iphela, ziye zikhetheke kancinci. Endaweni yokuba ibonakalise iimvakalelo, iba sisithethe esingenantsingiselo. Ngapha koko, ezinye iinkonzo ziya kuthumela ngokuzenzekelayo iintyatyambo kwizikhumbuzo kunye nezinye iiholide ngaphandle kwengcinga yokwenyani efunekayo kwaphela. Njani ukuba ngumqondiso wothando? Eyona nto imbi kakhulu, inokuba ngumlinganiso weakhawunti yebhanki, enokuthi yenze indoda ibe madolw 'anzima nokuzama. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba unothando lobungakanani usozigidi kuwe kodwa umsebenzi okumgangatho ophakathi, kwenza ukuba kube nzima ukufumana isipho esibonisa indlela akukhathalele ngayo.
Kwangelo xesha, kwamanye amadoda, ezi kuphela kwendlela abanayo. Ke ukuba i-bouquet ngequbuliso ivela kwidesika yakho, khumbula injongo engemva kwayo, akukhathaleki nokuba luhlobo luni na uhlobo lophawu.
'Awusoze uthi ndiyakuthanda!'
Indoda yokwenyani 'ejonge uthando olucacileyo. 'Ndamxelela ukuba ndiyamthanda ngalaa mhla ndatshata naye,' kuqhuba ololo hlobo. 'Ukuba kuyatshintsha, ndiza kumazisa.' Olu hlobo lwendoda luyalubonisa uthando lwayo, kodwa kungenxa yezinto ezincinci-ezibambe ucango ngaye okanye uncumo oluncinci ephepheni kwitafile yesidlo sakusasa. Endaweni yokubonisa uthando ngokugqithisileyo, ulubonakalisa ngokuba yilento acinga ukuba umntu kufanele ukuba abe yiyo: umntu onzima, onoxanduva, kunye nomboneleli.
Oku kunokuba yeyona ndlela iphazamisayo yonxibelelwano, kuba kubonakala ngathi umntu akathandani kwaphela. Ngokwenyani, ukhuselekile eluthandweni kangangokuba ukuluvakalisela kuya kuba yinto engaqhelekanga njengokuthi 'ndiza kuphefumla ngoku.' Awuyibhengezi; yenza ngokulula. Xa ufunda ukukhetha ezi ntlobo zemikhondo, kunokuba yindlela entle yokubonisa uthando.
'Kutheni ndifuna ibhola ebowling?'
Amanye amadoda awela phakathi kwala macala mabini. Bavakalelwa kukuba izinto ezicacileyo ezifana neeroses zincinci, kodwa bafuna ukwenza into ekhethekileyo kwisithandwa sabo. Ngelishwa, bambalwa abantu abanesakhono sokubona izinto ngokwembono yamaqabane abo kwaye impendulo yabo kukufumana into abanokuyifuna ngokwabo, oku kunokuthetha ukuba ukubonakalisa kwakhe uthando kukuthatha ukuba ubukele i-movie entsha yesenzo okanye ufumane amatikiti amahle umdlalo webhasikithi. Ukuba le yinto niyonwabela nobabini, ke yindlela elungileyo yokwabelana ngezinto enizithandayo. Ungathini ukuba akunjalo? Zama ukuqonda ukuba yindlela azama ngayo ukubonisa ukuba uyakhathala. Inokuba yinto encinci kwaye ifane nayo nayiphi na enye into, iya kuba ngcono ngokuziqhelanisa. Phendula ngenzondelelo, wonwabele ukonwaba kwakhe, emva koko ubuyisele inceba leyo. Mphathe ngokukhenketha ukwenza into oyithandayo. Xa ejongeka edidekile kukubethwa ngumoya oshushu, ncuma nje kwaye umxelele ukuba lithuba lakho lokuba wabelane naye ngento wena uthando.
