Umtshato weRSVP Etiquette kunye neMicimbi

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

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I-etiquette yomtshato i-RSVP ihlala ivakalelwa ngathi yindawo engwevu kwabanye abantu, kwaye kuphakama imiba xa kujongwa indlela yokuphendula. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi kumntu ongaqhelananga nomgaqo olungileyo wentlalo. Iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokuziphatha zinokukhawuleza zikucoce nakuphi na ukudideka.





Umtshakazi noMyeni RSVP Imilinganiselo yomtshato

I-etiquette iqala ngesi sibini xa kufikwa ekuthumeleni izimemo kunye nokulindela iimpendulo. Kuxhomekeke nakwesibini ukuba sisingathe ngokufanelekileyo nayiphi na imiba evelayo.

Amanqaku afanelekileyo
  • I-Etiquette yomtshato yabazali bomyeni
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  • Iisampulu zokuMema uMtshato

Ubude bexesha lee-RSVPs

Izimemo kufuneka zifike kwiindwendwe zakho kwiiveki ezintandathu ukuya kwezisibhozo ngaphambi komhla womtshato. Ukuba ubamba umtshato, apho zonke iindwendwe zakho kufuneka zihambe, kuya kufuneka uthumelegcina amakhadi omhlaiinyanga ezilithoba ukuya kwezili-12 ngaphambi komtshato, kodwa izimemo zisenokuphuma kwiiveki ezintandathu ukuya kwezisibhozo ngaphambi komtshato. Ungafaka umhla wokuphendula kumakhadi akho okuphendula, unike iindwendwe iiveki ezine ukuya kwezintandathu ukuphendula isimemo sakho.





Ngamanye amagama, unokucela iindwendwe ukuba zikwazise ubuncinci iiveki ezimbini phambi komtshato ukuba bazokuzimasa, bazokuzimasa nabo, kunye nabaphi na abangenayo.

Ulwazi lwempendulo

Bhala amagama e-RSVP anceda ukuphelisa nayiphi na imiba enokubakho yokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba ivele. Oku kubandakanya ukubonelela ngendawo kumakhadi akho empendulo apho iindwendwe zinokubonisa inani lilonke labo bazimasayo kwiintsapho zabo. Ishiya uqikelelo ngaphandle kokumisela ukuba uMnu noNkskz. UJoe Abanye bazisa abantwana babo abathathu-uAaron, uNancy, noJoe Jr., okanye ukuba beza bodwa. Kwiphepha elifanayo, nikeza umgca obuza amagama omntu ngamnye oza kwindwendwe, ukuze iindwendwe zikwazi ukukugcwalisela olu lwazi.



Kufanelekile ukunika iindwendwe isimemo esithi 'dibanisa esinye' ukuba batshatile, bahlala nomntu othile, okanye kudala bethandana nomntu. Ungalibali ukongeza umgca weligama lalo mntu kwi-RSVP.

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Imiba engaphenduliyo

Kuyamkeleka ukunxibelelana neendwendwe ezimenyiweyo ukuba awuva kubo ngomhla wokuphendula. Ungabatsalela umnxeba okanye ubize umntu oza kutshata naye, kuxhomekeke ekubeni bakuluhlu lwakho lweendwendwe okanye kuye. Bazise ukuba ugqibezela iinkcukacha, ufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba basifumene isimemo kwaye kufuneka bazi ukuba baceba na ukubakho.

UJacqueline Whitmore , i-etiquette kunye neprotocol yobuchwephesha ngaphezulu kweshumi leminyaka, uyacacisa, 'Ukuba ixesha liyavuma kwaye kukho inani elikhulu labantu abangaphenduliyo, ndingathumela i-imeyile okanye ndibeke umnxeba ukufumanisa ukuba mhlawumbi abasifumenanga isimemo ngeposi. . Ke ngosuku lomtshato, endaweni yokwenza indawo kwaye ndinokuhlazisa isibini esingakhange senze i-RSVP, ndingasifumana isihlalo. Iindaba ezimnandi ngokwesiqhelo abapheki baya kulungiselela malunga neepesenti ezili-10 ngaphezulu kokutya kunokuba kufuneka njalo akufuneki kube yingxaki enkulu.



Ukulawula imiba yaBantwana abanga-RSVPed

Nokuba abantwana abamenywanga kwaye abafakwanga kwi-RSVP, ezinye iindwendwe ziya kubazisa. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukungayihoyi kunokuba ujongane nendwendwe okanye ubathintele ekuziseni abantwana babo kumsitho okanye kulwamkelo.

NgokukaWhitmore, 'Oku kwenzeka amaxesha amaninzi kunokuba kufanelekile. Iindwendwe zifuna ukuba yinxalenye yokubhiyozela kwaye nangasiphi na isizathu, musa ukukhusela umntu oza kubakhathalela abantwana babo. Indlela ethambileyo yokujongana nale meko ukuba yenzekile kuwe, kukuba usapho luhlale etafileni ecaleni okanye ngasemva kwendawo yokwamkela iindwendwe. Ngale ndlela ukuba abantwana baphazamisa abazali babo banokubasusa ngokukhawuleza. Ngaphambi komtshato (ukuba awunawo umcwangcisi womtshato onsite), bendiya kucela umhlobo othenjiweyo okanye ilungu losapho ukuba liphazamise kwaye liphathe le meko. Umtshakazi nomyeni akufuneki bayisingathe le meko ngexesha lokubhiyoza kwabo. '

Inkqubo yeRSVP yeeNdwendwe

Njengondwendwe lomtshato olumenyiweyo, unoxanduva lokulawula isimemo somtshato womntu.

Thumela iimpendulo kwangexesha

Unokufumana isimemo, kodwa impendulo ngomhla ayiqukwanga. UWhitmore ucacisa ukuba ixesha lokuphendula liyahluka ngokuxhomekeka ekubeni samkelwe nini isimemo.

  • Ukuba ifunyenwe iiveki ezine okanye nangaphezulu ngaphambi komtshato, kuya kufuneka uyibuyisele i-RSVP ukuze ifumaneke kwiiveki ezintathu ngaphambi komtshato.
  • Ukuba isimemo sifunyenwe ngaphantsi kweeveki ezine ngaphambi komtshato, i-RSVP kufuneka ithunyelwe ngeposi kwisithuba seeyure ezingama-48 sifunyenwe.

Oku kunika umtshakazi ixesha lokubala amanani akhe kwaye afake ukhetho lokubonelela ngenani lokugqibela lababekho kulowo utyayo, umenzi wekhekhe kunye nabanye abathengisi.

Ungaphendula njani kwiKhadi le-RSVP yomtshato

Nika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo ekunikezeleni umtshakazi zonke iinkcukacha azifunayo. Oku kubandakanya ukubonelela ngegama lomntu ngamnye oza kubakho, ke uyazi ngokuchanekileyo ukuba ngubani oza emtshatweni kunye naluphi na ukhetho lwangokuhlwa, ukuba uceliwe. Nangona kunjalo, iimeko ezimbalwa ziyavela xa kuziwa kwi-RSVPing ngokufanelekileyo.

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Ukudibanisa ii-RSVPs enye

Ufumene isimemo kwaye sibhekiswe kuwe-kuphela. Ayinalo elinye igama kuyo kwaye ayitsho ukuba ungazisa undwendwe. Uthandana nomntu omtsha kwaye ungathanda ukungena kwigumbi ngengalo. Uyazibuza ukuba ungazenzela i-RSVP ngokwakho kunye nezinye zakho ezibalulekileyo nokuba khange akhankanywe kwisimemo.

Ukuba imvulophu ayibhalelwanga wena kunye neendwendwe, ke uphume ngethamsanqa. Akufanelekanga ukulindela ukuba umtshakazi ameme indoda okanye umfazi osandul 'ukuthandana naye. Kule meko, musa ukuba yi-RSVP ngokudibanisa enye xa yena okanye yena engakhange aboniswe kwisimemo sokuqala.

RSVPing yaBantwana

NgokukaWhitmore, ukuba eyakhoabantwana bayamenywa emtshatweni, oku kubonisiwe kwimvulophu ngokunjalo. Imvulophu engaphandle inokuba namagama kunye neqabane lakho kuphela. Imvulophu yangaphakathi ibandakanya amagama abantu abazimeleyo.

Abanye abatshakazi bathumela imvulophu kusapho, 'uSapho lakwaSmith.' Kwezi meko, uyazi ukuba abantwana bakho bayamenywa. UWhitmore ucacisa ukuba, ukuba awuqinisekanga, kwamkelekile ukubiza umninimzi womtshato, onje ngabazali bomtshakazi, ukuba abantwana bayamenywa na kwimisitho leyo. UWhitmore uqhubeka athi undwendwe akufuneki lucinge ukuba abantwana bayamenyelwa emtshatweni. Kungcono ukuziqhelanisa nokubuza endaweni yoko.

Ukuziphatha ngokubanzi

Ekugqibeleni, umtshakazi nomyeni kunye neendwendwe ezimenyiweyo babelana ngoxanduva lwe-RSVP yokuziphatha. Abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka bacele ulwazi oluninzi kwiindwendwe kangangoko kwaye iindwendwe kufuneka zisebenzise ukuqonda ekuphenduleni ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunye nolwazi olufunekayo kwisibini esifanelekileyo ukulungiselela usuku lwabo olukhulu.

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