Imibhiyozo yokuvuselelwa kwesibhambathiso somtshato yindlela eyaziwayo kwizibini ukuba ziphinde ziqinisekisane kwaye ziphinde zizinikezele omnye komnye. Ukuhlaziya izibhambathiso zomtshato ngomsitho kufuna ukuthathelwa ingqalelo kanye njengoko isibini sokuqala sathi senza izifungo zomtshato.
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Isibini sinokukhetha ukuvuselela izifungo zomtshato ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Abanye abantu abatshatileyo bakhetha ukuphinda benze imithendeleko yomtshato wabo kwisikhumbuzo esibalulekileyo, okanye izibini zinokukhetha ukuziphinda emtshatweni wazo emva kobunzima nangona zinobudlelwane okanye ukungathembeki kubudlelwane. Kwabanye abantu abatshatileyo, ithuba lokuhlaziya izifungo zabo kwimeko yezenkolo libaluleke kakhulu kunakwimibhiyozo yaseburhulumenteni ekusenokwenzeka ukuba babetshate nayo, ngelixa abanye banokukhetha ukuvuselela izifungo zabo kwinqanaba elikhulu emva kokuvulwa okulula. Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, izibhambathiso zezona ndawo zibaluleke kakhulu kulo msitho kwaye kufuneka zikhethwe ngononophelo ukubonisa umtshato owomeleleyo wesibini kunye nokuzibophelela okuqhubekayo komnye nomnye.
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Ngelixa oomolokazana banamhlanje banokukhetha okungafaniyo kwizifungo zabo zokuqala zomtshato, kusekho iimfuno ezisisiseko zala magama angcwele, ngakumbi kwizithembiso zomtshato zonqulo - izibhambathiso zokuvuselela umsitho, kwelinye icala, zinezithintelo ezimbalwa kwaye isibini singathetha nantoni na Amagama othando, ukuzinikela, imbeko, kunye nokuzibophelela kwabo banqwenela njengoko bethembisa uthando lwabo omnye komnye.
Iingcamango ezidumileyo zokuvuselela izifungo zibandakanya:
- Ukuphinda izifungo zentsusa . Oku kuthandwa ngakumbi ukuba umsitho usondele kufutshane nomsitho wokuqala. Utshintsho olufihlakeleyo kufuneka lwenziwe kwizifungo zokuqala zomtshato, nangona kunjalo, ukubonisa inyani yokuba isibini sitshatile ixesha elithile-ukutshintsha 'thatha lo mfazi' 'ukugcina lo mfazi' umzekelo.
- Ukukhetha izifungo ezintsha ngokupheleleyo . Abantu abatshatileyo abanokuthi benze izibhambathiso zabo zomtshato kumsitho wabo wokuqala banokuzisola ngokulahleka kwesiko, kwaye ke banokukhetha izifungo zomtshato wesibini okwesibini, okanye isibini esithe sanamathela kwizifungo zakudala sinokukhetha ukwenza umtshato izibhambathiso kumsitho wokuhlaziya.
- Ukukhetha izibhambathiso zokuzibophelela kosapho . Ukuba isibini sitshatile ixesha elithile kwaye ngoku sinabantwana ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kulo msitho, ukongeza ukuzinikezela kusapho kuyindlela enentsingiselo kunye nomfuziselo wokubandakanya wonke umntu kwizithembiso ezithethiweyo.
- Ukubhala izifungo ezibonakalisayo . Amaqabane angabhala izifungo zawo zomtshato kumsitho wokuhlaziya ukubonisa iminyaka yabo yomtshato ngokubandakanya ii-anecdotes kunye nezalathiso kubomi babo bomtshato kwizithembiso abazenzayo. Eli inokuba lithuba elihle lokufumana izifungo zomtshato ezihlekisayo ezithi zenze i-quirks zobudlelwane babo ngelixa zigxininisa ukuba ziyabuthanda ubuzaza.
- Ukubhala izibhambathiso zezenzo ezizayo . Ukuba isibini soyise ubunzima obubonakalayo emtshatweni wabo, izifungo zokuhlaziya zinokwabelana ngokuzinikezela kwabo ekwenzeni ikamva labo ekwabelwana ngalo liqaqambe, lithandeke ngakumbi. Kwangelo xesha, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba izibhambathiso asiyondawo yokwenza uxolo esidlangalaleni ngenxa yezikreqo zangaphambili; nayiphi na imiba enzulu kufuneka isonjululwe ngasese ukuze umsitho wokuhlaziya ube ngumbhiyozo ovuyisayo wokuqhubeka kokuzinikezela kwesi sibini.
- Sebenzisa ifomathi engaqhelekanga . Ngelixa izibhambathiso zesintu zithethwe ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuvuselela izifungo kunokuba mnandi kwaye kungaqhelekanga njengoko isibini sinqwenela. Ukucula ingoma, ukucengceleza izibongo, okanye ukwenza isifungo se-limerick ngobuchule zonke iindlela zokwenza izibhambathiso ezimnandi nezingalindelekanga.
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Zonke izibini zahlukile kwaye yonke imitshato yahlukile, ke akukho fomathi imiselweyo yokuvuselelwa kwesibhambathiso somsitho. Izibhambathiso zesiko zinokubonelela ngenkuthazo yamagama amnandi, okanye izibini zinokukhetha izibhambathiso ezenzelwe ngokukodwa umsitho wokuhlaziya. Iisampulu zezifungo zohlaziyo ezikhethekileyo ziyafumaneka kwezi webhusayithi zilandelayo:
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Ukuba isibini siceba umsitho wokuhlaziya, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kuba sele betshatile ngokusemthethweni, umntu ogunyazisiweyo akadingi kuchophela umsitho. Izibini ezininzi, nangona kunjalo, zikhetha ukuba nomfundisi okanye omnye umntu owaziwayo oqhuba umsitho wazo, kwaye kunokuba yinto echukumisayo ngakumbi ukuba nomntu ophetheyo njengomtshato wokuqala wesibini. Kwimicimbi engaqhelekanga, nangona kunjalo, ilungu losapho, umhlobo, okanye omnye umntu obalulekileyo naye unokuqhuba umsitho.
Izibhambathiso zomtshato-ukuvuselelwa kwezibhambathiso ngokukodwa-yindlela entle yokuba abantu abatshatileyo babonakalise uthando lwabo, ukuzibophelela nokuzinikela kwabo omnye komnye. Nokuba ngaba ukuvuselela izifungo kuyalinganisa umtshato wokuqala okanye ukuba awuhambelani, isitshixo kukuba basabonisa uthando oluqhubekayo kunye novuyo isibini esikufumanayo kubudlelwane babo, de bahlukane nokufa.
