Ngamanye amaxesha eyaziwa njengezalamane zokuqala, usapho lwakho olusondeleyo ngabo bayinxalenye yobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Nangona kunjalo, ezinye iindawo zokusebenza zinokwandisa inkcazo ukuba ifake amanye amalungu osapho lwakho, kuxhomekeke kwimigaqo-nkqubo yabo. Ukuzama ukuqonda ukuba ngubani oyinxalenye yosapho olusondeleyo kunokubonakala ngathi kuyakhohlisa ekuqaleni, kodwa kukho imigaqo ecacileyo echaza ukuba ngubani obandakanywayo.
Amalungu oSapho ngoko nangoko
Ngokwe- Isichazi-magama seshishini Usapho lwakho lubandakanya la malungu alandelayo:
- Iqabane
- Bazali
- Ootatomkhulu noomakhulu
- Abantwana (abamkelweyo, isiqingatha kunye nenqanaba labantwana bahlala bebandakanywa kwinkcazo)
- Abazukulwana
- Abantakwenu
- Abantu basebukhweni (umama, utata, ubhuti, udade, intombi nonyana)
- Iintshukumo zangaphandle zoSapho Wonke umntu uya kuthanda
- Iifoto zoNwaba loSapho
- Ngoobani abazala bakho bokuqala nabesibini?
Zimbini iindlela eziphambili zokumisela kwangoko kunye namanye amalungu osapho. Bazi:
- Ulwalamano ngegazi : Oku kuthetha ukuba babelana ngomnombo omnye okanye umzali, njengakwimeko yabantakwabo, abantwana okanye abazukulwana.
- Ubudlelwane ngomtshato Oku kuthetha ukuba babelana ngesibophelelo esifanayo ngomtshato welungu elinye losapho ngalunye, njengasebukhweni okanye abantwana bomtshato wesibini.
Ukumisela usapho kwangoko
Abanye abaqeshi baya kuthathela ingqalelo icandelo losapho ngokuthe ngqo njengosapho olusondeleyo, nabanye abantu bengamalungu osapho lwesibini. Abanye banokuthatha nabani na ohlala ekhayeni lakho njengelungu losapho, nokuba ubudlelwane begazi okanye umtshato. Kutheni le nto amanye amalungu ethathwa njengosapho olusondeleyo kwaye amanye engabonwa? Ngokwesiko, ukuqiqa ukuba ngubani osapho olusondeleyo kwaye ngubani owandisiweyo ikakhulu isekwe kwezi ndlela zintathu:
- Umgama : Ukuhlala kude kude kunokuphikisana nothathwa njengosapho olusondeleyo kuba abafumaneki ngokukhawuleza kuwe. Nangona kunjalo, ungabajonga abantwana abafudukayo emva kokuba badala ukuba babe lusapho olusondeleyo, okwenza oku kube yinto enzima kuluntu lwanamhlanje.
- Ulwalamano Abantu abaninzi abasondelelananga kakhulu neentsapho zabo. Ngesi sizathu, awunakho ukuya kwimicimbi yosapho eyabanjwa ngabazala okanye ngabazala besibini, okanye unxibelelane nabo rhoqo. Oku kunokusebenza kumalungu osapho akufutshane awusondelelananga nawo, kodwa umthetho usabachaza abo bantu njengamalungu osapho asondeleyo.
- Ubude bexesha Abanye abaqeshi bavumela ilungu losapho ukuba liqwalaselwe kwangoko ngaphandle kobudlelwane ukuba lihlale nawe ixesha elingangonyaka.
Ngaphandle kwemigaqo
Ngamanye amaxesha, abaqeshi baya kuyandisa inkcazo yosapho olusondeleyo ukuze babandakanye amaqabane asekhaya kunye nabazala. Oku kwenziwa kwimeko nganye ngamatyala. Umzekelo, ezinye iinkampani ziya kuvumela amaqabane asekhaya ukuba afumane izibonelelo zeinshurensi yezempilo, ukuba ngaba batyikitya isivumelwano esifana nesivumelwano somtshato. Abazala bakho kunye nezinye izalamane zinokubandakanywa kusapho lwakho ukuba bahlala nawe phantsi kweemeko ezithile, ezinjengokusweleka kwabazali babo.
Amalungu oSapho aNgxamisekileyo afumana iziBonelelo ezithile
Ukuseka ukuba ngoobani amalungu osapho olusondeleyo kunokuba kubalulekile kwizizathu ezininzi. Umzekelo:
- Ngokukhawuleza amalungu osapho anelungelo kwi-inshurensi yobomi okanye izibonelelo zokufa kwimeko yentlekele
- Ungathatha ukuya kwi Iiveki ezili-12 lekhefu lokunyamekela ilungu losapho eligulayo okanye umntwana omtsha
- Unelungelo leentsuku zokufelwa amalungu osapho osondeleyo kuwe
- Amalungu osapho kwangoko afumana ukhetho kwii-visa zokufika
- Ngokukhawuleza amalungu osapho anelungelo lokufumana izibonelelo zempilo onokuzifumana ngomsebenzi
Iinkcazo zomthetho nezobuqu
Unokuba neembono zakho zobuqu malunga nosapho lwakho osondeleyo kulo. Oku kulungile ngokubhekisele kubomi bakho bobuqu. Nangona kunjalo, ngokomthetho, ngabantu abathile kuphela abanelungelo lokuxhamla ngokuthathelwa ingqalelo njengamalungu osapho lwakho. Nokuba ucinga ukuba oyena mhlobo wakho usenyongweni ufana nodade kuwe, ngaphandle kokuba uthatha amanyathelo asemthethweni ukuseka unxibelelwano oluthile, awuyi kuba nelungelo lokufumana ixesha lokuphumla ukumkhathalela kwimeko kaxakeka, umzekelo. Kwahlukile kudade wakho wendalo, nokuba uyamthanda okanye awumthandi. Ngelixa kwinkcazo yabantu abaninzi, usapho yile nto uyenzayo, emehlweni omthetho, usapho liqela elithile labantu onokuhlangana nabo okanye ungabinalo unxibelelwano olunzulu.
