Oko Umele Ukuthethe Kwinkonzo Yesikhumbuzo

Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kuthini kwintetho yesikhumbuzo, kungcono ukuba wenze uphando oluncinci kuqala. Iinkonzo zesikhumbuzo kunye nemingcwabo zivumela abo bazilileyo ukuba bavakalise izimvo zabo kwaye banike imbeko kulowo ubhubhileyo. Xa uceliwe ukuba uthethe komnye wale mibhiyozo, unikwa ithuba elikhethekileyo lokuveza esidlangalaleni iingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho malunga nomfi.

Oko Umele Ukuthethe Kwintetho Yesikhumbuzo

Zilungiselele ukuthetha phambi kwenkonzo yesikhumbuzo. Esi siganeko iya kuba lixesha elinemvakalelo elinokwenza kube nzima ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo.

Amanqaku afanelekileyo

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Imifanekiso yeSuku lweSikhumbuzo

Bhala Iingcinga Zakho Phantsi

Ungaze uthethe kwinkonzo yesikhumbuzo ungazilungiselelanga. Ungaziva uyayazi into omawuyithethe, kodwa xa ixesha lifika, ungoyiswa yimvakalelo okanye usizi oluya kulibala. Thatha ixesha ulungelelanise iingcinga zakho. Cela abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho ukuba babelane ngeenkumbulo njengempembelelo. Unokujonga kwakhona kwiifoto ezindala, iividiyo okanye iileta zezimvo. Thatha konke oku kuphefumlelweyo, emva koko ubhale ngokusuka entliziyweni yakho. Yenza uyilo kwaye ubeke iingcinga zokugqibela kumakhadi enqaku onokuthi ulingane epokothweni yakho okanye esikhwameni.

Yenza ingxelo yobuqu

Akukho binzana kwindalo iphela elenza abantu abasentlungwini bazive bhetele, ke zama amagama ukubonisa ukuba uyakhathala okanye unokuba luncedo ngandlela ithile. Yenza ingxelo ngomntu othetha naye okanye ongasekhoyo, hayi amabinzana okanye izinto malunga namava akho nosizi.

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Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho, ayizukuba lula, kodwa awuyi kuba wedwa.
Uya kuhlala unezinkumbulo ngaye ukuze akwenze uncume.
Andikwazi ukuyisusa intlungu yakho, kodwa ndingalapha ukuthetha okanye ukukhumbuza ukuba uyafuna.
Wayengumntu omkhulu owongeza kakhulu kubo bonke ubomi awayebuchaphazela.
Thatha ixesha lokukhala kwaye ukhumbule ulonwabo owaluva kunye naye xa umjikelezile.
Andiqinisekanga ukuba ndithini, ndifuna nje ukuba wazi ukuba ndilapha ukuze undidinge.
Andinakuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba kuya kuba ngcono, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba kuya kuba lula ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Bonke aba bantu bahlawula imbeko yabo bubungqina bokuba wayeyindoda enjani.
Akwaba besikunye phantsi kweemeko ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ndiyavuya xa sikunye.

Ziqhelise, Ziqhelise, Ziqhelise

Nokuba iphambi kwesipili okanye umhlobo wakho osenyongweni, ziqhelanise nento oza kuyithetha. Videotape okanye urekhode ngokwakho ukuze uve indlela ovakala ngayo kunye nendlela okhangeleka ngayo. Qiniseka ukuba ume nkqo kwaye ujonge abaphulaphuli bakho. Ukuba yile nto ikwenza ube novalo, khetha indawo okanye ezimbini kwigumbi kwaye uzigcine njengezona ndawo ujolise kuzo. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba uthetha kwiqela. Nokuba ukhethwe ukuba ubhale okanye ufunde eyona mbeko iphambili, okanye umbulelo okanye inkonzo ibandakanya ithuba lokuba amalungu esihlwele abelane ngeenkumbulo zobuqu, ziqhelanise nento oza kuyithetha. Gcina inkumbulo yakho emfutshane ukuvumela ixesha lokuba abanye babelane ngalo kwaye baqale ngegama elinje:

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Sebenzisa iZibonelelo eziBonakalayo

Oku kunokuvakala ngathi yinto onokuyisebenzisa xa unika intetho kwiklasi yesiNgesi, kodwa izixhobo ezibonakalayo ziyanceda. Iincwadi, iifoto, okanye ikepusi yebaseball oyithandayo zizinto ezibonakalayo ezintle kwaye zikunika into yokuthetha. Khumbula, intetho yakho iya kukhuthaza abanye ukuba bathethe ngomntu ongasekhoyo.

Izinto ezithile onokuzithetha kwiNkonzo yeSikhumbuzo

Xa amagama esilela kuwe, zama ezi ngcebiso zizame-kwaye ziyinyani zokuza nento oza kuyithetha ukuba uza kucelwa ukuba uthethe kwisikhumbuzo somntu.

Faka imibongo kunye namaZwi

Unokufunda imibongo embalwa yomngcwabo okanye ucengceleze eminye yemithandazo oyithandayo yomntu oswelekileyo okanye iikowuti ngexesha lentetho yesikhumbuzo. Ngelixa lo msitho nguukubhiyozela ubomiikwalixesha lokuba kuthi ndlela-ntle. Ukufunda kunye nokuva amagama akhuthazayo anokunceda kungekuphela kuwe kodwa nakwabo bakhoyo kuhambo lwabo lwentlungu. Ukuba uyathanda, khuphela imibongo kwaye uyihambise kwinkonzo njengee-keepakes. Khumbula ukuba ukufundwa kwenkonzo yeSikhumbuzo kufutshane kwaye kunemvakalelo.

Izikhumbuzo zokufa kweSikhumbuzo zifutshane, ziyakha amabinzana okanye iikowuti ezivela kubantu abadumileyo.
Ukubhiyozela oomama, sebenzisa imibongo yesikhumbuzo soSuku loMama.
Ukukhumbula utatomkhulu, imibongo ihlonipha amadoda amadala osapho.
Kwinkonzo yesikhumbuzo soSuku loTata, cinga ngombongo wenkumbulo katata.
Imibongo yobuhlanga malunga nosizi inikezela ngenkcubeko eyahlukeneyo kwaye ibhiyozela inkqubo yenkolelo yomfi.

Sebenzisa iiNkcubeko eziNinzi

Ngelixa ukubonakaliswa kosizi kungamava obuqu, kunokuba njaloInkcubeko ibonakalisiwe. Kwezinye iinkcubeko, ukufa kujongwa njengokulahleka okulusizi ngelixa kwezinye kukuvusa kovuyo. Phambi kokuba unikele ngamagama athile kwinkcubeko ethile, qiniseka ukuba uyiqonda ngokupheleleyo intsingiselo yawo kunye nomxholo oqhelekileyo. Faka iintsikelelo ezifanelekileyo ngokwenkcubeko okanye iikowuti kwiintetho ezisesikweni. Xa unika amagama entuthuzelo, qwalasela amabinzana abhiyozelayo ngakumbi okanye unqande ukuba nobuntu.

Ukugxila kukaBuddhist ekuphindukuzalwa kuphakamisa ibinzana elinoxolo elifana neli, 'Ndinikezela ngesi senzo silungileyo (igama lesenzo esithile osenzileyo) egameni lika (igama lomfi).'
'Umoya wakhe ungoyedwa nendalo,' unokulungela inkonzo yaseMelika yaseMelika.
Umrhumo wesiko uyafuneka xa kuvuswa amaTshayina apho unokuthi, 'Eyona ntlonelo yam ihlawulwe.'
Kwiinkcubeko zemveli zase-Italiya, abantu esibathandayo banceda umfi ukuba ahambe emhlabeni ukuze uthi, 'Ngamana angaphuma emhlabeni enoxolo.'
Amasiko amaHindu akujonga ukufa njengenxalenye yobomi, hayi ilahleko elusizi ke ibinzana elamkelekileyo yile, 'Ndinqwenela ukuba umphefumlo wakhe ufumane indawo oya kuyo.'

Into oza kuyithetha emngcwabeni kwabo bazilileyo

Ngelixaukuya emngcwabeni, uya kudibana nabantu obathandayo bomfi oya kuthi ubabulise kwaye uthethe nabo ngokufutshane. Kunganzima ukwenza njaloyazi ukuba yintoni na engafanelekanga ukuyithetha. Ungaqwalaselaukubulisa okanye ukuqala incokonjenge:

Namhlanje luza kuba lusuku olunzima, kodwa ndinombulelo ngokuba ulapha namhlanje.
Mholo. Kulunge kakhulu ukuba uze kwaye ndiyazi (igama lomfi) liyakuchukumiseka kukwazi ukuba ulapha namhlanje.
Ndiyaxolisa ngokulahleka kwakho kwaye ndifuna wazi ukuba (igama lomfi) liya kuhlala lisentliziyweni yam.
Enkosi ngokuza namhlanje ukuxhasa ubomi obumangalisayo (begama lomfi).
Molo, ndonwabile ukuba ulapha namhlanje ekubhiyozeleni (igama lomfi) ubomi obumnandi ngokwenyani.
Ndilusizi kakhulu ngalento uyenzileyo. Ndiya kuhlala ndikhumbula (igama lomfi) ukuhleka okusulelayo kunye nokukwazi ukunxibelelana nawo wonke umntu.
(Igama lomfi) liya kuhlala likhunjulwa kwaye ndiya kuzixabisa iinkumbulo esasinazo kunye.
Akukho nto imbi njengokulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo. Ndonwabile ukuba silapha kunye ukuxhasana ngeli xesha linzima kakhulu.

Malunga neeNkonzo zeSikhumbuzo

Iinkonzo zeSikhumbuzo zibanjwa endaweni yemingcwabo kwaye amaxesha amaninzi ukongeza kuzo. Zibanjwa ngaphandle kwentsalela yalowo ungasekhoyo apho. Umntu usenokuba ungcwatyiwe kakade okanye akukho zintsalela zokungcwaba okanye zokutshisa isidumbu. Inkonzo yesikhumbuzo eqhelekileyo ibanjwa kwiveki yokubhubha komntu, nangona kunjalo, inokulibaziseka ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo ezinje:

Usapho lufuna ukulinda iholide ekhethekileyo njengosuku lokuzalwa okanye isikhumbuzo
Uninzi lwabantu abalilayo luhlala kude kwaye ludinga ixesha lokuhamba
Usapho lusentlungwini engathethekiyo ukuba lungaphatha inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kwangoko emva kokubhubha

Ngelixa umngcwabo ungokwesiko ngokwendalo, iinkonzo zesikhumbuzo zixhaphake kakhulu okanye azikho sesikweni. Abantu bakhululekile kwaye ababi buhlungu njengasemngcwabeni okanye emngcwabeni. Abazili bakhululekile ukuba badibane kwaye baxoxe nabathandekayo kunye nabahlobo.

Ukubhiyozela uBomi

Ngokufanayo nemingcwabo, iinkonzo zesikhumbuzo kukubhiyozela ubomi bomntu ongasekhoyo. Umculo uyadlalwa kwaye amalungu osapho kunye nabahlobo batshintshana ngokuvuselela iinkumbulo. Isilayidi okanye ikholaji yefoto iboniswa ngemifanekiso yomntu kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Izilayidi zidlalwa rhoqo kunye nomculo othandwayo ngasemva. Iinkonzo zeSikhumbuzo aziqhelekanga kwiminyhadala kwaye abo bezayo bashiya ngentliziyo epheleleyo.

Amagama othando

Inkonzo yesikhumbuzo lithuba lokugqibela lokuvalelisa okanye ukubhiyozela umfi njengeqela. Thatha ithuba lokwabelana nabanye ngeengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho njengendlela yokukhumbula kunye nokuphilisa. Nokuba ubhale phantsi into oza kuyithetha, okanye usebenzisa icebiso okanye amagama ababhali abadumileyo, into oyithethayo kwinkonzo yesikhumbuzo iya kuthakazelelwa ngabahlobo abalusizi kunye nosapho ukuba uthetha ngokusuka entliziyweni.