Kunokuziva kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba ungathini kumntu okhathalelo lwe-hospice. Ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo okuthuthuzela umntu omthandayo kunye nokunxibelelana nabo kunokuziva kunentsingiselo emangalisayo kuni nobabini ngeli xesha.
Into Oyithethayo Kumntu OkwiHospice
Ukuba awunaye umntu omthandayoukutshintshela kukhathalelo lwe-hospicengaphambili, unokuziva wothukile ngokuthetha into engeyiyo okanye uziva ulahlekelwe ngamazwi. Kukho imigaqo-siseko embalwa ekufuneka uyigcinile engqondweni enokukunceda unxibelelane nomntu okhathalelo lwe-hospice ngendlela ethembekileyo nenentsingiselo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Amagama afanelekileyo okuthuthuzela umntu osentlungwini
- Indlela Yokuthetha Nomntu Oselayo (kunye Nento Onokuyiphepha)
- Iimpawu zokusondela ekufeni
Into oza kuyithetha xa umntu esiya esibhedlele
Xa umntu omthandayo kuqalauya kunyamekelaUngaqwalasela ukuthi:
- Ndiyazi ukuba kwakunzima ukuthatha isigqibo sokuya kukhathalela abaguli. Uziva njani ngamava akho ukuza kuthi ga ngoku?
- Ngaba ungathanda ukuthetha malunga nokuba olu tshintsho luye kwaba njani kuwe?
- Ngaba kukho naziphi na iinkalo zokhathalelo lwakho ongonelisekanga zizo? Ndilapha ngenxa yakho kwaye ndifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukhululekile kangangoko.
- Ngaba ikhona into endinokukuzisela yona ukuze ikuncede ukhululeke? Ndifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba unayo yonke into oyifunayo noyifunayo.
Yintoni oza kuyibhalela umntu eHospice
Ukuthumela ikhadi kunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana nomntu omthandayo kwi-hospice, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala kude kakhulu ukuba ungamtyeleli. Ungaqwalasela ukubhala:
- Ndifuna ukukwazisa ukuba ndilapha ngenxa yakho kwaye ndicinga ngawe. Ndiya kuhlala ndinombulelo .... (faka inkumbulo ekhethekileyo okanye isifundo).
- Ndifuna ukufikelela ndisithi ndiyaxolisa nge ... (faka imeko). Ngaba kuya kulunga ukuba ndikutyelele ngaxa lithile? Ndicinga ngawe.
- Ndiyabulela kakhulu kubudlelwane bethu kwaye ndiya kuhlala ndibulela ngonaphakade ... (faka inkumbulo ekhethekileyo okanye umzuzu).
Amagama okuthuthuzela umntu okhathalelo lweHospice
Amagama athuthuzelayo anokuba nentsingiselo ngakumbi ngeli xesha. Thetha ngokusuka entliziyweni kwaye uthembeke. Ungaqwalasela ukuthi:
- Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngexesha esabelana ngalo kwaye ndinithanda kakhulu. Ngaba unayo inkumbulo oyithandayo kuthi kunye?
- Ndifuna nje ukujonga kwaye ndibone ukuba uqhuba njani namhlanje.
- Ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ndiyakuthanda kwaye ndilapha ngenxa yakho ngeli xesha. Ngaba ikhona into ongathanda ukuthetha ngayo?
- Ndilapha ngenxa yakho rhoqo. Uziva njani namhlanje?
Ufanele Uthethe Njani Kumntu Onosapho Olulondolozwayo
Ukuba umhlobo okanye ilungu lentsapho lithandwa kwi-hospice, unokucinga ngokuthi:
- Ndivile ukuba (faka igama lomntu omthandayo) kukhathalelo lwe-hospice ngoku. Uziva njani? Ngaba ikhona into endinokuyenza ukukunceda ngeli xesha?
- Ndifuna nje ukujonga kwaye ndibone ukuba uqhuba njani (faka igama lomntu omthandayo) utshintshele kwi-hospice.
- Ndazise ukuba ungathanda ndibukele (abantwana okanye izilwanyana zasekhaya) ngelixa undwendwele (faka igama lomntu omthandayo). Ndiyakuvuyela ukwenza njalo nangaliphi na ixesha.
Into Ongayithethiyo Kumntu oKhathalelayo
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele kakhulu into oyithethayo kumntu okhathalelo lwe-hospice. Nokuba uneenjongo ezintle, kukho izinto ezimbalwa oza kufuna ukuziphepha ukuzithetha okanye ukuzisa. Oku kubandakanya:
- Kulumkele ukuthi okanye ukuthumela kakuhle kwangoko kumakhadi okanye iimvakalelo. Ukhathalelo lwe-Hospice lubonisa ukuba inkqubo yokufa sele iqalile, kwaye kugxilwe ekudaleni intuthuzelo ngokuchasene nokufumana unyango okanye unyango.
- Kunqande ukuza neengcinga zakho zokuba kutheni lo mntu ekwinkqubo yokufa. Ayifanelekanga okanye ibuthathaka ukuyenza.
- Kuphephe ukuveza iingcinga okanye iinkolo zonqulo ngaphandle kokuba bayakucela.
- Kuphephe ukwenza unxibelelwano malunga nawe kwaye uzame ukubakho ngokwenene.
Indlela Yokuthetha Nomntu Ofayo Kungekudala
Ukuba umntu wakho omthandayo, okanye umntu omaziyo usondele kuweUkudlula emhlabeni, kunokuba nzima ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo onokuwathetha. Qiniseka ukuba ucinga ngocoselelo malunga nento onokuyithandaUkuthetha kothandekayo osondele ekufenikwaye uqiniseke ngokuqhubekeka namava akho emva koko.
Into emayithethwe kuMguli osisibhedlele
Yazi ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuziva uluhlu lweemvakalelo xaNxibelelana nomntu ogulela ukufainkathalo. Qiniseka ukuba uzilungiselela ngokusemandleni akho ngaphambi kokuba udibane nomntu wakho omthandayo ose-hospice kwaye uqhubekeke namava akho emvakalelo emva koko. Ukubakho komnye umntu kwinkqubo yokusweleka kunokuba nobunzima kuwe, ke qiniseka ukuba uzikhathalele ngeli xesha.
