Izibini ezitshatileyo zifuna umtshato ogqibeleleyo kodwa zinokuba nzima ukuba zithini kumsitho. Ngocwangciso oluncinci kunye nokukhokelwa, kulula ukubona iindawo abanokuthi bazenzele kuzo umsitho womtshato.
Inkqubo Yomtshato
Umsitho ngamnye womtshato uqala ngomtshato. Kulapho umtshakazi, umyeni kunye nepati yomtshato benza ukungena kwabo. Apha unenkululeko yokuyila umculo oza kuseta ithoni kuwo wonke umtshato. Ukuba awunaso isiqwenga esithile engqondweni ukwenza ityala lakho, isikhokelo somtshato womtshato sinokukunceda kweso sigqibo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Imifanekiso yeentyatyambo zoMtshato
- Iingcamango zeNkqubo yoMtshato
- Imifanekiso yeeLokhwe zomtshato zeLDS
Amagama okuvula: Into oza kuyithetha kumsitho womtshato
Nje ukuba itheko lomtshato lenze ukungena, ngokwesiko ukuba kufundwe okanye iivesi zonqulo zithethwe. Ungakhetha ukuyishiya le ndawo okanye uthethe egameni lakho. Ngokwesiko le nxalenye iqala ngo 'Bathandekayo, sihlangene apha namhlanje. . . '
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba umntu afunde umbongo womtshato okanye afunde iivesi zeBhayibhile, zininzi izinto ezithandwayo onokukhetha kuzo. Ukuba unengxaki yokuthatha isigqibo kufundo olukhethekileyo, cinga ukukhetha into ethetha ngelifa lakho. Imibongo yomtshato weComanche okanye imvelaphi yeCherokee, umthandazo wamaCelt, okanye i-sonnet yenkulungwane ye-13 zonke iindlela ezintle zokudlulisa okusentliziyweni yakho.
Emva kovulo, umntu osebenzayo angabuza ukuba 'Ngubani onika lo mfazi emtshatweni?' Unokukhetha nakuphi na ukwahluka kwala magama okanye uwashiye ngokupheleleyo kumsitho.
Umthandazo wokuvula
Ukwazi ukuba uthandaze ntoni kunokuba lolona celomngeni ekubeni wazi ukuba uthini kumsitho womtshato-okanye uthandaze, kwimeko yomsitho wehlabathi. Ukuba ungumphathi okanye isithethi seendwendwe, uya kuba ulumkile ukudibana nomtshakazi nomyeni ngaphambi kokukhetha umthandazo.
Ngokwesiko, umntu ophetheyo uya kuthandaza malunga nomtshakazi nomyeni okanye afunde inqaku elifutshane lenkolo. Iindlela zangoku kule nxalenye yomsitho zibandakanya umtshakazi nomyeni becula iingoma omnye nomnye, befunda amabali akhethekileyo, okanye babelana ngamanye amagama anentsingiselo abonisa uthando olwahlukileyo lomtshakazi nomyeni.
Unokukhetha ukuthetha nantoni na oyinqwenelayo, nokuba iyinto enomdla okanye inomoya ophakamileyo, isiqhulo phakathi kwabathandi, okanye umzuzu okwabelwana ngawo nabahlobo.
Idilesi yeofisi
Ngokulandela ngqo amazwi entshayelelo kamtshakazi nomyeni, ukuba akhona, umntu oya kunikwa uya kunika inkcazo yomtshato. Amagama athethwe apha aqinisekisa ubunzulu bezibhambathiso oza kuzenza, kunye nobophelelo lwanaphakade oya kuthi wabelane ngalo neqabane lakho elitsha. Nokuba umntu ophetheyo akawuchazi umtshato, uhlala ekhetha ukuthetha nezi zibini kunye neendwendwe zazo ngokunika iingcinga ngomtshato.
Kweminye imitshato, ngakumbi eyamaKristu, umntu oceliweyo ucelwa ukuba enze intshumayelo emfutshane kakhulu eyaziwa ngokuba yikhaya. Kwikhaya, umfundisi uyakwandisa inkcazo yomtshato, anike iingcebiso nokutolika isicatshulwa malunga nemitshato yenkolo.
Izibhambathiso Zomtshato
Izibhambathiso zomtshato zesintu zizifungo ezithethwa ngulowo uphetheyo kwaye umtshakazi nomyeni baya kuphinda. Ngokwesiqhelo ezi zibhambathiso ziqala ngo 'Mna, Mary Anne Baker, ndikuthabathe, Jordan Daniel Whitney, ukuba ube ngumyeni wam otshate ngokusemthethweni.' Ukukhetha ukulandela emikhondweni yesiko kukususa kwikhonkco lokuyila. Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bakhetha ukuqala bathethe oko kusezintliziyweni zabo, emva koko baphindaphinde izifungo zesintu, kwaye oko kukulalanisa. Ukuba awukwazi ukuza nezibhambathiso zomtshato ezifanelekileyo kumthendeleko wakho, okanye ukuba ufuna uncedo oluthile lokudala esi sikhokelo sezibhambathiso zomtshato zanamhlanje ziya kunceda.
Ukutshintshwa kweeRingi
Emva kokuba uthethile ngezibhambathiso zakho, unokukhetha ukufundwa okwesibini okanye ingoma. Abanye abantu bayaliqa eli nxalenye lomsitho okanye bawubandakanye emva kokutshintshiselana ngeringi. Isabelo sokutshintshiselana ngesangqa somsitho ngokwesiko siqala ngokuthi 'Ndikunika lo msesane njengomqondiso wothando lwam.' Ukuba ulandela iskripthi somsitho womtshato obhaliweyo kunye noqhelisiweyo, inokukunceda ukuzola kwentliziyo yakho ngeli nxalenye yomtshato.
Isibhengezo soMtshato
Emva kokuba imisesane itshintshiwe, umntu oza kubanjwa uyakukubiza ngokuba uyindoda nomfazi, kwaye umzuzu omkhulu obulindelwe ziindwendwe zakho uyafika. Unokumanga umyeni / umfazi wakho omtsha kwaye uhlale ngokonwaba emva koko.