Xa umntu omthandayo eqala ukuba nemibono njengabokufutshane nokufa, usenokuziva ungaqinisekanga ngento omawuyenze. Ukuqheleka phambi kokuba usweleke kuqhelekile kwaye kukho iindlela ezininzi onokuzilungiselela ngazo ukuba ungangqina ngoku kwaye uqonde indlela yokuthuthuzela umntu omthandayo.
Kutheni le nto abantu beHlulucluin ngaphambi kokufa?
Umntu othile kwifayile ye-Inkqubo yokuswelekabanokuba namava e-hallucinations okanye imibono engabonakali ngathi iyavakala kubahlobo babo nakumalungu osapho. Esi siganeko siqhelekileyo sichazwa ngu iingcamango ezininzi . Abaphandi kunye iinkolo ezahlukeneyo banezimvo ezingafaniyo, nangona ingekho enye ithiyori ethe yatyhilwa okwangoku. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba:
- Ukungabikho kweoksijini kuchaphazela i-lobe yexeshana (apho kusenziwa khona isandi), esinokubangela ukuxhuzula okukhokelela kwimibono okanye kwimibono
- Ukufa kweeseli zengqondo kubangela ukuba ube nemibono
- Amayeza abangela imibono
- Uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo olusemva kokufa kukabani lubangela imibono
- Abantu ababathandayo abadlulileyo bafikelela kwilizwe lomoya
- Iingelosi zize kulanda abantu obathandayo kweli hlabathi
- Kutheni ndisoyika ukufa?
- Amanqanaba oMzimba woKufa
- Ukulungiselela iiyure ezingama-24 zokugqibela ngaphambi kokufa
Iindidi zeHalluccinations ngaphambi kokufa
Iimbono nemibono ziya kwahluka kuye ngomntu, kodwa uninzi luxele ukuba abaguli ababanyangayo okanye ababathandayo baxele ukuba babone abafileyo babo ababathandayo, iingelosi, uYesu, okanye abantu abangumoya abangabaziyo Abanye abantu baya kuthi banombono ebuthongweni babo, ngelixa abanye benokubonakala ngathi banobuqili kwaye baqala ukuthetha nabantu ababathandayo ababonayo okanye abazive bona. Abanye banokuphawula ukubona itonela nokukhanya.
Ukuzilungiselela ukuba ube lingqina lokuphela kobomi
Ingaziva yoyike ukubona umntu wakho omthandayo ebandakanyeka kwimibono ongakwaziyo ukuyibona. Unokuzibuza ukuba zinqabile kangakanani kwaye uzive usoyika ukuzibona zisiba nemibono.
iindlela ezilungileyo zokucela intombazana ukuba igoduke
Yenzeka nini imibono?
Yazi ukuba ukuba nemibono, amaphupha, okanye ukubona izinto ezingekhoyo ngexesha lokufa kuyinto exhaphakileyo kwaye kungaqala ukwenzeka kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba umntu afe. Imibono okanye i-hallucinations inokunyuka rhoqo kwiveki ekhokelela kumntu odlulayo. Zama ukugcina oku engqondweni ukuba kukho umntu omthandayo okwinkqubo yokusweleka. Oku kunokukuthintela ekubeni wothuke okanye wothuke xa beqala ukuzibandakanya nabantu okanye nezinto ongaziboniyo.
indlela yokubuyisela uziphu kwakhona
Into Ongayenza
Ukuba uziva uxhalabile okanye ungakhululekanga xa ushumayela osenyongweni wakho enombono okanye umbono, unga:
- Zikhumbuze ukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo kwinkqubo yokubhubha
- Thatha umoyakwaye uzincule ngokwakho umhlaba
- Thatha ikhefu kwaye uphume egumbini ukuba uziva ukonganyelwe
- Phuma uphulaphule umculo opholileyo
- Thatha ixesha lokudodobala ngokwakho okanye nabantu obathandayo
Ukuthuthuzela Umntu Omthandayo
Kunokuba mnandi ukuthuthuzela umntu omthandayo oswelekileyo. Nokuba umhlobo wakho ujongene nombono ophazamisayo, okanye obumnandi, kukho iindlela onokuthi uqhakamshelane nabo kwaye ubavumele basebenzise la mava. Unga:
- Buza imibuzo engeyoyokugweba malunga nemibono yabo
- Babuze ukuba baziva njani xa bethetha naye nabani na abanxibelelana naye
- Beka isandla sabo okanye ingalo ukubanceda bazive baphantsi- ungafuna ukucela imvume kuqala ukuze ungabothusi
- Ukuba baziva bephazamisekile, thetha ngelizwi elipholileyo nelicothayo kwayecela uncedo lobungcaliukuba kuyafuneka
- Zama ukubenza bajolise kwenye into ukuba kubonakala ngathi bayoyika kwaye ujikeleze emva kokubona izinto xa sele beziva bekulungele ukuyilungisa
Ukuqonda ukuphela kobomi I-Hallucinations
Ngelixa umbono ophelayo wobomi okanye imibono inokubonakala yoyikisa ukunikela ubungqina, yazi ukuba ziyinxalenye yesiqhelo yenkqubo yokufa efunyanwa ngabantu abaninzi. Qiniseka ukuba uzikhathalele njengoko ubonelela ngenkxaso kulowo umthandayo uhamba la mava.
