Abafazi abakhohlisayo baxhaphake kakhulu kunanini na ngaphambili. Ngoku ka IWebMD , omnye kwabafazi abatshatileyo abahlanu uye wafunyanwa.
Ngubani virgo ehambelana kakhulu
Kutheni Ukukopa Abafazi Kulahleka
Eyona nto iphambili kwesiqhelo kukuba abafumani nto ngaphandle komtshato abalindeleyo nabanqwenelayo. Oko akuthethi ukuba yimpazamo yomyeni njengoko inokuvela ngokulula kunxibelelwano oluvela kuwo omabini amaqela. Ezinye zezizathu eziphambili zokuba abafazi bakhohlise:
- Umlingane akahoyi ngokwaneleyo emfazini, emenza ukuba azive engahlonitshwa, engahoywanga, kwaye engathandwa
- Ukuhlehlisa ukuba nabantwana kuthetha ixesha elingakumbi, amathuba amaninzi nenkululeko engakumbi
- Omnye okanye omabini amaqabane asebenza kakhulu ukugcina uxhulumaniso olomeleleyo
- Umnqweno wokuthanda ngakumbi; Ukwabelana ngesondo emtshatweni kuye kwaphela
- Iziphumo ezimbalwa ukubangaba imivuzo ephezulu ibanjiwe (ukuxhomekeka kokuncinci kwiqabane), kwaye kwakhona, akukho bantwana bakhathazekileyo malunga
- Amathuba amaninzi kunangaphambili kunombulelo kwi-Intanethi, iishedyuli zomsebenzi ezixakekileyo ezihlala zibandakanya iihambo zenkampani
- Ukutshata kwangoko kakhulu kwaye ucinga ukuba yimpazamo, uzibuza ukuba yintoni enye ekhoyo phaya
- Iimpawu ze-10 zeQabane lokuKopa
- I-8 Iimbono zezipho zothando kuye
- Ngaba onke amadoda eVirgo ayakopela kwaye angathembeki?
Ukuthintela imicimbi
Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umfazi wakho akanelisekanga kwaye usenokuba ujonge kwenye indawo ukuthandana, okanye ukuba ungomnye wabafazi abaninzi abakhohlisayo (okanye ulingeka nje ukukopela kweli nqanaba) kwaye unqwenela ukugcina umtshato wakho, kukho izinto ezithile ungayenza. Yonke imitshato ithatha umsebenzi, ukulungelelanisa, kunye nonxibelelwano, ke akukho zilungiso zikhawulezileyo. Nangona kunjalo, zikho iindlela zokuphucula umanyano lwakho.
- Thetha ngokukhathazeka kwakho kunye namazwi enkxaso kunye noxabiso. Ukuba ninengxaki yokuvulelana izifuba, qwalasela iingcebiso ngomtshato. Umgqirha unokukwazi ukufumana amagama ahambayo ongazange wazi ukuba ungawabeka njani ngaphambili. Ukuba ucinga ukuba kukho into enokukhathaza umfazi wakho kodwa ube ungazi ukuba yintoni, sukuyitshayela nje phantsi kombhoxo ulinde ukuba idlule. Inokuvela kaninzi engqondweni yakhe kwaye ingaze isonjululwe. Buza ukuba yintoni na ingxaki. Unokumangaliswa yindlela isenzo esilula esinceda ngayo ukuba unxibelelwano luvuleke kwakhona, nokuba ingxaki ayinanto yakwenza nawe. Kubonisa ukuba uzimisele ukusebenza kubudlelwane kwaye umkhathalele.
- Sukuyeka ukugxila kunxibelelwano kuphela xa kukho ingxaki okanye ingxaki ebonakalayo. Thetha nomfazi wakho ngokwenzeka ngexesha lakho. Yabelana ngamabali ukudala ulwalamano phakathi kobudlelwane. Chithani ixesha kunye nisenza izinto othanda ukuzenza, nokuba iyinto nje engenamsebenzi njengokwabelana ngekomityi yekofu kusasa. Le mizuzu yexesha eliphantsi yiyo eyenza isiseko esomeleleyo kubudlelwane.
- Qiniseka ukuba ubambe ubudlelwane bakho ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezinye iindawo ebomini bakho. Yenze eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye umazise ukuba umxabisa kangakanani kunye nayo yonke into akwenzela yona, nokuba uhlala ekhaya nabantwana emini kwaye ukuphekele isidlo esikhulu ebusuku, usebenza iiyure ezinde ukuze uphile, okanye ulindele iimfuno zakho kakuhle. Mncome. Gcina ubomi bakho ngokwesondo busebenza. Thethani ngekamva lenu kunye kwaye nize neenjongo ekwabelwana ngazo. Sebenzela ukufikelela kwezo njongo kunye nokuxhasa iinjongo zakhe. Ukuba uziva ukuba uyamncoma kuyo yonke into ayenzayo, mancinci amathuba okuba ajonge kwenye indawo yeqela lenkxaso kwaye abe ngomnye wabafazi abakopelayo.
- Yenza isigqibo ngento eniziva nikhululekile ngayo xa ninamalungu esini esahlukileyo. Isibini sonyango Inc. icebisa ukucwangcisa ukuseta imida eqinileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba uhambo lweshishini lubangela ukudanisa ebusuku, ngaba umfazi wakho ufanele ukuthatha inxaxheba? Thetha naye malunga nolwazi abelana ngalo nabantu asebenza nabo okanye nabahlobo abanokuthi kamva banike isilingo. Cebisa inqanaba apho umntu anokumenza ukuba aphambuke angadlala indima yemfihlo.
Iingcinga zokugqibela
Kwiimeko ezininzi, abafazi abakopelayo abakhohlisi ngenxa yokukopa. Bayakopa kuba beziva ngathi abafumani nto emtshatweni wabo, nokuba yinkanuko, inkxaso, uxabiso, ulwalamano, isini, okanye enye into. Kuba kunamathuba amaninzi, iishedyuli zamaqela omabini zoluliwe zincinci kwaye zixinene kakhulu neziganeko ezingabandakanyiyo, baninzi abafazi abakhohlisayo ngaphandle kunangaphambili. Abafazi abakhohlisayo bahlala bebangelwa kukwaphuka konxibelelwano okanye ukungabikho kosondelelwano olunika isiseko esomeleleyo kubudlelwane. Ayisiyiyo eyedwa ukuba ayigcine yonwabe, kunjalo, kodwa omabini amaqela kufuneka enze inzame zokugcina umtshato ungenanto.
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