Ukuphulukana notatomkhulu wakho kunzima, nokuba ungakanani ubudala ngelo xesha lokusweleka kwakhe. Ukucelwa ukuba uhambise umbulelo emngcwabeni wakhe lilungelo elikhulu. Ukuba unengxaki yokufumanisa ukuba uza kuthini, jonga kwakhona le sampulu ye-eulogy yokuphefumlelwa.
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Umzekelo Ukubongwa kukaTatomkhulu
Ndingathini ngotatomkhulu wam? Igama lam ndingu [faka igama] kwaye ngekhe ndibengulomntu ndinguye namhlanje ngaphandle kwakhe. Inyaniso yokungabikho kwethu iyayaphula intliziyo yam, kodwa into yokuba wandifundisa- kunye nosapho lwethu lonke-ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuthanda umntu ngenene kuya kundinceda ndiphilise kwaye ndiqhubeke. Ndisemncinci, ndandinqula utatomkhulu. Ngelixa ndingasoloko ndiyibonisa, bendihlala ndimjonga. Ukusukela ngela xesha ndandimncinci kakhulu, ndandisazi ukuba wayengumzekelo ofanelekileyo wokuba umntu osapho kufuneka abeyintoni. Ayisiyiyo kuphela inkokeli yosapho lwethu, wayengumntu omangalisayo oshiye uphawu kuye wonke umntu adibana naye. Xa ndijonga namhlanje, andiboni kuphela usapho lwam, ndibona abahlobo abaninzi, abantu endisebenza nabo, abamelwane, nabanye abalilayo ngenxa yokulahlekelwa yile ndoda ibalaseleyo.
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Ndifuna ukukuxelela ukuba utatomkhulu wayengumntu onjani.
- Wayeluthanda usapho lwakhe. [Faka imizekelo embalwa okanye amabali ukubonisa le ngongoma.]
- Wayenomdla malunga [faka unobangela / umdlalo / njl.] [Faka imizekelo embalwa okanye amabali adlulisa ukuthanda kwakhe.]
- Wayenento enkulu [faka into efana 'nokuhlekisa,' 'umdlalo wegalufa,' 'umsebenzi njenge _________']. [Yongeza imizekelo embalwa okanye amabali.]
Waye zizinto zonke ezo, kunye nokunye okuninzi. Nangona ndingazi ukuba ikamva lam-okanye ikamva losapho lwethu-linjani ngaphandle kotatomkhulu, ndiyazi ukuba ndingumntu ongcono kuba ndandithandwa nguye. Ndiyathemba kuphela ukuba ndingaphila kumzekelo wothando, ukomelela, isimilo, kunye nokuthembeka asibekele kona sonke. Ngelixa engasekho apha esithi uyazingca ngam, amandla akhe ndiwathwele entliziyweni yam. Olona thando lubalaseleyo ndiyathemba ukuluva ngolunye usuku 'ngutatomkhulu wakho uya kuba nebhongo.'
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Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngokujoyina usapho lwam ekubhiyozeleni ubomi be [faka igama likatat'omkhulu], indoda endizingomb 'isifuba ngokubiza utatomkhulu wam. Ndingathanda ukukushiya nala magama okugqibela. [Faka intsingiselo enentsingiseloUmbongo,ukucaphula, okanyeivesi yebhayibhile].
Ukulungiselela ukubhala i-Eulogy kaTatomkhulu wakho
Ngelixaiisampulu zeentetho ze-eulogyunokuba ngumthombo olungileyo wokuphefumlelwa, ubomi bukatatomkhulu wakho wahlukile. Sebenzisa umzekelo omninzi wentetho ngendlela othanda ngayo, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ububhiyozela ngokwenyani ubomi bakhe ngokwenza i-eulogy esuka entliziyweni ezukisa inkumbulo yakhe kunye nophawu lwento ayishiyileyo emhlabeni. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubhala, chitha ixesha elithile ubonakalisa ubudlelwane bakho notatomkhulu wakho, kunye nefuthe lakhe kusapho luphela.
Ukuqala:
- Cinga ngempembelelo katatomkhulu wakho ekukwenzeni ube ngulo mntu unguye namhlanje.
- Cinga ngezona nkumbulo zimnandi zokuchitha ixesha kunye notatomkhulu wakho.
- Cela abazali bakho, oomakazi, oomalume, abazala, kunye nabantakwenu ukuba babelane ngamabali abo abathandayo ngotatomkhulu.
- Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ezinqwenelwa ngutatomkhulu wakho, ezinje ngokuzonwabisa, umsebenzi wokuzithandela, izizathu, ubulungu, njl.
- Yenza iukubhala ngokukhululekileyoukuzivocavoca umzimba, apho uchitha imizuzu emi-5 ubhala amagama afikayo xa ucinga ngotatomkhulu wakho.
Njengoko ugqibezela le misebenzi, uqinisekile ukuba uza kuba neemvakalelo ezinamandla- ukusuka kuthando kunye novuyo ukudakumba kunye nosizi. Uya kuphuhlisa umbono ocacileyo wento ekufuneka ifakiwe kwi-eulogy katatomkhulu wakho. Ngenxa yoko, uyazi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba uthini xa uhambisa i-eulogy.
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Nika imbeko uTatomkhulu wakho
Ukubeka utatomkhulu wakho ngentetho yomngcwabo ekhuthazayo yindlela entle yokubhiyozela ubomi bakhe emva kokuba eswelekile. Nokuba ufumanisa ukuba ukuthetha esidlangalaleni kuluxinzelelo, amathuba okuba ekugqibeleni uyonwaba ukuba uvumile ukulungiselela nokwenza intetho emfutshane kumngcwabo wakhe.
