Njengolutsha, uthando olutsha kukuphazamiseka okuthile. Uthando yimvakalelo edidayo, nokuba ungakanani ngeminyaka. Iminyaka yeshumi elivisayo ihlala izisa amava okuqala ngothando oluthandanayo, olwahlukileyo kunothando oluvelayo kubazali, izilwanyana zasekhaya, nakwizinto zokudlala. Uthando luyimfihlakalo yomlingo; uthando olutsha malube luyonwabisa, lungabi buhlungu, ngamava.
Uthando lokuqala
Ulutsha oluninzi luchitha ixesha elininzi luthande ulutsha. Ngokukodwa xa ingowokuqala, ubudlelwane bezothando buwuzalisa umzimba wakho ngemincili kunye neadrenaline. Ngubani onokubetha oko kungxama? Ewe, musa ukulumkisa umoya. Unonophelo lilizwi losuku xa kufikwa kuthando oluncinci.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Ubomi njengoLutsha
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- Iincwadi malunga nendlela yokwakha ubuhlobo obuhle bobuKristu kulutsha
Ngelixa ngokuqinisekileyo le nto ayizukuvakala njengeendaba ezilungileyo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba uthando oluncinci aluhlali. Ewe eyona nto uyicingayo yile, 'kodwa yahlukile kuthi…' kubalulekile ukuba ungalahli umbono wokuba luyintoni kanye kanye uthando oluselula. Uthando olutsha, ngakumbi uthando lokuqala, lukhulu. Inamandla kakhulu, inokoyikisa. Oku kunyanzela kuyakwenza uthando lubonakale lomelele kunokuba kunjalo. Njengomntu ofikisayo, eli lixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye nokukhula, hayi uxanduva olunzima. Sukuchitha iminyaka yakho yokuthandana yokuvuselela ulutsha kubudlelwane bothando obunzima, ngakumbi ukwazi ukuba kuya kuphela. Ukwamkela okungenakuphepheka kuya kukukhokelela kulwalamano lokonwaba kunye nolonwabo, endaweni yentlungu kunye nentlungu.
Thanda Uthando
Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uphephe uthando oluncinci ngokupheleleyo, endaweni yoko, yonwabele. Into emfutshane yokuphila, uthando oluncinci zizinto zeentsomi kunye namaphupha enziwe. Khuthaza umba wokuzonwabisa ngokuthatha uxinzelelo kuwe nakwisithandwa sakho okanye intombi oyithandayo. Njengomntu ofikisayo, akukho mfuneko yokuba ujonge iqabane lakho ebomini, umntu nje onwabisayo wokuchitha ixesha kunye naye.
Uthando lokuqala zizinto zenkumbulo ezenziwe ngazo. Wonke umntu okwishumi elivisayo ukhumbula uthando lokuqala kwaye luya kubeka inqanaba kubo bonke ubudlelwane obulandelayo. Ufuna ukukhunjulwa njani? Vumela le ngcinga ikukhokele kwizigqibo zakho zobudlelwane.
Alukho Uthando Okwangoku
Ungathini ukuba awusaziva ukuthandwa luthando lokuqala? Sukuba noxinzelelo, izigidi zolutsha azikaze zilufumane uthando zide zibe badala kakhulu. Yiba nomonde kwaye uphumle kulwazi onokuthi ugxile kulo kwezinye izinto ezinomdla.
Ukuthanda kunye nothando olutsha
Ukuthanda kunye nothando, ngakumbi uthando oluncinci, luyahambelana. Olu thando ekugqibeleni luya kuba yimpumelelo yakho enkulu okanye ukusilela, kuxhomekeke kwindlela oyisebenzisa ngayo. Xa kufikwa kuthando, nokuba uyathandana okanye imoto yakho, kokukhona uyifaka kuyo, kokukhona kuya kusiba nzima xa yonke iphela. Musa ukuvumela inkanuko yakho ibongamele ubomi bakho, nokuba ziyintoni na. Kumanqanaba okuqala othando, kulula kakhulu ukuvumela yonke enye into ityibilike. Umsebenzi wasekhaya, uxanduva losapho, imisebenzi, konke kubonakala kungabalulekanga kangako xa loo mfana kwiklasi yezibalo ekugqibeleni ekubuza. Hayi kulungile, yonwabile! Uyathandeka ngekapitali. Musa ukutsiba ukuziqhelanisa nebhasikithi okanye uphoswe ngumhla wokuzalwa komntakwenu ukuze udibane naye. Ke, ubuncinci xa ukonwaba kuphelile, usenalo iqela lebhola yomnyazi ukubuyela kulo.
Endaweni yoko, vumela uthando lukhuthaze. Funda ngawe ukuze uqonde ngcono ukuba ngubani kwaye ngubani omthandayo kwaye ngoba. Yiba ngumntu opheleleyo ekulula ukuba abanye bathande. Ngokulinganisa ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuzithemba, uya kuba nomtsalane kuwe nakwabanye. Sukuba neentloni kwiimvakalelo zakho ezinzulu, endaweni yoko jonga ngaphakathi kwaye uzame ukuqonda ngcono ukuba ungubani kanye kanye. Eli xesha lokutshintsha kolutsha malibe lithuba lokulungiselela ubunzima kunye noxinzelelo lwehlabathi labantu abadala.
Ubudlelwane obusempilweni
Ngelixa ngokuqinisekileyo liqala ukuvakala ngathi lirekhodi elaphukileyo xa uneminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu, vumela le minyaka ibe yindawo yakho yoqeqesho ebudaleni. Nangona unokuziva ukhulile, inyani yile, awukho. Heyi, kulungile ke nawe… usenokuzonwabisa kwaye uvumele abanye bathathe uxanduva. Endaweni yokugxila kubushushu bothando oluncinci, mayikukhokele ekwakheni ubudlelwane obunempilo. Oku ekugqibeleni kuya kuqinisekisa impumelelo yakho kuthando phantsi kwendlela.
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