Uh-oh! Kubonakala ngathi ufikelele kwisimo esibi kubudlelwane xa wena neqabane lakho nidanisa ngokujikeleza amagama athi 'Ndiyakuthanda' kodwa ungaze uthi. Kwaye amathuba okuba, akukho ndlela yokuhamba uyokuchitha iimbotyi kuqala! Ilunge kakhulu. Nge-finesse encinci kunye ne-dash of psychology, fumana ukuba ungamenza njani athi ndiyakuthanda.
1. Ukuhla kweLizwi 'njengo' kunye nezinye iL-Word Substitute
'Ndiyakuthanda,'liqabane lakhonjengoko ejonge nzulu emehlweni akho. Xa oku kusenzeka, dlala ngokudlalisa kuye kwaye uthi, 'Oh? Imnandi. Ngokwenene, ndiyithanda kakhulu ipipperoni pizza! ' ilandelwe ngamehlo acebisayo.
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Ngale ndlela, utyhola ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba 'uthanda' ligama elingenabunzulu ekufuneka ligcinelwe izitya ozithandayo, kodwa hayi elinzulu, uvakalelo. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyakufumana ingcebiso kwaye aqonde ukuba uyamkhuthaza ukuba asebenzise igama elinolwazelelelo ngakumbi. Njengaye, ahem, 'thanda!'
2. Ukwabelana ngesondo okumangalisayo kuya kumenza achithe iimbotyi
Ukugqabhuka okumangalisayo engxoweni kuya kwenza nayiphi na indoda ibhomboloze 'Ndiyakuthanda!' phezulu emiphungeni yakhe. Kwaye asithethi ngento oqhele ukuyenza, nokuba intle kangakanani. Sithetha ngokuvusa ingqondo, ukukhulisa iinwele, yenyani Ukwabelana ngesondo, ukumthumela phezulu kakhulu kwi-Cloud 9, ukuba ayizukuphosa iibhombu ezimbalwa ze-L, kodwa uyakuthembisa ukwenza imisebenzi yasendlwini, avume ukungaze agcine isitulo sangasese kwakhona, kwaye athembise ukuthathela ingqalelo ngakumbi wena ngexesha lebhola ekhatywayo yangeCawa.
Ewe, t Unayo uhlobo lwesini.
Ukubonelela ngeengcebiso, qwalaselaTantra ngesondookanye inkanukoImidlalo yebhodiukwenza izinto zishushu kwaye zinzima kwigumbi lokulala.
3. Ukuziveza kukhokelela ekutyibilikeni kwemilebe
Kukho into exhobisa ngomntu ongafihlisiyo, ocacileyo, kunye nentliziyo evulekileyo, awuvumi? Xa umntu esimkhathaleleyo eziva ekhululekile ukuba abelane nathi ngolwazi olusondeleyo, iyasikhuthaza ukuba sichaze ezethu iimvakalelo. Ke ngokubhekisele ekuvuseleleni umntu wakho ukuba athethe u-L-igama, yabelana ngento entsha malunga nawe eya kuthi ibonelele ngokubanzi, ngakumbi umbono ongaphezulu wokuba ungubani. Yabelana ngokoyika, ukukhathazeka kunye neengxaki zangaphambili.
Kuya kufuneka uphinde ujonge kwincoko eya kuvuselela ubukrelekrele bakhe kunye nokunyumbaza ingqondo yakhe. Ngaphezulu kweglasi yewayini, jonga emehlweni akhe kwaye ubuze ukuba yintoni emkhuthazayo okanye yintoni eyonwabisayo kuye. Ukurhabaxa kwiikona ezikude zentliziyo, ingqondo nomphefumlo weqabane lakho kuya kumnyibilikisa athi 'Ndiyakuthanda' kwakamsinya kunokuba ucinga.
4. Mqhelise xa ulala
Lindela kude kube sezinzulwini zobusuku, xa enye yakho ebalulekileyo ibamba ezinye ze-Z, kwaye ngokusebeza uthethe amabinzana aphindaphindayo ezindlebeni zakhe njengokuthi, 'Ndiza kuchaza iimvakalelo zam [faka igama lakho].'
Ngoku ka INzululwazi , izazinzulu ngemithambo-luvo ezivela kwiYunivesithi yaseNyakatho-ntshona eChicago zithi abantu banokufumana ulwazi olutsha xa belele. Abanye abaphandi bade bathi ungafunda ulwimi olutsha ngelixa usnuza ! Ke, ngelixa isithandwa sakho sibaleka, kutheni ungatyali ibug encinci endlebeni yakhe ukuze umkhuthaze ekugqibeleni akhuphe ikati engxoweni?
5. Gcwalisa i-Subconscious yakhe ngeempawu zengqondo
Nanini na xa ekunye nawe, tshintshela i-subconscious yakhe ngesikhuthazo esimkhumbuza ngothando. Nxiba bomvu rhoqo ukuvuselela izivamvo zakhe. Ngasemva, uhlala ushiya iifilimu 'nothando' kwisihloko sayo, njenge Uthando Ngokwenene , Ndiyakuthanda, Ndoda , kunye Uyaphambana, Usisiyatha, Uthando . Kufuneka wenze njalo ngomculo.
Xa ekucela ukuba usenzele ubabalo okanyeicebisa umhla, phendula ngamagama agxininisa igama le-L njengokuthi, 'Ndingathanda uthando ukuya! ' Mse kwiindawo ezinokuvusa ezona nkumbulo zakhe zifudumeleyo. Xa umpheka, mnike isitya esimile okweentliziyo. Okokugqibela, zalisekisa iimfuno zakhe ezingafezekiswanga ngothando. Umzekelo, cinga ukuba neodolo yakhe ayithandayo ayimlinde kwitafile yasekhitshini emva kosuku olude lomsebenzi kwaye uzobe intliziyo engxoweni.
Zonke ezi ziindlela onokuthi udibanise imiqondiso yothando kunye nawe. Mbukele ekhupha into ekulindelwe ukuba 'ndiyakuthanda' ngephanyazo!
6. Dlala umdlalo oClever weSichazi-magama
Ngubani ongathandiIsichazi-magama? Ngumdlalo wabantu ababini omnandi kwaye uya kubonisa izakhono zakho zokuzoba ezimangalisayo njengoko unceda iqabane lakho ukuba liqikelele igama okanye ibinzana elithile. Ngexesha elithile embindini womdlalo, iya kuba licebo elinobuqili lokutsala iliso, lilandelwe yintliziyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, indoda ikhombe omnye umntu.
Ukomelezwe kukukhula komdlalo, mbukele engakhange aqonde akhwaze athi, 'Ndiyakuthanda!' Ukuphendula ngokuhlekisayo ngokuthi 'Haha! Utsho kuqala! '
Iindlela ezi-6 ezifihlakeleyo zokuMenza athi 'Ndiyakuthanda'
Ukuba uluhlobo olufihlakeleyo kunoluhlobo olucekeceke, zikho iindlela onokuthi uvelise ngazo isihloko ukukhuthaza umfana wakho ukuba athi 'Ndiyakuthanda.'
1. Buza malunga neengcinga zakhe ngothando
Ukuthetha ngothando ngokubanzi okanye uthando phakathi kwabanye abantu rhoqo kunokuba yinto efihlakeleyo yokuba unethemba lokuva amagama othando. Fumana iindlela zokuzisa isihloko sothando ngokwendalo ngokwabelana ngamabali eendaba okanye amava akho okufumana uthando kwingqondo yakhe. Into ocinga ngayo inokuba nefuthe zombini indlela oziva ngayo kunye nendlela owenza ngayo, ke ukumenza acinge ngothando kunokumnceda athi 'Ndiyakuthanda.' Amaqabane ahlala kunye aya kuba nelona xesha lilula lokwenza ezi ncoko zibe yinxalenye yemihla ngemihla.
Cula iDuoke yeKaraoke ebandakanya umgca 'Ndiyakuthanda'
Ngexesha elizayo xa usiya ekaraoke kunye, khetha i-duet equka ingoma ethi 'Ndiyakuthanda.' Sukumxelela ukuba kutheni ukhethe ingoma okanye ukhombe amazwi, kodwa zama ukutshixa amehlo naye xa ucula loo mgca ubalulekileyo. Unokongeza amagqabantshintshi angacacanga emva kokusebenza kwakho malunga nendlela owaziva ngayo usenza le ngoma kunye naye. Oku kumnika ithuba lokuba athethe loo mazwi kuwe kwimeko engenaxinizelelo, enokumenza akhululeke ukuwathetha ngabom. Ikwabonisa ukuba mhlawumbi uziva ngendlela efanayo, ke akazukukhathazeka malunga nokwaliwa xa esithi 'Ndiyakuthanda.'
3. Dlala umdlalo woMbutho wamagama
Umbutho weLizwi ngumdlalo olula nasiphi na isibini esinokudlala xa sigonene esofeni okanye ebhedini. Cebisa umdlalo womdibaniso wamagama kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uxhobile ngamagama athetha uthando. Cebisa igama elithi 'iimvakalelo' ze umenze athethe igama lokuqala elithi qatha engqondweni. Tshintshana ukuze kungavakali ngathi uyatyhala i-ajenda. Nje ukuba ungene kwisingqisho esihle, qala ukumnika amagama anje ngo 'mna' okanye 'uthando.' Unokuchitha iimbotyi ngengozi xa ekhwaza impendulo yakhe, okanye incoko inokubangela umnqweno kuye wokuthi 'Ndiyakuthanda.'
4. Shiya inqaku lothando
Amanqaku othando akufuneki athethe phandle esithi 'Ndiyakuthanda,' banokusebenzisa amanye amabinzana afanayo ukubonisa iimvakalelo ezifanayo. Ukushiya kuye inqaku elikhethekileyo elincinci elibonisa iimvakalelo zakho kunokumnika inkalipho yokwabelana naye. Ngelixa ufuna ukunqanda ukuthi 'Ndiyakuthanda' kwinqaku, ungayityikitya ngokuvala 'Uthando,' kulandele igama lakho okanye ukongeza intliziyo. Olu lukhetho olukhulu kwizibini ezingahlali kunye okanye izibini ezikude kuba ungekho emva kokushiya inqaku limnika ixesha lokuziqhuba.
5. Slip it incoko engahambelaniyo
Unokuziva ngathi ufuna ukuphuma uphume umbuze ukuba uyakuthanda na, kodwa ukubuza lo mbuzo ngendlela ecekeceke kunokwenza ukuba nobabini nizive nikhululekile ukuba anizabelani kakhulu ngeemvakalelo ezininzi. Yiza nencoko malunga nento ethethwe ngabazali bakho okanye ngabahlobo bakho okanye ebuzwe ngaye equka igama elithi 'L'. Umzekelo, mhlawumbi umhlobo wakho osenyongweni wakubuza ngenye imini ukuba ubona ntoni kuye okanye wagxeka into ayenzayo. Ungabelana ngeli bali, emva koko wabelane ngendlela omkhusele ngayo kunye nencoko nomhlobo wakho malunga nokuba luyintoni uthando.
6. Mqhwabele izandla xa ekwabelana ngeemvakalelo zakhe
Amadoda amaninzi kufuneka azive ekhuselekile kwaye ekhuselekile xa babelana ngeemvakalelo zabo , nditsho nomntu abamthandayo. Mbambe ekwabelana ngeemvakalelo zakhe ngayo nantoni na kwaye umenzele ihlombe ngenxa yoko. Mxelele ukuba kwakumnandi kangakanani ukuthembakala ngokwaneleyo ukuba wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakhe kwaye wenze isenzo esikhulu ngaso. Eminye yale mizuzu iya kumenza azive ngathi angakuxelela nantoni na.
Uya kuyithetha xa ekuLungele
Ukuba iqabane lakho lisabambe-umlomo emva kwezi ngcebiso, lixesha lokuba uqaphele ukuba ugcina umama hayi kuba enomdla, kodwa ngenxa yokuba engafikanga kwinqanaba leemvakalelo apho aziva ekhululekile ukuthi 'Ndiyakuthanda' okwangoku- kwaye kulungile ! Mnike ixesha. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuhlala kungcono ukuva loo magama mathathu omlingo xa kunyanisekile.
