Ama-61 aQalayo eNcoko yokuNxibelelana

Incoko emileyo ayisiyiyo kwaphela indlela yokuthandana kwe-epic okanyeumhla wokuqala. Ukuqala kwencoko yothando kungagcina incoko igeleza kwaye, mhlawumbi, ungongeza ukonwaba okuncinci. Fumana iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuqalisa incoko yothando nomntu omtsha okanye ngomhla.

Isiseko seNcoko yothando

Iziqalo zencoko zothando zixhomekeke kwinto umntu ayenzayo okanye angayithathiyo njengothando. Qiniseka ukuba ugcine ubuntu bakho kunye nembono engqondweni xa ujonge iindlela zothando zokuqalisa incoko. Ukuba uzamaqalisa incokonomntu omaziyo, qiniseka ukuba ubuthathele ingqalelo ubuntu bakhe.

Amanqaku afanelekileyo

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Kukho abantu abaliqela ongaqala incoko yothando kunye kwaye ngamnye ufuna indlela eyahlukileyo:

Umntu osanda kudibana naye okanye onethemba lokudibana naye
Umhlobo onqwenela ukuba naye ngaphezu komhlobo
Umntu ojola naye
Iqabane lakho

Iziqalo zencoko yokuthandana nomntu omtsha

Ukuba ujonge ukuqala incoko yothando nomntu ongamaziyo okanye ongamazi kakuhle, ezi ngcebiso zinokunceda ukwenza incoko intle kunokuba yoyike.

Kwabaninzi, enye yezona zinto zithandwayo ngumdla ekwabelwana ngawo. Umzekelo, ukuba uya kumntu wecafe ofundayo Indawo yeSizwe , ungabonisa ukuba ucinga ukuba kungathandana kangakanani na ukuphonononga yonke imimangaliso yendalo yehlabathi. Zama ukukhetha iinkcukacha ezingacacanga abantu abazivelisela abanye.
Xa ungamazi umntu, esinye sezona ziqalo zibalaseleyo zokuqalisa incoko kukwazisa ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukusondela kumntu ongacwangciswanga kunokuba yinto enqabileyo, kodwa ukuba ukhokelela ngokuqhula, unokufumanisa ukuba omnye umntu ukufumanisa ukuba uyathandeka.
Eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokwenza ukuba umntu azive ngathi uyathandana kukubenza bazive bekhethekile. Fumana indlela yokwenza umntu azive ngathi nguye yedwa onomdla wokuthetha kuye kwaye ezothando zinokufumana indlela yokuncokola zodwa.

Imizekelo yeentshayelelo zothando

Isingeniso sothando sinokubandakanyaimigca yeveni emnandi ngokweneneokanye nkquimigca yokuhamba ngenqwelomoya inokusebenza. Iindlela ezimbalwa zencoko zothando onokuthi ukhokele xa usondela kumntu omtsha zezi:

Igama lam ndinguMarko kwaye ndimtsha apha. Bendizibuza ukuba andizokwazi ukuthetha nawe nje okwethutyana ngoba nguwe umntu wokuqala owenza lomzi uzive usekhaya.
Uyazi, bendisoloko ndicinga ukuba kukho isixa esihle sothando ekulindeni ibhasi, akunjalo?
Ke, bendizama ukucinga ngento endinokuyithetha ngobuqili kuwe, kodwa andikwazi ukukhupha unyawo lwam ngomlomo, ke ndizakuhamba nomolo, ndinguKate.
Ngaba uqaphele ukuba ingakanani le ndawo, kwaye thina simi / sihleli apha sijongeka njengokuvulwa kwe-movie ephawulweyo?
Andithethi ukuba phambili, kodwa ngaba ukhona umntu owakhe wakuxelela ukuba amehlo akho ajongeka ngathi (ujongilanga, ulwandle xa litshona, njl.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba abantu abasezincwadini okanye kwiimuvi bahlala benentlanganiso zokuqala ezingathandekiyo ezijika zibe yinto ekhethekileyo? Mhlawumbi le yenye yezo zihlandlo?
Uyathanda (faka igama lebhendi kwilogo yabo, i-t-shirt, njl.)? Ndicinga ukuba ingoma yabo (faka ingoma yesihloko) iyathandana.
Ndacinga ukuba bendinosuku oluhle ngokwenene, emva koko ndikubonile ndaza ndangcono kakhulu.

Isibini esithandanayo epakini ukuthumela imiyalezo kwii-smartphones

IziQalo zeNcoko yamaRoma ezenzelwe ukuCoca

Ukuguqula ukutyumka kwakho ube ngumhla okanye ubudlelwane bothando kuyothusa, kodwa iziqalo zencoko zothando zinokukunceda uthathe umtsi ngendlela emnandi. Xa uyaziungamncoma njani umfanaokanye kanjaniMncome umntu obhinqileyo ngaphandle kokuthamba, Ungayisebenzisa loo nto njengomgca wokuvula ukuqala incoko. Gcina ingxelo yakho yokuvula okanye ubuze umbuzo wothando, kodwa ungasondeli ukuze ungoyikisi ukophuka kwakho okanye ubanike umbono ombi.

Kude kube nini upheka isitovu ehovini

Zama ukuyigcina incoko yakho iyimfihlo ukuze kungabikho namnye kuni oneentloni ngempendulo yomnye.
Yenza incoko yakho iqalise eyakho, kodwa ingeyiyo eyomntu siqu uphela ujonga njenge-stalker.
Sebenzisa umgca wokuvula okanye umbuzo ocacileyo ukuba uyathandana ukuze bazi injongo yakho.

Imigca yamaRoma yokuSebenzisa ngeCrush

Xa usondela kumntu otyumkileyo ukuvula umgca wonxibelelwano lothando, zama umbuzo wokuncoma okanye onomdla.

Bendihleli ndicinga ngawe mva nje kwaye ndade ndasebenza isibindi sokubuza ukuba ukhe ucinge ngam?
Hee, bendizibuza ukuba ndingahamba na uye eklasini namhlanje. Ndingathanda ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nawe.
Wakhe wazibuza ukuba kutheni bebiza umntu otyunyuziweyo? Ndiyathetha, xa ndicinga ngawe ivakala imnandi ngakumbi kunegama elithi 'tyumza' izandi.
Yintoni into onokuthi uyiqwalasele isenzo esincinci sothando? Ndibuza kuba ndingathanda ukukwenzela into enjalo.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba uthando lufile? Ukuba kunjalo, ndingathanda ukuyivusa nje yeyakho.
Ukuba umntu ebenokuzazisa kuwe, yeyiphi eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo anokuyithatha ukuba ufuna ithuba kwinto ekhethekileyo nawe?
Ndacinga ukuba ndifuna ukukubuza ngomhla, emva koko ndaqonda ukuba eyona nto ndiyifunayo lithuba lokwazi ngcono.
Ndiyathanda kakhulu ukuba ndicinga ukuba ungubani, kodwa ndingathanda ithuba lokufumanisa ukuba umzingeli wam ulungile.

Isibini sidlala ngothando kwaye sibambene ngezandla kwi cafe

IziQalo zeNcoko yamaRoma ezithandanayo

Ukuba sele uthandana nomnye umntu, iziqalo zencoko zisenokuba luncedo xa ujonge ekubuyiseni uthando kwakhona etafileni okanye ukugcina izinto zintsha. Unokufuna ukukhokela incoko ngendlela enomdla ngokuhlwa okanye ungenise inalitiiziqholo kulwalamano. Nokuba unexesha elingakanani uthandana, qaphela ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo zencoko yakho elandelayo neqabane lakho:

Xa abantu ababini sele benobudlelwane, eyona ndlela ilula yokujika nayiphi na incoko yothando yimood.Amakhandlela kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwaokanye ezinye iimeko zothando kakhulu zinokutshintsha incoko esisiseko ukuba ibe yeyothando.
Xa ukuthandana, eyona nto inothando onokuthetha ngayo ngekamva kunye nokuba omnye umntu uthetha ntoni kuwe. Cinga ukukhokelela kwincoko ngokuxelela iqabane lakho ukuba lilizwe lakho.
Nayiphi na incoko ezisa abantu ababini kufutshane inokuziva njengeyona ncoko yothando emhlabeni.Buza imibuzookanye wabelane ngeenkcukacha zakho kunye neqabane lakho ukufumana unxibelelwano lomntu olifunayo.

Imizekelo yeeLayini zamaRoma ezithandanayo

Iziqalo zencoko oza kuzisebenzisa ngomhlakwayeimibuzo enzulu yokubuza iqabane lakhoyimizekelo yeentlobo ezimbini ezahlukeneyo zokuqalisa incoko zothando kubantu abathandanayo. Imigca embalwa yencoko yothando onokuzama ngayo zezi:

Ndifuna ukuthatha umzuzu kwaye ndikwazise ukuba uthetha ukuthini kum. Ndiyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe kwaye ndinemincili ukubona apho iphelela khona.
Ndiyakuthandana. Yiyo yonke into endifuna ukuyithetha.
Xa ndandisengumntwana, bendihlala ndifuna ukufumana indlu encinci endulini kunye ne-Bloodhound endinokuthiwa nguRover. Ngaba wakha wacinga ngolu hlobo lwezinto?
Ndiyekile ukusela ikofu kusasa kuba ukuvuka ndisazi ukuba ndiza kubona okanye ndithethe nawe yonke imihla kundinika onke amandla endiwadingayo.
Ngaba ukhe ujonge ubudlelwane bethu kwaye ucinge, 'Wow! Ngaba kunje ngeemovie? '
Ukhe waqaphela ukuba abantu basijonga njani xa sikunye? Kufana nokuba banokuxelela ukuba siza kuba kunye ngonaphakade.
Umhla wam wobusuku ogqibeleleyo yiyo nantoni na ebandakanya wena.
Zingaphi iintsuku ezithathe ukuba uqale ujonge kum ngendlela yothando? Kum, ibingu (faka inani lemihla).

Isibini esitshatileyo esinexesha lothando kwivenkile yokutyela

Iziqalo zencoko yabathandana yokuDibana kwi-Intanethi

Kuba okuninzi kokuthandana kwi-Intanethi kwenzeka ngokuthumela imiyalezo kwangoko, ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba incoko yakho yokuqalisa incoko icacile kwithoni kunye nomyalezo. Nokuba uthumela umyalezo wokuqala kumdlalo okanye uzama ukuthatha izingxoxo zakho ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo, uthando oluncinci lunokuhamba indlela ende. Abanyeiingcebiso zokunyusa umdlalo wakho wegumbi lokuxoxazibandakanya:

Sebenzisa oonobumba abakhulu, iziphumlisi, kunye nee-emojis ngokufanelekileyo nangobunono ukuze bancede ukuseta ithoni yomyalezo wakho.
Yitsho ngokuvakalayo into ocinga ukuyichwetheza ukukunceda ukuba ujonge ukuba kwenzeka ngendlela ebenenjongo ngayo.
Yiphathe incoko njengencoko yomntu ngaphakathi ukuze ingafumaneki kakhulu.

Iindlela zothando zokuNxibelelana kwi-Intanethi

Amaqhulo aqhekezayo omkhenkce wokuthandana kwi-IntanethiUnokunceda ukuba iincoko zothando zijongwe kwi-Intanethi xa zibonisa izinto zothando. Ezinye iziqalo zencoko zothando zokusebenzisa ezithandanayo kunye neewebhusayithi zibandakanya:

Ukufunda isicatshulwa akusoloko ufumana umyalezo, ngaba ucinga ukuba ndibeka ithoni kule ncoko 'kwezothando?'
Kube ngumyalezo omkhulu kunye nawe, kodwa andinakulinda ekugqibeleni ndidibane nawe ngobuqu.
Abanye abantu bafuna izipho kunye nokukhanya kwemood ukuze bazive ngathi bayathandana, kodwa into endifuna ukuyibona ngamazwi akho.
Ngaba ukhe uzive ngathi silusuku lwanamhlanje Ukulala eSeattle ?
Mva nje bendiziva ngathi singaba zizipikha ezilandelayo ze (iziza zokuthandana / igama lesicelo) akunjalo?
Ndonwabile ukuba sidibene kuqala kwi-Intanethi. Ukwazi ngale ndlela kuye kwangcono kunalo naluphi na usuku lokuqala endinokucinga ngalo.
Andazi ngawe, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba ucime iiakhawunti zam kuyo yonke indawo yokuthandana / iapp.
Ndiyathanda ukuba kulula kakhulu ukuba ndikwazise ukuba ndicinga ngawe nangaliphi na ixesha emini okanye ebusuku.

Ukuthumela ndiyakuthanda umyalezo wombhalo ngefowuni ephathekayo

Ukuqala Kwencoko Yothando Kwababini Abatshatileyo

Xa utshata, uya kufumana iingcebiso ezininziizinto zothando ukutsho kwisithandwa sakhoukwenza umtshato wakho uzive ukhethekileyo kude ngaphaya komtshato. Ukuba utshatile amashumi eminyaka, ungaziphumelela ezo ngcinga. Ukufumanaizinto ezichukumisayo zokuthetha kulowo umthandayoemva kweminyaka yomtshato kunokuba nzima, kodwa ngomzamo omncinci unokuhlala ufumana indlela entsha yokuthi 'Ndiyakuthanda.'

Qala ubusuku bonke obucwangcisiweyo ngobusuku bokuqalisa incoko yothando ukukhawuleza ukutshintsha imo.
Shiya amanqaku kwiqabane lakho ngemigca yothando kunye nemibuzo ukuze ukwazi ukunxibelelana kwaye uzive ukuthandana nokuba anikho kunye.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kuhlala kukho into entsha onokuyifunda malunga neqabane lakho nangaliphi na ixesha emtshatweni wakho.

Imixholo yencoko yothando kwiqabane lakho

Kuba sele usazi okuninzi malunga neqabane lakho, sebenzisa incoko yokuqalisa incoko yokufunda izinto ezintsha okanye ufumane iindlela ezintsha zokwabelana ngendlela oziva ngayo ngazo.

Uyinto yonke endingazange ndiyazi ukuba ndiyayifuna okanye ndiyayifuna.
Ucinga ukuba uthando lwethu lutshintshe njani umntu ngamnye kuthi ukuba abe ngcono?
Ukuba ubunokubuyela emva wenze usuku lomtshato wethu kwakhona, ngaba ubungafuna ukuba lubonakale lwahlukile?
Ndinazo zonke ezi mvakalelo zakho endiziva mihla le, andazi nje ukuba ndingazibeka njani.
Ukuba sibhale incwadi ngomtshato wethu, ibizakubizwa njani kwaye ingabanceda njani abanye abantu abatshatileyo?
Kanye xa ndicinga ukuba ndiyazi konke malunga nawe, ndenza enye into ebangel 'umdla. Njenganamhlanje, ndiye ndafumanisa (faka into emnandi ngeqabane lakho).
Yonke imiceli mngeni esiye sajongana nayo ibifanele ngoba isizise kule ndawo kunye.
Ngaba uyayiqonda indlela esakhe kunye ngayo kuthando lodwa?

Isibini esitshatileyo sincamisa ebhafini ekhaya

IziQalo zeNcoko yamaRoma ezenzelwe iiFowuni / iiTekisi

Iziqalo zencoko zokubhala imiyalezookanye ukuthetha emnxebeni neqabane onothando okanye umhla onokubakho kunokuba nzima kunokuba uthethe buqu. Nangona ungazimela ngasemva kwefowuni kancinci, inokuba yingozi kuwe kuba ulwimi lomzimba wakho alunakunceda ukuthumela umyalezo wakho. Phatha iifowuni kunye neetekisi ezinje ngencoko yomntu kwaye uya kufumana eyona mpumelelo.

Imizekelo yokuNxibelelana ngeFowuni yokuNxibelelana

Ukufumanaizinto ezinomdla onokuthetha ngazo emnxebenioko kuqaqambisa ukuthandana ngumceli mngeni, kodwa kunokukunceda ukwakha ulindelo kwaye usete imo yeemvakalelo ixesha elide ngaphambi kokujongana ubuso ngobuso.

Nangona ndingakuboni ngoku, ndingaziva iimvakalelo zakho.
Ndiyazi ukuba ubenosuku oluxakekileyo, kodwa ndinomdla wokuva malunga neengcinga zakho namhlanje.
Ngaba singacela uvale nje amehlo kwaye ucinge ukuba sihleli ecaleni kwelinye ngelixa sincokola / sithumela imiyalezo?
Usuku lwam luphoswa yinto kwaye andikhange ndiyifumane de ndive ilizwi lakho / ndibone umyalezo wakho.
Abahlobo bam bathi ubuso bam bonke buyatshintsha xa ndibona ukuba ubiza / uthumela imiyalezo, ucinga ukuba kuthetha ntoni oko?
Nanini na xa ndibona ukuba nguwe emnxebeni, ndiziva ukuba obu bunzima busuka emagxeni am kwaye ndikhululekile kwangoko.
Kuthatha kuphela umzuzwana ukufunda isicatshulwa sakho, kodwa eso sibini sihlala ixesha lokuphila kum.

Iziqalo ezinzulu zencoko yabaseRoma

Ukuthandana ikakhulu malunga nokusondelelana kunye nokwabelana okunzulu, keUkuvuselela imibuzo enzulu yobudlelwaneunokuba nothando lokwenyani naye. Iincoko ezinzulu zothando zezona zilungileyo kwizibini ebezihleli ixesha elide, kodwa zinokukunceda ngokuchanekileyo ukuba umhla omtsha unokubakho kwixesha elizayo. Qiniseka ukuba omnye umntu uvulelekile kwizihloko ezinzulu ngaphambi kokuba uzise enye ukuze bayifumane inothando endaweni yokuphanda.

Imixholo yencoko enzulu nezothando

Ukuthandana okunzulu konke malunga neemvakalelo ezinzulu okanye iimvakalelo kwaye zikwenyusa ukucinga kude ngaphantsi komhlaba.

Ngaba ungathi uthando luyakhula ngokuhamba kwexesha, luguquke, okanye zombini?
Ukuba bendinokuthetha nentliziyo yakho, bendizokuyithini ngoku?
Andikhumbuli ngokwenyani ukuba babunjani ubomi bam ngaphandle kwakho kuyo. Ngaba ukhe ube naloo mvakalelo, ngokungathi besisoloko sikunye?
Vala amehlo akho kwaye usibone sobabini, sineenwele ezingwevu, sihleli ezitulweni. Ingaba ubona ntoni?
Wazi njani, uyazi njani kanye kanye, indlela endiziva ngayo kuwe?
Ukuba ubunokufumana isenzo esinye sothando rhoqo kwakhona ebomini bakho bonke, ungakhetha ntoni?
Ngaba likho ixesha elithile kubudlelwane bethu apho wavela khona amagama avela kumagama okanye kwizenzo?

Iziqalo ezihlekisayo nezothando zothando

Ukuhlekisa kunye nokuthandana akusoloko kuhamba kunye ebomini bokwenyani, kodwa ii-comedies zothando zibubungqina bokubaimibuzo emnandi yokubuza isithandwa sakhounokuziva uthandana. Isitshixo sokuxuba uburharha kunye nothando kukususa into yeeshizi.

Imizekelo yokuQala kweNcoko yamaRoma ngokuHlekisa

Khangela iindlela zokwenza into elula, kodwa engathandekiyo, njengesiqhulo njengoko uncoma omnye umntu okanye ubuza umbuzo onentsingiselo.

Ngaba ayihlekisi into yokuba nkqu amadoda akrelekrele angaboni ukuba umfazi yiyo yonke into ayifunayo, nokuba umi phambi kobuso bakhe?
Ndifuna ukusebenzisa enye yezo mizila yokuthwebula ukuze ufumane ingqalelo yakho, kodwa ndiye ndaqonda ukuba kungcono ndikunike ingqalelo.
Iincoko ezingathandekiyo zezona zibi kakhulu, kunganjani ke ngoku ukuba siqale le nto sisazi ukuba iya kuba nentsingiselo?
Ndihlala ndi-clumsy, kodwa kufanelekile umngcipheko ukuba inyathelo elilandelayo likuwe.
Andikhumbuli okokuqala siqala ukudibana, kodwa andithandabuzi ukuba yonke into eza kulandela nawe ayilibaleki.
Xa ubamba iimvakalelo zibizwa ngokuba kukutyumza, emva koko ufike kuthando lwenjana, emva koko kwinqanaba lokutshata. Yintoni ekufuneka beyibize ngokuba yeyona ndawo ilungileyo yobudlelwane? Uyazi-indawo esikuyo ngoku?
Iidinala zokukhanya kwamakhandlela kunye nepikniki elunxwemeni zi-cliche, kodwa zivakala kamnandi xa ndicinga ukuzenza nawe.

Ukuqala Incoko ngokuthandana

Ngaba ujonge ukuthandana kancinci ebomini bakho kwaye ucinga ukuba incoko inokuba linyathelo kwicala elifanelekileyo? Ngelixa ulungile ukuqala kancinci, ungadimazeki xa uthando lungaqali ukubhabha kwangoko. Ngamanye amaxesha, iincoko zothando azinakunyanzelwa kwaye ukuzama ukwenza njalo kuya kwenza izinto zingonwabi. Thatha ixesha lakho kwaye uqinisekile ukuba unayo yonke into oyifunayo!