Imibuzo yabantwana kunye neekati

Intombazana encinci iphulula ikati enothando

Abantwana kunye neekati banokuba yintlangano enkulu okanye iresiphi yentlekele. Fumana amanyathelo onokuwathatha ukunceda i-feline yakho kunye nabantwana babantu baphile ngoxolo nangemvisiswano.

Imibuzo yeendwendwe malunga nabantwana kunye neekati

Ikati Elumayo Umntwana

Ndinekati emnyama eneenyanga ezilishumi elinesihlanu ubudala. Uhlala enothando kwaye emnandi. Kutshanje uqalise ukuluma unyana wam oneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala. Uyamchwechwela kwigumbi lakhe lokulala aze ahlasele. Siye sabeka ikati kwindlwana yakhe xa isenzeka, kodwa andikwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni enokuthi ngokukhawuleza aqalise ukuluma unyana wam. Ikati, iRomeo, ibonakala iyamthanda uAlex. Ikati ifuna ukudlala kwaye iyakuthanda ukuncamisa, kodwa ngomhla wokugqibela imluma onke amathuba ewafumeneyo. ndenze ntoni? Andifuni kulahla ikati yam. I love him to pieces, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba ayamkelekanga into yokuba alume umntanam. Nceda uncede!

ingaba mde kangakanani umntwana oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala

Amanqaku anxulumeneyo

~~Natasha

Impendulo yeNgcali

Molo, Natasha,

Ndiyayiqonda ngokwenene inkxalabo yakho. Ndinabantwana ababini abangamantombazana kwaye iyandikhathaza into yokungavani kwezilwanyana zasekhaya nabantwana bakho kuba ezo zilwanyana zifana nabantwana bethu abanoboya. Ngelixa ukuziphatha kukaRomeo kuyinto engaqhelekanga, iikati zikhupha uthando luyaluma ukubonakalisa uthando. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba u-Alex uphulula ikati kwaye ikati iya ivuseleleka kakhulu kwaye ikhupha ezi ziluma zinothando okanye zokudlala? Ngenxa yokuba iikati zinesikhumba esinamandla kunabantu, abaqondi kakuhle ukuba ukulunywa kwabo kubuhlungu.

Kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuzenza ukuze uzame ukunqanda u-Romeo ekulumeni, kodwa kuya kufuneka ucele uncedo luka-Alex.

Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ikati ayifumani xesha laneleyo lokudlala kwaye ukulunywa luhlobo lokudlala. Iithoyi zepali zokuloba zinokuba mnandi kubantwana kunye neekati ukuba bazidlale. Umntwana uya kuba kumgama okhuselekileyo kwaye ikati isafumana ixesha lokukhwela. Ixesha lokudlala kufuneka lenzeke yonke imihla malunga nemizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu ukuya kumashumi amabini, kathathu ngemini. Wena no-Alex ningatshintshana ngokudlala noRomeo, umzekelo.

Fundisa uAlex ukuba angamki xa uRomeo eluma. Ixhoba litsala kude xa ikati iluma kwaye ithuku lekati ayikukuluma nje kuphela, kodwa ukugrumba iinzipho ukuze ibambelele ngokuqinileyo kwixhoba. Ngokugcina umzimba wakhe umile, u-Alex unokuthintela into enokuba luthando okanye intwana yokudlala ukuba ijike ibe yinto enzima nebuhlungu ngakumbi.

Nika ingqalelo kwikati ukuze ubone ukuba iyaba nemincili kakhulu ngelixa iphathwa. Iimpawu ziquka umsila oshukumayo kunye neendlebe ezibekwe phantsi. Qaphela ukuba ungambamba ixesha elingakanani ngaphambi kokuba enze ngolu hlobo kwaye ufundise uAlex ukuba akhangele iimpawu aze ayeke ukumbambazela xa ikati ibonisa le miqondiso. Umzekelo, ukuba i-Romeo iqala ukucaphuka emva kwemizuzu emihlanu yokuphulula, ngoko wena no-Alex kufuneka niyeke ukumbambatha ngemizuzu emithathu.

Uninzi lwento yonke yiba nomonde. Ndiyayiqonda inkxalabo yakho, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba okoko u-Romeo efumene zonke izithonga zakhe ukuba angenza nawuphi na umonakalo omkhulu kumntwana wesikolo. Ngaphezulu, esi sisigaba sothando kunye nesidlalayo adlula kuso kwaye nje ukuba wongeze ixesha lakhe lokudlala ikati iyakuyeka ukuziphatha okulumayo.

Sigcine usazi!

~~Vula .