Umthandazo wesidlo sangokuhlwa unokuba yinxalenye yakhoitheko lomtshatoekuqaleni kwesidlo. Ukuba ayiziswanga ngumfundisi, kuya kufuneka uyizise ngokwakho okanye ufumane umntu oza kwenza iimbeko. Kuyanceda ukuba nemizekelo embalwa yesikhokelo.
Isampula Imithandazo yokutya isidlo sasemini
Imithandazo yomtshato iyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwisithethe sokholo lwesi sibini sitshatileyo. Ukuba nemizekelo yokuthandaza isidlo sangokuhlwa kuya kukunceda uzilungiselele ukuba ukhethwe ukuba uthandaze kulo msitho. Guqula ukuze zisebenze njengeumtshato uqhelisela isidlo sangokuhlwaimithandazo ukuba iyafuneka.
uyifaka njani inyathelo lokuthambisa iliso ngenyathelo kunye nemifanekisoAmanqaku afanelekileyo
- Imisebenzi yokwamkelwa koMtshato
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- Iifoto zoKwamkelwa koMtshato
Umthandazo wokwamkelwa komtshato wamaKristu
Nkosi othandekayo, sihlangana kule ndawo ngomoya wokubhiyozela nokubulela. Enkosi ngentsikelelo yokuzisa (igama) kunye (negama) kunye emtshatweni namhlanje. Siyakucela ukuba usikelele umtshato wabo, usapho lwabo, kunye nabo bonke ubudlelwane babo. Bancede bahlale bomelele nakweyiphi na ingxaki, kwaye baxabise kwaye bakhusele ulonwabo lomtshato. Yanga thina, njengosapho kunye nabahlobo, singazibophelela ekubenixhasa kwaye sibakhuthaze kangangoko sinakho. Nceda usikelele oku kutya siza kukufumana, kwaye ulwamkelo lube yimbeko kuwe. Egameni likaYesu. Amen.
Umthandazo wokwamkelwa komtshato wamaJuda
Siyabulela kuwe, Thixo ongunaphakade, Uvelisa isonka emhlabeni. Ubusisiwe wena, Thixo ka-Abraham, uIsake, noYakobi, osinike imithetho yakho ukuze siphile ngendlela ekholisayo kuwe. Sikelela esi sibini sitshatileyo, (igama) kunye (negama), kwaye kwanga ubomi babo kunye babonakalise ubuqaqawuli bakho. Ngamana ikhaya labo lingazaliswa luvuyo novuyo, kwaye umanyano lwabo lungasikeleleka ngeziqhamo ezininzi. Ngamana (igama) kunye (negama) uhlala ufumana ubabalo emehlweni akho nasemehlweni abo babangqongileyo. Ngamana bangonwabela kwaye bandise uluntu abahlala kulo. Ngamana uxolo lungalawula ekhayeni labo, kwaye ulwaneliseko kunye nolonwabo lube luphawu lobomi babo ukusukela namhlanje ukuya phambili. Amen.
Umthandazo oQhelekileyo woKwamkelwa koMtshato
Enkosi, Mdali, ngokuzisa (igama) kunye (negama) kunye ngendlela eyonwabisayo. Sicela lonke ilizwe lisikelele esi sibini kunye nekamva laso kunye. Ngamana ukonwaba novuyo kungangumqondiso wolwalamano lwabo. Njengokuba baphonononga uthando lwabo omnye komnye, ukumisa ikhaya, kunye nokwakha ubomi kunye, banokomelezwa luthando nenkuthazo yabo bahlanganisene apha namhlanje. Ukuba amaxesha aba nzima, ngamana bangakhumbula ukuzibophelela kwabo namhlanje kunye novuyo olwabahlanganisa. Bancede bafunde omnye komnye kwaye bakhule bomelele njengabantu kunye nesibini. Kwanga ukutya esikutyayo kungasizisela amandla, kwaye sonke singalonwabela eli xesha lokubhiyozela nobuhlobo. Amen.
Izinto kumthandazo weSidlo sangokuhlwa
Ukuba uceliwe ukuba wenze umthandazo wedinala kwindawo yolwamkelo kwaye unovalo, cinga ukubhala phantsi ngaphambi kobo busuku. Iintetho ezingafundiswanga zemithambo-luvo zihlala zivakala kwi-cuff kwaye zigcwele 'um,' 'oh,' kunye nezinye izinto zokugcwalisa njengoko uzama ukucinga ngezinto ezifanelekileyo zokuzithetha. Ukuzilungiselela kuya kwenza ukuba ujongeke upholile kwaye uwahloniphe esi sibini sitshatileyo.
Ukubhala umthandazo wesidlo sangokuhlwa kunokuba nzima, nokuba kwezona zithethi zintle. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ngokungafaniyo neentetho zomtshato, umthandazo wesidlo esifutshane ujolise kukholo lwesi sibini sitshatileyo. Izinto ekufuneka zibandakanywe emthandazweni:
amazwi athuthuzelayo ngokufa komntwana
- Ukucela uThixo (okanye omnye uthixo ngenxa yenkolo ethile yesi sibini) ukuba abasikelele abo babini emtshatweni wabo
- Sisikelela abahlobo, usapho, kunye neendwendwe ezize emtshatweni.
- Ukubulela uThixo ngokutya okuza kutyiwa ngumntu wonke
- Ukudumisa uThixo
Cinga ngokuqamba umthandazo kwiveki okanye ezimbini phambi komtshato. Ukuba unovalo ngakumbi, cela abahlobo abasenyongweni kunye nosapho ukuba bafunde umthandazo, bamamele kuwe xa usenza, kwaye unike ukugxeka okwakhayo. Sebenzisa amakhadi esalathiso anoluhlu lweengongoma eziphambili emthandazweni ukuba kunzima ukukhumbula ngentloko oko ukubhalileyo.
Ngubani onika umthandazo
Ngubani onika umthandazo inyani isibini. Rhoqo abefundisi ababesenza umsitho benza umthandazo wesidlo sangokuhlwa. Ukuba ufuna ukuba umfundisi wakho okanye umfundisi anike intsikelelo ngaphambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa, qiniseka ukuba uyayikhankanya le nto kwiiseshoni zokucwangcisa ngaphambi komhla womtshato.
Abantu abaza kubuza
Nangona kulisiko ukuba isibini sicele umfundisi ukuba asinikeumthandazo womtshato, nangayiphi na indlela kuphela kwendlela. Ukubuza umntu obalulekileyo kuwe, njengotata womtshakazi, umama womyeni, okanye isalamane osithandayo kufanelekile. Zilungiselele ukuba umntu omcelayo angaziva engakhululekanga xa ethetha esidlangalaleni, ke sukucaphuka xa engakufuni.
Ngubani ongafanele ubuze
Abantu abathile banokungakulungelanga ukwenza intetho yomtshato. Ukuba unomthendeleko wenkolo yamaYuda, amaSilamsi, amaKatolika, okanye enye inkolo, ukucela umntu wenkolo eyahlukileyo ukuba enze umthandazo wesidlo kwisidlo somtshato kunokumenza agule. Ukongeza, uninzi lwabantwana nolutsha abayi kuziva bekhululekile kwimeko enje. Endaweni yoko, khangela ezinye iindlela zokubandakanya abantu abakhethekileyo ebomini bakho emtshatweni wakho, njengokucela ukuba bancedeincwadi yeendwendwe, usasazeiinkqubo, okanyethatha izifinyezo.
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Imbeko yoMthandazo weSidlo
Ukunika umthandazo wesidlo sangokuhlwa emtshatweni ngumsebenzi onesidima kodwa kwangaxeshanye uyonwabisa. Iindwendwe eziceliwe ukuba zithathe inxaxheba ngale ndlela kufuneka ziziva ziwongwa ngumtshakazi nomyeni, kwaye kufuneka benze konke okusemandleni abo ukubuyisa elo wonga ngomthandazo ofanelekileyo. Sukuziva ngathi kufuneka uthandaze ixesha elide, yitsho nje amazwi ambalwa wentsikelelo kwinkcubeko yokholo yesi sibini.
