Nokuba ufumana okanye ubhala imibongo ngokulahleka kukadade, kukho iitoni zezixhobo zasimahla ezikhoyo. Ukuphulukana nemibongo engo dade kungazisa ukuphilisa kuye nawuphina umntu okhe wabandezeleka kukuswelekelwa ngumfazi wasekhaya.
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Ubuhle bemiBongo ngoDade oswelekileyo
Imibongo yomphefumlouthetha nawe xa usemathandweni, uloyiko kunye nosizi. Xa usisi eswelekile, ungaguqukela kwimibongo ukuze ube lilizwi lakho ngexesha lokulila okunzulu. Amagama abhalwe ngomnye umntu anokuvakala kuwe kwaye avuse iimvakalelo zakho ukuze ubonakalise iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba umbongo ufanelekile, usenokukhetha ukuwufunda okanye uwufunde emngcwabeni okanye kwinkonzo yesikhumbuzo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iincwadi ngeNtlungu yoMntwana oswelekileyo
- Imifanekiso eli-10 yabantu abasokolayo kwintlungu
- Igalari yeZipho zabaLilayo
Usale kakuhle Dade Wam
NguMichele Meleen
Sala kakuhle kusapho lwam olugqibeleleyo
amagumbi okwabelana kunye neempahla,
kwaye zonke iimfihlo zam uya kuzigcina.
Sala kakuhle kumhlobo wam osenyongweni
ngoyena dade ubalaseleyo emhlabeni,
Andifuni siphele.
Usale kakuhle dade wethu
Andinakuma ukukubona uhamba,
kodwa ndiyakuhlala ndikhumbula ukuba sasiyintoni.
Ukukhumbula udade wethu ezulwini
NguMichele Meleen
Udadewethu uhleli eZulwini
kwaye ndiyamkhumbula ngaphezu kokuba usazi.
Uyahleka kwaye uyalila,
ukubukela nokulinda,
Kude kube lixesha lam lokuhamba.
Siza kudibana emafini
ndanga okwethutyana
Kodwa kude kube lelo xesha,
Ndikhumbula udadewethu oseZulwini.
Umbulelo kuDade wethu
NguMichele Meleen
Usisi wam
S ecaleni kwam
Mna n onke amabakala obomi.
S wandibamba ngesandla,
T susa uloyiko lwam,
NGU ifundise intliziyo yam.
R umkhumbule.
izinto ezintle onokuzithetha kwisithandwa sakho ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe
RIP Dade
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Phumla ngoxolo dade,
zithuthuzele ngokulandelayo.
Ndiza kuba lapho nam.
Ndithuthuzele njengoko Ndikhathaza Udadewethu
NguMichele Meleen
Njengengubo ejiyileyo
ndigqume,
ishushu intliziyo yam efriziwe.
Vala umhlaba
kwaye undithuthuzele
njengoko ndibuhlungu ngokusweleka kukadadewethu.
Isikhumbuzo sokufa kukaDade wethu
NguMichele Meleen
Abanye abantu bayathanda ukubhiyozela
izinto ezintle unyaka nonyaka.
Kulo nyaka ndiza kubhiyozela
ukubhubha kukadadewethu ndineenyembezi.
Ugqithile omnye unyaka
okoko walishiya icala lam.
Isithuba esivulekileyo sisikhulu
kwisikhumbuzo sokufa kwakhe.
Imibongo efanelekileyo yokuzilela udade
Imibongo malunga namanye amalungu osapho ababhinqileyo, abahlobo, okanye olunye ulwalamano olukhethekileyo lunokusebenza nasekufeni kodade ngokuxhomekeke kubudlelwane bakho.
- Imibongo yodade oyena mhlobo wakho usenyongweniinokukunceda ubhiyozele olo lwalamano lukhethekileyo.
- Ukuba ukuhlekisa kukunceda uphilise, jongaimibongo ehlekisayo ngoodade.
- Abahlobo abasenyongweni imibongo ngonaphakadethatha umoya ongunaphakade wobudlelwane bakho njengoodade nabahlobo.
- Imibongo yothando yosaphoinokukuzisela intuthuzelo kunye novuyo ngeli xesha linzima.
- Imibongo malungailusizi ngokulahlekelwawomntwana wakowenu unokukunceda ukuba uqonde iimvakalelo zakho ngexesha losizi.
Ukubhala owakho umbongo kaDade oswelekileyo
Ukubhala owakho umbongo ukukhumbula udade wakho yenye indlela yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho kuye nakufa kwakhe.
Ukufumana phi uKhuthazo loDade wokuPhulukana noMbongo
Nokuba awuthathi njengembongi, ukubhala malunga nodade wakho kunokuba sisiqwenga esihle semibongo. Khuthazani ngobomi benu kunye, ubudlelwane benu, ubomi bakhe, okanye ubuntu kunye nezinto anomdla kuzo.
- Vumela iimvakalelo zakho zikhokele lo mbongo.
- Jongani imifanekiso yakhe okanye yenu kunye nibhale iinkumbulo.
- Cinga ukuba angathini kuwe ngoku ukuba angakuthuthuzela.
- Qala ngeudade ucaphulanjengokubhala kwakho ngokukhawuleza.
Amanyathelo okubhala owakho umbongo ekufeni
Ukufunda ukubhala imibongoKulula xa ukhetha uhlobo lombongo olwenza ingqiqo kuwe. Sebenzisa la manyathelo asisiseko ukuze ufundeubhala kanjani umbongo ukhumbula udade wakho.
xa indoda yelibra ingakuhoyi
- Hlanganisa ugqozi.
- Khetha ifomathi yombongo.
- Amagama makangene ephepheni.
- Ziququzelele kuhlobo lwakho lombongo ukuba uyafuna.
Ukunikezela ngeLahleko yoMbongo kaDade
Emngcwabeni okanyeinkonzo yesikhumbuzo, unokuba nethuba lokuveza umbongo malunga nodade wenu njengeukufundwa komngcwabo. Khetha umbongo othetha ngobuhlobo bakho nodade wakho okanye ubuntu bakhe. Sebenzisa izixhobo ezibonakalayo njengeprojektha okanye ibhodi yeposta ukubonisa umbongo njengoko ufunda kwimeko apho unengxaki yokufikelela kuyo.
Intlungu Yokuswelekelwa Ngudade
Nokuba ulwalamano lwakho nodadewenu, ukuthatha ixesha lokujongana nokusweleka kwakhe kubalulekile. Njengokoiiholide ngaphandle kothandekayo wakhonakwezinye iimeko ezizodwa zisondela, kuya kuba nzima ukuzisingatha, ke qiniseka ukuba uyazi ngezinto ezahlukeneyo zokulilela umntu oswelekileyo. Ukulila ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuze uphile. Ukuba unethamsanqa, abahlobo baya kubakho ukukunceda ujongane nentlungu yakho.
