Ukuba ucwangcisa ukwenza umnikelo wesisa endaweni yesipho seKrisimesi, kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza malunga noku ukuze uqiniseke ukuba umntu owamkelayo isipho uyasiqonda isizathu sokuba ukhethe ukubapha olu hlobo lwesipho. Gcina ezinye iingcebiso engqondweni zokukunceda ukhethe umbutho onentsingiselo oza kuthandwa ngumamkeli.
Umnikelo wesisa eLieu weSipho seKrisimesi
Ukuba wenza umnikelo endaweni yesipho, kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokugcina engqondweni ukuze umamkeli asiqonde isigqibo sakho sokubanika esi sipho.
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Ukufumana isisa esifanelekileyo
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekunikezeleni olu hlobo lwesipho kukubaFumana isisaoko kunentsingiselo kumamkeli. Ukuthatha isisa esingahleliwe, nangona sisisipho esihle, akunakuthetha nto kakhulu kumamkeli ukuba abanalo naluphi na uhlobo lwamaqhina eemvakalelo kwisiseko okanye unobangela. Xa ukhetha isisa:
- Cinga ngokudlulileyo kommkeliivolontiyaimbali.
- Cinga ngento ebebeyithetha ngokuthanda.
- Cinga ngemicimbi echaphazele bona okanye abo babathandayo.
Uwenza njani umnikelo ngegama lomntu?
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba uza kwenza njaninika umnikelonjengesipho:
- Qinisekisa ukuba umamkeli uya kukhululeka ekufumaneni oku njengesipho.
- Khetha isisa esisekela into enentsingiselo kubo.
- Bhala ikhadi elibonisa ukuba kutheni ubakhethele olu thando.
- Cinga ngokubabuza ukuba loluphi uthando abanqwenela ukuluxhasa, nokuba lonakalisa ukumangaliswa.
- Cinga ngokufumanaisipho sesintunjengokuba.
Xa usenza umnikelo, imibutho emininzi iya kuba nenketho evumela ukuba wenze umnikelo ngegama lomnye umntu xa ugcwalisa ulwazi olufanelekileyo kwiwebhusayithi yabo.
Uthini Xa Usenza Umrhumo?
Umnikelo egameni lomnye umntu njengemizekelo yamagama wesipho onakhoufake ikhadi.
- Ngomoya wexesha leeholide, ndenze umnikelo kwisisa sakho osithandayo egameni lakho.
- Ndiyayazi indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukubuyisela kuwe, ke ngoko ndenze umnikelo egameni lakho ukuhlonipha ububele bakho.
- Ndenze umnikelo ngegama lakho ku (faka igama lothando) ukubhiyozela umoya weKrisimesi. Ndiyazi ukuba ubakhathalele kangakanani (faka eyona njongo iphambili yesisa) kwaye ndifuna ukuxhasa ukuthanda kwakho (faka ukuthanda komamkeli).
Ngaba uMamkeli uyafuna umnikelo owenziwe egameni labo?
Xa unika olu hlobo lwesipho, yazi ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu oya kukuxabisa oku, ke kungcono ukuba ucinge ngenene malunga nomamkeli ngaphambi kokuya phambili nolu hlobo lwangoku. Umntwana okanye okwishumi elivisayo ngekhe angonwabi ekufumaneni olu hlobo lwesipho, kungangcono ke ukushiya olu hlobo lwesipho kubantu abadala.
Uyicela njani iminikelo eLieu yeZipho?
Ukuba ungathanda umnikelo endaweni yezipho, ungathi:
- Kulo nyaka, ukuba ucwangcisa ukunika isipho usapho lwethu nantoni na, singavuyela umnikelo owenziwe (faka igama lesisa). Olu thando lusondele entliziyweni yethu kwaye oko kuya kuthetha lukhulu kuthi ukuba ubanikele kubo endaweni yokuba usinike nantoni na.
- Endaweni yezipho kulo nyaka, sicela iminikelo eyenziwe (faka igama lesisa).
Ukwenza umnikelo wesipho seKrisimesi kwisisa
Ukuba unikela ngesisa egameni lomntu njengesipho, qiniseka ukuba ukhetha isisa esifanelekileyo kumamkeli. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba umamkeli uyaluxabisa olu hlobo lwesipho, ungasoloko ubabuza kwangaphambili, okanye ubaphathele isipho esongezelelweyo.
