E-United States, ukwenza indibano kuhlala kucingwa ukuba ngumdlalo wepati yokozela; yinto engaphambi kolutsha ukuyenza ukoyikisa ngokwabo. Kodwa baninzi abantu abasebenzisa iintlanganiso njengendlela yokwenyani yokunxibelelana nemimoya yabantu abaswelekileyo. Ukuba ungathanda ukuzama ukuqhuba isihlalo sakho, landela le miyalelo kodwa ulumkiswe: ukubiza imimoya ayisiyonto ityhafileyo. Xa usenza imisebenzi ebiza imimoya, soloko ulungele ukuba umoya uvele.
Ungayiqhuba phi iNdibano
Unokubamba indibano naphi na, kodwa ukuba uzama ukunxibelelana nomoya othile, unganqwenela ukuyenza naphina apho umntu achithe khona ixesha esaphila. Ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo zokuhlala, nangona kunjalo, ungabamba iseshoni kwitafile yakho yasekhitshini kwaye uphumelele. Kungcono kungcono ukunqande ukuba nentlanganiso kwiindawo ezinje ngamangcwaba okanye iicawa okanye njengolonwabo lwepatiyo kwindibano enkulu. Endaweni yoko, fumana indawo ethe cwaka apho ungacima khona izibane kwaye usebenzise i-shades ukuvimba ukukhanya kwelanga okanye ezinye izibane eziza ngeefestile.
uhlamba njani idayi yedayiAmanqaku afanelekileyo
- I-11 eyaziwayo njenge-Haunted Insane Asylums ezivela phesheya kwe-US
- I-13 yeeKholeji zeKholeji zaseKholeji kunye neeNdaba
- Uliqala njani iqela lokuDanisa
Nini ukuba neNtlanganiso
Unokuba nentlanganiso ngalo naliphi na ixesha. Akukho xesha 'lobugqwirha' apho indibano isebenza ngakumbi.
Ngubani Ofanele Ukubandakanyeka?
Unokuba bambalwa okanye abantu abaninzi ababandakanyekayo njengoko unqwenela. Abanye abantu babamba iintlanganiso zodwa, ngelixa abanye beziqhubela izihlwele ezikhulu. Ngokufanelekileyo, abantu abane ukuya kwabathandathu linani elilungileyo, njengoko uya kuba namandla aneleyo akhoyo ukuze unxibelelane nomoya kodwa hayi kangako kangangokuba uthumele imiyalezo edidayo okanye imiqondiso. Kungcono ukuba abantu ababandakanyekayo baneengqondo ezivulekileyo kwaye banokugxila kwinjongo efanayo; ukuba ne-skeptic esomeleleyo kunokubhloka amandla anokuvela. Uyakufuna abantu abakwisakhelo esihle sengqondo abafuna amava amahle ukuze utsale umoya oqinisekileyo.
Ingaba ufuna ntoni
Uya kudinga itafile enkulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba bahlale phantsi kodwa bancinci ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangabamba izandla, izitulo namakhandlela okanyeAmakhandlela e-LED. Itafile ejikelezileyo okanye embhoxo ilungile kodwa ayinyanzelekanga kwaphela.
Misela
Ukuseta igumbi phambi kwendibano, yenza oku kulandelayo:
ususa njani iitattoo zethutyana
- Cwangcisa izitulo zomthathi-nxaxheba ngamnye ecaleni kwetafile.
- Khanyisa amakhandlela okanye uvule izibane ze-LED kwaye uzibeke embindini wetafile.
- Kumnyama kwigumbi ngokutsala imibala yeefestile kunye nokufiphala okanye ukucima izibane. Unokuba nezibane ezimbalwa ezikhanyayo eziphantsi ezivuthayo, ezifana nesibane seetyuwa se-Himalaya, ngoko ke abathathi-nxaxheba abakho bumnyameni ngokupheleleyo.
- Lungisa iqondo lobushushu ukuze igumbi lihlale kamnandi.
Uyibamba njani iNdibano
Xa igumbi lilungile, bathathe inxaxheba kwifayile kwaye bathathe isihlalo bejikeleze itafile, bebambe izandla ngaphezulu kwetafile.
- Chonga umntu abe njengesixhobo sokuthetha. Nguye lo mntu oya kuba nonxibelelwano lonke nemimoya, ebuza imibuzo, njl. Njl. Bonke abanye abathathi-nxaxheba baya kudinga ukuhlala bethe cwaka kangangoko kunokwenzeka ngexesha lokuhlangana.
- Qala ngesiqinisekiso esifutshane sokhuselo, njengokuthi, 'Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bahlala bekhuselekile kwaye bekhuselekile ngelixesha leseshoni.'
- Umthathi-nxaxheba ngamnye makabe nombono wombhobho wokukhanya okumhlophe ophuma kumbindi wawo ukuze angqonge indawo kwaye azalise igumbi.
- Mema oomoya ukuba banxibelelane. Unokwenza oku ngokuba nomphakathi uzazise kwaye umntu ngamnye ojikeleze itafile kwaye achaze injongo yabo. Umzekelo, 'Igama lam ndinguMary Smith. Ndilapha namhlanje noBob Jones kunye no-Amy Manning. Simema nabaphi na oomoya abanqwenela ukunxibelelana nathi ukuba beze phambili ngoku. '
- Xelela imimoya ukuba unethemba lokuba iyakuphendula njani, njengokuthi, 'Siza kubuza ewe okanye hayi, kwaye siyakumema ukuba uphendule ngokunkqonkqoza. Ukunkqonkqoza kube kuthetha uhayi, ukunkqonkqoza kabini kuthetha ewe. ' Le yenye yeendlela onokuthi ucele imimoya ukuba iphendule- ungabacela ukuba bathethe nerekhoda ukuba unayo, zama ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo, wenzeipendulumukujija, okanye nayiphi na indlela yonxibelelwano oyikhethayo.
- Cela umoya ukuba uze kuthetha nawe ngoku. Baxelele ukuba banokubonisa ubukho babo ngokudlwengula etafileni okanye eludongeni. Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba mabavale amehlo kwaye bathi cwaka bameme umoya ukuba uzokujoyina. Hlala kule ndawo yokucamngca de uve i-rap. Ukuba uhlala malunga nemizuzu elishumi ngaphandle kwento, vala indibano kwaye uzame kwakhona ngelinye ixesha.
- Ukuba umoya uyaqhekeza, buza ophakathi ubuze imibuzo. Ewe akukho mibuzo ilungileyo njengoko ezi zilula ukuba umoya ukunxibelelana entlanganisweni.
- Qhubeka ubuze imibuzo de umoya uyeke ukuphendula okanye uziva ukuba lixesha lokuphela.
Indlela yokuyiphelisa
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuphelisa indibano, yenza oku kulandelayo:
- Umphakathi kufuneka abulele umoya ngokuthatha inxaxheba.
- Umnyuli emva koko ubuza umoya ukuba ubuyele apho uvela khona kwaye ungahlali esithubeni okanye nabaphi na abathathi-nxaxheba. Umzekelo, oliphakathi unokuthi, 'Unxibelelwano lwethu apha luphelile. Siyabulela ngokunxibelelana nathi kwaye sicela ukuba ubuye apho ubuvela khona. Nceda ushiye esi sithuba kwaye ungabuyi ngaphandle kokuba umenyiwe. Nceda ungatyeleli nabaphi na abantu abalapha namhlanje ngaphandle kwesimemo. '
- Bonke abathathi-nxaxheba mababe nomfanekiso ngqondweni wokutyhala kwebhola emhlophe ephuma kumbindi wabo kwakhona ukuze ukukhanya kugcwalise igumbi kwaye kungqonge wonke umntu okulo. Oku kuyakhupha nawuphi na umoya onokuhlala.
- Yaphula isangqa ngokuyekelana izandla.
Soloko uvale indibano ngale ndlela, nokuba awuzange ufumane mpendulo.
Yenza iNdibano yodwa
Unokwenza amasiko eentlanganiso ezifanayo njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, usenokungabi nayoamandla okomoyaKuyimfuneko ukubiza umoya. Zama malunga nemizuzu elishumi kwaye uvale indibano nokuba uziva ungafumani mpendulo. Ngenye indlela, kunokuba lula ukuyisebenzisaIbhodi ye-Ouija yodwaokanye usebenze ngependulum.
Uza kwazi njani xa sele uqhagamshele?
Akukho ndlela ithile yokwazi ukuba ngaba unxibelelane nabo. Rhoqo, izinto ezenzeka ngexesha lokuhlangana zinobuqili- ukubetha kancinci, umzekelo. Oku kunokubalelwa kumoya, okanye kungaba ngomnye umntu osegumbini owenza ingxolo. Gcina ingqondo evulekileyo kwaye kuqala ufune ukuphikisa nantoni na oyibonayo okanye oyivayo. Ukuba awufumani nkcazo inengqiqo, yokwenyani, usenokudibana.
le okanye le mibuzo yabantwana
Ukunxibelelana neMimoya
Iintlanganiso yenye yeendlela abantu abanokuzama ngazo ukunxibelelana nehlabathi lomoya kunye nokunxibelelana nomntu ofileyo. Kwaye ngelixa kulula ukwenza iseshoni, kunokuba kungabi lula ukufumana iziphumo. Unokonyusa amathuba akho ngokusebenza nabantu abaneengcinga ezifanayo, ukunciphisa iziphazamiso, ukuhlala unethemba kwaye uvulelekile kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo, kwaye uzama ngaphezulu kwesinye ukuba usilele ukufikelela kwiziphumo okokuqala.
